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What I find interesting is SOME people encourage couples to remain in failed marriages until one or two kill each other. People say that the children suffer from divorces...I agree because when two selfish parents think about themselves and focus on what they can get out of the divorce. ...children suffer horribly.

There are two types of divorce...good or bad. Good divorce impact children more positively than the latter. Children aren't used as bidding pawns and counseling is offered. Children aren't forced to choose which parents they like the most and they are involve in both household equally.

When it becomes a matter of life and death..divorce is necessary.

When two people have issues connecting then separation is necessary. Counseling is imperative.

Infidelity is a huge deal and it's up to the victim to choose to stay or go and if they stay..they must forgive and forget.

bukatyne: Falling (failure) is not the issue... it is rising up that matters.

It is mindset like this that makes people who should divorce still cling to dead marriages so as not to be labeled 'failures'

That's real.

Kidstranger...you ain't shit.

Jayvarley: I already did. I do not feel AUTOSOMAL DNA test tells me much. I already know I am MOSTLY of Sub Saharan African extraction without the help of DNA Testing. What would impress me is if they could give me a breakdown of the percentages of the African tribes I come from rather than telling me I am 89% Sub Saharan African. What a waste of Money.
And if I am of 11% European extraction how will that help me in the world today? Will it mean I get preferential treatment from whites?

It didn't help President Obama.

Sis....did you take the. DNA test?

Lawd!!!

zboyd: lol

Were YOU serious when you posted a scenario whereas an immigrant TO Nigeria could get into "scamming, bombing, cutting off clitorises, marrying babies in diapers, and selling punny in public bathrooms for mush and flipflops"...and then turn around and blame Nigeria?

Among the true crimes (scamming, bombing), you sprinkled in cultural practices (cutting off clitorises, marrying babies in diapers) which may or may not be crimes, depending on the ethnic group and/or country's view, and a social ill (selling punny in public bathrooms for mush and flipflops)which may or may not be a crime, depending on a particular society's view of punny selling in general. Was this for shock effect?

Come now...if I deplore spousal murder (a crime)...then why wouldn't I deplore scamming and bombing (also crimes)?

You're just looking for a fight. Hence the answer.

I suspected who you were..now I'm sure of it...based on this...

"I don't even know why I have asked you to be honest when it is a known fact that African/Black/Colored folks are the most dishonest and pretentious group of all groups...hence being on the bottom of the totem pole."

Are you speaking of yourself or as a non-African/Black/Colored person?

BTW...it's also a known fact that imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.

Look around you.

What do you mean by this statement?

"Keep making excuses for Africans while outsiders are steady raping and reaping what Mother Africa has to offer."

Understanding the factors that push some African immigrants into aberrant behaviors, behaviors not previously present, until after immigrating is not making excuses for them - with understanding comes probable solutions.

And what do "outsiders steady raping and reaping what Mother Africa has to offer" have to do with this discussion?

Thanks for replying though.

Were you playing daft when you said that there are no crime greater than spousal murder

You said on this thread that spousal murders, pimping out children, prostitution, and rape is an American thing and I am saying scamming, cutting off clitorises, marrying babies in diapers, and bombing is an African thing.

Different between you and I is that I don't blame the Country/Continent for individual actions because I am not ignorant.

Don't thank me yet....I am just getting started!

bukatyne: Feminists don suffer!

Imagine that a poster telling me that kindness and feminism does not jell! Seriously? All feminists must be rude etc. Once the word feminism is written, a lot of posters' have an e-heart attack!

Feminists do not want to marry!
Men are always in the wrong to them!

I wonder if most posters can differentiate between Feminists and Lesbians.

It's well

That tickled me! I was laughing so hard and posted on FB that because I want equal pay and education opportunities as men. I HATE men since that what demented nuts say Feminism is about.

You are right Feminists don suffer in the hands of demented nuts.

[quote author=*Kails*]who knows who they ARE [/quote]Lol.

I am trying to make carribbean jerk seasoning; Jamo, Haiti, DRP, cuba, and trini inspired.

I need more flennel seeds and Cumin....the real stuff!

[quote author=*Kails*]

lol damn. so when can i expect a plate of food though? [/quote]Girl hyou don't eat creole food! My daddy taught me how to make this haitian gumbo! Girlllll Chima looooves him some creole food!

I got this mustard seed spice last week from this cuban place.. realky good rub for steaks. Try that instead of lawry dreadly ash!

Do anybody know where the largest spice store in USA?

I need to add to my spice collection! I have over 100 spices and still looking!

[quote author=*Kails*]they use the lawry season because they are in america

anyway i was busy reading this nasty ish

http://listverse.com/2007/09/11/top-10-disgusting-foods/

http://listverse.com/2009/07/22/10-more-utterly-disgusting-foods/

#VOMITS! [/quote]Sis...what's this?

Lol@sis making excuse for the lawry season Jamos.

I don't use Lawry!

Lol@that Jamo chick standing by.

Ewwwwwww.

Lol@use real seasoning. I know some Jamos use Lawry seasoning! My daddy will kill me if he even see Lawry in my hhouse!

Now on the humping part....this one Jamo dude I was with hmmmmmmm.

Nawl let me keep quiet.

Lol@best cooks in the world.

Look at Kid kissing ash.

SniperInADiaper: Im not posting my story on here

Maybe my lover with be by this thread and post it

You have learned very well.

pc guru: Me your follower , not even in a 100 Alternative realities,I would have to be lobotomized. its just an observation nothing personal sorry if i came across as being offensive.

Right...keep lying..it's part of your heritage.

Oops was that too offensive?

Let me say it for the chatters....it's Ameruca's fault that the man raped his children!

khiaa: He is talking about Child Prostitution which is a horrible, horrible crime in america, so that man was doing that prior to leaving nigeria.

Girl...you know they were holy before they came to America. The devil turned them into demon spawns and told them America is at fault BUT yet thousands every year leave their homeland to be associated with American demons!

If you take anything nuts say seriously you will be nuttier than the nuts.

I guess prostitution and wife beating in Nigeria is a holy thing to do until they immigrate to America.

zboyd: IMO..."scamming, bombing, cutting off clitorises, marrying babies in diapers, and selling punny in public bathrooms for mush and flipflops" does not equate to apousal murder.

Such behavior is commonplace in American society, but what of the African immigrant communities aross America.

Something is going very wrong in the African immigrant commmunity.

Are you fucking serious?!! Crime is a crime is a crime! Are you telling me that spousal murder is bad in America but not Africa?

I don't even know why I have asked you to be honest when it is a known fact that African/Black/Colored folks are the most dishonest and pretentious group of all groups...hence being on the bottom of the totem pole.

Keep making excuses for Africans while outsiders are steady raping and reaping what Mother Africa has to offer.

ileobatojo: It seems so but his story does not seem to fit the narrative. He didn't say that the criminal in his story was Nigerian or African which is why I'm quite confused. He specified the nationality of the RN but not of the criminal. So I'm wondering if it's the woman and child he is accusing of perverse behavior or someone else. And if so, what perverse behavior from them exactly he is referring to.

Got you. You know men aren't naturally great talkers.

onila: u will change that statement, when u eat Jamaican curry goat

I grew up with Jamos and dated the men..they sucks at cooking!

Poster...please be honest with me.

Are you professing that ALL African immigrants living in America NEVER had criminal and perverse thoughts nor actions PRIOR to immigration?

The good ole Africans were wholesome and holy until they touched the American soil transformed into demon spawns?

So if an American was to immigrate to Nigeria or Liberia and perform several perverse and criminal acts such as scamming, bombing, cutting off clitorises, marrying babies in diapers, and selling punny in public bathrooms for mush and flipflops.

Would that be fair for that American to blame Nigeria or Liberia? No one can make you do anything you don't want to do unless by gunpoint and even that.

I doubt an American force any of those Africans to commit crimes by gunpoint.

Accept accountability and mature.

ileobatojo: Could you please specify exactly which behavior or behaviors you're talking about. Because the only Nigerian you mentioned in this story are the RN and her daughter. Just want to be clear on what perverse behavior specifically you are trying to highlight in this story. Thanks.

He was speaking generally of all Africans in America and the criminal behaviors of all sort.

pc guru: Never have your post ever being serious, its a pattern.

Awwwwwe....you are one of my faithful followers?

I will send an autographed napkin via DHL to you!

Thanks follower!

scribble: is this not the same mrs chima that was telling how her husband slapped her. is she always looking for trouble and slaps from different men?

i can see her face is used to the slaps

Awwww..it turned you on huh? Did you play with your wittle weenie?

[quote author=Mynd_44][/quote]May your balls shrink.

tpacalipse: I think moderator should just trash the thread.

They should trash you too.