₦airaland Forum

Oyind17:
I see an abusive man up there. He is a sex freak! I'm still waiting for a doc to tell us if sex can help a person with bp as he claimed. the woman is a peace loving person that's why she accepted what he has on his table. None stop sex. Women are not your slaves in marriage.


One day, they'll stand up to fight back.

I agree with the sex slave comment.

Trypa:
The man is dat a bigger fault y bring d case to d court for divorce becus of sex his a sex freak if not he wouldn't be saying he want to marry anoda wife if u ask him his reason for wanting to marry anoda wife his only answer will be he want a woman who will give him sex without complain. His not been considerate he only want what's best for him and out look dat of his wife his at fault

If the marriage is not working and the couples have grown apart...divorce is the answee.

coolheed:
The first option is to seek medical attention. However, if this does not work and the couple practice Islam, the man has an option of marrying a second wife.

That will be better than the divorce option.

And whose to say that the second wife won't have any issues?

When have divorce become a bad thing? I don't see why would any unhappy or troubled couples stay in an useless marriage and go into another marriage with baggage!

It is senseless.

hensben:
Men never allow your woman to know your weakness else she will use it against you.

The same advice goes to women as well.

lezz:
Sex works wonders. It help HBP therapy and could also be a preventive Solution as well.

Many have died while having sex.

slye:
Very sensible post bro

That is the mistake women make today. Go out of their way to report an issue to an outsider instead of communicating with the husband. Communication is a very key factor in relationships!

How do you know she didn't tell her husband? You do know some spouses don't give a damn about others and only set to please themselves.

Let's just say she did tell her husband and he continued to behave like a fool then what?

As usual I don't expect men to understand women and their issues.

There are women all over the world who suffered and are suffering from vaginal disorders. Some women have painful sensation doing sex which may not have anything to do with girth/length of the pens and intensity of the thrusts.

The lady is not a young woman and in fact potentially going through menopause. Not everyone knows about menopause and their symptoms. Hormonal imbalance in a woman is much severe than a man.

Yrs, she should consult a doctor but all doctors don't know everything. There is nothing wrong with older people having sex but they do have many factors that can contribute to their sexual demise. So we need to stop assuming dumb shot and look at why is the woman having pain and what can be done so that the couple can enjoy sex with others.

Someone has mentioned marriage issues...sex is not a marriage thing unfortunately and single couples go through this as well

Did you ask for sex?

FuhckYhu:

wah are yhu even sayinq,
Did u even by any chance read d topic well enuff

cuz its absolutely senseless to refuse kissing
wyl avinq sex.

Like I said. It is not a big deal.

Everyone don't like or do the same thing. Case closed.

Not everyone like kissing and at least with sex you can use condom for protection.

it is not a big deal.

Teempakguy:
I actually expected you to insult me anyway. I'm surprised though that you were this lenient. I was expecting something along the lines of "MANBISH!"
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Anyway, you claim my proof is intangible but cannot counter it. Noted. Let me take another approach.
What am I being asked to proof?

"That smarter people are more correctable."

Great. Now, unless you were talking about something else, we are going to stick with that.
Consider the Nigerian population versus the south Korean population. We all know the south Koreans are highly intelligent. Having the second highest IQ in the world per country. Nigeria on the other hand, is rather dumb. Having one of the very lowest IQs in the world per country.

Now, if you called an average Korean to stop throwing paper on the ground, but instead to throw it in the can, and you explained why to him, he would most likely think about it and follow such advice. We know this is the case because obviously their cities are clean.
If the same experiment is repeated on a Nigerian, without asking for reason, he would obey when you were there, but the moment you left, life resumes as usual. We know this is the case because obviously our cities are dirty.

In both countries, citizens are advised to keep their environments clean. One does that, land it so happens to be the second smartest country in the world. The other doesn't. And it miraculously happens to be one of the dumbest. Is this a coincidence?

I know you will want to argue with me that nigeria is not dumb and all . . . that I'm lying, but you don't have proof that I'm lying, do you? You just "feel" that it isn't true. And so, you disregard it. That, my lady, is the exact proof you're looking for. The dumber you are, the harder it is to accept cold facts in front of you. The easier it is for you two apply "selective belief."


And 90% of every Nigerian nairalander that quotes this post will continue too reinforce the proof by insulting the people that placed Nigeria on the dumbest chart. By claiming that it is not true. By blinding declaring, "proud naija! We don't care what they think of us."
And thereby proofing them, and I right.

So, checkmate.

Why would I counter something I have made no comment about?

I spoke my opinion and stated realities and YOU asked me to show YOU who is irrelevant proof of an opinion and I asked you the same thing and YOU yet to show proof but you want me to counter a proof less epistle?

Girl bye!

Teempakguy:
actually, I do.

We will need some axioms, of course.

1. Smart people are at the top of their classes.
2. Smart people invent things
3. Smart people become professors.
4. Smart people are good at what they do.

From 1, we find that the reason that they are on top of their class is because they learn fast. Hence, they are highly receptive to new information. And throughout years of conflicting information supplied by teachers, they still manage to keep on top. This is because they are highly correctable and eager to learn, but first, they seek the superiority of individual ideas and determine which is correct by analyzing the arguments that they present.

From 2, we find that they gain a deep understanding of what they have been taught. And they design things with can put these thoughts and ideas into useful realities. Now, at this point, they are discouraged. Told that they will never be successful. But they don't back down. Why? Because they have amazing courage? No bloody way. It's because the people advising them against this has no proof that their contraption will not work. The Why is not supplied.

From 3, we find that some smart people become professors. Working of course, on a thesis. A thesis which is to be analyzed by other peers. In the course of this, they analyze other theses. It takes an open-minded mentality to survive at this stage. As an entire life's work may be rendered useless at any point, and a why will be provided. We find that there is no fallout of violence and denial. Once the why is provided, all is well. We also find a highly advanced level of collaboration. Because truth is immediately discerned by analyzing arguments and counter-arguments. The result is final. Unless otherwised falsified with superior logic.

From 4, we find that smart people are good at what they do. This is because they understand the why beneath the structure of these things and can therefore apply them. The reason they know the why is because they wouldn't have accepted the ideas unless they found falsifiable evidence that the idea was actually correct.


If you have any other axioms that are less biased than these, kindly supply them and I will use them to supply proof for you.
Now, kindly supply your own proff your your "non-random and non-bullshit" statement above.

You have written this epistles with NO TANGIBLE proof?

Email me when you do.

icedbeatz:
you would be amazed if you were opportuned to, i wish i'm upset though cos i feel a slight disappointment from your response today. I need the old mrschima

LMAO@i would be amazed.

icedbeatz:
Anger?! hahahahaha is this not mrschima anymore? i'm waiting to read your manbish and your mama watch word. Wish any of you all could type something or attack me in a way that can get me pissed. How is your hairy fish? hahahaahah
(Wait for it)

This chatter is upset. . I can imagine how you speak verbally. .

icedbeatz:
That won't be a problem at all, just because we drop typos, abbreviations and whatever here doesn't mean one can't type correctly alright. You were trying to correct me wiith your marvellous punctuations in your sentence!? learn to use your fullstops first before dishing an English lesson b*tch.

Anger isn't going to improve your penmanship.

Too many spelling and grammatical errors. Where is Ms. Marky?

it is rubbish to dish out misspelled insults.

I refuse to live with a married couple with my spouse. There are too many housing options to do so but again different strokes for different folks.

icedbeatz:
mrschima how are u doing today with ur rechet azz honey ?
op to each his own thou sometimes after fking with a girl that's the only time some guys discover wether it was love or lust or just fun but u can't generalise this cos every guy has different orientation. Most times it's that the girls forms too much/plays hard to get not knowing that crap pisses real niggas off then the likeness would disappear and the mission will be capture and fk so while she is testing the guy while the guy is playing along meanwhile she starts falling for him then opens her babylon then when the guy smashes and bounces she now cries murder not knowing she unintentionally caused it.

If you are going to insult me... .at least spell the insult correctly. Just saying gay!

They should have told you to study birth control and safe sex education.

She should have left at first abortion. Abortion is a double edged sword and you didn't care about her or her life period but I fault dumb bishes who allows a man to define them based on how frequent the coitus and deep the pockets.

This isn't new...some people are only looking for a booty call and no strings attached.

You can tell what's the motivation of interest. Of course, you won't be able to tell if you hump at first hello!

A "straight" male wants to chop chop a "gay" man's money?

Is that gay slang for you will Bleep a gay dude for money?

I don't go through my husband's phone and he doesn't go through my phone. Even if we SHARE EVERYTHING and put everything in the open still won't keep a spouse from cheating or leaving.

Do what works for your relationship and don't design your marriage off what others do in their marriages...you will definitely be unhappily married.

Trust your partner and pray that your partner has respect for you and his or her marriage....that is what going to keep your marriage strong....xommunication, trust, and respect not access to a phone.

Happy Married Life.

mikron:
truth? What's d truth in labelling all naija men ugly, hope u re not married to a naija man oh, cos if u re u will be telling us in clear terms that ur husband is ugly too

If I say he is ugly...would you stop bishing?

Dannyandre:
U no get job idiot

Jobless bish.

Go scam for some rice trick.

Teempakguy:
proof of the above?

Do you have proof of the random bullsh1t you have said?

mikron:
refering all naija men as ugly is saying the truth? I call that hating

Truth hurts huh?

Educated fools and smart dummies do exist!

You can be smart in books but a dummy in the streets.
You can be smart in math but a dummy in science.
You can be smart and not have common sense.

Knowledge is powerful but wrong choices can Bleep the whole plan.

Bottom line is that life and universe is the best teacher.

mikron:
so why do u hate naija men?

Calling someone ugly means hate? I guess I do.

francizy:
Am Ode

I know.