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Every female on this site isn't Nigerian. Just saying.

Sorry I am late! I was uhmm (never mind).

Cheating! If my man cheat and what would be my reactions? Hmmm. There are many layers of cheating and I don't condone it all.

I think people used cheating to mask pain and frustration. I have heard men say things like weight gains, lack of sex, changes in her appearance, and infidelity. I have hear women say things like lack of attention, affection, communication, no spark, and infidelity.

None of the reasons listed are good reasons to cheat. If you are unhappy LEAVE PERIOD. The relationship is broken and if you could fix it....you wouldn't be cheating!

Most of the times, the other person do not know the truth and shouldn't be attacked. You can tell them the facts and it is up to them to believe it or not. Once the information is known and the other person still stay then it becomes an issue.

Some people purposely go after attached couples because of jealousy, anger, pain, and malice. I tell women, If a man would cheat on his woman with you, he WILL cheat on you with another woman.

What would I do? Leave because if he is cheating the marriage is broken and if it could be fixed he wouldn't be cheating.

cyprus000:
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Okay mary magdalene.
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Tell her I said hello!

cyprus000:
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Okay mary magdalene.
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And son.

Many have died to get married but few fight to stay married.

I am more impress with the works within marriages. I am not impressed with the engagement shows and dating shows because that is not the real test in a relationship, when the honeymoon stage is over that is when the masks come off!

They won't last.

cyprus000:
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Only infidelity.
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Okay Jesus.

thecollector:
So u tink ur civilized just becos u are licking the white man's bottom? I'm sure ur type won't even speak when ur present in a room, internet warrior. Learn some manners and while ur at it, do so introspection about ur life too.

Buahahahhhaaahhahha!

(Touching his nerves again)

If you are not living according to God's purpose of marriage then you needs to divotce. Simple.

People won't divorce because they are afraid of what others are saying about them but guess what they are talking about you WHILE you are married.

What is the difference?

Adamsdelrio:
If Jesus didn't support divorce, why should
Pope support it? Is he greater than Jesus?

The bible indicates there are biblical reasons for dissolvement of marriage.

hbpeze:
there is no need for insult that is the only thing you can do.married woman that can't train her children.senseless thing.look at your comments so far.bush woman

I don't live in Nigeria so the bush joke is on you jungle ape.

Make sure YOU don't have any children we are already burying the lame brains and your likes.

I see you dedicated a thread in my honor...E Pain The Bish ooo.

"Nigeria doesn't need Feminism to be destroyed, it is already destroyed!"

Damn.

gj22:
Abi na ur own logic no follow. You are calling people that are not feminists, feminists. I am telling you that the fact they call themselves feminists doesn't make them feminists.

A self proclaimed Christian who doesn't follow christ is an example.

Hmmm. Good examples. Even in the bible of Christians, it said beware of the wolves in sheep clothing.

Bashirhendricks:
I can see that this is an old post, but guys I need help. I got married 1 and half weeks ago, my husband and I were sexually involved only 3 times each in the quickest possible time. I have tried to seduce him and I seem to be failing to a point were he snubs at me and says NO to my advances. I recently discovered that he flirts with his ex and have lunch quickies....could this be the reason of denying me

According to some of these dumb niggas, there are no reasons why you should be denied sex even if your mate is screwing other people.

Ryabcool:
*sigh* I've been studying Mrs Chima for a while now. I noticed she chooses to run from sensible discussions yet chooses to attack anyone she sees she'd be able to floor. Talk about bullying and cowardice all rolled into one. Oh well... I await your reply to my question.

Try again.

hbpeze:
you talk foolishly sometimes and to think you are married smh

I don't expect you to get it and you have NEVER spoken with sense PERIOD!

NEXT!

[quote author=slytubadth post=37777449][/quote]Awww. You have bee fucking flat assed whores?

Try South south.

morethanadoll:
You are right in a sense of my speaking for all American people. I'll rephrase. It is Louisianian culture, since I do live here. Try that with your husband here and you may not have one.

I don't always serve my husband food and we are still married.

Each marriage is different and what works for you...works for you!

slytubadth:
No I don't care about you, am just worried abt ma brother who might be thinking you are a saint!

Then you care. Go find you some business.

morethanadoll:
If he prefers his food on the plate already, it isn't that big of a task, honestly. It is part of our culture in America to serve your man's food to him on the plate. It would take more time to set it up on the table. If he is a good husband, you should do whatever it takes to keep him happy.

That's not an American culture. It is personal choice and that's like saying genital mutilation is an African culture.

slytubadth:
I thought you were married.. yea! I hope you are not doing what am thinking?

why do you care?

SonOfEl:
same here. i have done my best online to correct you "Mrs" chima. child marriage breeds strife and VVF.

IMO.

Yes, they do breeds strife and bullsh1t. You are the poster child If you are "married".

cococandy:
They no dey see this part of the bible.

That's was my point to the chatters I was "debating".

Joy1706:
That verse was not in reference to intimacy. It means you are answerable to your wife and vice versa. Your wife submitting to you does not stop her from despising you

Damn. So you are saying a submissive wife can also despises her husband?

That is deep.

Stillfire:
A grown ass man throwing a tantrum over dished food, lmao.
The part of the brain African men are supposed to use to device techniques to bring their people out of poverty, they have used it to be throwing petty tantrums about food.

Give her an inch, she will take a mile
Meanwhile give African man an inch, he will run a marathon.

(Pressing 8900 likes)

Malawian:
Ephesians 5:22-33 - Wives, submit yourselves to your own ...

Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church.....
CASE CLOSEDDDDDD !!!!!

You are right, case is closed when you can't effectively answered my question. I didnt use a bible when I asked you a question. Can you answer my question without using the bible?

SonOfEl:
its unfortunate that some married people come here and give wrong advice. its a shame. you know nothing about marriage.

And you are one of those "married" people.

I am against child marriages for obvious reasons!

I blame this on the rising costs of run girls!

Malawian:
nwanne mmadu, the bible says "husbands should love their wives chikina, but when it came to the wives turn, it says wifes should love their husbands and submit to them!!!!.
na baba God talk like that o.
DO NOT ADD TO GOD'S WORD. IT IS A SIN
nothing like husbands submitting to their wives,
mba nu.

Contradiction is astounding and definite.

As I thought, people pick and choose what to believe in, support, and do with their lives.

Honesty is still hard for many people.

zeeblamj:
That's what a man is. That's what marriage is... My husband also helps me out in the kitchen. Does that make him less a man I serve him food and we eat together. Does that make me less a woman? This isn't even enough to be a marital issue. Why can't they eat together? Leave what u are both doin and have breakfast as a family. This settles d drama.... But in This scenario, the guys should have asked his wife to come eat with him. That way, she will serve him. There are always ways to go about it . His statement was wrong. I would cry so much and feel like a slave or LovePeddler or maid if my husband wakes up one day and says " I'm not eating because my service is not complete"

You nailed it! This thread is closed!

kevinberry:
Exactly



The best thing is to go for someone that understand you...your ideal partner and make sure such person is not pretending....

I agree with the pretension comment.

Malawian:
i was in church on sunday, i think the priest was talking about wife submitting to the husband and not the bolded.
abeg o.

Since you listen to your priest, if he told you to submit to your wife and said God told him so, would you submit to your wife?

Priest is not gay abi?

Be honest.

SonOfEl:
Mrs chima or whatever your name is, you MAY be married, but I doubt your maturity in it. a matured married woman will not meander the way you do.

you are still a child. I know so.

And you are a single boy who wishes to be married in the real world.

As I thought, you are stumped! I love crushing religious folks who used books they don't comprehend!

Keep.on calling me names, you are looking real smart...not.