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[quote author=tres-chic]So my ex of like 2 and a half years just came back from S/A and he calls dt we shud see. This is our story: wn we wer 2gethr, we wer in a non comited relatnship. I realy liked him, he was my type in evrythin: 6ft4, great body, (wrks out a lot), very Gd lookin, speaks well, very nice, Gd job etc. But it was clear dt he didnt want comitmnts, so I zeroed my mind & went along with d flow just for the fun of it. & we both enjoyed each others company. So he got transferd 2 S/A & I wil say d relatnship ran its course. Now he cals like 2 & a half yrs later dt we shud see & sends msgs wit words like baby, darling, kisses etc. Now am thinkin he wants to see for either of d Ffing reasons: 1. Just for seeing sake, gist catch up on old times. 2. He wants to get serious. 3. He wants to get laid. Now d issue is I dont want 2 b uptight & avoid seein him, But if its for option 3, I realy dont know how to avoid dis cos hes so attractive, and am so sure dt 4 whatever reason either 1, 2 or 3 he's goin to make a move to get intimate. My prob now is dt like I said earlier, hes rely attractive, & I havent been laid in like 6 months,(and am kinda 'hungry') so mite find it hard to resist, now heres whr d part I wish I had a bf comes in. If I had one, I wud.nt be that 'hungry' & wont find it hard to resist plus I wud consider it cheating, but now nothin to serve as a check. Iv told myself dt d furthest I'll go wit him is kissin, but never say never.... What shud I do?[/quote]It is a human thing to want companionship however we first must get right with ourselves before we can get right with our potential partner. The number one reason why relationship do not last because lack of happiness with THY SELF. It has nothing to do with money, sex, difference in religion beliefs, and cultural components. It has a lot to do with you are not solid body, mind, and soul.

Once all three aligned universally.....there is nothing that can prevent you from true happiness. Let say you do have a boyfriend....would you be happy regardless? Law of attraction is real and what we put in our minds...we attracts it.

You want anything that is wholesome come your way but if you are broken....no glue can fix that.

x[quote author=go_slow]That's black man's mentality That's black man's mentality[/quote]Black men wants to grow older with their partners?

LMAO@First baby is okay. Green sure is the site theme!


Kandi and Ekt....... Seriously?

sexkillz: [color=#000030]london117 in the house, rigging!

This is way beyond acceptable levels of stupidity. . . [/color]

Yes......it is stupido!

Chima voted for you. He said they are hating on you bro.

Yall some cheating and rigging mofos!

I guess that how politicians get in huh?

queensmith: i see. . . . . .the beauty is abstract? I have to look at it then imagine he is fine. . . .lol . . . . .


nope, still cant see it! sorry

Oh well!

Come here Debosky suga. Flex your muscles for Momma boo.

queensmith: maybe im the one that needs to change up my glasses prescription. . . . . .how can you guys tell you are looking at the side of his face!! which isnt even that nice!

Don't be hating on my boo boo.

Just squint your eye reaaaaal tight.

You see it now?

r231: are you rdy

I took care of it myself.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI] [/quote]Awwwww! Send him to me!

[quote author=Despicable-VII]Ahhh shes shy, look at tha camera [/quote]Everybody don't like taking pictures.

My husband have to fight me just to get a snapshot of me. I used to think when people take pictures of you that it traps your soul.

I know it is a myth but I am stubborn when it comes to shit like that.

Idowuogbo: No......

Lmaoo!!

U doing a r231 on me abi?

May ur nose produce sperm.

May your nipple slap you.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Here's my lil sister/bro lol. Don't know why i cut out the pixs again, cant find the original. Just gonna be here for a sec, here goes the loves of my life

And my cousin below, not me o that lol[/quote]Awwww. The boy is handsome. The girl is adorable.

Viewing this topic: r231(m)

How you gon have me be in the bedroom waiting on you!

The right definition of love ISN'T OVERRATED...

Big difference.

David..

You gon let Royal diss you?

2buff: Sensible as always.

Anything that saves you money are sensible huh?

Idowuogbo: Yoh! Yoh!

Dats wassup my nigga in manilla

We strx up vanilla up in dis shyte!

U like my French?

Are you feeling dizzy?

[quote author=Despicable-VII]@Chima

Nah David

Tha Fat Rectangular shaped niqqah in tha snow[/quote]

I had to go see the pic and laughed so hard that I farted!

I am wearing some footies, booty shorts, and a titty tank top.

LOL@2buff viewing.

Gone ahead vote boo.

[quote author=Despicable-VII]Kandii chill..nobody is voting for that Sloppy dude man

Guy has a body like a Tetris Block

Nobody is voting for him....

..He didn't even crack double digits last contest[/quote]Why you hating on P Wiz?

MsDarkSkin: Ikekings 5?
Inspired 8?


no way!

Ikeking is aight....

But that Debosky can get it.

If you EVER managed to get this through Chima....I will deny it!

Yes. I would accept the gift wholeheartedly and trade the car in for something that I like because I am sure nine out of ten it gon be some bullshit I would be caught damned in.

I didn't realize Debosky was cute.

Come here suga.

It ain't my duty to cook for NO BODY and people need to learn how to cook.

The men before they gotten married to women that are cooks...HOW WERE YOU EATING THEN? Stop making up life rules simply to fit WHAT YOU WANT... it is not a big deal if a woman doesn't cook because if she did....it doesn't mean YOU WOULD LIKE IT.

valuka: It has happen to me on several occassions.
Will meet a gal online (facebook, 2go, bbm, etc) after some days, she will ask for airtime.
Not that i hv said anything concerning my financial status, still most of them end up requesting for airtime.
I am putting this down not because I am stingy, but because it is degrading on her side.

Abeg drop ur comments and experience but dont crusify me,
na my mind i talk ooo.

You need to stop dating broke hoes. If you are going to meet someone online at least spend some time knowing them before MEETING them in person. Time usually diminish worthless niggas from your existence.