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[quote author=Platnum! link=topic=730605.msg8882044#msg8882044 date=1312825912] i implore you not to believe whats on that list u made, i am nigerian and i grew up there, nigerian girls might be money lovers,but every other thing on that list is shamefully fabricated, and if there is any atom of truth in them,most likely will not exceed 25% [/quote]I know many Nigerian girls OFFLINE and these girls that I know OFFLINE aren't what the men say they are so trust me I don't believe everything I read.  

That's why I asked the question if such Naija girls are that bad then why Nigerian men flying back home in droves after marrying MOSTLY Oyinbo women after getting their papers.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=730605.msg8882060#msg8882060 date=1312826005]Mrs  Chima           <--------gold diggers  
Mrs Chima          <--------toto smells like sardines & almost  not clean  
Mrs Chima     <------- wowo looking with bad weave  
Mrs Chima    <----------   flat screen nyansh

Mrs Chima   <----will only sleep with Mr Cork for his BMW  
Mrs Chima  <------ excessive make up, bad breath & almost yellow teeth  [/quote]Aww.  My husband woke up yall.  Come here suga.  

You don't have a BMW.  I won't tell them you riding a bike.  

Goldieluks:

Most of these statements about Nigerian girls are bull shiiit.
And you expect these so-called Nigerian criminalize guys, to stick to their fake marriages to these foreign women.
Nigerian guys are TOTALLY CONFUSED!

They slag their women off,and still go back to wed them,they have dementia of the brain,at their very young age.

Exactly Goldie. I always laugh when they talk that shit then soon as SOME of them get their papers they are running right back home and marrying the very wowo looking girls with bad weave.

Let be honest and candid. What's the real deal with Naija Girls?

I have read enough posts to concluded that Nigerian men specifically feel this way ONLINE about Naija girls. These are some of the opinions they have with Naija girls:
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[li]gold diggers[/li]
[li]toto smells like sardines or not clean[/li]
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[li]wowo looking with bad weave[/li]
[li]flat or small nyansh[/li]
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[li]will sleep around for money[/li]
[li]excessive make up and bad breath[/li]
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And the list goes on and on. Now here is the bomb I want to drop on the MEN. If Naija girls are all of that and more then why SOME of you Nigerian men goes afar to marry other women from other countries to obtain citizenship and generate enough income just to go back and marry the very Naija women SOME of you have condemned and ridiculed?

What's the real deal with Naija girls?

LMAO@oyinbo women aren't gold diggers so I run to them.   

Broke white women will accept you with gladness.   


Gold diggers come in all shapes, colors, ethnics, tribes, groups, class, and most certainly flesh.

And their feet are a killer!  

9jafetish:
if you ca afford having children you can sure afford having a wedding.

so it's marriage before kids

I agree with you 1000% however SOME people are not marriage material.

madoba:
Pregnancy before marriage, is a big NO NO for moi! I am just old fashioned like that when it comes to certain things.

A fertility test can tell if a person will bear children or not I do not need to be packing a big belle to prove anything to anyone.

I can't say what the pros & cons are. I just know it's not something I want for myself or any daugther I give birth to.

I agree with you. You can tell who is BEHIND in technology and doesn't have adequate access to them which is nothing wrong with that however people need to get with TODAY and stop living in the past.

There are all type of ways to find out if someone is fertile or not. Menstruation is one of them and if you do not understand how it works then you are as clueless as those who are window lickers. (Not speaking of you specifically)

One more I want to add, just because a woman is pregnant doesn't mean the husband is the father. Think about it people. Use common sense. It is healthy.

I am threw!

Exactly. I was thinking the same thing. He doesn't have much resources so she is eating up his rations.

I would prefer the children have both parents albeit the parents are married or shacking. If the parents are the type that will divorce in a hot second then it doesn't mean nothing to have your children upon marriage however I prefer if you chooses to have children before marriage.

Plan the pregnancy and make sure that you are able to provide for your child if the other parent doesn't step in or step up.

lindabon:
the society never shapes me. i choose a right part to life an i abide by it. that being said, i cant be seen as a woman because i will give birth to someone's child oneday. anyone that sees me as a child manufacturing machine, may that person be blinded with that very eye. 

its unfortunate that many Nigerian marriages(esp, the older generation) a[b]re bound by this child bearing factor. love is very far from their reason for union. [/b]

I agree on the bold. That's all I hear through not just online but offline as well. There is seldom a man or a woman speaks of loving their spouse because of WHO THEY ARE and not their ability to provide financially and reproductively.

Ain't that much desperation in the world.

If you do not have self respect nor self dignity it doesn't matter if you are an actress or actor you will behave as such.

Those Nollywood and Hollywood actresses and actors are NO DIFFERENT than those who aren't actors and actresses.

Sometimes you guys do take FICTION too serious and have no real concept of reality. It is drama and the sole purpose of drama is to ENTERTAIN the spectators.

Duh.

LMAO@the title.

Other Moderators

Can you ban your moderator Jaybee? On the basis of just for the hell of it?

Thanks in advance.

lefulefu:
omo why some guys dey always marry girls wey dem no like
if u are really attracted to your wife i dont see any reason why u cant control urself over the woman trying to snatch u frm your wife

Said the male LovePeddler.

Arab men do not cheat. (running off thread fast)

deniyor:
Partially true. We don't believe in divorce - not as much as other parts of the world anyways. Its not cheating when your wife knows there is going to be a second wife sometime in the future. We are only making sure our second wife is compatible with the first. THird with the first two and so on.

Adultery is adultery is adultery regardless if the wife knows it or not.  Also if SOMEONE doesn't believe in divorce regardless if other countries are divorcing like hoes on crack. They will not divorce UNDER no circumstances. So if they divorce then it contradicts what they say they don't believe in. Just playing devil advocate for the moment.

Now in this OP's case, he is talking about going back with his ex who he bleeped before his current wife.  I don't think the wife is going to be please but then again it is Africa.

Because OLDER mem date younger girls. DUH.

"Foreign" women do not like cheaters EITHER. It is not just the Naija girls thing.