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(doing the stanky legg)

pleep:
Lol @ these girls who complain about the guys in the club. If you hate everything us guys do how would you like it if we all disapeared? and you could dance alone with your friends like a lesbio.

MANY of us already dancing alone with our friends like lesbos.


(looking at Wifey with starry eyes)

apache77:
only 5months?? wat of 5years?

I was just being nice which is rare for me.

(Emails sim card to Pweety) Tell him he can top the sim card up. I prefer five months paid.

Koyoke!

Didn't I see you at Church's chicken with some glow in dark skinny jeans on?

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=695105.msg8565123#msg8565123 date=1308706038]I wasn't raised by a single parent.

FYI:  Everyone on this thread goes into a relationship carrying baggage regardless to whether they have children or not.

You had baggage that you brought from a previous relationship into your current marriage.  That is all of us.  No one on this thread goes into a relationship without carrying baggage of some sort or the other.

From my point of view Children aren't considered baggage.  It looks to depend on what point of view you see things.  One man's trash is another man's treasure.  We all have rights.

By no means am I standing in the way of who you do or don't date.  My comments are my comments and my belief.  Everyone on the thread has the right to date a childless person or a person with children.

Whoever you date - whether they do or don't have kids - ACCEPT EVERYTHING THAT COMES WITH IT.[/quote]My comment wasn't just toward you.  It was a general comment to collective responses.

I am glad you wasn't standing in the way.    Regardless of what people say we all date whomever we want and marry whomever we want.  That's the beauty of choices. 

People shouldn't live for and attempt to please OTHERS.   If someone doesn't want a person with a bunch of children that's their right.  Not everybody dating somebody who SPOUSE is dead and there are SOME baby mommas/daddies that make the guests on Maury show looks like novices.  Some just avoids that and let the ones who can deal with it deals with it.   

By the way SOME OF US let the past be the past so MANY of us doesn't bring anything OLD into something new. It is easy once you makes a decision to do it.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=694991.msg8565095#msg8565095 date=1308704992]LOL----Right on!

Spot On!!

Flawless!![/quote]Gracias, my chile.

Not all of us WERE RAISED by single parents and SOME OF US have a preference not to engage into a relationship with single parents just like some of us are not interested in dating fat people.  It is a preference regardless how some were raised by single parents or not. 

There are SOMEBODY FOR EVERYBODY and some people do not want to deal with baggage.  It is their CHOICE AND RIGHT. 

To those who are in relationships or marriage with someone who have kids from previous relationships BE HAPPY WITH YOUR DECISION and accept everything that comes with it. 

 

To those who quoting scriptures, I have a question for you. 

When was the last time you ATTENDED CHURCH and can you even name the PASTOR'S entire FULL NAME?

What's interesting to see that people ARE QUICK to use the scriptures to their advantages but are not living entirely TO THE WORD they claimed they believed in.  The bible states wives submit to thy husbands AS THE HUSBAND SUBMIT TO GOD. 

If a man is not willing to submit to GOD then how can a man expect a woman to submit to him.  Now another question to those who are quoting scriptures, What do you tell an UNBELIEVER whom is married? 

You can't use the bible as a source to those who does not believe in the WORD as YOU DO. 


So to answer your question WIFEY, it because they want to be in control but doesn't know how to lead PROPERLY.  The best head of household/leaders are the ones who follows as well.   

tom28:
OP act like a lady,stop being too loud and rude and using the N word all the time like its much typical of black american women and u will see that nigerian men would be all over you in a second.We dont like loud nagging women.
PERIOD

You just destroyed what your fellow brothers just build up. Just because SHE IS HALF AKATA doesn't means she was saying NIGGA, BEING LOUD, AND rude.

You do not know her AND YET you judged her. Interesting. Now PureOhio, BLACK PEOPLE HAVE ENOUGH SHIT to deal with let alone DEALING WITH IGNANT mofos.

It will always be IGNANT mofos no matter where you go and TRUST ME you will meet a REAL NIGERIAN who represents TRUE NIGERIA (that if you want a Nigerian man).


That THANG UP THERE is what you SHOULD RUN FROM.

Bleep at first sight more like it.

[size=22pt]The plots thickens.[/size]

campbell05:
if i was in that gathering i'd avoid her! she might be different,  It's just like how you guys in lasgidi few stout,  that is how they view them here because they are troublesome and very aggressive, and they are lousy too,  No body Like wahala.

Loud people are loud and quiet people are quiet.  I definitely would say Nigerian men in a heated argument sound like Rupaul and Sir Elton John in some occasion Pee Wee Herman.

Now that's too much wahala!    Put some BASS in your voices, GOODNESS!

campbell05:
@Mrs.Chima yes,

So why would you say this and then asked her to "holler" at you afterward?

campbell05:
@Poster The Only Reason they won't have anything to do with you is just so so so SIMPLE. because you're an AKATA , Nigerian guys tries as much as possible to avoid Akata's, It's actually has something to do with their attitude, But i am available if you don't mind just that i live in another State,

I have an idea of 15,000 that could been dismissed from here and others.

PureOhio:
Thanks. lol, I was thinking the same thing about being born half and half. These guys better get their act together. I've met some non-Nigerian Africans who don't seem to mind that my mom is an akata.

Yeah, Atlanta

Oh no, please don't get me wrong. I don't think all Nigerian men are like those fellas I mentioned. I just wanted to hear what some people had to say.

Some of the guys were born in the US and raised in Naija, some were raised in the US and born in Naija, some were born and raised in Naija, and some of them were born and raised in the US. lol, their all over the place.

Ghanian and other West African men LOOOOOOVES Black American women.  If you ever go to Ghana and if you got that FRONT AND BACK.  You are a done deal.  You may wants to bring some mace with you if you decides to go.  Just saying.   

Nigerian men on my side of the EARTH are funny acting sometimes.  It depends on if they been here a minute or if they are FOBA (FRESH OFF THE BOAT)  Other African men do not seems to have an issue with Black American women which is interesting.  It must be a certain group that have an issue with Black American women I supposed.  Hmm.

I have noticed CERTAIN African men do not appreciate women who show independence and strong willness. Interesting. It could be that too.

campbell05:
@Poster The Only Reason they won't have anything to do with you is just so so so SIMPLE. because you're an AKATA , Nigerian guys tries as much as possible to avoid Akata's, It's actually has something to do with their attitude, But i am available if you don't mind just that i live in another State,

Are you a Nigerian?

Was this dude KOYOKE?

No and there isn't enough time in the world to be testing father materials.

Either they are a good father material or not.

LMAO@Education section on Nairaland being ACCREDITED.


Eight pages and counting!

Hello PureOhio.

Never change yourself for ANYBODY regardless if they are Africans or Americans. You are what you are. You didn't ask your father to screw your mother and your mother to carry you to term. You are here. It doesn't matter if you was brown, yellow, pink, azure, torquiose, and silver. There are going to be people that will dislike you JUST BECAUSE.

The FACT that you are a product of African and Black American union shows that misconceptions isn't forever. Shyone touches some of the basic viewpoints of African views on Black Americans and Black American views on Africans. It will always be there unfortunately and that's life.

If you find someone that loves you FOR YOU regardless what their families and friends say that is priceless and hold on that that. It could be the fact that you told them your mother is Black American and the views crept in or it could be like someone said they were just being friendly. Chalk it up as an experience and enjoy it.

Remember do not CHANGE YOURSELF because the one FOR YOU whether he is Nigerian or Black American WANTS you as you are. He just may love that extra "akata-ness" in you.

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=694244.msg8550989#msg8550989 date=1308528039]The refunding of all costs incured during marriage and before from the WOMAN or whoever is responsible for her.[/quote]That goes for any cost/money the woman spent as well.

You sure I AM THE ONLY ONE making noise? Hmm. Just because I AM VOCAL and IN YOUR FACE doesn't mean I am crying. Trust it would take more than some sorry arsed comments from chatters to get me "moving to tears".

If my being vocal MEANS I AM LOUD oh well. At least I am heard and REMEMBERED.


None of your business when I am due.

Oh, you don't really wanna know what on my mind but for starters I am tired of men crying like little baby boys.

Excelboi:
^^^ so for dis kind time,u dey online posting trash for hia! Smh

Excuse you. You better go sit down somewhere.

For some strange reasons, you think women are robots and should lap up behind men.


It is MRS. Chima.