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Basically 2buff wants to Bleep you Wifey.

A man who doesn't appreciate thinkers wants a woman that is submissive let for him to exercise his brain.

dayokanu:
Shy-one,

You are too kind.

If you werent hooked, I would have bagged you for myself.

There were several comments in the thread that should have angered you but you took it in, Kudos.

Now I need to marry you, And dont bother saying No because you dont have a choice,

An AFrican gets what an AFRICAN wants especially if you are Nigerian and Yoruba like me

Tpia did say YORUBA men will marry anybody in a heartbeat.

tom28:
Maybe you should pay David Duke a visit and ask whats the meaning of a nigger
Whether you are a college educated black or not you still nigger to a whitey but then some of you AAs still use the N word to compliment each other and the most funny thing of it all is that those of you AAs who claim to be educated use it the most

At least we know that Cubans are HISPANIC/LATINO, 12,000 is LESS than 25 million, and DC is not the biggest city in the world, DUMMY.   

You are a printed degree alumni. You are not SMARTER than a newborn baby.   

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=694530.msg8585221#msg8585221 date=1308950047]I'm sorry I don't agree with anything you just wrote here - The "N" word I don't use and many, many blacks - especially in my income bracket are offended on so many different levels to hear it used in any context.

Also - I stand by what I wrote earlier Blacks do complain when "foreigners fill jobs---even more so in this economy."

Oh - not in NY?  I thought that was your location some time back - I must have misread your posts.  Anyway sorry for directing a question your way.  Sounds good.[/quote]You don't have to agree with me and you don't have to use the NIGGER word.  If you thought like a nigger you wouldn't be dating an African now.    

Again it must be in your area that blacks complaining about Africans taking jobs and Indiana along with a few other states are known for having lazy complainers.  No offense.

tom28:
Shyone before coming to the US i used to have a positive image about the AAs but coming to the US has opened my eyes to the extreme hatred by AAs towards africans.Some use words like pouch monkeys towards africans and claim how superior they are to africans because of the blood they have and blah blah blah.Many of them make fun of africans who listen to rap and the most funny thing of all is they make monkey sounds when they come across an african.Whwn they notice you you are african you see the resentment in their eyes and such.It is their hatred and ignorance that we africans react to strongly and when we do they vent about it.It is ok for a black american female standup comedian to make fun of hungry babies in the sudan and somaliabut when we africans insult them they vent about it.I just hope some of my fellow nigerian brothers back in nigeria should come to the US and really see what the AAs really think about africans.

We know how you feel about Black Americans and in the other's men eyes YOU ARE STILL a nigger regardless if you sound like you got glasses in your throat. They do not care if you come from Spain or Turkey. Your dark skin color already determined your social caste.  

If you ever were in America then why are your EXPERIENCE differs then the other Africans who are ACTUALLY IN AMERICA? It seems like you keep attracting those bottom of the barrel type Americans and living amongst them unless your source is from TV. They say you are what you attracts.   

By the way if ALL Black Americans have such horrific views about Africans, Livedit wouldn't have married an Yoruba man, Shyone wouldn't be dating a single Yoruba father of three kids from previous relationship, and Pureohio wouldn't be half Black American and Nigerian.

tom28:
Worthless middleaged akata .In two years time you will be fifty and it must be that terrible for you since you have no child and no husband. .Its not my fault that you are way over menopause and unable to bear kids.Maybe you should do it the way your other middle aged colleagues do it when they see that their biological clock is ticking by searching for  a husband on some dating site

You are worthless and A MAJOR EMBARRASSMENT to Nigerian population,  you need to focus on how to improve your COGNITIVE ENDOWMENT and not worrying about your old mother's menopause.  Too  bad your mother didn't reach menopause before she had you.  DAMN!   

Bad new, there is no cure for impotency.  Good news, you will not breed! 

You must got me confused with YOU, You are looking and PRAYING for a mate online. Not everybody is desperate for a mate that they have to come online to get a woman or a man.

YOU WILL NEVER SEE ME ASKING FOR ANY DATES ONLINE. It would DEFINITELY not be YOU. Eeeeeew!

tom28:
Why dont you carry your frustration somewhere else you 48 yr old spinster

Why would I be frustrated that you are slow? You told me you was 30 now you are 48?

You are becoming a typical African liar! Tsk. Tsk.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=694530.msg8579590#msg8579590 date=1308886043]AA's towards Africans.  Fearing that Africans will come from out of the country and take what AA's have fought to get for generations.[/quote]There are two type of black people in America regardless of where you come from. Niggers and Blacks. Even Chris Rock did a eepisodespeaking about the difference between Niggers and Blacks in America.

Blacks aren't complaining about other "Africans" taking jobs because Africans have it just as hard as Blacks in America. They are complaining about racial discrimination in the workplace and salary.

Niggers complaining about ANYTHING and EVERYTHING.

Blacks study hard and continue until they have reached the highest level. Move on to take care of their families and mentor to other children in communities about education and financial literacy.

Niggers do not study hard and drops out of school. Some sell drugs and some end up in jail. Many have multiple sex partners and bunch of children with all nationalities of women not just Black women.


Now you see the difference so what you and Tom28 just described are EPITOME OF NIGGERS even Niggers are coming from other parts of the world.

dayokanu:
I am glad that we are able to come to some agreement here.

Most Africans before stepping on US soil are soo enthralled by the idea of a free world where everyone is a millionaire until they get discriminated against and most painfully by ppl of the same color

Naturally such ppl would just withdraw back into their comfort zone of fellow Africans.

The sad part is that this discrimination starts from early childhood, An immigrant 7yr old girl in elementary school is quickly made to know she isnt one of "them" cos of her accent and very nubian features. She thereby withdraws into her own group where she wont be discriminated against

There will always be people REGARDLESS of "color" making fun of someone that is "different" from them. There are black people in the North making fun of black people in the south. There are white people in the north making fun of white people in the south. There are Mexicans making fun of Puerto Ricans. There are people who are not disabled making fun of people who are disabled. There are people with money making fun of people with no money.

The list goes on and on. The fact that someone has a bad experience and CLUMP everybody as one IS A COP OUT. Just like Mz Darkskin said she experienced maltreatment from YOUR PEOPLE and still maintain the SOME apparition. We all have bad experience of some sort but what makes one differ in intelligence is knowing that 1 equals 1 and not 100,000.

Just because someone talked about your nose or your lip doesn't mean that you have to turn around and tell your neighbor he or she has no identity. We are responsible for our actions and change starts with US not them.

MzDarkSkin:
[color=indigo]lmao@ Chima.

sis why do you even bother?

*sighs*

I might as well. . .

@tom you say the black race is divided but what are you doing to enlighten the "ignorant akatas" and africans alike? absolutely nothing. Instead you come on here and without shame seem to enjoy typing the stereotypes of AAs without taking the time to credit those who have reached out to foreigners and looked at the ignorant ones as being "lost brothers/sisters". I came on this site to understand about Nigeria and to see if the stereotypes about Nigerians were true not to mention kill a few that I saw some ignorant members typing about my own people. I have been embraced and disrespected by Nigerians (and wanna-be Nigerians aka other Africans on this site who think being African they are entitled to disrespect me as well  ) alike. At times I would think to myself that all Nigerians are rude, ignorant and arrogant - all out of anger but then I had to check myself and remembered the many on this site who have showed me love and interest in my two ethnicities. It would be wrong to label all because of some. Perhaps you too can take on the same attitude. Life is too short. You will find we blacks from all over have too much in common than difference.

Since we are on the subject some of you Africans need to really check your attitudes for real just as you want us to. Some Africans go to foreign countries after having already conditioned their minds against western blacks based on hear-say and what they have seen on tv. The same way we are perceived and portrayed to be thugs with no ambition is the same way you all are looked at and depicted in the west as being "bush, crazy, village inhabitants, monkies, smelly, and primitive"  (I am being VERY SERIOUS!) and many AAs and some Caribbeans are not being told otherwise and therefore regard Africa as being a horrible place. They become uninterested in doing the research themselves to find out fact from fiction. This results in their asking ignorant questions to Africans some of which use this to justify the beliefs that we western blacks are "fo0ls". Slavery messed us ALL up on both sides of the Atlantic. What is ok in Africa we are told to laugh and scorn and what we do most Africans do not approve of such as a woman having children by different men, but the key thing is: SLAVERY. You cannot look at our skin and assume we are exactly in tune with the ways of our distant ancestors. We are talking over 400 years of separation, so the best thing to do is self educate and to educate.[/color]

I know sis but SOMETIMES it is fun messing with slow people.     I told my girl, Maria who is Cuban American that Tom thinks hispanic means Mexican she laughed and said he from the backwoods huh?  I was like no, he is not even American.   Just know the dialogue wasn't nice after that so I will leave that alone before some more feelings get hurt.   

Let me share some of Tom28 highlights.
12,000 is greater than 25 millions.
DC is the biggest city in the world.
My friend is not hispanic, she is cuban.
America has no culture and Black leaders are missing.
President Barack and Michelle Obama are Asians. 
Black women are bitches but my Nigerian women are Queens. 

It was priceless when a Nigerian chatter said "You needs to go back to school because you making Nigeria looks stupd" on "Would you let other man take your wife to an event thread" after Tom28 said DC has the largest HIV infection amongst Black Americans in the WORLD.  I was on the floor!   

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=694530.msg8579168#msg8579168 date=1308875027]Chima - maybe in NY it is better because you live in a very diverse area where there are millions of Africans, Arabs, etc,  people from all over the world.  But 3/4 of the U.S. isn't made up of large cities.  There are more small towns in the U.S. that have backward thinking - unevolved people that live here and can and will stand up and attest to what I typed.  There are some really ignorant Whites and AAs in the U.S.  who I run into everyday and have to leave their presence because I just don't have the time or the energy to devote.  Same as some writers on NL - I just have to move on, they just can't understand and I don't have the wherewithal to keep explaining it any further.  You have to let people "live a little" to see it for themselves.[/quote]I do not live in NY nor I live in a very diverse area. My lifestyle affords me to meet various of people all over America and Africa. I have met Africans who share Jerry Jr aka Tom48 views and Africans who do not share Jerry Jr views.

You are welcome to attest to anything that you see in your neighborhood and I don't have an issue with it. Just because I agree with Kandi on the word choice theory doesn't mean I have anything to do with the debate.

I am not into dictating people so if they do not want to "live" a little that on THEM. I have traveled outside of America and seen more than WHAT MAJORITY OF Americans and Africans wish they could see. When people travels OUTSIDE of their area/country they will know better. Unfortunately MILLIONS will never have the privilege do so.

2buff:
but u're a man  

Yes, Mr. Chima and I are gay. Rokiatu is our surrogate mother.

rokiatu:
So wifey you are alive?

Why are you so mean?

2buff:
Who did u d.i.ck to get those children?  

And what's the meaning of that?

Mr. Chima. Problemo?

MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0055bb]

Yes! I am and I am mad!
i went looking for you! btw,
where is my child support money!

I've come to collect for our kids! C0ck Jr., Lil Cocky, Cockisha, Cocklan and Cockina
run the money gademmit!  
or. . .i will call Chima on your azz. [/color]

Leave it to black people to come up with some HELLA names!

Hey sis! Hey wifey! Hey Tima!

Chimisha, Chimosha, Chimesia, and Chimolta.

No.

There are equally amount of Igbos and Yorubas marrying outside their "circle". I said circle because I did not want to hear somebody crying about using tribe.

I would marry Phate.

adconline:
I think adconline's point is for shyone not to use majority,( she has not met every single African in America) assumptions are made but it does not mean all the assumptions are negative.

I'm not trying to discountenance  her experiences, which are btw subjective and miniscule. I'm just trying to say that Africans have more image deficits than AAs and more likely to be stereotyped by Americans including AAs. Stereotypes are always alive!

I have traveled to several African countries for many different reasons.  I have seen bad and good in all the countries I have traveled however my views are purely based on physical and not hearsay. 

I also see your point what you are saying about Americans having stereotypes that are negative but I also want to insert that Asians are worst when it come to their views on Africans as well as Black Americans.

I will not get into the subject concerning Arabs view on African countries.

dearzi:
It's a complicated matter.

If there are no ex-spouses et al to interfere, sure; you can and make a better life for the child/children. If all parties are amicable and there is open communication, sure. BUT if there appears to be interference i.e. baby mama drama, run! if you think you can handle it- all the best to you. Knowing what I know now, my answer is a huge, fat NO!

That's was my point not everybody wants to deal with that shit. Some people do not have time for baby momma/daddy drama. Some single parents are sharing custody with the other parent and if that other parent is some shit out of Boy and the Hood why would I expect someone to deal with that? That's crazy to expect someone to stress themselves over issues that has nothing to do with them.

If there is no baby momma/daddy issues the PERSON may choose to be with the single parent depending on other variables as well. It still preferences when people finish dissecting and blending scenarios together.

Araboy! I know you are not SHALLOW!

HIV infection just increase by 50% since the last post.

kandiikane:
^^^I think adconline's point is for shyone not to use majority,( she has not met every single African in America) assumptions are made but it does not mean all the assumptions are negative.

I agree with you. That's why I said I know/met Africans who do not think LIKE WHAT SHYONE is saying and there are SOME that do.

I inserted that all Africans do not think alike neither does all Black Americans. One African man may think that Black American women are sneaky but another African man may think that they are hard working.

adconline:
Read my statements again - you will see that I DIDN'T LUMP as I intentionally chose the words a "large majority" ---- if you don't fall in that majority-----good for you.  My experiences with African men have been very good NOTHING NARROW about them.  From these very African men, those I dated and those I befriended every single one of them confirmed the negative image they had from their personal experience and/or their "heard of experiences" of AA's as a group.


You are still projecting your narrow experiences  as the standard occurrence in African vs AA relationships. You cannot claim to have dated or befriended majority of African men in the US or have you? So your experiences are very minuscule,so  when you make bold statements like majority of Africans have negatives views about AAs, you should have some facts to back it up. Having said that, Africans are more likely to be stereotyped in US than AAs-- Africans have more image problems in the US than AAs. In Nigeria for example, most people have  a very favorable view of Americans (black, white, yellow, green)> Nigerians who come to the US form their views based on what they see, but most Americans  form their opinion about Africans based on what's shown on TV without  going to Africa.

  Additionally, I have also spoken to Africans from Ghana, Zimbabwe, Malawi, Nigeria, Ethiopia, Rwanda-----the media has given AA's such a negative image and many of those same AAs have bought into that downward spiral----views of our ethnicity are global so I definitely can speak of this, the U.S. has been the largest superpower for as far back as I can recall and those of my ancestors can recall. 

Media outlets in Nigeria nay Africa are  not obsessed with AA's image problems. The news is not always tailored to highlight problems in AA communities, as such, most   Nigerians do not have preconceived bad image of AAs.

The U.S. pushed that viewpoint (read your U.S. History books) to other nations ----- so I can safely speak on a wholistic (not holistic - used more medicinally speaking) level.

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/holistic. In the context of holistic view ,  not wholistic view

  Globally there is a negative "prevailing view" amongst cultures including black cultures in 3rd world countries that AA's are undesirable on different levels.  As an AA I can state that without emotion as I like to face claims especially false ones.  I don't live in the dark----I want to see the hole before I step into it.  I'm not one to see something and turn away as though it isn't there.  If you don't answer the falsities they still persist.  I answer them right away.  Those countries that methodically without question kiss the azz. of the U.S. have bought into that view of AA's.

Your views are still skewed. Me against the world. To be honest with you, most people in 3rd world countries would love to trade positions with Americans nay AAs. I dont know what you are talking about.

@ OP - if a few measly miles of travel has put these guys off of you, your beauty, your intellect and your ethnicity------TRUST ME  that isn't the lot you want or need.  A man who loves to travel should be one of the qualities you like in a mate.  Travel expands the horizon on so many different levels --- all involved benefit.  If a small distance played a factor of showing "disinterest" - run from the despot, pathetic bunch.  I never met an African in the U.S. that saw distance as a hinderance

It's all about economics. Some people are not open to long distance relationships cos of time, money,intimacy and availability.

I know you was talking to Shyone but there are people who travels outside of their country to to other countries and still have negative views of the country.  Just like SOME Africans come over to America and still harbors the preconceived view of what America is about.  We all have assumptions and opinions about EVERYTHING. 

I have met/know African people who do not share the same views as Africans on this site as well as Africans who do share the same views.  The same for Black Americans, some believes that Africans are their relatives and some believes they aren't. If all Africans thought alike there wouldn't be any civil wars amongst Africans and violence amongst Black Americans.

Amya:
Mrs.chima  and tom28 get a room!

You can have him.   

tom28:
And why would i want to be an American?
Your country has no culture and no identity.Many young black american kids these days have no black role model to look up to and your rappers tell your kids that the only way to make it is to go into the street b!tch up some niggah and make your money in crooked means.They tell u that school is only for whiteys and that real black men are gangsters .Not everybody is despirate in being an american

No one said that you wanted to be American. (America thanks you)  Do you have ADHD?  You are all over the place and obviously frustrated.  Just take deep breaths and keep looking someone will take pity on you. 

You said you was in America (curling lips) right?  According to you, America has no culture so that means you and your brothers in America have no culture either.

As for black role models, are you saying President Barack Obama and Michelle Obama are asians?     

As for rappers, Nigerian youth LOVES and imitates them.  Many of the girls that looks like you trying to look like Beyonce.  The largest consumers of rap music in North America are (drum roll)  Oyinbos!   

Now internationally, high percentage of Asian countries, African countries, and Europe.

You tested every Nigerian men's penis to determine that?

One Nairaland chatter said she fell for the hype about all Nigerian men having big penis and when she had sex with him the first time she was disappointed at the lack of. Hmm.

If that the reason why Zim girls are praising Nigerian men for then I feel sorry for them.

desthan:
Please enlighten me. Is it just forgetfulness or part of some Machiavellian scheme ?

Ms Chima, what could be your own reason for this behavior? Did you ever act this way?

There wouldn't be any reasons WHY I WOULD so such behavior because I have my own house to leave my things behind. That's why I said I can't speak for other people on why THEY DO IT.

Again, if it bothers you that much talk to your girl and let her know. When she leave take her shit with her. Simple.

jay bee:
^^^
Time of the month again

I see my curse didn't work. Hmm. I will have to go to another witch.

livedit:
My take would be that she lacks maturity, insecurity issues, lack of self-esteem/respect and/or some loose screws.  Why would I even want to be with someone if I had to "control" them?  What kind of real validation or sincerity would I get in their actions if they only did what I "told" them? If I'm worrying they going to cheat all the time, then why be with anybody then.  Your "power" can only hold so much or for so long.  Livedit think's it's quite pointless and loco too.

Girl! You all in my mind. That's what I have been saying for the longest if you have to worry about your man cheating on your even a man worrying about his woman cheating on him why BE WITH THEM?

Trust is the key in any type of relationship and if you don't have trust then leave the grown up stuffs to the grown ups.

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=696629.msg8573034#msg8573034 date=1308808972]LMAO!


hee Hee! Does that mean u wuld leave my Lord Reed alone? [/quote]You can have Lord Reed and his breath stinks anyway. Hmmph. (knocking a vase down as I exits from Lord Reed's house)