Just curious to hear what Nairaland has to say about this.

Would you consider dating/marrying someone who already has a child?

Yup.

_{you said date o}

Yes. And I have in the past. Why should livedit discriminate? My first "boyfriend" I dated had 5 kids, which later I found out it was double that in the end. But that didn't matter to me at the time. You never know someone's past circumstance(s).

no

Well I intend to propose to BABE! and she has three kids

Women are much more likely to date a guy with kids than vice versa, yes?

As long as he has nothing to do with the baby mama. (only the child relationship)

For me the answer is no. But it is a less strong 'no' than it was about 5 years ago. I've seen some pretty smoking hot single mothers in the past couple of years, lol.

^^^

goodluck with your lofty quest

I used to think Hell NO!

But really, i think i can!

OH YES. Any time. Arent they human? They are very mature and responsible. (well majority maybe not all)

Why not?

Yea sure.
Just yesterday in Church I was gisting with my kid brother and I kept asking about people i'd not seen in a while. I asked him of a cute 'all round man' who is junior Pastor in church and he told me he left the church because he wanted to marry a widow with 3children and as a pastor, the church refused blessing it. I felt bad. If the church could act like that,they need deliverance

definitely

If she's a Widow, then NO!

I couldn't date or marry a single father. . . . Not because I have a problem with single parenthood but because I fear I wouldn't be able to handle the situation and the extra 'stress' comes with it, in the best way. Some years from now, my opinion may change but presently, at this stage and age, I'd say no. I'd try as much as possible to avoid getting involved with a single father esp. if the child lives with him.

Op capital no for marriage but probability for just dating. Depends on culture. Years back, was dating a young girl with marriage intent but later confessed she had a 5 yr old girl whos now with the father. My famly rejected the union as Yoruba claiming its not gonna be easy. Hence we parted ways

Pweety4me:

^^^^


@OP I want a virgin guy?what does that mean?big fat NO!

Im still a virgin at 28. Hope u dont mind me

Yes

I will and Yes I am - he has 3 children and is a widow.

Makes him look 3 x's more sexy in my eyes.  He is responsible, handsome, hardworking, loves children, intelligent, God-serving.

You betcha!!!!!!

I no longer need to wonder if he is child-friendly or what kind of father or husband he would make - I see it first hand.  The best man to marry and date is a single father who has his own children. 

You can't get any better than that!!!  You don't have to scheme up tests for him to pass to see what he would be like - his entire life is a living testimony to who he is and how he is and how he will be if life predicaments hit him.

No.

BABE!:

Depends on

1)how old the Shild is and---

2) If the Shild likes me--- If the Shild is after my life---(lol)--then I no fit.

You too dey fear. But sha i go built LIVER for you.

No and there isn't enough time in the world to be testing father materials.

Either they are a good father material or not.

ThiefOfHearts:

No.

You are too cold jor!

You are racist!

What about if he has kids but is not a single father?

None of my 7 kids live with me, they are all with my 7 different babymamas wey born them.

Still no?

*waka* abeg shouldnt you be asleep?

and wetin concern race with anything. Olodo

awwww. . . . look at those two.

^ I miss you

ThiefOfHearts:

^ I miss you

aww, that's awfully nice of you.

I see you showing your claws lol. Take it easy on 'em.

I cant promise anything


but I'll try, maybe

hi. pls i need assistance in creating my post. Pls if u can text me how to creat my post (were i can say my own thing). Thks.

Awww Love is in the h-air