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MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066ff]I will tell you the truth I do believe the highlighted statement and I also believe it is the direct result of black men who are having s3x with women
like it is about to go out of fashion! They like to explore different types of women and feel they just HAVE to sample. They the go and have unprotected s3x with other women [or men  ] thereafter and contract disgusting diseases. We black women playing the 'loyal role' are subjected to this dark side of 'playerism'. It's maddening![/color]

Yes, I agree.  Look at the post I wrote to Tom28.  It is an additional passage to what you are saying.

tom28:
In America a lot of white guys get violated by black inmates in prison.Blond haired white guys are their favourite hits and this is one reason many white guys jion racist groups like the aryan brotherhood once they get locked up in jail.Black americans dont regard it as homosexuality but being on the downlow.

Where are your sources about white guys being violated by black inmates in prison? How does that correlates with the white woman going around infecting black men with HIV In UK?

A downlow man know having sex with another man would be viewed as a homosexual act. The sole purpose of them being on the downlow is to avoid ridicules from family members and save face in general public. Downlow men are typically bisexual men who are having sex with both men and women but many of them have stronger attraction to males which cause break up in in their heterosexual relationship with the woman and maintain their homosexual relationship with the man.

Black men are typically more reserve when it come to being openly gay in comparison to white men because in the black community homosexuality is taboo hence the rise of downlow men and women. There are women as well who are doing the same thing but with other women. Most white community are embracing of homosexuality which is the main reason why white men are more openly gay than black men. CDC states that black women have the highest infection rate in comparison to other nationalities and many of black women had or have some relationship with a man who is on the downlow.

M M M:
no be small thing

I am waiting on my answer.

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=663074.msg8286321#msg8286321 date=1304954767]LOL. Mrs. Chima truly is not Nigerian. MMM meant something entirely different.[/quote]And I do not want to be.

[quote author=baby.me link=topic=663074.msg8291238#msg8291238 date=1305023794]You obviously know nothing about Nigerian English [/quote]LMAO@ Nigerian English Uhmm. Okay. Some Americans use sarcasm in their writing and you obviously missed it.

Tosinville:
^^lol, not all what aliens see on nigerian site that they'll contribute to it most especially that Chima.

I do not expect dumb people to detect sarcasm. You are doing a good job jumping in where you can fit in. Let play fetch and see how long you find the ball.

stuffs4me:
she's just a dumb girl. She knows nothing about anything.

Let me guess, Fstranger's other nut? Is that your club pick up line? How is working for you?

Oooh lawd help us!

The judge that married them is even sillier.  The dog would have to recite the vows and say I do in order for the marriage to take place in that case a man can just show up and say nothing.

Lord Reed, be careful when you hanging around the court because if you standing there quiet and that judge pronounce you man and wife you are in trouble!

I had a dry dream and it was interesting.

[size=22pt]Woof. Woof. Woof.[/size]

Aww, my precious chile. Momma Chimette loves you baby. I mean it.

What is this?  False Confessions of Liars?   

I was going to say that teachers are jailed for attempting to sex minors then I remembered Nigeria is different from USA in term of laws.  My bad.  Carry on.

2buff:
MY dear Chima, What am I gonna do with you? 

I have been loling this whole time, so this is definitely not "personal".

I just empathize with the men who've had to listen to all that bull while being physically assaulted themselves by their wives and feeling the whole world will be against them if they just give her one dirty hot one to stop her foolishness. I know one of them. He finally caved and gave it to her. They've had a much happier union since then cuz the woman now understands her boundaries. 

And, as you know by now, I always defend my opinions.

Apparently you are taking it personal because I was talking to Lord Reed and mentioned NO NAMES.

Hit dog will holler.  Holla on!

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=663553.msg8289644#msg8289644 date=1305001939]@OP: I would have no problem having a male friend tag along with me and I would have no problem having my boyfriend's female friend tag along with him. I'm not insecure about stuff like that nor do I get jealous over things like that. If I trust you to go out in the streets [which are crawling with women] then I see no reason why I would be uptight about him going to an event with another girl.[/quote]Exactly. You pretty much said the same thing I said about the trust, paranoia, and if they are trifling they will do what they want elsewhere it doesn't have to be an event.

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Na trust is needed here, so if i trust him no wahala.


_{Men will cheat anywayz} [/color]

Exactly. I agree.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=661433.msg8289668#msg8289668 date=1305002761]@2buff
When did you join the ranks of people who denigrate personalities just cos they differ in opinion? Besides why did you have to be sly about it?

Anyways my opinion stands regardless of what you believe. If anybody (man/woman) hits another (man/woman) first response should not always be to retaliate. As an adult there ways to handle things that will put an assaulter to shame.[/quote]Exactly. It is personal with SOME people and often time when it gets personal you have to dissuade yourself from the situation because it won't get any better nor it won't go anywhere as you can see that.

Those who have issues internally are the ones showing their asses worldly hence the ramblings and discombobulation.

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]It depends, but i guess if it's strictlly business & there are no pictures taken it's cool! [/color]

And you won't toss and turn wondering if the chick is trying to "size" your man up?

MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066ff]I don't know about that one. Tough question to ask. I guess if I have ppl there at the event who can act as my eyes while I am away,
then yes. It won't be a random floosey however, more like a mutual friend or a relative of mine. But if I have the slightest feeling against it then it won't happen as my intuition has yet to fail me.

basically,

DEPENDS ON THE SITUATION (& who he goes with!)[/color]

It is expected many people would not wants their man or woman to be with another man or woman without their presence.  In today's society there is no such thing as PURE TRUST which is blind trust.  Too many things have happened in life that people are leery and men especially are against it because of the "Male hunter" trait they possesses and another man marking their territory is like a total diss to the alpha male persona however women on the other hand have trust issues on a different level depending on the type of female he is being escorted to the event with also raise same "Hell no" flags.  

As it boils to it it depends on the persons involved.  Are they trifling?  Are they decent? It is tricky and dangerous too.  Life is about risks and gambles.

I am still trying to account for that five dollars I had last week. who been in my purse?

ogugua88:
Hmm, "I love you" is usually a complimentary statement. We as humans need reassurance. Part of the reason we say "I love you" is because we want to hear it back from that person we call special.

With that said, imagine saying "I love you" to your special someone and hearing "thank you" in response. My face would have "WTF" written all over it lol. There are better phrases with which to respond, even if you don't love him or her back.

I agree. Saying thank you is weird and would crush the person who is saying that to you. It is like a person gave you a verbal candy and you are saying thank you.

Now depending on the situation, if someone who is saying I love you because you gave them a gift or something then you could say bless your sweet heart. It is a way to put someone down gently without crushing them especially if they are confessing their love for you romantically.

LMAO@wayward niggas saying they will get other women if the woman doesn't cook

I sure the hell hope those women know there are men out there who aren't petty like the ones typing on these threads.

Only dumb chicks would fall for that old arse line "If you do not cook for me I will leave".
[size=22pt]Leave nigga.[/size]

2buff:
LOL retaliation [/b]and [b]self-defense aren't necessarily the same thing.
- I would retaliate [/b]if a girl slapped me by giving her a probably much harder & dirtier slap. (The useless thing won't try it again).
- I would use [b]self-defense if she came at me with a knife.
As you can see, these are different scenarios.

And you're still of the opinion that a man should not retaliate [/b]against physically-insulting women, but should only do so when [b]self-defense is necessary. I think it's clear who's contradicting themselves here Chima. My stance has been solid since this began.

I have been consistent the entire time saying the SAME THING.  It is okay boo boo.  It is not that serious.  Your justifications are noted.

LMAO@the typical response and added word ingredients 

deniyor:
The only reason women hit men is because they feel they can get away with it. THe last lady that slapped me, got an interest on her slap. Since then she has not even thought of raising her hand on me or anything of the sort ( I cant say for when Im not around her). We are still friends but she very well knows her physical boundaries.

The only reason why both women and men hit other people because they are violent and can't keep their hands to themselves. It is that simple.

2buff:
My Logic:Notice my use of the word "person" to communicate my view of everyone being equally responsible for their actions regardless of v@gina/manliness possession.

Your logic:

By your's, the only time a man should physically retaliate against a raving lunatic woman is if :
- his further existence on earth is being threatened. So . . . bleeding from the gonads or something,   
- "he doesn't like being touched". See how you made this one sound like the man would have to become a mentally ill patient in order to retaliate. 

By mine:
- when it is obvious this person A(woman) has no further respect for the other person B (man) that A has to raise hands/legs to B's face in show of the ultimate insult.



Please keep slapping Mr. Chima in your arguments until he feels his life is threatened or until he finally develops a tendency to "not want to be touched". 

I would include your girl in this useless bosom for tat hyperbole but seeing you may not have one I wouldn't waste the cyber ink.  I do not need to hit anyone to get my point across.  Not every girl is violent or into hitting people like the girls you seems to be attracting thinking all girls are the same.

LMAO@the only reasons you women think a man should hit a woman if he doesn't like someone touching him or if his life ind danger.

How else would some one engage in self defense for if no one attacks them?  Never mind I just remembered who I was asking.

Keep fishing for a life jacket you are clearly drowning.

[quote author=Sir-fly link=topic=663640.msg8288909#msg8288909 date=1304986415]mrs chima u re turning me on and hopefully out mmmmmmmmmm
u know where ever the stick will be hiden is going to fit right in ;o)

seriously thoo, most people prefer light skin over dark skinn, no offeince. i dont wana know if u re dark skin but this is how

the world is. i didnit make it. if i dislike or prefer light skin myself that doesn't men i hate black people. stop chewing my words into a trap.
[/quote]Are your parents home?  Can I speak with them?

annita19:
Ok lets be realistic here, no one have the right to drop kicks or whatever that is,  I just don't like abusive relationship(s)

The question was what is the big deal about hitting women not people going around drop kicking people that some scenarios niggas added to justify them hitting women especially for NO reasons.  If a woman opens her mouth and does not put her hands on the man that does not give the man the right to hit her. 

If the woman hits the man and the man has the right to defend himself if he felt his life were in danger or doesn't like anyone touching him.  That is between the woman and the man in question.  However, the comments shared that women who are verbal or does something NON-PHYSICAL to a man deserve to be hit simply because she needs to learn a lesson.  Hmm, the last time I checked a man that didn't birth the woman is not her father. 

Even parents do not physically hit their adult children why should a man hit a woman if there were no physical altercation?  That was many of the women's point and of course some jackasses twist around as if we saying that it is okay for women to go around kicking and hitting men.  I HAVE STATED that NO ONE should hit anyone regardless if they are male or female and I do encourage people to defend themselves against attackers regardless of sex.

Of course wayward arse niggas do not see the bold.  Typical. 

Then some jackasses wants to ramble on about logic like this is some college assignment or some poo.  Who needs logic to keep their hands to themselves or get their arse whooped if they can't keep their hands to themselves?

2buff:
Chima, here you are again beating around the bush, delivering no viable pointline valid to the core [/b]of my post.
What business is it of mine if women and their handbags feel women should have assault rights on a man and should go scott-free with it.

I, and the men who don't believe in catering to 7 year old minded women, am of the core position that everyone called adult must be responsible for their own actions and should follow the basic understanding that for every action, there is a sometimes equal but opposite reaction. EVERYONE has a responsibility as to how they interact with people.

Do silence yourself if you have nothing to say concerning this [b]core.

I do not beat around no imaginary bushes. I went straight to the point and if you are going to accuse another of "agreeing" with other fellow sex mates because YOU DISAGREE with what being said REGARDLESS if YOU feel it is logic or not then do not contradict yourself in the midst of it. Your opinions is not the opinions of others nor YOUR logic whatever the Bleep that is.

I will not be silence and will continue typing as I see fit.

[quote author=Sir-fly link=topic=663640.msg8288886#msg8288886 date=1304986056]u bleeping laugh in my topic, thats why.   stop acting bitchy wiv me.

[size=15pt]mrs chima It's ok that you are having trouble comprehending; it is all part of your mental illness. It is not your fault; You are sick. [/size][/quote][size=55pt]Womp, womp, womp, and womp. You sucks![/size]

[quote author=Sir-fly link=topic=663640.msg8288880#msg8288880 date=1304985939]
crown your stinking kitty, most men prefer nd like light skined ladies and women too like men wiv light skin

cont'    soooo wat does that have to do wiv being black?   [/quote]You smelled that through the COMPUTER?    Hmm.  I see somebody been eating some catfish and forgot to brush his teeth.

[quote author=Sir-fly link=topic=663640.msg8288860#msg8288860 date=1304985621]
Theres a big difference hatin black people nd hating dark skinned people
. I luv nd die for black people coss i am one. I

just can't stand ugly looking dark skinned poles. so plss nd plss dont twist my words if theres any1 wiv insecuroty

then its gotta be u. let the brother have his dying luv for light skin people. bounce along for u can't turn me on, u know

u said tht wayne wonder for bleep sake.[/quote]Hell nawl! Ladies and gentlemen, we have another winner. Time to crown yet another BIG DUMMY. SMH.

This is official. TOO MANY people have SELF HATE against their own skin color and that is bleeped up.  If you are that self conscious about yourself KILL YOURSELF and do us all a favor!

This is some bullshit.