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justwise:
Watching that clip i was thinking. .hey!. . .it could be your attitude towards women is the prob here, yes there are women who may not take compliments from random men especially in a particular area of the city. . sometimes returning or accepting the compliment may send a wrong message to the guy. .thinking. .yea she is up for it

 Inked_Nerd i have to agree with u here. .sometimes. .some of us blackmen get the wrong end of the stick when sisters trying to 'associate' with us politely, i don't know if its a cultura thing that gave some pple the impression that women are programmed to say yes to every dog that barks,
A child who grew up from a violent family. .see ddady hit mum and disrespect her may grow up with little or no respect for women, i don't agree with the guy when he said that 99% of men thinks women are bla bla when they saw a well dressed sister, its his opinion and i respect that.

African men are black men?

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Hmmm yea totally, Do NOT bark but approach politly!

Leave d guy na, or u know am b4?[/color]

Nope. I do not attract those types. I have a good reputation and well known in my region.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=662139.msg8278537#msg8278537 date=1304839030]
Although what he said sounds contradictory, polygamy and an open relationship aren't the same thing.

It's not actually infidelity if your partner is aware and the two have set limits and terms to the relationship.[/quote]You are right in the definition sense however it is both perverted because more than one person being bleeped and possible passing each other some sicklies.

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Yea fair enuff, but u see he mentioned how he approached women, and that him being a 'MAN' he doesn't bark @ women, but speaks to them politly, he doesn't think women should be all up in their heads just because they ave been passed @ a lot of times, i actually believe that there is nothing wrong in appreciating a 'decent' complement![/color]

I showed this to my other half and he said he agreed that some women do get in their head that they are all that especially if they are been told all the time they are beautiful and such. There are some stuck up women who think that every guy wants them and is not nice enough to give a harmless compliment.

I agree with my husband on that part because I do know some women who are up in the air about guys following them and doesn't realize not every guy would want her. But some guys have to learn to approach women instead of barking at them. It is a turn off. My husband approached me in a sensible way and because I am to involved in my real life I didn't really think about it and he did not "curse" me out like some boys would when women do not pay them any attention instead he handled it like a man and said have a good day which left a good impression by the way.

Sometimes positive reactions can make or break a man's attempt to get to know the woman and women are paranoid these days because of raping and kidnapping in some areas. The right approach and timing is the key. It seem though the guy sucks at both and trying to justify by creating a youtube video teaching other rejects.

He sounds like he been rejected a few times. I can see why.

What men have to realize with most women we are as visual as they are and if they are not representing visually then most of us make our mind by the time you asked us what's is our name.

First impression is everything and to impress you have to put your best foot forward or else you will get lost in the shuffle with the rest of the rejects.

Make sure you use condoms, we have enough babies as it is.

I will cut you about my chile! He is a she and I will stuff spoiled chickens in your mouth if you keep fucking with my chile!

jas man:
A pervated type of relationship at most. Open to keep boyfriends/girlfriends as back ups. Its UNAFRICAN, don't do it

Oh my goodness! Did you say UNAFRICAN? I done heard it all. What is "unafrican" about open relationships? I do recall knowing polygamy is accepted in some African countries and polygamy is just as perverted as open relationships.

We have a winner. Ladies and gentlemen. Time to crown another unfortunate.

SMH.

I found bad boys repulsively disgusting and they need to build more concentration camps for them.

Wifey,

Some men have a funny way of showing how much they love their girl or wife. I mean one guy wanted girls to jump his girl to show that he will step in to protect her that how much he loves her. I am like the hell?

You may want to teach them how to show love effectively and normally.

Go to bed.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=662153.msg8278311#msg8278311 date=1304833293]
Shaarap!!
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Happy Mother's Day grandma
[/size][/quote]I would need children to be a grandmother right? Let me have the babies first damn!

Happy Spinster Day to you!

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=139089.msg8278164#msg8278164 date=1304826777]I cannot say. All the guys here have left me for sumthin else.

Eg. Lord_Reed has left me for Hotie Tima and Rokiatu.  Ituen has left me for his Plantain farming  Fstranger has left me for no reason. That guy is a b4st4rd anyways  Dayokanu has left me for other girls whom have big booty5 and stretch marks  Kola Oloye has left me for his spy job and noodle business And Ogaga4luv has left me for his own religion  [/quote]Hmm. Those sorry bassids.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=139089.msg8278330#msg8278330 date=1304833937]@OP: The Nairalander I would consider marrying doesn't really come on Nairaland anymore. I can't even remember his username. The few moments we spent talking outside of Nairaland were wonderful. He was a good listener, never judged me, and was always open to new ideas despite the fact that we shared different religious and cultures beliefs. Even with those differences, we still enjoyed each others company. I guess that's what brought us closer--being so different gave us the urge to want to know each other even more [/quote]Tell him he isn't missing anything on NL. Same bullshit different people.

Doesn't matter. First find someone to say I love you too and really mean it.

Lord Reed suga leave that fool alone. You have stated the real deal and he will reap what he sowed.

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=662153.msg8278156#msg8278156 date=1304826472]Pweety, Pigmentation or dark circles/eye bags?

I know for us Asian, Pigmentation is common to our cheeks but most of us avoid it by putting moisturizer and SPF50 cream.

If its really pigmentation, perhaps you guys could apply SPF50 cream on that area.[/quote]LMAO@putting cream on the dark area of the eye.

she meant the eyes not the skin suga.

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Dat's a horrible thing 2 say, how do u expect people who ave it 2 feel?it's not like it's some sort of disese!

Yes i believe there should be a cure 2.[/color]

You are right. I meant to say delicious. That damn NL!

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Don't mind her. I'm actually intrigued by Africans who have eyes like that.[/quote]Hisssssssssss

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=139089.msg8278044#msg8278044 date=1304822893]Hahaha mummy is talking! You lil babies listen to mummy you hear?! lol[/quote](sipping on Chamomile tea with hint of honey)

Can you massage my foot and pass me two extra pillows my lower back is killing me!

Yes. Duh.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=662193.msg8278041#msg8278041 date=1304822608]@Mrs.C
Are you seriously asking me who is JB?[/quote]

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]@Mrs Chima do u ave any?what do u think about it?[/color]

No, I do not. I think it is disgusting and there should be a cure for it.

Oh my goodness! People still don't know if someone is into them or not?

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=662193.msg8277084#msg8277084 date=1304804526] jb? lol

Sure babes, give the word.[/quote]Excuse me? Who is JB?

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=139089.msg8277127#msg8277127 date=1304805208]Thats just a snack![/quote]Correction: It is a healthy snack.

Not all of us wants clogged arteries.

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=661744.msg8277204#msg8277204 date=1304806589]Can you evr be of help? [/quote]No thanks. I am allergic to dusty nuts.

sexylogan:
lwtmb

My dear, wat u'r describing is wat is called "dirty sclera". it tends to be common with

us africans because of a combination of environmental pollutants, excessive exposure

to dust and harmful rays from the sun. I've wondered the same thing too several

years ago. some eye drops may reduce this but truthfully, there's not much u can do

to them once u have them. sorry.

(looking directly at your eyes) Why do you have that dark red squiggly line in the middle of your iris?

Ignore what instructions? Can you give us more to lap on so we can give you a better answer?

SMH@being allergic to pubic hair.

Oh well! Life goes on. I am sure you both are in a better place and wishes each other the best.

Are you still doing photography? I want to take some private pictures for someone special.

It is ashamed that men view themselves as dogs and then get mad when they are called dogs.
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A real man doesn't need to hit a woman to feel like a man neither a real woman doesn't need to hit a man to test to see if he is a real man. Physical assault is a crime on both gender and if you are dumb enough to be with someone that hits you on a daily basis even with reasons or not then you are dumb enough to be referred as a punching bag.

No one can treat you anyway you allows them to treat you. The bottom line is do not get in any relationship with someone that is physical or not and love yourself enough to know that you are worth more than a sour puss arse nigga.