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That the thing, I know the type of man Mr. Chima is and I trust him.  So therefore I would not need to be paranoia and watch his every step because he is talking to his ex.  Once again, if a person is trifling they will cheat with anyone regardless how easy the ex may be.

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=634018.msg8011345#msg8011345 date=1301415513]Believe it or not, the biggest threat to any relationship is the ex, when you keep in touch with them, you will start remembering the good old times and you know one bottle of beer leads to another, next when caught in the act she will start saying its devil's work.[/quote]A trifling man or woman will cheat with anybody not just an ex. So again, Facebook or an ex has nothing to do with the character of the woman you are sleeping with.

misanho:
relationships we have here on nairaland r blind ones, 4 confidentiality and privacy except if u as an individual wants somtin more>>> i dont know u and u dont kw me, we are just airing our opinion and learning 4rm everyone' experience, unlike FB were your contact addy and fone no. is stated, u c pples pixture, friendz and family member, how safe is dat? its a playground 4 serial kilers, rappist, and every ill person on the internet

Well, I hope these women are not meeting dicks off NL. IF they are good luck.

You can ask the resident gay of NL. He knows first hand. 

Yeah, you don't want to know what goes down for real.  It is a bit grimy and shitty.   

And my dick is bigger than yours and keep an eye on your beetches.

All the straight men that like natural look on a woman, please line up in a single file. I want to test out my new toy for a marketing experiment.

I will be gentle.

The fight against the men? Please don't make me laugh Inkie!

fstranger3:
I dont think she knows the meaning of 'null hypothesis.'

For some reason, she is bent on making a fool of herself on the WWW

For some reason, you are bent on making EVERYONE think you like pussy on the WWW.

Hmm. I guess some women should have swallowed.

oritameta:
Very sorry Ma'm. If you wud dare sniff and blow your nose on Gadaffi's shirt an average guy is really at your mercy ooo

Therefore I release you off releasing your wrath on me ooo

Thank you. (blowing a big booger on Jaybee's shirt)

Crude Oil:
and which do you prefer: a dìldo or a vibrator ?

Depending on if I can use it on the men.

Some of them can't speak without the approval of their Boss Dick.

Hotie Tima:
MOST GUY'S HERE FOLLOW EACH OTHER LIKE A TRAIN ON ONE TRACK
IT SEEMS LIKE U GUY'S DON'T HAVE your OWN OPINIONS

WHEN SOME ONE SAY'S SOMETHING BAD U ALL FOLLOW, WHY

THEN WHEN SOMEONE SAY'S SOMETHING GOOD TO SOMEONE U ALL FOLLOW
WHY DON'T U SPEAK your OWN MIND,

BE A MAN AND GROW SOME

ONE THING I LOVE ABOUT CHICKS ON NL STAND UP FOR WAT THE BELIEVE IN
EG, MISS CHIMA, MIZZDARKSHIN, OMOLOLA, GOLDIE

(batting eyes and grinning proudly) Aww. May you live a beautiful and lasting life.

misanho:
@ mrs chima, 1stly i dont fight with anyone who come around her, 2nd as u rytly said female folks are driven emotionally and u knw how emotion is a naughty woman den u come back later 2 say i am so sorry it just happen (it was rainin, we were watchin a movie and a romatic scene just popped and it all happened, lol), dat is if they tell U. u said " if she is hanging around male friendz and there is nothing going on then you shouldn't be threatened" if i may ask hw do d male folks knw there is nothing happenning wen all girls around cant b trusted and we are not sorcererz>>>> wat i am saying is if u dont want 2 be violated, abused, mistreated dont put urself in dat situation dat might lead 2 dat ever happennin, chikina!!!

No matter how well you protect your girl, you will not prevent everything harmful to her. If she stay at home and only hang with you that does not mean she won't be violated, disrespected, mistreated, and abused. Even boyfriends and husbands violates, disrespects, mistreats, and abuses their girlfriends and wives. It is not always the stranger either.

If you can't trust your girl around other people then you may want to throw the fish back in the sea and wait until your pole is strong enough to handle it. (I was referring to the fishing pole nassy mind)

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=634018.msg8010995#msg8010995 date=1301412716]Even the Bible said it, "Resist the devil and he will flee from you". Why trying so hard to get the contacts of your Ex-boyfriends, if it was a coincidence that will be understandable, but searching for them on facebook and exchanging phone numbers is not proper for a married woman[/quote]Is that a law against a woman wanting to converse with her exes?  Exes are not "the devil" and if you can't control YOURSELF then the exes has nothing to do with your lack of control.  An ex can't do no more than what you allow them to do.  If you allow them to disrespect you then that on you.  So if your wife allowing herself to cross that line where she shouldn't cross then the "ex" isn't the problem she is. 

Conversing with an ex is platonic but cheating with an ex is sexual are two different things.

Febup:
Now if this same wife contacting former boyfriends on facebook now starts saying to her husband that women like men with muscles, as the husband is not muscular, should the husband start getting ready for the worst?

I am sure you have said things to your girl or wife that she would find offensive but that don't mean she start expecting the worst.

We need to stop the pettiness and get over ourselves when we are in a two person relationships albeit marriage or dating.

Pennywise:
All relationships start platonically-including one I am having with u rt now

As much as you wants to believe that all relationship starts differently with different expectations.

And just because you start a relationship platoncially does not mean it will elevate to the next stage. It all in the person's desires.

misanho:
women can neva be undastood! y wud she be contacting old lovers? u only kw urself, if dey meet wit u and start wanting somtin from her nko? she wud say men tink with dere dicks, and u started it all.

thats d same problem i av with ma baby, y wud u go 2 a party with your friendz and get drunk? i am wit ma friendz! why wud u agree 2 go 2 an outing with your fathers mate wooing u? i am respecting him! y wud u go nd crash in some1's house whom u are not 2 use 2? ma friendz know i am dere! yyyy? u women keep on putting urself in harms way, i dont gyv a rats backside but i care and i cant stop talkin? den u wud say i am over protective, if i dont talk u wud say i dont care about u dat i am selfish, wetin man go do, we cant do with out dem, just dont gyv 2 many fcuks!!!

Suga, I understand it is in your blood to be protective because of your upbringings and sexuality.  However, to understand a woman you must first understand the females in your family.  Women typically not all can converse with a man without expecting anything in return or even thinking of crossing the line especially if she respects and love her husband.  Women are driven emotionally while men are driven physically.  

As I have stated before that if a woman has no emotional attachment to the man she will not cross that line.  So if she drinking with her friends so be it,  if she hanging around her male friends and there is nothing going on then you shouldn't be threatened or feeling the need to fight everybody that comes around your girl.  That is possessiveness and controlling.  It is not healthy in any relationship and you will push her away eventually.  

Just a friendly warning.

I understand what you are saying however if she is only conversing platonically with her exes then how is she cheating?

Pennywise:
Cheating goes beyond physical intercourse. Some pple talk abt emotional intercourse and regard it as more of a betrayal. If u respect your husband u will give a respectable gap from the one u loved. There can be no amount of trust  meeting in or outside fbk with an ex bf

I love a fresh man.

Once again Facebook has nothing to do with what a woman or a man will do outside their marriage. IF a man or woman wants to cheat they will do it with or without Facebook.

Let say there is no Facebook and the woman wants to rekindle with her ex. She can simple use her mutual contacts to get with the ex then what or who would you blame then?

Exactly.

[quote author=chi-baby link=topic=632719.msg8010559#msg8010559 date=1301408501]U call dat trying?? [/quote]

oritameta:
Is this a chemistry lab or something

You guys are so mean. (sniffling and blowing nose on Gadaffi's shirt) Release me abeg!

Pennywise:
Come on darlin. Its a simple question. Will you have sex with an ex bf in order to get back at your husband? I am asking this question to properly situate the notion of equality in marriage

No, I would not. There are other ways you can get back at your spouse without having to jeopardizing your integrity that if one has it. Going back to what you said, you mentioned that wives are the men's biggest trophies and the reason why you would shoot a man that comes after your wife because you feel disrespected by the man or because you felt threatened?

I am just trying to see why it is a big deal for the wives to be friends with her exes especially if you can trust her.

I sowwy for the lecture.  It is a habit.  I am trying.   

deniyor:
Nope I don't give a sh1t. If you can't stand the Nigerian way or laws, I'm sure there are many other American forums or so for AAs

And you can create your own site too boo boo. LMAO@can't stand the Nigerian way or law 

By the look of the people fleeing Nigeria I guess they couldn't stand the Nigerian way or laws either huh?   


Pennywise?  The question I asked you.

When he never has a fit? I have not seen a man in years that have PMS as much as he do.

I am beginning to question his sexuality.

deniyor:
So we are discussing what applies to Nigeria. Who gives a excreta about what an american Judge thinks.

Apparently you do. It wouldn't be a big deal if you didn't care.

Pennywise:
^^^ Yes b/c I have experienced it and I know where it always lead to. Darlin topic is off the table cos its so not happening. If he was really close to her he will know the kind of man she married.

Gfs remain free as they wish

Aha.  I figured that you have experienced it in the past.  So you don't want your wife befriending her exes because of your past?  Is that fair to her?

deniyor:
Yeah yeah, this is a nigerian website not america.

So?

[quote author=chi-baby link=topic=632719.msg8010340#msg8010340 date=1301406617]Yehh it looks gd on ppl av seen it on (grey n black) but not really tried it out for maself.
Not good with make-up even [/quote]Yes, I like the smoky eye during fancy occassions. There is a way to wear makeup and look natural it about precision and the right make up. The problem with women is that they do not know their skin type and the color type. Believe it or not black women generally have different color type. If you look at most makeup they either come in red, yellow, and brown hue with the actual color foundation. It is a reason for that because the number 4 color foundation will not blend well with the number 8 color foundation.

For example, if your color hue is red and you wear a color foundation that is brown it will not look good on you and therefore you will look plastic. That why when you see women who do not know how to apply make up and know the basics they look caked up and ancient.

Make up in itself is not bad but if you do not need, you can do without. Makeup after a long period time ages the skin and causes skin irritants that even dermatologists can't treat.

He is jobless what do you expect?

Right on with the comment sis.

Pennywise:
A wife is a man's ultimate trophy (it doesnt matter how ugly). If u want to disrespect him there is no better way to do it. A gf is what she is- a friend over whom u have limited right

I am within my right to shoot you if u try to mess with my trophy. The judge will understand

Yeah in Nigeria the judge would understand with the right fees too. But in America, you going to the slammer. They wouldn't care if you bought the wife on a contract. If your wife is friends with her exes and there is nothing going on why would you feel threatened unless you have experienced the same thing in the past relationships.