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Goldieluks:
who is this Mr chima?
smh!!

An irate clone that got his arse tagged on this site from my lashings. I have an idea but I will go with the flow seeing this is an open site.

Pennywise:
Taking this matter a little forward.

What duration will be adequate for the typical lady? Is it 5, 15, 30mins, 1hr? Because sometimes the complain is 'oh you taking too long'! Assuming of course she is very wet and all that and has maybe even come.

Mrs Chima over to you

Before I answer your question, Mr Pennywise. Let me ask you this, do you think you can do all that it take to please your wife or girlfriend in one minute? If you can TRULY say that then I will buy you a mansion. Seriously.

Now the answer to your question is, less than a minute is a challenge seeing that many of you are inexperienced. If you can go over a minute and still ticking I am sure a woman will not complain.

Look at it like this, would you be happy if a woman was sucking your cock less than a minute and say she is done? Exactly

[quote author=Musiwa, link=topic=634417.msg8026443#msg8026443 date=1301591599]if you love the woman, why would been white woman matter .

i think among the yorubas it is an advantage to a yorubaman to marry a white woman
this is a video of a white lady speaking yoruba, and another singing yoruba


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Of_sRHlCk-c

http://www.facebook.com/#!/video/video.php?v=1939604294497&comments

there is nothing wrong marrying a white person[/quote]No one is saying there is something wrong with marrying a white person. Please read the threads thoroughly we are speaking about racism in all forms.

naijangel7:
Maybe but do black men really lash out at black women? I think they'd probably do that if their woman isn't considerate or supportive. I think many men in Africa don't really face any kind of racism but the ones outside Africa might lash out at their woman if she shows no understanding of some of the things they have to endure all because of their race. they may be little things but quite annoying, anyway. I once went shopping in  a European city with a Congolese friend and he kept remarking on how much nicer people were to him because i was with him. He said usually they are impatient or rude to him and don't even look at him when they talk to him sometimes, but everyone was polite on that day and so he said he had come to believe (along with many other people i know) that people are generally nicer to black women than to black men.

You stated that the black men may lash out their women who isn't considerate or supportive.  If I didn't know the black women who are supportive of their men and still get disrespected then I would have said it could be the reason.  However, the theory of the matter is that black women demands more out of their men than other race of women that is the true.  

Most black women will not put up with a man that is doing less than for the reason why there are so many threads bashing Black women as a whole.  If you noticed that if you are less vocal you tend to get less lashing then if you are more vocal you tend to get the attacks.  That is typical for those who are suffering from not being able to meet up to the expectation of what a man should do.  It is easy for a black woman to get away with a lot and I agree however the struggle that black women go through is still prevalent.  We must not ignore that and the black women that are supporting their men and still getting disrespected and mistreated are the STRONGER ONES.

My hat goes out to them.  Bless their hearts.  Somebody have to do it.

naijangel7:
Exactly. Some people who do I.R act like same-race dating is an aberration. That's another kind of racism, if u ask me. My sisters can't imagine dating a white guy ever! And i don't see it as a big deal. every man to his own. It's just who u end up falling for that matters. I still love brothas but just don't feel the same level of attraction to them as to white guys. My bf always says the strongest creature God ever created is the black woman and i tell him black men are even stronger. The world is probably even more unfair to them than to the black woman.

The last line you stated, do you think that could be the reason why so many black men lash out to black women?

I hear Jaybee is a minute man. I do not snitch on my sources.

Should we create medicine for the minute men? Or should we embrace them like we trying to embrace short men?

Ladies! 

I have a question to ask you all and I want you all to be HONEST.


Would you date a minute man?  If you knowingly suspect your man is a minute man would you stay with him regardless and "work" with him?


For those who do not know what a minute man is:

He is a man that can only stay hard for one minute before he releases his white soldiers. 



Disclaimer: All you minute men take heed to the ladies response for it will help you in your relationship if you have one.  If you don't have one yet, work on your disability before torturing a woman.

Where you been wifey?

MRbrownJAY:
^^ that was meant for ivy.

Yeah right! Pull them dukes up! We gon fight!

There are people who are not religious nor spiritual getting married or are married.

Marriage in itself is not the problem it is the people in the marriage that is the problem.

I remembered this thread! And yet these manbitches hollering they love Nigerian women.


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[quote author=tpiah! link=topic=634417.msg8024842#msg8024842 date=1301578760]Why spend all this time trying to force people to endorse your choices when they`re not the ones in your relationship?[/quote]Exactly!  

Some people are looking for validation from others and I have noticed that MOST WHITE women who are in interracial marriages or relationships tend to compare their relationship with BLACK WOMEN and black men.  For some strange reason, they assumed because they have a black man that they have accomplished something but what they do not realize that these same black men they are "proud" of are talking about them behind their backs.  Of course, a black man won't tell you in your face what he really think of you especially if he is telling his hungry family that he is trying to get the cheese.  If you know what I mean.  

They are also saying to their BROTHERS and I have gay friends so they talk too.  White women are easier to control, do not give much mouth, they are more submissive, they are less demanding, and will do anything to keep their marriage afloat in other words put up with the bullshit.  Now if the white women are proud to be considered that then let them but the comparison is a sign of low self esteem and why I can't be like that.

The "hype" about interracial relationship is as old as the Love Machine some of you men and women are sporting.  Some of you need to get laid and obtain a job.  

So again BLACK WOMEN, allow them to flaunt and showboat for it has NOTHING to do with you.  There are black men who are loving themselves and their mothers.  Seek them if you are single and appreciate them if you have one.  It is that simple.  

Do not make others feel better that they crossed the color line it wasn't that difficult in the first place.  Non-black chicks stop seeking validation from OTHER PEOPLE for your relationship and love who you love and be happy.  

Poster asked for honesty and I gave it to her.

OP,

Mz. Darkskin was being nice and listen to her if you are the "shy" type.  

OP,

You have four options:

Surgery
Push Up Bra
Accept your bra size and live your life
Commit Suicide

That goes to show you OP that racism still exist and will until the end of time. As I stated previously there is nothing YOU can do but live your life and be happy with your decision. if you are not happy with your decision then it is something wrong with YOU and not the person who is unhappy with your decision.

Real talk.

I do not know why you are wasting your time, Seriously. Why do you think the others depart?

Exactly.

Yes, I agree. ^^^^^

Yeah, I see the first of the Month is near and that when the nuts come out to play.

Stephen King need to be on this thread. He got some characters he need to refine and maybe poverty won't be an issue for these characters.

Why that nigga got two accounts talking to himself?  He waited all this time to talk that bullshit?  

When possessive men can't get their way or control their women then they start acting like a bleeding manbitch who just had an abortion.  Let them beetch for they can't do a damn thing but type and beg for amnesty.  

And for the "love" of Nigerian women you mofos need to act like you love them rather than compare them with the white tricks you called yourself loving then on the flip side say that all they care about is a blackberry now that you dick is in the blender now you got "love" for the Nigerian women when you and the other niggas don't even hang around your own "people" you got so much love for.  

Really this isn't the forum to show your arse because I will cash a check your arse can't even write.  Ya dig?

bdidi:
This can be a "too close for comfort" kind of situation if it is not properly checked cos pregnancy fit shele and the result could be a child the husband does not even know is not his. U know how many wives have children that don't belong to their husbands. It is the woman and GOD that actually knows who the real father of a child is. So ma peoples that meeting should be checkmated properly. Some women could get carried away easily.

Last time I checked you can't get pregnant by conversing with someone. If that was the case everybody who is able to have children would be pregnant.

tellwisdom:
person wey dey borki my wife before?, i go divorce d woman sharp sharp, no tym

You might as well join the millions that get divorce over the dumbest shit.

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=634018.msg8021399#msg8021399 date=1301530187]Other guys did not come close because your heart is still with your ex-bf, the day you say its over and remove your heart from that past relationship, blve me you will find the right guy for you.

We are talking about ex-boyfriends here and not just ordinary friends

[/quote]Ex boyfriends and girlfriends can be friends. Duh.

[quote author=Bluetooth. link=topic=634018.msg8021036#msg8021036 date=1301525111]we go tru many spheres of life and meet pple and make friends.from schools,churches,social function,official gatherings etc.we meet pple and we like them not for string-attached reasons. daily strangers make significant impacts in our lives.thus,we keep on accumulating friend,good friend,male and female. personally, am not against my wife contacting old friends anywhere so long as it does not keep hidden agendas in the closet.good friend of the past is worth celebrating anyday, married or not married.
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Ladies:

That one is not hurting nor paranoia.