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That is not true, your father married your mother.

If I saw my sister laughing and chasing a guy around that tapped her on the arse. I WILL NOT BE QUESTIONING HER SELF WORTH and I will not accept her husband beating her. SIMPLE AS THAT.

I do not care what you beginning to see.

Yaba Left must have evacuated the building. Hmm.

I pray my seduction on you FAILED MISERABLY.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=606085.msg7795376#msg7795376 date=1298586744]@Mrs.C
Very well.

If she had cussed out the guy I very much doubt that the husband would have assaulted her not unless he was a lunatic. What everybody here agrees is that both of them were wrong in their actions so if you change the woman's action we should also expect the husband to react differently. She was not foolish because her arse was tapped she was foolish because she reacted like if it was ok.[/quote]The bottom line is: who are we to say WHAT A GROWN WOMAN SHOULD HAVE DONE?

I am CERTAIN that YOU wouldn't want ANYONE TO TELL YOU how you should act, think, perform, and speak. 

We do not know what the husband would have done if she didn't laugh nor chase the guy around. It is not our call to make nor we shouldn't be making assumption on hearsay either.
If THAT GROWN ARSE woman want to laugh and chase the guy around THEN she would do so. You guys are missing the key point, which is: She is human. We all may not react the same way that YOU would react that goes for EVERYONE and to judge her worth based on the factors of her laughing and chasing. Barbaric! If I was to dissect every LITTLE THING THAT EACH ONE OF YOU JUDGERS, I will find more shit than the public bathroom TOILETS on ASHAWO ROAD.

How dare you?  Seriously.

What panties?

rokiatu:


[size=3pt]Do not be jealous of your rival[/size]

Girl, I do not find pale men attractive but hey IF THAT YOUR THING! Enjoy!

No thanks. Mr Chima is all I want.

Amina is right about the haitian men are just like African men.  I have several female haitian friends and they always complained about the men being whorish which what I heard about African men.  Now as much as I wanted to say YES, YOU ARE RIGHT.   I told them that not all men are like that but are not TOO MANY FAITHFUL BLACK MEN OUT THERE so you will have to screen and judge individually.

Castrate your balls and others will lead by example.

Homosexuality have plagued Nairaland

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=606085.msg7794198#msg7794198 date=1298572889]@Mrs.C
I guess your response must make some sense to you but I can't seem to reconcile it with what I wrote. I stated quite clearly that the husband was out of line in hitting her so what crime have I encouraged? Are we supposed to applaud the woman for behaving foolishly?

Anyways lemme attribute this episode to hormonal imbalance brought on by pregnancy.[/quote]You can call it however you want to call it. I told you there were no outbursts and if you want to continue to think it was an outburst then so be it. Now, let me dissect everything you said since it is not making any sense to you.

Let me also make it crystal clear NOT ONE TIME I SAID YOU COMMITTED ANY CRIMES NOR SUPPORTED THE MAN. Pay attention: You stated that the woman was foolish because she laughed and chased the guy around, NOW PAY CLOSER ATTENTION: It does not matter if the lady laughed, cried, farted, jumped, ran, roll in dirt, threw her wig to the tigers, and whatever else emotionally she did.

it does not justify the man BEATING HER. The lady only crime were LAUGHING AND CHASING THE GUY AROUND ACCORDING TO THE POSTER. The only thing FOOLISH was the fact that the guy DISRESPECTED HER by tapping on her arse and the husband beating her because she laughed and chased the guy around.

Now, I have SEPARATE QUESTION FOR YOU. Let say supposed the girl was standing by the door waiting on her husband to pick her up and the guy tapped her on the arse. The lady did WHAT EVERYBODY THINK SHE SHOULD HAVE DONE which is cussed the guy out. She is greeted by her husband with rounds of head pounding abuse.

THEN WHAT? IS SHE FOOLISH FOR CUSSING THE GUY OUT? Now, you know that is not making no damn sense.

May Furry Azz violate you.

Why is Dsense being whorish with Kaymoney?

Dsense,

My husband is older than me but TRUST ME we will grow together in age.  I have nothing AGAINST ANYONE THAT like their mate YOUNGER THAN THEM or OLDER THAN THEM.  I want to grow closer in age with my mate and I got what I wanted. 

Now, make sure you don't get an old dried arse woman waiting to change your diaper.

That is you opinion and you right Dsense. You can date 100 years old woman and we wouldn't care. Some of us want to grow older in close proximity in age with our partner. If it works for you, CONGRATULATIONS!

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=606085.msg7794049#msg7794049 date=1298571268]Means you gave me some.
Hope my uncle isn't complaining. [/quote]What done in the dark, SHALL STAY IN THE DARK.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=606085.msg7793925#msg7793925 date=1298569841]@Mrs.C
How does my quoted post relate to what you posted? And why the outburst?[/quote]There is no outburst.  I am simply stating my comments in the style that I prefer.  You stated this:
[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=606085.msg7793686#msg7793686 date=1298566901]@Mrs.C
Of course people will do what they will (inevitable) but they must be ready for the consequences and am not talking of beating, that is out of the question. She can't be in a relationship with another man and expect her husband to be happy about it.

@Ujujoan
It was not right for the man to hit her in public or private. That said, please elaborate on how arse tapping is essential for a woman's self worth and/or individuality.[/quote]and I responded by saying this:
[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=606085.msg7793878#msg7793878 date=1298569338]Under no circumstance the WOMAN SHOULDN'T HAVE BEEN BEATEN SIMPLY BECAUSE a man tapped her on the arse.  If she was seen climbing off the Empire State Building diving directly to a man's kondo that still does not GIVE THE HUSBAND THE RIGHT TO BEAT HER.  That is AN ASSAULT and that should be reported.  People need to take accountability for breaking humanity laws.  If the woman's only crime ACCORDING TO THE POSTER is the fact she laughed and chased the guy around ANY SENSIBLE JUDGE will throw the husband in jail for BRINGING FOOLISHNESS to the courtroom.  

The woman commit no such crime that is justified for an arse whooping.  If laughing at silly poo is a crime ALL OF YOU MOFOS NEED TO BE LOCKED UP.[/quote]There ya go.  Now if that wasn't what you wanted to hear oh well suga.

Once again, I did not SAY ANY NAMES SPECIFICALLY. I said that what happens when "you" not saying it truth in your case, don't comprehend exact. That was for ANYONE WHO DIDN'T COMPREHEND effectively.

Dsense,

Yeah, you got some. Freak.

I am good and wondered what happened to you? You finally got some?

LMAO@doubting some bullshit. Okay.

Hey suga!

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=606085.msg7793686#msg7793686 date=1298566901]@Mrs.C
Of course people will do what they will (inevitable) but they must be ready for the consequences and am not talking of beating, that is out of the question. She can't be in a relationship with another man and expect her husband to be happy about it.

@Ujujoan
It was not right for the man to hit her in public or private. That said, please elaborate on how arse tapping is essential for a woman's self worth and/or individuality.[/quote]Under no circumstance the WOMAN SHOULDN'T HAVE BEEN BEATEN SIMPLY BECAUSE a man tapped her on the arse. If she was seen climbing off the Empire State Building diving directly to a man's kondo that still does not GIVE THE HUSBAND THE RIGHT TO BEAT HER. That is AN ASSAULT and that should be reported. People need to take accountability for breaking humanity laws. If the woman's only crime ACCORDING TO THE POSTER is the fact she laughed and chased the guy around ANY SENSIBLE JUDGE will throw the husband in jail for BRINGING FOOLISHNESS to the courtroom.

The woman commit no such crime that is justified for an arse whooping. If laughing at silly shit is a crime ALL OF YOU MOFOS NEED TO BE LOCKED UP.

Abali1:
Mrs Chima's quote
L. Reed,

I can see your point but if the woman WAS INDEED in another relationship with the man that tapped her arse then what can WE DO ABOUT IT? Beat her? Kill her? Castrate the man's nuts?

The bottom line WE CAN'T CONTROL what grown people WILL DO or want to do. If the married woman doesn't respect her husband and her husband ALLOWS the disrespect then WHAT IS IT TO US?

That the bottom line.

I made a mistake on my last post. I Wanted to say that there was no justification in a man beating the wife.
@Mrs Chima, believe me if you had said the above earlier many guys would have understood. But this arguement has dragged on cos it seems as if you were totally out to condemn the man.
Of they are both adults and can do what they like, and for someone like me it may lead to having affairs outside (two wrongs dont make a rite huh?) or walking out of the marriage (NO BE BY FORCE TO REMAIN IN R/SHIP WITHOUT TRUST).

That what happens when you don't comprehend exact. I have never stated that I THOUGHT it WAS OKAY FOR THE MAN TO TAP THE WOMAN'S ARSE UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCE. I bashed out the man because of HIS CONDUCT that was not JUSTIFIED. Point blank. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCE the man HAD NO RIGHT to beat the woman because ANOTHER MAN TAPPED HIS WIFE ON THE ARSE. Any sensible and KNOWLEDGEABLE man will agree with me.

I have also added that THERE IS SOMETHING ELSE that went on for the man to act a plumb arse fool. I will not accept the fact that the woman got her arse whooped PURELY ON the fact that she laughed and chased the guy around. THERE IS SOMETHING MISSING IN THIS FICTION.

L. Reed,

I can see your point but if the woman WAS INDEED in another relationship with the man that tapped her arse then what can WE DO ABOUT IT? Beat her? Kill her? Castrate the man's nuts?

The bottom line WE CAN'T CONTROL what grown people WILL DO or want to do. If the married woman doesn't respect her husband and her husband ALLOWS the disrespect then WHAT IS IT TO US?

That the bottom line.

Good and invest in hair perfume because according to the MEN they smell funny after being wet.

Go cook you an Oyinbo woman, you crook.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=609419.msg7792998#msg7792998 date=1298560754]aminalib (f). if I marry you, can i bring you to my village? [/quote]Can you find your village?

KAYD007:

If a woman like MRS CHIMA comes at me & dares me to a physical violence, na her BOM BOM i go take break palm kernel.


like i always say,

**with a deep throated voice***

A WOMAN WHO CHOOSES TO WRESTLE WITH A MAN CANNOT AT THE SAME TIME PROTECT
HER PRIVATE PARTS,

MRS CHIMA, hope u av heard?

Unlike you, I do not go around hitting people. BUT I WILL DEFEND MYSELF with any means necessary. Ya heard?

KAYD007:
ok,  i have heard. at least learn to be objective, its part of good reasoning.if u dont,  i might have to report  you to your hubby,  & seek his permission to handle or grab a certain " behind"

Learn to be objective about SUPPORTING A WOMAN BEATER?  Are you on crack or something?

Brite02:
wich supervisor dare tap a married man's wife @ her arse in public? D@t dude must b 1 of a kind. . I'd mk sure he learns sumfin frm wat he's done. Afterall its al abt d job dat's y d wife is laughin @ d incident, rite?
And Wat mks u fink, d supervisor wil nt continue on his unholy act even wen d hubby z nt around?
Dat guy deserves a scene 2 remember. .

You asked what supervisor will tap a married woman on the arse in public. THE SAME GUY THAT TAPPED THE MARRIED WOMAN ON THE ARSE in public according to the ORIGINAL POSTER.

Once again, you have to understand this is a SECOND HAND STORY according to the poster that his FRIEND TOLD. So we are making assumptions and comments based on WHAT WAS EXPOSED on this thread. Do not blame me for making assumptions based on the STORY TOLD. I wasn't there and neither was the poster.

Tingles:
They are either gold diggers or proud and arrogant, I'm yet to meet a girl that is "normal".

Are you normal?