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How romantic.

[quote author=.NET link=topic=794948.msg9465991#msg9465991 date=1320241647]@bolded: Says who? Nigerian men no longer look at age o. In fact, we've observed that the older ones are less demanding and more understanding.

.NET[/quote]Duh! How can a beggar be choosy?

r231:
get her pregnant ASAP and your problem will be over

(looking at r231) Make it work!

She dey hungry.

tom28:
A nigerian girl would appreciate an expensive camera phone or if a guy cant afford that then he could take her out to mr biggs or any of the fast food joints.Now this is what a typical nigerian girl would really love not flowers.Except maybe if the guy wants t get embarrased then he can buy her flowers.now chima u see what i am talking about?

Vicjustice:
Lol , I'm neither a computer scientist nor a web-designer, i'm only helping to promote it on request, having personal connection with the woman who owns the website; you too are invited to find your man there.

No thanks.

pendo89:
yep chima a quickie. Its better than nothing. Men get excited so fast so it will work out.If it was the other way round? no squeakie will do.
lol.

Yes, I know men love quickies! Most women like pre-intimacy because it is usually the time where two are bonding and embracing true intimacy before sexual intercourse but when a man worked long hours his body and mind is on rest the same thing goes for women as well.

Both are naturally jealous of their relationship however men take it another notch.  It is naturally for men because they are hunters and protectors.  It is an alpha male thing that has nothing to do with women however women are jealous in aspect of being alone because another woman may have something the man wants. 

Different reasons but it is natural.  There is a difference between jealousy and possessiveness.  Possessiveness is not natural.

tom28:
nigerian girls now accept flowers?
since when

That's the stereotype yeye fowls perpetrates and believe it or not many "Westerners" do not care for flowers either.

Some Nigerian women care for flowers and some don't. It is not the end of the world yet.

Keep confessing your hurt yeye fowl. You are doing a great job.

OP

The website on your signature is that where you met your wife or that your dating service business?

pendo89:
That is what I call a very good problem. How many men wish their wives were like that.
But as you explained she's idle so bear with her. One day you will wish for such demands and not get them cz she will be demanding rest not sex.
In the meantime try and keep her sexually excited( talk sweet nothings) the whole day so that when you get home you just do a quick one when tired and snore.
good luck

Did you say a quickie? I got my eye on you!

There should be balance in the home for both parties to have a healthy sex life however if the shoe was on the other foot and she was working long hours he too will be bored. So it all about balance and if one is working the other should be considerate about making foolish demands.

nahinbdis:
This is a rather sensitive matter, but my relative inexperience leaves me no choice.

My wife is 32 and I am 29 and we have been married for just over a year. She was a virgin when we got married and I was more or less same. So we are both relatively inexperienced. Our sex life has been like a fairy tale; simply fantastic. The only challenge right now is that she has a higher libido than I do and because she loves the way I do it, she wants it every day.

She has just finished an academic programme and so not currently working. I work in the banking industry and leave home by 5am and return by 9.30pm; and by then am practically worn out and not exactly in the mood for a session of loving. Right now, wifey is quite pissed about this and we have a discussion slated for this evening.

So am wondering what I can do to increase my energy level. I try energy drinks sometimes, but I guess that’s not a very healthy thing to do consistently. Am also wondering how I can best manage this situation, because demanding as she may sometimes be, I don’t want her to change.

Please refer to the bold, you already answered your question.  She is jobless therefore she has more time to act on those intimate desires.  If she was working beside laying at home all day she wouldn't have the need to curb her boredom.  You are working many hours and it is natural for your body to rest. She is being inconsiderate with your well being and because she is bored that you must fulfill with round the clock joy. It is your responsibility to maintain the home as the man (I am sure you guys confirmed the roles in the house beforehand) and making sure things goes accordingly.

If she continue to stress you then I am sure naturally you will seek refuge. (I am not saying you will but let be realistic)

If she was working a full shift, taking care children, keeping the home, running errands and still have the desire to hump everyday and all day.  You better run!  Real talk.

Not surprised and she goes through men like running water.

bravedude:
tpia@ (m)


try not to talk much about sex because you can lose respect and regards from men if you talk more of sex.

that applies when someone who isnt expected to be in that context, talks too much about it.

but for women who are considered experienced pros, they're allowed to discuss s.ex extensively and with no holds barred.

i believe that's how it works.

Good one friend, Love this.


The virgin girl is not expected to talk much about sex since she is inexperience.If a girl said she is a virgin and talk much of sex,without 2nd thought,will tell her Nah!!!!! you lied.

Virgin or not sex in itself is not a sin. It was designed for a greater purpose however humans twisted it into something perverted and demonic.

There is a big difference between sex education and being raunchy with sex talk. People who usually aren't sexually active or having sex on a regular basis make the most noise so take heed to that. However sex in the bedroom is personal but sex education is informative and it has nothing to do with one's character.

Van Vickers.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]No you are not normal. [/color]

OP

In order to love two people you would have spent quite some time with those people. It takes time to get to know someone and develop long lasting love however you could lust two people at the same time.

LMAO@the men mad at Tpia

Hit dog will holler.

[quote author=Da_b¤§§. link=topic=792785.msg9460694#msg9460694 date=1320168372]Miss chima and Bin gbagbo[/quote]May your kini crawl to the nearest pit fire.

rokiatu:
Wifey respect yourself.

If you don't want me anymore just go ahead and say so. I am not in need of a man.

Hisssssss

(clearing throat)

Who wants to be manhandled in bed?

sexkillz:
[color=#000055][size=14pt]Huh? [/size][/color]

Did you just accepted a proposal?