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HISchild:
Humbly, yet very truly (exhorting), "Hell and destruction are never full; so the eyes of man are never satisfied." Prov 27:20. "For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes,
and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.” - 1 Jn 2:16-17. "And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire." -Matt 18:9 (also Matt_5:28)

so my brothas, we pray for GOD's strength to "Let thine eyes look right on, and let thine eyelids look straight before thee." - Pro_4:25

Hmm. He told you something@2bluff

2buff:
You mean "Playette". 

At least we agree that the game is not equal for both and that women who also grope tend to not be looked down on unlike their male counterparts who are often slapped/ cussed out/ shurned in general. According to you, you even called the female gropers "playertresses" (playettes)

Playertress.  Playertress are female version of player.   Female gropers are hoes or groupies.  Big difference suga.    Touching and groping a man is desperate as I stated previously there are much better ways to get a man's attention. Professionals know what i am talking about.

2buff:
You mean "Playette". 

At least we agree that the game is not equal for both and that women who also grope tend to not be looked down on unlike their male counterparts who are often slapped/ cussed out/ shurned in general. According to you, you even called the female gropers "playertresses" (playettes)

Playertress.  Playertress are female version of player.   Female gropers are hoes or groupies.  Big difference suga.    Touching and groping a man is desperate as I stated previously there are much better ways to get a man's attention. Professionals know what i am talking about.

So sad.

2buff:
Meh, it's her toto. she can do whatever she wants with it. 
The hornier I make her, the better TBH. either way it's just not a big deal like women make it

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On another note though, I have always wondered, how a girl u just met can start using style to grope your pecs and biceps (that's right, I know what y'all do when y'all touch us during those "expressive /joke conversations" or "laughs", an equal world would mean a guy can pretty much do the same.

But we all know this ain't an equal world
Groping a bosom as part of laugh would start one kin' yeye drama like that.

Chicks that touch body parts to get their "point' across are novice and need proper training from professionals. There are ways to let a person know that you are interested and some women were taught touching a man is the faster way minus the sexual parts.

Laughing at your corny and dry jokes and touching your pecs are in the "playertress" book and it works like a charm apparently.

As far as men touching women breasts and asses to prove a point is just down right perversion and desperate.

2buff:
I'd appreciate that she found me attractive enough to do that.

Seriously, It's really not a big deal. Some women just LOVE to get agitated over silly and st00pid things.
I WOULD have an issue with her trying to grab/touch my crotch as it would be likely I don't know her like that.

Of course you would say that you are a man. I am sure sensible women wouldn't cause wahala if the man was simply looking and moving on his business but if the man damn near having an orgasm and grabbing his balls as he is gawking then I can see why the women would "bitchfit". Let be realistic here.

How would you like if someone was staring at your crotch because they are human?

Brite02:
DUDE WETIN NAIJA BOYS DO U

[quote author=frank3.16 link=topic=795651.msg9475330#msg9475330 date=1320342884]its very funny that what most ladies and a few men in the house can see is that "he slaped his wife". have u guys wondered how much she must have frustrated him? to me, the OP sounds like a nice guy and does not deserve such a woman. i am on his side because he must have gotten so fustrated to come on this forum to complain.

guy, u can only life once. you have nothing to gain if she kills you. only make sure that u are not to blame for anything or most things. pleeeeeeeese leave her for a month or three weeks. give urself a break. make urself happy and learn to understand that nobody, i mean nobody is worth the stresss especially when they dont deserve it.[/quote]I don't think that it is funny for a man to slap a woman simply because he is frustrated. It wouldn't be fair for the wife to slap her husband because he couldn't perform in bed to her liking so what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

I did not picked side at all and simply responded objectively because again we are only hearing ONE SIDE OF THE STORY so we could only go by what HE SHARED.

Hitting does not solve anything and that's what children do when they can't respond intelligently.

Don't forget to beat your chest suga!_{You are going to rescue her from what?}  It makes you look manly.   

Bliss4Lyfe:
Lloyd Nwagboso

Nice.

If Q was single, what would you do?

You are hoping she is single huh? Keep hoping it shouldn't kill you.

Babe

Can you please direct me to the "player" book that SAFO claimed exist?  

It is sad that you a woman have to teach men how to snag toto.  

You mean before she got married?

Men makes me sick.

Elaborate on the "real" Q

Awww. You miss Q huh?

Looks like you been going down the memory lane. You are okay Jaybee?

OP

You slapping your wife did not change the fact that you are still frustrated and she is still unappreciative according to you. Someone suggested that you give silence treatment but would that keep her from nagging? No.

I know black people do not think counseling and therapy sessions aren't the trend but it definitely help to talk to someone who is experienced and have counseled hundreds of couples. We can give you advices that could help your marriage however the story is one-sided and wife need to be involved in a professional counseling session to hash out the issues between you guys.

If you want to put her out of the house because you are too tired to fight for your marriage then go right ahead but guess what the "new" chick will suffer because you would still be carrying baggage and you will be right back complaining about the new chick.

Marriage in itself isn't the problem, you guys are and figure out how to make it work without being violent and unappreciative toward each other. Don't let the devil win.

Just because Obama and his sidekick looks at the yansh doesn't mean YOU HAVE TO.