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REALITY101:
Do I need to ffuck your mother in the asss for you find answer to the question?

Why are you giving that YEYE FOWL any attention?  That thing has to use a different name to comment and has a homo name calling you a homo.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=761794.msg9168045#msg9168045 date=1316300949]And if I am wrong - I will be the FIRST ONE to open another apology thread to you - I have God digging into my back and thighs when I am wrong, telling me to make amends and I will genuinely prostrate myself to you if I am viewing you wrongly.[/quote]I don't need an apology from you.  I just want you to stop taking things personal.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=761794.msg9168018#msg9168018 date=1316300623]@

Chima

You know what - I just remembered that when MBJ was calling me filthy names you "wanted him to come and sit down next to you" - your side was hurting because you were laughing so hard.

But if another NL even seems to remotely see "a point of view that happens to come from my lips" - you deride them and call them "my cheerleader"

I don't even know what to think of you Chima.  I don't know if you are enemy or Fren-emy - It sounds like you have an issue with me that goes deeper than this thread.

If someone is in support of your thoughts - you speak kindly to them - if they are in support of my thoughts, you seem to go on the attack at that person, call them fake acting and deride them.

If you are having a bad day - can you have it without attacking others?  And if I am wrong and that is not what you are doing - it still appears as though you are.[/quote]LMAO@me cheering MBJ on for calling you a LovePeddler.  

Find a post on the stingy thread ME SUPPORTING MBJ insulting you.  You can't.

Lax75:
Mrs Chima.

Go ahead and insult. What makes you think I would care? Do you really think that highly of yourself that your insults (especially with the way you butcher the English language) would mean anything to me? Wow! You are just a "username" to me for crying out loud sake. I don't even know if you are a man, woman or anything. So why would I even stoop to your level of insulting you when I know NOTHING about you.

Anyways, I will stick to the topic from this point on.

Just like you don't give a bleep neither do I.  You told Shyone that you still call people brothers and sisters even if they insulted you on the same thread she quoted me. That is why I said I haven't insulted you yet. 

You are a walking contradiction. You don't insult people but you just did. Interesting.

LMAO@this THING having an issue with me butchering English language and YET RESPOND to everything I say.

Classic response move.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=761794.msg9167925#msg9167925 date=1316299578]Lax

I have told Chima that many, many, many times before - but I don't think she is listening.  She is pregnant and I think that her emotions are highly charged and I don't even think Chima really knows it.  Chima and I used to bump heads alot a while back but we seemed to be leveling out here recently.  But now - it seems we are at odds again all of a sudden[b]. For no reason - out of the clear blue[/b].

I think if she steps back and reads what she wrote in many, many threads a month from now - she will see it.  I was reading some stuff I wrote on different threads a while back and I thought to myself, "Wow did I say that" - "I need to calm down."

Now - Chima is going to charge me for saying this - and I'm not trying to attack her.  Anyway just because the thread got off - we need to get it back to the topic - it has only been off topic for a small while.[/quote]I have told you many time that YOU ARE OVERLY sensitive and stop thinking just because someone respond to your comments don't take it personal.  

If pregnancy is the reason why women are overly emotional then YOU MUST BE PREGNANT because you was very emotional on the stingy thread.  

I didn't even quote you when I wrote my opinions about appearance and impressions. So I don't know why YOU took it as we are at odds. There are other chatters on the thread beside you.

I have nothing AGAINST you and I am not the only person who thought that you take things too personal. Even you admitted in an apology thread to me that you were overly sensitive.

Lax75:
Jesus Wept!

How does the above translate to cheerleading, Sister Chima? I was just making a general statement about how people handle and react to a difference of opinions here. It's ok for people NOT to agree. Maybe I'm misunderstanding the point that you are trying to make here because I don't get the correlation.

And I keep referring to your emotions, not just because of this thread.

Again WHY YOU STILL PUTTING ON AN OSCAR PERFORMANCE? It doesn't matter whether you got the point or not YOU MADE a judgment and thanks for proving my point.

That was easy.

Trust me I haven't insulted you yet.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=761794.msg9167885#msg9167885 date=1316299197]OK - where did I mention poo and bleep - did you take time to read the book?  I don't really care if a thousand women were called whores - a LovePeddler it doesn't make them.

If I call you a LovePeddler - does it make you a LovePeddler?  NO IT DOESN'T - Why don't you re-read the post that you posted regarding whores - You made some strong statements - most strong statements are accompanied with emotions - that just factual.

Also no one talked about "revealing tops" - you can go to any nightclub and see people in "club clothes" that wear revealing tops - that still doesn't make them a LovePeddler - they are in the right setting to wear "club clothes" is what I call them.

Anyway Chima - just forget it - I am done with the conversation.  I wasn't trying to get into a slinging match with you.  Really.[/quote]You just said you agree with Lax and sensed that I was emotional.  Goodness!  Trust me we wouldn't have been in a slinging match because I have no intention on REPEATING the same thing to 22 pages like the other thread.  

And if you was comprehending anything I said on this thread you would see NOTHING I was in support of men calling women whores because they dress like whores.  I simply said in the men point of view why would a self respected woman dress like a LovePeddler?  Just because a woman isn't a LovePeddler will NOT CHANGE a man point of view of a woman if she dresses or carries herself such as.  

Then your cheerleader went on and on about emotions because I was confused on what the bleep a fat bank account has to do with a man's perception of a woman.  

But of course, you went on a tangent about something else and maybe you are still on the stingy thread and thought you was talking to MBJ and co.  

I am done with this.  Redundancy time waster.

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=761794.msg9167846#msg9167846 date=1316298789]I never did [/quote]I don't care.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=761794.msg9167806#msg9167806 date=1316298341]uuuuhhhhh - I don't what you are talking about C - not sure how to answer - since I don't know exactly what you mean - and also see this is the 2nd time now you are asking about money, don't understand that continuously being brought up either -  

Also - I am reading further in the thread now - I see Lax mentioned emotions - Nothing personal against you at all - but you do sound quite strong on the emotions - I too thought the same way with the "LovePeddler Descriptions Given" - The word "LovePeddler is a strong word" - so let me just back out - we are all just giving thoughts and contributing.

My bad, sorry if I seem to be attacking you - It wasn't personal at you at all - just the analogy with "women being called whores or seen as being a LovePeddler because of their clothing"

In Monroe Louisiana in the summer - a very large number of women wear swimming suits, with high heel shoes and jewlery, makeup and perfume to restaurants to eat - white and black women - rich and poor - it's because of the heat element.  That has been going on for years.  They are not viewed as whores.  That is why I stated that - I was responding to the analogy - not attacking you as a person - I rely on your posts as you know - I've been grateful for your posts.

So let me make myself clear to you on that.  I am just giving my thoughts which are opposite that's all.[/quote]Just because I responded with two words poo AND bleep meaning I was emotional? Wow! You and Lax have a great skill of detecting emotions from posts.  Not.

While you was writing your book, five women wearing a mini skirt and revealing top were called whores.  

My comments about appearance and impressions were the same from the beginning.

Princek12:
some businessperson needs to start opening not only all these fancy supermarkets but also farmers markets, which will be like the traditional market we have, but in a confined space covered by a roof. Selling meat outside without refrigeration has facilitated the spread of so many diseases that the govt has to start regulating these open markets, especially the ones that sell meat and poultry, etc.

I agree. When I went to an African market in an African country the woman was trying to sell me meat with mosquitos having a fiesta over it.

I wasn't that hungry for no meat.

Did you?

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=761794.msg9167687#msg9167687 date=1316297234]May God punish your big Bottom [/quote]May God take your Internet connection again.

Lax75:
Sister Chima!

Why?

Why the theatrics? Sister Shy-one was talking about NIGERIA and NOT AMERICA when I replied to her posting. And that is why I say I was talking about this issue it pertains to NIGERIA.

Anyways, all good. Noone has to agree with anyone here.

Why are YOU putting on an Oscar performance then?  You are the one cheerleading about people doesn't have to agree when NO ONE SAID anything about people should agree. 

It isn't that serious.

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=761896.msg9167215#msg9167215 date=1316292424]^beauty is subjective.

not everyone places value on the same things.

most men do not think like women. That's why they're men and not women.[/quote]Okay and that why men keep chasing beautiful women and putting up with them until they are tired of them.

Yay! You finally got Internet connection.

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=761794.msg9167635#msg9167635 date=1316296697] [/quote]

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=761794.msg9167564#msg9167564 date=1316296077]1. Is the thread still about runs girls?

2. Does anyone know why reality is so bitter towards the women who raised him, or is he demonstrating the early signs of mental problems.[/quote]No, the thread have shifted from the run girls hours ago and this negro keep trying to tell me to stay on topic.

Lax75:
Sister Chima!

Yes to the bolded!

Please take your own advice. And yes, I said it. Emotions. When anyone disagrees with Mrs. Chima dialogues get filled with "pleep" this and "poo" that in an attempt to get your point across. That's why I refer to what you told Sister Shy-one earlier (re: it's not that serious)

You should follow by example. Practice what you preach. According to you, someone is emotional when they say shit and Bleep. Keep playing cheerleader.

I don't need Shyone or anyone else to agree with me. Agreements doesn't add value to my opinions.

REALITY101:
Good to know they now have a million naira pusssy in Nigeria. About time I ship some sexy hot AA and Hispanic chicks to Nigeria. If those dirty fat ugly big belle girls in Nigeria get fuccked for a whooping $10,000 then my girls are gonna go for $50,000 each X 10 of them let's say $50K each daily. . Homie that some lucrative investment. . Tax free.

SMH. I hope the government tax your arse too!

Lax75:
Sorry to disappoint you. I don't play ping pong. I thought you told Sister Shy-one that it's not that serious? Why the emotions? It's simply a difference of opinion and that's that.

Did I say she shouldn't express her opinions?  No.  Comprehend.  I said it isn't that serious to the lack of understanding post. 

Emotions?  Get real.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=761794.msg9167448#msg9167448 date=1316295018]you added money to the point - you called them whores - remember?[/quote]Are you serious?  You mentioned just because a woman dresses such doesn't mean she a LovePeddler and I commented about appearance and first impressions.  

You just said because a woman wear a mini skirt and show her legs doesn't mean she isn't a LovePeddler.  So now it is about money?

Lax75:
This is false. You should refer to the topic since you were trying to make a point that counters the point that I was trying to make.

Once again, you should re-read my post and "comprehend." Reducing the "BOYS" was not the intention of the point I was trying to make. How about the women I talked about that also join the labelling of such women? I was talking about how hypocritical and judgemental OUR people can be.

It should help if you take your own advice.  You keep saying refer to the topic and I am referring to the topic even with different poo is thrown in it that has NOTHING to do with Nigeria. 

Anyway, keep playing ping pong with yourself. Unlike the stingy thread, redundancy is time waster.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=761794.msg9167463#msg9167463 date=1316295164]@ Mrs. C

If it went over my head - what were you trying to say?  Let me stand back - did I misunderstand - I also try to read the "Unstated Implications"

The post seemed as though you were saying how you initially present yourself can get a person labeled as a LovePeddler.  Did I not understand?  My apologies to you if I seemed to take it the wrong way.

Did I not understand you?[/quote]I don't know what you was thinking when you read my post but it isn't that serious.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=761794.msg9167438#msg9167438 date=1316294936]ahahahahahah

also - Mrs. C - let's not confuse dancing joyously in church with what Brother Franklin does, ok?

Brother Franklin - does a running tuck and j;umps up some feet in the air into a forward roll landing on the ground  - gymnastics style in front of a long line of people who are trying to make it to the offering plate to give their offering.

I will definitely move on if my man - starts acting like he is in "Barnum and Bailey" Circus while we are in Church - that isn't a judgment call - that is a Personal Choice I Need To Make for my Life and for my level of comfort.

Neither one of us were doing gymnastics when we met - and I sure as heck don't want you pulling that on me while we are in Church.  If he wants to do all that - he can go and get with someone who enjoys that type of grandstanding in front of crowds.

Again - I am out spoken on line and on a phone - but in an assembly and out in person - you will see that I identify very well with my online username "Shy One" - I will run in the other direction or fade into the crowd very quickly.

But I am not judging anyone that wants to act in that manner - I just choose to separate myself from that type of presentation.  Let's not confuse the two.[/quote]You are all over the place chile.  Its not okay for someone to judge a person by how they dress and chooses to treat them how they are judged  but you would separate yourself from someone that running in the church praising the Lord?  Hmmm.  

Confusion is a mofo.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=761794.msg9167404#msg9167404 date=1316294544]Their fat bank accounts didn't reflect the holes in their clothes - they looked poor but were millionaires.  I agree everything isn't about money - it seems like you didn't understand the example.  Sorry it went over your head.  I'll try next time to express myself better.[/quote]I am sorry my point of dress codes and impressions went over your head as well.  I will try to add money to the point next time.

Lax75:
Please refer to "topic." We are talking about NIGERIA here, NOT America. So I will talk about the topic as it pertains to Nigeria.

My intention of stating that I don't care was NOT to reduce the BOYS that are calling women who dress like whores, WHORES. Not sure where this "inference" came from. If you read my post and understood it, you will observe that I am implying that these BOYS are judgemental.

I don't need to refer to the topic because the topic has already been derailed with other poo thrown in the mix. 

Again, your opinion about you not giving a Bleep isn't stopping the women from being called whores.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=761794.msg9167340#msg9167340 date=1316293943]And YOU ARE CORRECT

And the end result is that "their impression was WRONG TOO"[/quote]In that case, you was wrong about Brother Franklin and even stated that if your guy were to demonstrate such behavior (dancing joyous in church) you would leave him. 

What you said was no different than what the boys have said about you on the other thread.  According to YOU, you and the other guys were wrong. 

I am sorry what does fat bank accounts have to do with dress codes?    Everything isn't about money.

Lax75:
Nigeria is an extremely pretentious society where its all about "appearance." You will find some of the biggest whores in church, yet they don't wear micro-minis and dress like nuns.

Personally, I don't see nothing wrong with a woman dressing to flaunt her "stuff." It's her body. However, I don't really care for those that appear to be desperate for attention and do it to the point where its crying out, "look at me!" I'm more turned on by a woman that dresses in such a way that she is sexy, but only leaves abit to the eye as a "tease" but leaves the rest for the imagination.

But hey, that's me. And one man's treasure is another man's trash. Our people can be so darn judgemental and superficial. Yet behind closed doors they are into all sorts of mess, even more sinful than you imagine. The same ones that are quick to call a chick a LovePeddler because of how she dresses, etc, could be the same ones who kidnap and use body parts for rituals. And don't assume that it's just the men that would call these "risky dressers" whores. The women do it too. As much as the men. Same women who will be quick to judge another woman because of what she wears would be the same woman who is married and plugging her woli's brains out behind closed doors.

Bloody unbelievable!

Nigeria isn't the only country that think women wearing mini skirts and dressing whorish are whores.  lets not make it just about Nigeria because America has it bad too.  

The fact that YOU don't care if a woman wearing a mini skirt doesn't reduce the BOYS that are calling women who dress like whores, WHORES.

merge:
I don't entirely agree. Of course there are always women that don't want to work,  want fast money, and greedy individuals.

I am sorry what does this have to do with those women who place value on their body, mind, soul, and personality?

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=761794.msg9167247#msg9167247 date=1316292832]FIRST IMPRESSIONS?  This isn't a JOB INTERVIEW.[/quote]Too bad you disagree.  You was quite upset when MBJ and a few others said your posts on the stingy thread demonstrated an ashyho.  My point was proved on the stingy thread.  

You wasn't conducting a job interview.  First impressions doesn't always mean when someone see you for the first time.  It also mean the first impression they have of you when they see you or hear of you.

promire2004:
yeah, Mrs Chima, i agree with you to a large extent. But not all men would dump their wives for someone else simply because they realized how ugly she is. I believe that when the love exising between the couples is real, the man would stay with his wifey no matter the situation, for better for worse!!!!

Comprehension is important. Let me repeat. An honest man will tell you that he prefer a beautiful woman over an ugly woman with perfect manners until it becomes unbearable that he will get another woman (beautiful woman) to replace the first one.

I mention nothing about replacing because of looks but whatever it is that unbearable to him.

Appearance and behavior are the first impressions.  We all have judged people by their appearance and behavior.  Lets not get on the hide horse.  

If she dresses like a LovePeddler, a man will see her as a LovePeddler.  She doesn't need to sell toto to be a LovePeddler when it comes to visualization in a man's eyes.  Why would a self respected woman dress in a manner that give off the impression she is a LovePeddler?  That's contradiction.

Women today try too hard to attract or please a man that she will belittle herself even in appearance to attract or please that man ie dress whorish.  Sexy doesn't have to be trashy.  

The worse thing a woman can do is place VALUE on her body, mind, soul, and personality.  However if men are continuing to support the industry with toto purchases I don't see why whores wouldn't take advantage of it.  Its their bodies and they should accept whatever comes with it even death.  Real talk.