₦airaland Forum

MsDarkSkin:
yeah. 190 mr.cork does have a healthy sense of humor! 

Where is the REAL Mr. Cork?  They caught him scamming?

Don't you remember one of the posts made by Donlittle, he was talking about how the moniker Mr. Cork would log on and off while the other moniker 1-- will log back on.

I wondered what Donlittle was doing that day to even have the time to "research" the monikers changes. Hmm. Its amazing what jOBLESSNESS can do for somebody.

Somebody is going to hell.

The only person who owns the woman is the woman herself.

Slavery days is over.

The girl. It was a gift.

Somebody is lying.

(walking off the thread laughing at "cooking and hot bod")

Lax75:
Sis,

You're the craziest!

But true-true.

Mr. Chima tell me that all the time but he ain't stopped asking for no nooky either.

Aww. I will miss you in the States, Lax!

Lax75:
But Sis.

This is impossible.

She is in naija. Where these shelters aren't readily available. Sad thing is that the culture would encourage women like this to move back in and beg their husbands, if they ever run away from home. Especially in the Yoruba culture.

I don't know, I can only pray for her. Situation is REALLY bad. Her husband "flaunts" his mistress in her face and he has even built his mistress a N50 million house. He has 10 cars and yet she has to take a taxi to work.

Oh!  I take back everything I said and SAY SHE poo OF LUCK!    NO OFFENSE!

I can feel MBJ writing a dissertation!

Lax suga.

There is a difference between dumb hoes, smart hoes, and women with self respect.

A woman with self respect will simply look for substance while a dumb hoe will settle for wet spots on the sheets.

Lax75:
Sister Chima.

Maybe you can talk to this woman I know. Her husband almost killed her last year, in addition to keeping a mistress for about 10 years, AND getting the mistress pregnant. He put her (wife) in a coma after beating the "b'Jesus" out of her. I personally have been mad at her for MOVING BACK INTO THAT HOUSE, but she says she does it for her children. My response is what use will she be to the kids if she is DEAD from this man's @ss whoopins

She is not doing it for the children. She is a battered woman. She is suffering what my colleagues would say, "Battered Woman Syndrome" and it is not so much she like getting her arse whooped it so much that the man brainwashed her so bad that she feels without him she is nothing.

That's what happens when women INVEST so much time into a relationship 100% without allowing the man to put his share in the relationship as well. When I say share meaning not just financially but physically, mentally, spiritually, socially, romantically, emotionally and all other "ally".

She need to be in a battered woman shelter where she will receive counseling and treatment. Yes, I said treatment and i am not talking about medically treatment but therapy related treatment where she will learn to trust HERSELF and LOVE HERSELF.

She doesn't love herself right now and using the children as a reason to be foolish. I strongly advocate the STATES to pass a law that women and men who are in a physically abusive relationship be held for child endangerment and neglect.

She needs to learn it isn't just HER that is being abused her children is affected by it. I feel sorry for those boys who will unfortunately grow up to be just like their father if they do not receive help and the girls who will learn to value her self by the amount of beatings she receive from a man.

Take some boric acid, borax and mix it with juice. You will sleep just fine.

LMAO@chicks dropping thongs at the sound of I love you

You have to be mighty desperate if that shit work for you.

MRbrownJAY:
oh yeah, sadly, i blame SOCIETY and RELIGION for this craze. so many are in abusive r/ship and people will tell them to "pray". any marital issues they will go and talk with their pastor, who in return, will be against divorce whatever the problem is.

I am not a big fan of nilly willy divorces however if the woman life is in danger I don't see why she would stay in the marriage knowing damn well she could die any time.

A man is not to put his hand on a woman and vice versa. If a woman has to sleep with one eye open while holding a plastic fork then she need to pack her bags and GO.

Maybe separation from each other while BOTH GET HELP, TREATMENT, SHOT, AND WHATEVER before coming back together. If one is not willing to take the step for improvement then they might as well skip on down to the court house. Because if they remain married somebody going to be D.E.A.D.

Yanno Sis!

Sis!

Did you tell OP he was hot?

Lax75:
Sister Chima!

Why the assumption??

Lax doesn't eat pork.

Well damn Lax! You kept mentioning pork chops and I was wondering if you was cooking pork chops.

My bad! SAFO, you cooking pork chops smothered in gravy with onions, garlic, and olive oil?

Lax

Do you like your pork chops smothered in some gravy with onions, garlic, and olive oil?

Most people who aren't used to being alone or afraid to be alone will rather stay in an unhappy relationship then be by themselves in peace.

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=760163.msg9156385#msg9156385 date=1316135258]Sure and thats why u get to know many different men to see whats the best for u out there.



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Did you find Mr. Potato yet? [/quote]

debosky:
Agreed - if most people agreed they were simply expressing a point of view and not the absolute truth, we'd have fewer arguments.

Okay. The other chicks were interested in the arguments not me.

Different things work for different men.

There is no such thing as ONE SIZE FITS ALL.