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(hugs Mz Dark) What you woosahin me for heffa?

Excuse you, SOME OF US can type fast and it only took me five minutes to authored my essays. *rolling eyes*

Hisssssssssssssssssssss

[size=33pt]Disclaimer: Please read thoroughly BEFORE commenting because some of you all are not reading in ENTIRETY.[/size]

I do not understand why SOME of you all are upset about the comments or responses on this thread. The poster voluntarily logged into this site and created a thread talking about her marriage with a Nigerian man. There are some inconsistencies to her story however that her story. I have stated multiple times it not about the GUY whom she married (kisses teeth) but the innocent children that are involved.

The children are still young and any instability will tarnish the children's ability to have a healthy experience. NO children should be subjected to any "bucket list adventures". It is the PARENT'S sole responsibility to uplift and to uphold the children well being. Once again, I have completely REMOVED THE GUY in question from this equation and focus on the real deal here. Children.

The poster stated that she took out a loan to fly to Africa and the guy is not working. Now from what I was told by the MEN on this site that a man especially African men will provide and support his family. The poster, a woman shouldn't have taken any loans. The financial support rest on the HUSBAND and not the wife. Remember this is what I WAS TOLD by the men on this site. If you do not like it you need to talk to them. I am just an American remember?

The poster stated that she was not sure and that she heard that Nigeria was dangerous. A few chatters stated that it was and she needed to be careful these were comments from NIGERIANS not akata.

She stated that she was divorced this year and married this year. THIS IS A RED SHIT I was referring to. I have never been divorce and by the Grace of God I will not ever be. Any person in the professional field of Psychology, Women's Wellness, and even Child Protective Services will tell you that is not normal especially when CHILDREN are involved. If she married a Russian, Chinese, or German my statement still remains the same.

God forbid that she loses her job and unable to support HER CHILDREN. The husband does not have a job and unable to support her. What then? She took out a loan which is additional debt and children are expensive as hell. I have millions of nieces and nephews so I know. It may very well be the man doesn't want any more children. I guess he that "rare few" that is okay with one child. (curling lips upward)

I have stated this many time PEOPLE RUSHES INTO THINGS without planning and getting to know ONE ANOTHER. Spend time with people and get to know them before MAKING LIFE CHANGING DECISIONS and when children are involve the PARENT is no longer first.

A wise woman once said "It is no fun when the rabbit got the gun".

Hey Mygoldie! I was working and now I am taking break. Now, where clubs should I go so I can increase my groupies!!!!!

Maybe I should go to the club tonight. I need to increase my groupies. What club should I go to in Lagos?

I know Jaybee better listen to me.

He is right. He is two foot tall.

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=579181.msg7460932#msg7460932 date=1294160673]I would seriously bite you if you refuse to pack your[b] jagbajantis[/b] [/quote]What is that?

What?

Bite me.

Would you be my groupie?

Vomits

Of course Inkie, the two products are different but I just wanted to know if you knew about the other product that people saying will improve the baby's ability to read.

I agree with you when I saw that I was like yeah right. I know some babies can be gifted but NOT EVERYBODY BABIES are gifted.

Excuse you, Jaybee will not be helping ANYONE find a girlfriend.

[quote author=Area_boy link=topic=579181.msg7460744#msg7460744 date=1294159266]@ op, send her to school?  [/quote]See if I had said that yall would have called me mean. But, I was thinking that trying to be less harsh this year. Gon be hard but I am trying.

Have you seen the "My baby can read" informericals?@Inkie I think they lying.

Uh huh. Yeah, you like them thick.

Teach her

*subscribing*

Dsense! Come here now!

Hmm mmm. Precisely. what gave it away when the poster said " I am not sure". I do not want to derail the threads so I won't be quoting Aristotle. But, you feel what I am going with that.

Cross the street Inkie. Don't fall for the trap. I think I smell red shit.

Don't you just hate that Yorke? When chicks just order a salad and you know damn well they starving!

I tell women that all the time. If you dating a guy who worrying about money then maybe you need to get another dude who into you and doesn't care about the money. Then again I tell them to be reasonable too do not order whatever just because.

So I hear you on that Yorke,

Yorke,


Are you still mad at me and Furry Az?

Ayettty,

Tell Platti I am mad at her. I am doing wonderful and the honeymoon was uhmm (smiling). Well, a lot of things have happened since you been gone and the Mister is waiting on a little belle boy. You gon be an aunt soon.

I still say I smell red shit. Something don't sound right to me and when something don't sound right it ain't right.

johnterry1:
Madam eve,u are becoming a pest to everyone on nl.go spend time wit your husband

You becoming an asshole go clean up behind yourself and spend time with searching for a job.

(dodging blows and punches) (holding on my braids)

What the Bleep you mean he a changed man Furry Az? Don't make me pull out my can of whoop arse on you!

Now Poster,

Here an advice when dealing with black women know that we all are like 57 heinz and deal with each one on a case by case basis.

Excuse you, Mr Jaybee. (rolling eyes)

Shyone, Sure thang!