wany:

my dear,calabar is an ok town no doubt i come from there,most guys are really exagerating.the truth is ,its a place for fun,when your money finish you waka,but to think you can hustle and make it in calabar forget it,cost of living is not different from portharcourt,accomodation is even higher than port harcourt.the people are no much different from ghanians,is just all about haveing fun with your cash.enough groove.and the people are not hustlers they take life one day at a time,and don't really travel far.if you wan groove go get it.but business i can't say.

Wany?
Thanks for that! I was wondering if the city was somewhere in Hawaii (no offence meant) or something. Ok, yeah, Calabar must be great but the kudos where reeeeally going wild? I was beginning to really think I ought to relocate!

Love my job? I hated my bank job for six months - then I quit - and went to sit at home. For two months.

That was probably the scariest time of my life of my life (kids, do not try this at all! )

Now, I have a job that is near perfect. It fits practically all the criteria I had for my dream job. And more!

So much for the theory that guys are made of stone and babes of butter.
I personally believe that guys have much deeper emotions that girls do, and when it's over, you guys (girls) sure move along much faster__

__ at least for naija!

PS: I hate feelin wot am feelin. I promise me neva to feel dis again!

bebe2007:

@poster

i like your post. Its really true: sharp guy and sharp babe =FLING Its a summary of a long story. I like it!!! the truth is you got caught up!!! poor you! so how you wan take get this babe back now? the girl must be really good o!!!

She was a'ight. But I guess I over-estimated my ability to stay unemotional. She's moved on and I'm moving on.

@Busta

thanx for comin to ma rescue, ma sista!

Floomer99:

, Better yet go to a non-microsoft OS.

It's not that bad. Really, I think Microsoft's best OS so far is still Windows XP Media Edition. However, they outdid themselves with Vista's Windows Explorer. Still, I'd rather have Windows than LINUX or Mac

Babe, get real. The guy doesn't think u are "just friends". He wants mo' but he's either foolin' himself that he's in control of his emotions or he's just too chicken to ask for it (he probably thinks he aint got a chance - considering the other guys u gist with on the phone)

What should u do? Simple. Be kind to a brova. If u really don't want to go further, cut him loose now. Completely. He can't handle the "just friends" thingy and you'll only hurt him more by holding on. However, if u think u like him enuff, c'mon__ Give the brova a chance, please?

chychy:

i'd say i'm impulsive, romantic and just live for the moment and of course very creative

i'm the type that will kiss a guy because i just feel like regardless of where i am, not because i want to show off but because kissing him just appealed to me at that moment.

I'm the type that will hold hands, kiss him while he sleeps, give him a massge, listen to him and the works but i'm very independent and not needy.

Chychy, Daaaaarling!
U sound like my i-deal!

Me. I'm protective but not crowding. As a matter of fact, a previous girlfriend once told me she'd need me to be a lil' jealous so she can be sure I cared. But I do care. In many, many, many ways.

Seun:

What gives you the impression that we have many good screenwriters?
The best we have is what you're seeing on screen, as far as I know. See?

Believe me. I know for certain that we can do much better than the stuff we see, especially on African Magic! We have produced some stuff before, if only occasionally. If u consider the writers of the old Checkmate (that made RMD so popular), as well as the fact that Nigeria has produced some great novelists and storywriters in the past few decades, am sure we can come out with a grade A blockbuster.

Preferably not some "action" movie, though!

FactorChic:

lame post!

No vex

I'm sure we all know the nigerian movie industry is like the 3rd largest in the world. It's not totally unmerited. We have great actors, and other good aspects (can't think of too many right now, sadly )
So wots d problem? Why is it difficult for any intelligent young person to sit down to enjoy a Nollywood production and actually get up with genuine satisfaction at a story well told? Two things: Daft story lines and rushed production.
We may not be able to do much about the second point but I know for a fact that we have extremely good script writers amongst us. So puleeze! You guys should bl**dy come up with some good stories and start sendin em to Nollywood@Alaba.come!

1. Sharp guy + Dumb girl = one nite stand
2. Sharp girl + Dumb guy = marriage
3. Dumb guy + Dumb girl = baby
4. Sharp guy + Sharp girl = affair

I did the last option. Now the affair is over, but damn! I feel like taking option 2!

I'm a Crab and like someone described moi. When it comes to love, we chill, we seem inactive, harmless, almost dead, but move near, get close enuff, then we strike! We seize ur heart and cling on. You won't, you can't escape the grip. But it's ok, it's fun being loved by a Cancer, believe me, I know (I've loved and been loved by one- heck I'm one)

Matured26:

Get to interview stage first now

My guy, I av d interview tomorrow and am about resuming smwia else (multinational too) on monday. how much does coca cola pay. Answer me now!!!

I dunno wot ur experience has been like but i seriously wonder wot dem windows boys had in mind when they were comin up with Vista. They removed all the fun tweaks Xp had, u got to authorise ridiculous things like copying to an external h/disk, and i can't install my favourite games (tombraider, chess, etc)

The only thing I'll give it up to them for is_ windows explorer. it's much more robust, i av to say. but pls! wot are they tryin to do? capture linux users and get rid of windows loyalists? i mean they outrightly copied some stuff from apple and redhat!

Anyways in spite of it all, am annoyingly gettin used to d features in explorer.

how abt u guys?

crusader:

is there any one with the cancer star sign in the house, betterstill the 23rd da of June, the amazing middle of the year month, just wanted u too know that, if u belong to that day and u ove football, then u are blessed, cause Zizou, the greatest footballer of them all was born on this day.

@crusader
cancer hia. July baby. Not into football but if u wanna join me for a nice movie, all I can say is, you're welcome

I can draw. But beta still, am quite handy with pc tools. So wheneva (& whoeva) u r ready 2 get started, Kindly gimme a holla!


PS: Am really gettin tired of d jabbering back & forth, guys lets just bl**die get sumfin started!

@iice
Point II doesn't mean a girl's mind can't be changed. You just won't make a girl fall for you by telling her you are the best thing that happened to the female gender (well maybe if you use that line, it might work). Her emotions are not to be reasoned with, duh!



PS: On Point I: to all the "nice guys" out there, Sorriiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiieeeee!

It's nice to watch u guys jabber on back n forth but I'd really like to get something started soon. So, If/when anyone is ready to kick something off, I'm down with the team. Contact me via y.msgr or nairaland.

I am a computer graphics artist who has put his dream of starting Nigeria's Pixar on hold, Thanks to hunger pangs. I still have my skills and I am willing to put them to use, if I have dreamers like me to work with,

Ps: I just resigned from a bank out of boredom, but I'm about taking up anotha job (what can I say, I'm hot) so pleeeeease guys, catch me b4 my dreams go up in flames!

June 38th here!

Good question!