na2day?:

oh the power of deception and delusion 

na2day?:

u willfully missed the part she was not into him until he went "abroad"

na2day?:

and by the way, who let u back on NL?  

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
oh lawd!!!! lady,what do these so called bad guys want from you? sex!!! so keep your damn legs closed until you are 150% sure that they are who they claim to be. . . . . even if it takes 6months.

look within yourself and ask: what is it about me that attracts all these no good men?

contrary to what everyone here might tell you, YOU are the problem.
here is a clue: if a woman dont try to discover the man she is with before going to sleep with him AND THEN realize later that he is married/in a relationship then she is to blame for allowing that guy to play her like this.
the first time a man used you, you should have learned from your mistakes and step up your game.

i think that the problem is: since you are "dying of boredom, feel sorry for yourself and very sad", you will just jump into any fools arms just because you are desperate.

here is my advise to you:
- close your legs for the first 6 months of meeting a guy. men usually dont cherish/respect something hat they got easily so stay away from any sexual relationship before you are sure he is the right guy. any sex before 6 months is a FAIL! if he cant wait then he is not right for you.

- get to know him. you give yourself to "strangers" and then complain later that they are the way they are.? get to know the guys you date. dont be emotionally cheap! discover them, talk, ask questions etc let them focus on YOU not the booty.

- go to his house. thats where it all starts. if you havent been to your mans house then he is hiding something from you there.

- invite yourself in his house at 3am in the morning. only a man who has something to hide or who has lady friends over sometimes will be mad at you for coming to his house uninvited.

- check his phone. a person who has nothing to hide will gladly hand over his phone to you.

- know his friends and family. if you never met his parents, real friends then you are not his woman. yes people will tell you that it will take time to meet them and thats when you tell him that he will take an equal amount of time for him to "get down" with you.

men would tell you that you have to trust them but trust has to be earned so therefore dont trust any man until you are 150% that he is THE ONE. raise your standards!

but remember that even with all this things checked, it doesnt mean that a man will stay faithful all his life so you have to remember that relationships are a constant struggle to be on top of your game, the day you slip, someone will be there to take your place in his eyes, mind and bed!

ps: some would say that these are drastic measures but in the posters shoes, drastic measures have to be taken before she "join the other side" LOL. ******become a lesbian******

follypimpi:

Lust is good nothin do u !!! back @ u 

follypimpi:


U digged the pic on a website or google didnt you ??

4 Play:

These Naija women haven't got a prayer. They are not appreciated by their Naija men and Naija women are not exactly hot cakes in the eyes of white men.

Ebonyeyes:

My dear its unbelievable. They can continue to be white-worshipers, Black females dont need self-hating bastewards like them.

Ebonyeyes:

Some Networks are in talks with some of the ladies about reality shows. This is incredible the moral of the story is feck a Married billionaire, wreck his marriage, get paid to do interviews and get a reality show to boot? That takes whoring to new heights. They are now celebrities in their own rights.

minute:

What do you mean allow?

You cant control someone else's action,only your own.

You should be asking "Why Do Women Stay With Men Who Cheat?"

aus1234:

Men be mantured, We shd tried to change our mentality of old and be in tuned with the present reality.

Men has to changed their mental atitude of c a woman as anoda propertyacquired. They deserved our respect and value. The society is not also helping, if a man cheats, is one of those things; but 4 a woman hell loose,

dinachi:

Isn't this a popular pitch for those Girls who like doing it with girls(lesbians). First, they try to paint men as irresponsible, insensitive, wicked etc. then they now present themselves as viable alternatives.The truth is women now brainwash fellow women to sleep with them and this topic is one of those such scams. please my dear sisters( i mean those who are still normal) don't be carried away. Don' fall for the scam. As for the asshole that initiated this topic: even lesbians cheat on each other sometimes. And to take it futher don't women cheat on men too?

ferdiii:

@ Ms Diva, so men go for what they need.No qalms!

Pweety4me:

_{Lolz. . .well it's cool if ya'll don't believe me i can't force u 2. . .}

Pweety4me:

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~Sauron~:

Pweety4me ko, Ugly4me ni.
I will give you $500 if you are prettier than Rebellious' toe-nails.

~Sauron~:

YOUR eyeballs.

Pweety4me:

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