In malaysia, The boyz will go drink drink drink drink and go and dance and they will touch the girls boobs and ass unless if mama Ngozi vex than they no go touch em

Mama Ngozi in Malaysia
wahala dey

abeg, im comin to singapore soon
do they touch and touch in city of singapore too?
tht will be fun o

debosky:

Personally I don’t like the wall standing moves though - I (used to) go to clubs to dance and have fun, not to ‘pick up’. If you want to dance we’ll dance, if I start up a convo then all well and good.

Finally not all naija guys are the same - most are just too willing to act like the others around them.

No wonder you always go home empty-handed.
Wall standing is the best method of nailing a woman. . . . .cos you will be fresh, you will appear more calm and with the right words, it's a sure banker.

~Sauron~:

No wonder you always go home empty-handed.
Wall standing is the best method of nailing a woman. . . . .cos you will be fresh, you will appear more calm and with the right words, it's a sure banker.

U r highly mouthed, there is wall standing and there is WALL STANDING with swagger . It's over-excited guys that start forming MJ in the club,
U stay calm,make a move and AFTER FLOWING if she's wants to dance or she says 'That's my tuneee!', you get sharp and get free whining , SIMPLES!!(apologies to meerkat.com)

They mostly go after the rejected 'out-of-shape' white girls, just to know how a white lady is in bed.

Eazy Visa. . .

I go to the club to dance not to chat with some tipsy stranger. So all you "wall standers" better start grooving lol

^^ unfortunately/fortunately sum girls go to the club for other reasons, our job is to sieve them out

mi6girl:

They mostly go after the rejected 'out-of-shape' white girls, just to know how a white lady is in bed.

That may do for some naija guys, but I'd rather dance alone than pick an unattractive female - I'm not desperate.

~Sauron~:

No wonder you always go home empty-handed.
Wall standing is the best method of nailing a woman. . . . .cos you will be fresh, you will appear more calm and with the right words, it's a sure banker.

I don't go to clubs to pick up, just to dance and enjoy the scene - the best part is enjoying mimicking the wannabe cool guys standing at the periphery with my girl.

Basildon1:

U r highly mouthed, there is wall standing and there is WALL STANDING with swagger . It's over-excited guys that start forming MJ in the club,
U stay calm,make a move and AFTER FLOWING if she's wants to dance or she says 'That's my tuneee!', you get sharp and get free whining , SIMPLES!!(apologies to meerkat.com)

If the FLOW is tight, she won't wanna dance.
U see. . . . .U need to step up your game.

debosky:

I don't go to clubs to pick up, just to dance and enjoy the scene - the best part is enjoying mimicking the wannabe cool guys standing at the periphery with my girl.

Debosky, can you dance?

~Sauron~:

Debosky, can you dance?

Can fishes swim?

I choreograph music videos - don't you remember yahoozee?

Picking up women should be an aside - if it happens fine, if not move on!

That way, you have fun with no pressure. Besides, my hearing isn't so good in the club so all it ends up being is exchanges of 'what did you say? huh? pardon?'

debosky:

Can fishes swim?
I choreograph music videos - don't you remember yahoozee?

Touche.

Picking up women should be an aside - if it happens fine, if not move on!
That way, you have fun with no pressure. Besides, my hearing isn't so good in the club so all it ends up being is exchanges of 'what did you say? huh? pardon?'

I am sure my hearing is worse than yours in the club.
Even when i hear i feign deafness so as to get as close as possible.

~Sauron~:

If the FLOW is tight, she won't wanna dance.
U see. . . . .U need to step up your game.

LOLLLL , Sorry ooo,the GAME himself,Guess the flow so tight,baby starts saying Let's go back to your yard,
Well,I'm just that guy that gets that phone no. ,a good dose of grinding afterwards/link up in the parking lot

i think this thread is a myth and not very true in london definetly not
but outside london, true but at the same time white babes are getting wise oh! its not as easy as t used to be back in the days

@ poster,

Wetin u sef dey find for all d clubs in uk? Let me ask u something, "Do u expect every clubber in uk to be clubbing for the same reason y u are clubbing?

Their motive is different frm urs. U go to every club and do ur thing, and they go to club and do their thing too.

@candylips, am not surprise for comments.,it shows your exposure and way of reasoning, Remember,that one day your daughters or sisters will stay in uk and they will tagged the same way you see us now, note this,and they will eventually become like those ugly flirts, and that why,guys like you regret in the long run,your so called "naija house material" later turn to idoits on the streets of uk,after two kids,they fill divorce and they turn to this same london girls, watch it especially your comments.

o boy erh naija guyz we no dey carry last. . .Chai. . .See how all man just dey claim londoner,nobody don even mention anything abt naija club here since O all man just dey form londoner even my homeboyz wey neva cross river naija talkless of atlantic dey even form. . . hehehehe. . we too much we no dey carry last sha for any discussion sha we must find way take blend sha. . .

All the single ladies I hope you all are listening. Stop limiting yourselves to Nigerian men. Don't say I said it just listen to them say it here. Don't make the mistake of lowering your standards just to hook an insecure Nigerian man. Be yourself and you will meet the one that deserves you

Outstrip:

All the single ladies I hope you all are listening. Stop limiting yourselves to Nigerian men. Don't say I said it just listen to them say it here. Don't make the mistake of lowering your standards just to hook an insecure Nigerian man. Be yourself and you will meet the one that deserves you

carry waka

skylo:

@candylips, am not surprise for comments.,it shows your exposure and way of reasoning, Remember,that one day your daughters or sisters will stay in uk and they will tagged the same way you see us now, note this,and they will eventually become like those ugly flirts, and that why,guys like you regret in the long run,your so called "naija house material" later turn to idoits on the streets of uk,after two kids,they fill divorce and they turn to this same london girls, watch it especially your comments.

They should pray they have sons, its funny some of them think they are a different race from Nigerian girls.

Nigerian Men are always for enjoyment instead of working
That's why most of them are lazy!

t's over-excited guys that start forming MJ in the club,

mama-gee:

Nigerian Men are always for enjoyment instead of working
That's why most of them are lazy!

mama gee which kin generalization be these

Outstrip:

All the single ladies I hope you all are listening. Stop limiting yourselves to Nigerian men. Don't say I said it just listen to them say it here. Don't make the mistake of lowering your standards just to hook an insecure Nigerian man. Be yourself and you will meet the one that deserves you

The naija men aren't going to clubs to snag naija ladies for serious relationships - they go to African churches, reunions and the like for that. The club activity here relates mainly to brief, primarily sexual relationships and not long term relationships. Naija men in general want to be in relationships with naija women and vice versa. When it doesn't work out then other alternatives are sought. There are, of course, exceptions to this rule and don't feel compelled to be with a naija person just for the sake of it.

@ debosky .
ur bang on. u ve struck d nail right on d head

gshyne:

@ debosky .
your bang on. u ve struck d nail right on d head

I knew debosky is intelligent. . .  ._{well sometimes}

His comment was/is cogent and kosher

Debosky you are still not making sense. What is there to be proud about being marked as hanging around clubs just to pick up "white women" to go back home with. Someone accuses you of such and y'all run in here admitting to it with pride. It is shameful. Read what other guys wrote about Nigerian women having resentment issues because they refuse to go home with you or give you a hard time. You should be able to deal with it as it is part of the chase. Nigerian guys hardly ever talked to me before I got married. I would see them checking me out but it was usually americans that actually walked up to me and spoke to me with confidence. The sad part is that now that I am married with two children who are usually always with me Nigerian men are more "confident" now. I think they assume that I am not married and have a baby daddy and they feel like that is all they can get. It is not just a club issue it's mainly just laziness and a lack of confidence in my opinion.

PS
this is not all Nigerian men of course but quite a few as evidenced by most of the posts here on nairaland

nice story you gat there outstrip

like they all say, when they break a girls heart here, they want to get a green card

Anabel:

like they all say, when they break a girls heart here, they want to get a green card

aha Anabel, did u just get dumped? all this vitriol

Outstrip:

Debosky you are still not making sense. What is there to be proud about being marked as hanging around clubs just to pick up "white women" to go back home with. Someone accuses you of such and y'all run in here admitting to it with pride. It is shameful.

Easy with the generalisations - I DON'T pick up as I clearly indicated, I'm simply explaining the mentality of the group of individuals she's describing - Naija guys in clubs, NOT the entire UK population of Nigerian men who don't ALL go to clubs or if/when they go, to pick up white women. I understand what they are looking for and it is up to them to determine if they're proud of it or not.

I abhor hypocrisy and thus I don't judge people who've decided that's what they want to do.

Read what other guys wrote about Nigerian women having resentment issues because they refuse to go home with you or give you a hard time. You should be able to deal with it as it is part of the chase.

That is your opinion and you're free to hold on to it. Giving someone a hard time is a turn off to many guys and they are entitled to feel that way and make an alternative choice. I am not interested in giving a hard time to appear tough or 'hard to get' - I think it's silly, childish and not very smart.

Many Nigerian women do have resentment issues, but that again is not ALL Nigerian women. Let individuals make their choice - the men on this forum do not hold brief for the entire Nigerian men population and I'm sure the women are intelligent enough to make their choice.

Nigerian guys hardly ever talked to me before I got married. I would see them checking me out but it was usually americans that actually walked up to me and spoke to me with confidence.

So what does that mean? I don't know the quality or type of Nigerian guys that were around you, but I know enough to be confident that the quality ones don't have confidence issues and when they see someone they are interested in, they go for it.

The sad part is that now that I am married with two children who are usually always with me Nigerian men are more "confident" now. I think they assume that I am not married and have a baby daddy and they feel like that is all they can get. It is not just a club issue it's mainly just laziness and a lack of confidence in my opinion.

Again, your opinion. If a guy wants to have a brief sexual liaison and doesn't want to move heaven and earth to achieve that, then that is sufficient for him.

Nigerian men, even those in the UK and US do marry Nigerian girls, and they put up with the whole 'hard to get' thing that seems to be the standard way of showing you're a 'good girl' to SOME Nigerian women and get married to them.

My aim here is to create a distinction - looking for a booty call in a club versus seeking a serious relationship.

this is not all Nigerian men of course but quite a few as evidenced by most of the posts here on nairaland

I'm glad we agree on that point.