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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 6:45pm On May 09, 2016
mike1994reds:


pls who is the guy? i need help as soon as possible, i've been trying to transfer money to someone in usa but bank is not sending till nextweek and i have an interview dis week.pls help ooo
Lol. Send me a PM. I can help. I need Naira.
Career / Re: Masters Or Stay On Job? by MsNas(f): 5:01pm On May 03, 2016
Don't even try it. Lemme ask you a few questions.

1. Are you getting paid well?
2. Are you ready to forgo all the luxuries you're used to in Nigeria and start all over in Canada?
3. Your masters is not funded. Are you willing to use all your savings to fund your masters?

I live in the US and my husband is into Oil and Gas. I know for sure that the industry is not favorable right now and will not be favorable in the next 2-5 years. Just this last month, my husband's firm (and he works for one of the biggest in the US) laid off 50% of their workforce.

Yes, Canada is favorable because it's easier to get permanent residency, but getting a job is another issue. I know of a Nigerian-Canadian who is into Oil and gas and got offered a job with juicy remunerations in the US. He worked for a few weeks in the US (imagine) and decided to quit and go back to Canada. Oil prices began to slump after he went back and he was one of the first to be let go. That was over a year ago and he is still in the market looking. He is always calling my husband to check if they have any openings in their company but they also are laying people off, so no hope for now. I know not less than 3 Canadians (2 in my husband's office) who are on H1 (work) visa in the US because they found it hard to get jobs in Canada. Canada is one of the worst hit economies with this oil price fall and I don't see any boom in hiring anytime soon. Heck, one of my friends graduated with a masters degree in Geophysics from the University of Manitoba in 2014 but still doesn't have a job.

Second of all, to be candid, people in oil and gas in Nigeria make much more than those in the US or Canada. Yes, the ones in the US and Canada might make more on paper but by the time health insurance, 401K and taxes is taken, your counterparts in Nigeria take home more than you do...taxation is almost non existent in Nigeria anyways and you get to take home more than 90% of your gross pay. After your masters, you may get a job in Canada but it might not be in the cadre of what you used to do in Nigeria and it might leave you unfulfilled as You already had a career in Nigeria. What you might get here might not be at par. It's easier for those who haven't had a career yet in Nigeria before moving. Plus remember, your Nigerian experience counts for little to nought in Canada, you'll have to start all over. The time you'll spend trying to find a job in Canada, then starting from the bottom, you can use to get more years of experience in Nigeria and advance in your career.

Third, you're lucky. You're indeed so lucky. You mentioned that there has been several rounds of layoffs in your company but you survived. Means, they value you and consider you an asset. Continue like that and you might make managerial position in a few years and from there jumpstart your own company or business. You have study leave coming up soon, why not wait until then? If you go before your study leave, is your job guaranteed? Remember, there are millions who will snap up your job the moment you leave even if they're offered a quarter of what your company is paying you right now.

Lastly, with your first class undergraduate degree, you should not be paying out of pocket for any post-graduate degree! Several high ranking schools in the US and Canada will accept you in an heartbeat with full tuition waiver to boot! Most of these schools have recruiters coming to your school and from there you can score an internship which will eventually lead to a full time job provided you perform well. Have you even thought of an online masters degree? There are several high ranking schools in the US who do that. Take your classes online and do your research on ground or whatever. Your diploma does not bear "Online Degree" it is awarded by the school itself. Some reputable Ivy League schools even offer this option.

Overall, the choice is yours to make.

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 4:34pm On Apr 29, 2016
slystanley:
Please house, who can help me to pay for sevis fee, I can't go to seme cos am not in lagos, please someone should help
Send me a PM. I'm in need of some naira.
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 6:45pm On Apr 25, 2016
bbdd:


True.
Canada's permanent residency has less benefits compared to the US green card which is why Nigerians rush there because they feel it's easier to get residency..but there's life after PR.

There's also a big phenomenon of PhD cab drivers. This is a huge issue in Canada because lots of grads can't seem to get jobs even with permanent residency which is almost unheard of in the US.

Coupled with the extremely harsh weather, very high tax, lower income compared to the US, Cd$ is not doing so well.......

Yankee harsh but if you can weather the storm, the sky is your limit.
You are very right. A lot of graduates in Canada finish masters and cannot seem to find jobs. One of my classmates from Nigeria did master in Geophysics (Thesis route) from The University of Manitoba, finished in 2014 and still hasn't gotten a job. One of my oga's friend (older man though) initially was working in the Canada then got offered a juicy job in the US with sweet benefits, he did shakara and resigned from the job after like 4 months or so and moved back to Canada. When the oil crunch came, he got laid off.... he searched for jobs tirelessly he could not get one, he had to resort to looking for jobs in the US now and even applied to the same company he did shakara for. I know about not less than 3 Canadians here in my city that are on H1B to work in the US. A lot of them are moving to the US to work.

It is especially hard if you now live in one of those provinces that have very few people. If you go to Ottawa, you will not believe that this is the capital of Canada unlike DC. Everything is so expensive and the place was so boring!Not to talk of the fact that it was so cold at the end of May!! shocked I believe a lot of Nigerians go to Canada because PR is relatively easier to get unlike the US, but like you said, the PR has less benefits....so what is the essence?

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 10:36pm On Apr 08, 2016
Fortissimo:


Hahaha. Different strokes for different folks I guess. For me, studying in America is a means to an end. Not an end in it of itself.
Fortissimo:
Not that I care much, but for those always screaming Trump Trump should know he actually wants international students to be able to stay in America. Yes you read right. Ted Cruz on the other hand wants to go the England way and expel international students once they are done with their studies.
http://dailycaller.com/2015/12/15/ted-cruzs-bad-idea-expel-international-students-from-america/
So really, these politicians talk from both sides of their mouths. Let's just focus on doing our best in our respective fields. If you're the best, you'll be valued wherever you are.
I for one think there are lots of opportunities in Nigeria if you are well positioned. It's easier to be a pioneer here.

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 10:04pm On Mar 29, 2016
@Topic:

Like I always say, America is what you make it out to be. Some people chose to see a glass half full, while some prefer to see it as half empty. It is what you make it to be. I know some of the issues I am gonna raise is over-flogged... but irrespective. I am gonna use myself as an example, therefore I will refer to myself a lot in this post.

1. Nobody said its easy. This is the same reasons why I tell people I know (on and off NL) to remove their rose colored glasses before entering America. Trust me, you will have it very very rough at the beginning. Make up your mind to start from the barest bottom of the food chain here and don't expect to be living the high life 1-2 years after getting here. I got here with no funding, cos I had conditional offer as I was switching from a Physics undergrad major to an IT graduate major. I was not supposed to get funding until I did my prerequisite courses and that should take me 1 and a half years. I paid my first semester fees no hassles, but because I knew getting funding for the next semester is gonna make my educational pursuits easier, I got good grades, pressed my graduate advisor, and while that one ran me around in circles, I pressed the graduate school. Point is I never gave up, I eventually got funding (almost 100% and I had just completed 1/4 of my prerequisite course) and my life became simpler. All these while, I never longed to buy a car (my friends were buying), never longed for vacations to Puerto Rico (people around me were going), I was simply focused on getting up the food chain. I have survived on $500 a month before (housing, bills, and to do fine girl o grin). Be prepared to manage for at least the duration of your grad school or education. I rarely ate out when I was in Arkansas and when I do, its $8 Chinese takeout. The people there know me and my friends. Lmao. Anybody who knows me on this thread knows I am an advocate of "Bring plenty food from Nigeria".

The food I brought saved me most of the time cos I barely spent $70 on groceries every month. I never used to eat at fancy restaurants then, unless I go visit my Oga at the top cheesy. I learned how to live within my means. I learned to hunt for bargains and sales. I learnt how to look good but not live beyond my means and run into credit card debt. Where to buy a Micheal Kors coat that retails for $350 for $70 brand new, where to shop for the cheapest groceries, how to cut my utility bills and not have too much to pay at the end of the month, where to buy designer apparel for 1/10 of the original retail price. I learned and learned and those practices got me through the days when I have little or nothing and is also helping me with my savings.

2. I know this has been said before, but I would repeat it. People in certain majors have it easy, but they certainly don't get things handed to them on a platter of gold. This is no fiction, but I applied to more than 150 jobs before landing one. I would mention some monikers at this point ..... people like vivvysparkles, FideliaJohn and co that I came here with had it tough, but they eventually got great paying jobs with superb benefits after months of looking hard. They didn't relent and they were rewarded. even if you are not majoring in the so called hot majors, make yourself employable. I have seen some Nigerians on F-1 visa applying to jobs here with the Nigerian style of resume (date or birth, state of origin, religion. etc) Who does that? Which employer will take a second look at those kind of resumes? cheesy

3. Don't be stuck in your comfort zone. Most people that I know here went to school in one state and got jobs in another state. They looked for jobs outside of the state they studied in. They didn't get too comfortable. Do not concentrate your job search in one state and do not be afraid of change. Change might be what you need to get what you want.

4. Prepare to cry, prepare to be frustrated but prepare not to give up. I have been frustrated and angry after I kept getting reject upon rejects from jobs I applied to, I had wanted to give up but I could not afford to. One tip I always give to people is "Until you get what you want, you can afford to give up" When I was applying to those jobs, I would get as much as 8 "We are sorry" emails in a day. At some point, I even got angry and decided to stop applying. But I came here to win, I came here to survive and that is exactly what I am gonna do.

5. Ask for opinions. Ask people who know more than you and they can give you pointers. No man is an island of their own and some people know way more than we do. One of the things I am most grateful to is having someone who always was ready to go the extra mile for me with advise, counselling, resume help, interview pointers.... anything! You name it. Find someone to be your sounding board. Someone to bounce ideas off of and you will gain a lot. I never knew one could have a full time job(not internship), be a full time F-1 student, hold a full time graduate assistantship and not even be in the same state your school is located. I am doing that right now and I wouldn't be able to do that if I had not sought advice from people who knew better than me and could offer concrete advises on the way to go.

6. I saw someone complaining about racism. Lmao. You must be joking. We are NIGERIANS!. Racism is a small thing compared to tribalism and we are the grandmasters of tribalism. I went to school in the bible belt of Southern US (google it) where racism is at its peak, but I refuse to be daunted. I don't even think I pay any mind to it. There has been issues where people have been racist to me, I simply call them out on it, refused to acknowledge it or simply cannot be bothered. Who cares? I have other things to think of than to be thinking of racism. Someone even complained about the cold, lmao. We call one of my friends masquerade because of the way she dresses in the winter. Bundle up oga or madam, you're complaining about cold, people in Naija are complaining about excess heat. Be content.

7. Pray like never before. You sure do need it. Prayers bring good luck and we sure do need that to survive in America. If I tell you the story of one of my friends who also happens to be a Nairalander, you will marvel at the glory of the Almighty!! The person is doing so great now, you will not believe that's his/her story. Prayers have saved me many times.

8. Set realistic goals for yourself and don't "look face" so to speak. When I came here, I walk everywhere I went, my school city had no public transport and I had no car. What would I do? Make good use of my God given car aka my legs! cheesy If you see me walking around in the crazy Arkansas sleet, snow or rain, you will pity me. I even used that to keep my weight in check. Lol. I had friends who had cars, bought cars months after we entered America. I know people that got cars from car dealers and were paying monthly, but I am not here to keep up with the Jones, I won't put myself in financial distress just so I could belong. Let the people at home know your condition, don't pretend. If you pretend to be rich and having a ball in America, they will keep asking you for stuff and how many people you wan explain to for Nigeria that all those your Facebook pictures is just packaging? grin Infact, I deleted more than 400 people off my Facebook when I moved here. I don't need unnecessary stress or demands in my life

One problem with Nigerians is that they expect to enter America and magically things will start to fall into place. Wrong. even natural born citizens have it worse. You can't walk if you don't crawl. You have to fight double or even triple hard to get your foot in the door and trust me, you will forget the days o. Also, cultivate the habit of saving, even if it's $50 a month while a student. That way, it will be easy to save and not get caught up with the good life after you graduate, get a job and start earning them big bucks. That way, you won't end up like those people who have spent decades in the USofA with nothing to show for it. If you are lucky to have trusted people in Nigeria, invest some of those savings back home, real estate is easy money in Nigeria. I'd even advise on taking advantage of the current naira/dollar price in Nigeria and invest back home. $1K will fecth you nothing less than 300K in Naija right now, think about it. You will have something to fall back on if at all there is need to relocate after a while.

I bless the day I decided to quit my job and made the decision to move here, my life is much better, if I had stayed back in Nigeria, I will also be in the same rat race. I am not a millionaire neither do I have a fat bank account but my quality of life is much better. I was in Nigeria in December and I saw things first hand. If you don't have someone to get you in the door in Nigeria, OYO is your case. How many people are making it big and hammering millions on a day to day basis back home? Less than 5%. Majority are living paycheck to paycheck, and that's the fact. If you don't have someone to give you a job, or give you a contract, 80% are gonna end up with a job that pays less than 150K a month. That's even if you get the job sef. I graduated college in 2009 and I know a lot of my former classmates who are working extremely low paying jobs or even with no jobs at all.

Sorry for the long epistle. cheesy grin

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 6:49pm On Mar 24, 2016
Fortissimo:


cheesy grin Chai the perception you guys have of mississippi ehn. No worry bbdd and I go host una.
Ha bros, nooo. grin grin If I can go to school in AR, MS be learner o cheesy
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 6:38pm On Mar 24, 2016
Fortissimo:


sorry I meant mississippi o
Oh sorry. Missouri is MO. Mississippi na deep south state. I can imagine cost of living will even be much more lower. Forget the state, face the school grin
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 6:37pm On Mar 24, 2016
slimmy2005:
Can you stress more on the brutally cold? How brutal compared to other states? Yes it is really annoyingly hot there.
Please read the post is responded to. The poster said he/she wanted to school in Cali cos of the weather. I told her not to believe the hype, cos Californian weather is nothing like Nigerian weather. YES California can be COLD in the winter. This is first hand experience. Northern Cali, SoCal, SF Bay area, the valleys, the deserts, and the rest are very cold in the winter. It doesn't snow, but the cold bites. I've also been in the south where it snows so I have plenty basis for comparison
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 6:33pm On Mar 24, 2016
Fortissimo:


MS! Please don't say anything to scare me. Lol kidding. I've weighed my options and it's the best fit for me. It's the university I'm going to, not the state grin
Lol. Missouri is just like Arkansas. It actually borders AR and its a good place to go to college. Cost of living is also reasonable compared to other states. That's why I decided to go to AR as well, I am going to the school and not the state and I never regretted that decision. All the best bro
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 6:26pm On Mar 24, 2016
Fortissimo:


oh ok thanks. I've decided on a school in the deepest part of the deep south so I like getting peoples' perspectives so I know what to expect.
Which state if you don't mind me asking?
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 6:20pm On Mar 24, 2016
Fortissimo:


Hello. Where in the south are you, ma'am?
I used to live in Arkansas (went to school there) but I don't live there anymore.
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 6:16pm On Mar 24, 2016
GboyegaD:


I've been around but not on travel section. I am doing good, thanks for asking. How are you too?

Old members, where all of una ooo: MsNas, Virginice, pDude, mystiqueme, biikeys, amefrica, this ETSU man (I can't remember his moniker), also this lady in Houston, walspring, etc.
Oga Gboyega, how far? Long time no see o. How's Canada? Hope you're enjoying it? Come visit us soon. smiley smiley
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 6:14pm On Mar 24, 2016
malory84:


Ok. my GPA is 3.98/5.0 don't know what it will amount to when converted. Thanks a lot for the tips. I really want Cal cuz of the weather and all. Common cold weather for Naija na wahala for me not to talk of the US.
If you're coming to California cos of the weather, you might be disappointed. The weather is nothing like Nigeria. The winters can be brutally cold and the summers is extremely crazy hot..... and when I mean crazy, I am not exaggerating. If you're choosing schools based on weather then schools in southern America should be your go to. Also factor in the cost of housing and living too. Advise I always give to my friends and relatives coming her for school is "Go to school in the South or Midwest, look for jobs in the East coast or West Coast or whichever place you'd like to live after school is finished"

I personally will not advise any student who doesn't have full funding and solid means of financing their housing, feeding and the rest to come here. Minimum wage is $10, you can work only 20 hours a week... thats roughly $800 in a month. Depending on your school location (Long Beach, LA, San Diego, San Bernadino and the rest), that $800 will leave you struggling to pay rent and bills every month. And not to talk of the fact that most Cal States and University of California are very stingy with funding. They barely give GAs and some of them don't even offer it at all. Your best best is an RA and that will be most likely after you've spent a semester or two. School fees are also one of the most expensive in the country. UCals are way more expensive than Cal States and even at that, what they pay per semester at Cal States is enough to cover my tuition in Southern US. All the best sir/ma

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 8:00pm On Mar 21, 2016
imperiouxx:


When we came back to US in Dec, we weren't well informed. We took delta airline that had to first stop at Atlanta. We made mistake of not grinding the melon seed and was seized. They told us we should have grind it. Dried and ground seeds enter. Poultry produce including maggi chicken are not allowed. We have crayfish in another bag, which they didn't check/seize, so we don't know if it was skipped by chance or not. The ground pepper and ogbono were checked and passed. The Nigerian inspector at Atlanta's agric screening gave us a paper that contains info on this website: https://www.aphis.usda.gov/aphis/home The guy said if you have herbs, it must be soaked in alcohol or water before they can allow it in. But by then I have already given up on delta airline. We were later told that the restrictions at NY airports is not as tough as that in Atlanta.
Like someone said, Atlanta has issues and I'm guessing its the sheer numbers of Nigerians that pass through that POE that caused that. I had everything you had when we came back in Jan via LAX. Even more, Peak Milk, Maggi Chicken, Indomie Chicken, Tubers of yam, ungrinded crayfish and even dried herbs that's not soaked at all. We got it in, no issues.

But if a first timer isn't sure or the POE is strict, listen to imperiouxx and err on the side of caution. Those things can be gotten here so leave them in Naija.

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 4:53pm On Mar 21, 2016
vivyval:
Hi fam'..how are you all? So for those that travelled recently to the US, which food items are not allowed? and also mode of packaging.. Emirates baggage allowance is 2 bags each 23kg; is this strictly the rule or is there exceptions?
My flight is next week.
Thanks y'all...
For the Newbies:
Rule 1: Ask questions
Rule 2: Listen and read instructions here carefully.
Rule 3: Pray,Pray,Pray.
Rule 4: Repeat rules 1,2,3.
Should be writing next from obamaland.
Bye!
No exceptions on the baggage allowance for emirates except you're ready to pay $180 for additional bag. Pack your stuff in clear ziploc bags or any clear packaging. Try not to use any paper to wrap anything. They will give you issues at MMIA. Don't put powdery stuff like milk, pepper, garri or yam flour in your hand luggage. They will throw it away. Make sure your electronic devices are charged. Have a great flight.

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 4:49pm On Mar 21, 2016
anikemoses:
Noodles and Maggi Chicken to the best of my knowledge is prohibited,in all just ensure u declare all the food items u have on u when the manifest will be given to u,it's always done when ur enroute Dubai to US.during my time i declared everything and when i got to the POE i was told that it will be subjected to secondary examination which didn't take up to 5mins...
Depends on your POE and whatever. I brought in noodles and Maggi Chicken in January, no stress
Islam for Muslims / Re: Different Religion And Tribe: How Do I Balance The Wedding by MsNas(f): 6:48pm On Mar 12, 2016
mukhcech:


And you are supposed to be a Muslim. If you are I wonder if you are sane. The Bride should not read this stupid statement from an acclaimed muslim. she will be depressed.



Madam, I am not your uncle. Next time something I posted annoys you, Go hit your Head on a rock/wall. Everyone is in dire need of Education and you are no exception. I am done with you before now abi u think say I wan marry you before(I will be doomed if I even think of maeeying ur type- u knw wat I mean). That is why they call you liberal or apologetic muslim ba?

Lmao. Look at this unsightly porcupine asking me if I'm sane? Lmao. It's you and your generations who are insane. Yea, I am a Muslim, a right thinking one at that. Who says a person can judge my level of Islam? Lmao. I know your type. Holier than thou, while commiting atrocities in the confines of their darkened room.

Even if I was unmarried, I can't marry a slow thinking penguin like you, so You're doomed Anyways. Yes. I stand by my words. I am not trying to please anybody from any religion. I have my own voice. Just because I'm a Muslim, I should cover the excesses of some Muslims like you? Please, go back to bed. You think you've seen a weak ass female to rain on her parade on NL right? Lmbo. I'm done with you. Bye Chewbacca.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Different Religion And Tribe: How Do I Balance The Wedding by MsNas(f): 10:11pm On Mar 11, 2016
seunajia:


The guys you are referring to are right. Those that advised him to proceed, like you, are right too. However, by my rough estimation more people have failed at keeping their homes together after marrying women of a different faith. i.e, they either end up losing their own faiths and/or their children. Moreover, "a family that prays together stays together".

The important role of women in the home cannot be over-emphasised. "Train a woman, train a nation". She'll probably spend more time with the children and have greater influence on them. Further, women tend to be stronger in faith and they drive the home spiritually. A Christian wife may try, but she can't give what she doesn't have.

An option people often explore is conversion. But it is wrong to coax/coerce her to convert to Islam because of you. She has to be truly convinced.

In the end, this is a very tough decision that should be taken without sentiments. It all depends on individuals and their peculiar circumstances. I'd be married myself if not for the same issue.

May Allah continue to guide us.
Thanks and may Allah (SWT) bless you for this highly educated and diplomatic answer free from bigotry and fanatism. Barka Juma'ah

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Different Religion And Tribe: How Do I Balance The Wedding by MsNas(f): 10:08pm On Mar 11, 2016
mukhcech:


I am not sure I will make Jannah buh I am sure I am on the path to jannah by marrying a Muslim woman. Marrying a christian woman is Doom. Trust me I tried it.

Uncle, did I mention your name?Please, don't come for me unless I send for you.

The bolded part of your sentence is what got me annoyed in the first place. Like, are you serious? Islam my Islam. Because your marriage or relationship to a christian failed means all other cross-religious marriage like that is doomed? You are in dire need or education. I'm sure you're one of those people that I will refuse to mention. This is why they call use fanatics. I'm done with you.

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Different Religion And Tribe: How Do I Balance The Wedding by MsNas(f): 2:56pm On Mar 11, 2016
Gosh! Muslims are the most hypocritical and judgmental people I've ever met. No wonder!! See grown men telling him he's walking to destruction and they pity his life and his children? Basically cursing him, his wife to be and his unborn children? How does Islam reflect on your life then? Because the man chose to marry a Christian woman? Y'all that married Muslim women, how are you sure of Al-Janah?? Smh.

OP, please go ahead and marry your wife Abeg. Since she's agreed to let your children practice Islam when they're born. But make sure to always teach them the Islamic way, take them to prayers and even enroll them in madrasah. Pray for your wife, but don't force her to follow you to the mosque. Congratulations on your impending marriage. May it be full of happiness.

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 9:52am On Mar 06, 2016
Mekurexx:
Edakun guys help me!. I' have tried to check for accommodation in California but the prices I'm seeing be like amount one can pay to buy land in VGC. how do i go about student accommodation search? and pls who is in California that can guide me
Living in LA is expensive, it is one of the most expensive cities to live in In California. Budget around $1K monthly for rent, bills, food, transportation and miscellaneous expenses. Except you want to live in the ghetto, which I don't advise. Your best bet will be to share a room with other students. Make sure to go for orientation and you might meet people who will be looking for roommates. Be prepared to stay in an hotel for a few days pending when you will get a room to move into.

Bear in mind that graduate assistantship positions is almost nonexistent in Cal State Universities, except you get an instructor who needs a research assistant and those are few and far in between. If you wanna come to Cali for school, please hold plenty money. I'm honestly not kidding. I swear. All the best.

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Health / Re: Have You Ever Been Molested By A Male Doctor? (share Your Experience Ladies) by MsNas(f): 10:04pm On Feb 26, 2016
omonnakoda:


Oh I know plenty about Indians I can go on all day.
2nd most populous country in the World
Has the LARGEST number of people living in poverty IN THE WORLD
Absolutely no regard for human dignity

Medieval Caste system that segregates human beings into caste based on Birth profession and Colour
Your men have no respect for women.
Can't chat them up so what do you do?
You rape them
You started the practice of mutilation for begging
You started the practice of selling kidneys
You started the practice of keeping women in pens to produce babies for foreigners
You worship money above everything.
Have a look at the Google search for India+ Human Development Index
or India and GDP per capita.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_GDP_%28nominal%29_per_capita
Nigeria cannot say it is where it should be but never will we take lessons from you.

Rather than talk generic look at the FACTS

again Google Smartphone ownership or Internet penetration DO NOT TAKE MY WORD for it?

By the way tell us if you dare WHAT IS YOUR CASTE

Let me tell you about indian doctors in the UK
They have the highest rate of malpractice and misconduct and fitness to practice charges and adverse findings .Same in the US. Why? YOU ARE INTRINSICALLY DISHONEST. READ THIS LINK
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2254824/Three-quarters-doctors-struck-Britain-trained-abroad.html
No our doctors are not poor standard. We have not got enough and we suffer brain drain just like India. Have you got enough?

Many of your doctors work alongside ours in the UK and USA failing PG exams repeatedly and cannot speak English.


Deep in your psyche you like to feel you are better than black but

WHERE IS THE EVIDENCE

1, 2 billion lowlifes with a GDP of 1.8 trillion. You are years behind us and the truth is you are never going to catch up on the real things that matter because of the prejudices that are so pervasive in your society.You now have a PM that captures all the worst in you. No doubt you have bright sparks no one will deny that but you are world's most miserable place

To add to what you wrote.

--Indian students are one of the most dishonest students you'll ever find in America.
--They come to grad school with stellar Statement of Purpose, great results, absolutely stunning test results but they fail in class woefully.
--All the professors know them to be cheaters. Hardly any semester goes by without them being involved in cheating and exam malpractice. They cheat in almost every exam, test or homework. They are always cheating.
--They are the worst people on earth to live with. They bring roaches and bedbugs everywhere they move into. Very dirty beings.
--They are always tricky and think they can outsmart you. Rent out a room to one and you'll see them bring in 5 squaters.
--They always smell like they haven't had a birth in days. extremely dirty.
--You'll see 15 grown Indian adults sharing a 2 bedroom apartment while only 2 two people signed the lease. Lying to the property owners.


I can go on and on. The idiot has the gall to come on a Nigerian forum and insult Nigerians and stupid Nigerians are edging him on. To the Nigerians who think those Indians are white, I sorry for you. Some of them are darker than us and it pains me that those idiots come to Nigerians and harrass our citizens. God help any Indian, Paki, Chinese or anybody I see anytime I visit Naija and tries that rubbish with me. angry

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 11:02pm On Feb 18, 2016
cuteconnec:
Dear Friends and Gurus,

I urgently need help with a candid advice. i have not really been following this tread but i bow for gurus here.

I started applying for USA graduate schools in Oct 2015. I wanted to resume in Jan 2016-Spring, so i only targeted schools with very late application deadlines.

I did all the GRE, TOEFL and VISA interview stuffs and succeeded getting admission in 3 schools.
1. UALR- University of Arkansas at Little Rock - Phd (Integrated computing)
2. SIUE- Southern Illinois University Edwardsville - MSc (computer science)
3. UNO - University of Nebraska, Omaha - Msc (Management Information Systems-MIS)



The decision from UALR came so quick so i presented their i20 at the embassy and got the visa. Though i preferred the MIS course at UNO, but they did not decide on time. I Applied for funding in UALR but didn't get anything. Also some old naija folks at the school strongly discouraged me from coming..Finally, my admission at UNO clicked on Jan 6, I got into US on Jan 8th and decided to transfer from UALR to UNO. The transfer went pretty easy and i flew to Omaha.

On arriving here, i discovered the situation here was worse than i ever imagine, even though i got the course i wanted to study, i couldn't get any funding, tuition is very high, black population here is negligible, and the cold here na die. I have not figured out how i will pay the tuition yet, but i pray i will scale through this semester.

I plan to complete one semester and transfer to another school. Which school can i get guaranteed Graduate Assistant ship or funding?
If i loose my status in this school(i don't pray for that-worst case scenario), can i possibly apply afresh again in another school since i am already in the usa?
Who knows the possibility of transferring credits from Management Information Systems to a course like electrical engineering?

Any valuable input will be most appreciated. Thank you
See, my brother.. please do not be vexed about what I have to say o. I am very sorry in advance. Seeing that you posted this, after you posted this awhile ago means you're indeed in a rut and you need a quick, fast fix.

But truth be told, you got yourself into this situation. You should not have left Nigeria with the intention of studying without at least first semester tuition or funding. That said, what has happened has happened. You need a way out.

1. Did you not know that the tuition at UNO was high? Why did you still chose to transfer to Omaha even after knowing that? That aside, the black/white population in a school should be the least of your problems. I know a female nairalander who went to school in Omaha. NE and graduated from there. You're there to learn and simply to learn. Ignore the racial distribution. You will get used to the cold. Layer up, bundle up and you'll be fine

2. Do you have any hopes of paying your fees at UNO before transferring next semester? This I say because UNO will not release your SEVIS record for transfer until all outstanding tuition is paid. Did you talk to your graduate adviser at UNO and explain your situation to him? He might be able to find you a GA after one semester, if not this one. Explore all your avenues before giving up, bro

3. There are plenty of schools who will give funding for your course. You're studying IT/IS, funding opportunities abound. Trick is to start applications now, but you have to decide if you're gonna be applying as a fresh graduate international student or wait until after one semester of study at UNO and have grades transfer. If your grades from Nigeria (undergraduate GPA, GRE and TOEFL) aren't that stellar, I will suggest you do your best this semester and at least bag a 4.0 so as to make your search for funding more easy and promising.

4. If you fall out of status, you either have to apply for reinstatement in the US or do a another entry by going to Mexico or Canada and reentering with your new school I-20. Both come with their own set of pros and cons...Choice is your to make. But I tell you, falling out of status is not easy as everything will just tire you.

5. Why are you transferring from MIS to EE? Do you have an EE background? That said, IT jobs are in abundance and it's easier to get sponsorship. But maybe I'm saying that cos I'm an IT person. Who knows?

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 10:47pm On Feb 18, 2016
godG:
I will not judge the poster I just quoted, but I hope folks trying to come over will take a cue from his/her experience. America is not running away, let us take doses of chill pills when we are making life decisions. If funding no dey the offer, no reason am, at all! Guys, always, always, try to get funding; even if anyone is telling you not to worry, still, try to apply for funding. You do not want to be stranded or depressed in America. Good luck to everyone.
You are 100% right. No funding, plus no money for tuition is a recipe for disaster. A disaster I do not wish for my worst enemy. True, there had been cases of people who came here with no money and no funding but they somehow managed to eke out a living....but these category of people are less than 10%. Majority who come to the US under the aforementioned end up running out of status. And if you tell them not to come if they don't have money, they call you enemy of progress.

They do not catch late comers in America. Everybody's blessing is waiting for them, nobody can pick up yours before you. Stay in Naija, do your research, if one school offers admission but no funding, stay back in Nigeria and look for schools that will offer funding. They are in abundance, the applicant just needs to know where to look. Like you said, America is not a place where you wanna be depressed or stranded in. Not worth it.

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 8:48pm On Feb 17, 2016
amanze15:
my bad, the school at magnolia no be am, I had a coursemate transfer from there I forgot to ask him what he wanted to study, lille rock and fateyeville would be great for him....aunty no vex
Better analogy. SAU is not really all that(I had a couple of Indians transfer there cos of reduced course load) but that doesn't make the whole state of Arkansas suck. I no vex.
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 8:33pm On Feb 17, 2016
amanze15:

Affordability is never equal to quality, look at the long term, the Midwest is great for schooling(weather and standard of living) but Arkansas no be am!!!
Would you please tell us what's wrong with Arkansas?

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 7:22pm On Feb 17, 2016
stolid:
Of a truth, you can have all the certificates, but still need an education.
100%!!!! cheesy grin

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 6:13pm On Feb 17, 2016
biikeys:


Just that you took time to use the correct Yoruba alphabets smiley
Looool. I do that sometimes, cos the way some people write Yoruba these days dey make me fear day out language go soon go extinct. grin cry
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 5:20pm On Feb 17, 2016
biikeys:


shocked
Sir, kilode sir? cheesy
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by MsNas(f): 5:04pm On Feb 17, 2016
godG:


See the Ibadan grin. cheesy
My chairman, how we go do na? Àwon òrò kan, àfi ká sa ma rérìín! So leave my Ibadan grin with Ibadan swags o grin grin grin

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