₦airaland Forum

IF there is, tell me wassup? WHich state you at and how's life treating you?

Hmmm. . . I doubt if theres any Nigerians whom is living in Malaysia that are free to come to Nairaland. Why do I feel like that all of the sudden? 

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=542947.msg7053629#msg7053629 date=1288574730][size=14pt]“We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.” --Tom Robbins[/size]



True or False?[/quote]SO TRUE! Because if I were to look for my perfect man, I would have already broken up with my first and present bf till this date a long time ago. You make your partner how you want her/him to be.

This Mobo Lolo of a guy. Seriously, what do you have against Nigerian women? Are you not a Nigerian man with Nigerian Blood? Do you not chop Egusi Soup and Fried Plantain while drink Sapele Water all your life when you were still a Rodent Toddler and up till this date? What did Garri ever did to you sef? Did your mother land strangled you and your family to your death bed? Are you actually angry with the women there or the government? If you have the basic common knowledge, you should get angry with the government and give your people a break.

IyaBasira:
Depends on the state of her heart and how greedy she is.

If she loves her bf , let her say no. If she fancies the other guy, let her say yes.

sleekch1c:
a guy that wants his frnd's woman?that guy is a snake and not to be trusted!

I mean should she tell her bf about this issue? Becuase at this point of time, she is feeling very uncomfortable with his presence in the house.

IyaBasira:
Besides, the players excuse doesnt make sense. I mean where he tells her not to tell her bf that he has multiple gf's because of trust. What has trust got to do with it? Its his life and however many girls he dates is his business.

The reason why he told her to keep quiet about it its because he and her bf are planning to do a business partnership together and also they are schooling in the same school. Her bf does not like womanizers. He had opne womanizer in the past as his housemate and this guy almost r4p3 his gf so in the end, he chased the guy out of the house.

Poster, yeah, I wonder why as well. Im from Malaysia and I come to realize in Malaysia, when it comes to divorce or seperation or a fight, the guys are the ones to pack and go whether if he was the one that contributed to the house or not. . . I wonder why

Vut when I think another way, I think its because the law is in favour of the females here. Is Nigeria that way as well? Like when you go to court, the court is always in favour of the females?

Ok, say this is my freinds story. No be mine ohhh! 

Lets say this girl is living with her bf in an apartment and they are living with this housemate whom happens to be a womanizer. Well, he is a new housemate but they all have known each other for years. The lady knows that he was a playah before cause she have seen him going out with multiple females and when he notic this lady finidng out about his excapads, he would tell her not to tell her bf cause he dosnt want to break the trust and friendship between him and her bf. She doesnt give a hoot cause it aint her business but ever since he moved in to the house, he doesnt go out with ladies anymore and he doesnt sleep around anymore so she thought maybe its because he is scared that her bf would find out about his personal life so she just moved on.

Talk about moving on, one fine day, he came up to her and ask her this:

Did you notice that I stop going out with females and stop sleeping with them?

And she said yeah, thats cool.

And he said well, I have a reason for that.

An she said yes, I know you want to my bf's trust in your friendship.

And he said not that. I can still rent a hotel and sleep with girls bhind his back but Im doing this cause I think I have fallen in love with you



Than he said this: If you go out with me and give me a chance, I will never ever see another woman again. I swear. . . havent I prove myself to you up till this poin? It has been 3 monhs now.


WHAT ON EARTH DO YOU THINK THIS LADY SHOULD DO

MOBO444:
^^^ I knew you did find thing difficult and hard, you black women.

Me black woman ke? LMAO! Thank you for the compliment

annawhite:
like she has rightly said stop generalizing!
stop taking dat asian junk cos it affecting your brain babe

Anna, I still dont get it what is he referring the 80% of women as?

buccaneer7:
Could it have been pleasing if i had said majority instead of 80%.
Let this go and talk for yourself will you,

I am not sure from the start what are you referring to as the 80% and you wont bother to elaborate so please stop generalizing the next time ok? Thanks.

Poster, just run and give it up. I have this cousin whom is facing the same problem like you not 1 time but 2 times!!! The guy also promises her heaven and bla bla but look what he has done to her? He is just making use on herin the end of the day. First they were not making love at all ause he wants to make sure but than when he found out she is a virgin, he broke her virginity but still is with his wife. Anyways they broke up and now she is with another married man whom also promises her heaven. Bull crap! The way I see it, he is really making use on her. . . For everything.

buccaneer7:
I can not say better than she could, and you wouldn't understand my relationship to her which made me understood that she is undecied, I have accessed many ladies and i am very close to truth if i said that,

U need to elaborate on that cause I no sabi wetin you mean

buccaneer7:
So this is what NL is all about? Insult and Dissing? I 'm out,  After i reply sweet potato

Dont take it so seriously naa. U havent seen some other posters cursing me naa. That one just like some lion attacking and eating me alive   Annawhite is just joking.

Orikinla:
What does Oprah Winfrey know about being loved?
Have you found out about her history with men since high school.

How many serial killers do we have in the world?

Serial killers are psychos who are only obsessed with their women.

Obsession is not love.

Being a nice guy does not mean you are romantic.

A romantic man must not be a kitty,  insecure or what I call a "love mugu",

A romantic man must be bold and brave and noble.

U need to watch the episode about Romantic guys on her show and No, its not about her and her relationshuip buts its about Romantic guys and their bacgrounds. Just a research and a documentary done by psychologists and all. Dont know how true is that. I only put that in my posts as a joke.

But for me, I still dont favour romantic guys

buccaneer7:
The main point in my comment uphere is that the[b] babe is undecided and 80% of girls are like that[/b](i wasn't really talking about what a woman can do and what not, i know a woman can do anything, women are strong. i could give reasons for that).

i hope this wont spark another fire here orelse i will just run away from NL. i nor fit for trouble,

Undecided about what exactly?

Orikinla:
Bear with him and do your best to bring out the best in him.
African men really love their women if their women will be faithful to them.
They will treat them like goddesses.

That is sooo true!!!

Poster, you dont need any advice from here. Especially not from that Mr Cork. That guy is a genuine YEYE FOWL.

Since you know he loves you and you love him, what is there to ask for any other advice? Just be yourself and hopefully he is being hisself as well.

Hope you guys got married in the end of the day.

And no, if Mobo444 coms in, please also ignore him

My guy is not romantic and Thank God cause I dont go for romantic guys. I heard from Oprah Winfrey that Romantic guys usually end up as serial killers. . . How else do you explain all those Oyinbo guys whom killed their wife on CI?

annawhite:
a woman can be the strength of a man and can be the reason for his downfall too.
Bill Clinton was marred in power by a lady
Sani Aabacha was poisoned by a lady
Sampson in d bible was destroy by a Delilah
EVE was the reason why Adam was driven out of the garden
the list is endless.

but if u  are lucky to hook up with the good ones like myself,ms potato,queeneve,inked;then the sky will be your limit.
guys HAPPY SEARCHING!

Thank you dear

buccaneer7:
Are you trying to say if not for work and work and work that girls engage everyday in malaysia, they could have done better?

I did not say that those ladies are better nor did I say they are not better. Im just saying that due to civilization, they have chosen that kinda life. To build a career for themselves. Its not that bad after all. . . I dont even say its bad for those whom are doing housework. Some ladies have a career and also can afford to do the housework if their work is not those kinda work where you work from morning till the next morning.

buccaneer7:
Is this to say that the girls in American are jobless and yet cannt cook and clean? Think about that for a while,

Did I mention that American girls are jobless? Please do not put words in my mouth. I donjt know what those ladeis do there. I only pint point of Malaysian girls because Im a Malaysian and thas about it.


yet again, What does this all have to do with the original topic we are in? Im trying to tell you not to generalize regarding all women on this globe (80% as you mentioned earlier) could not cook and clean because that is not true

onstelly:
D guy d poster is talking about

Whether if he is handsome or not, its nothing to do with me naa cause Im not the one falling in love with him

skydeep:
Me and xynerise are on our way to kuromo beach. Just pray this rain will not disturb us. Maybe I will see some Nairalanders there. Anyone coming there?

Wow! Hey even if i ains, it would be good causeit will look more romantic! You both would run away from the rain and get soaking wet and you both go dry up in your house or his house and than. . . Cheng! Cheng! Cheng!

buccaneer7:
@Ms. Potato

What do you mean i need to growup? Thats mean or rather insulting! And by the way does a woman capability relates to what i said earlier uphere?

50 cent said it take "KINDNESS" to mean "WEAKNESS". I did good when i said 80% so that girls on here could at least put their self in the good girl 20% ,  I could have generalised like others would do and i didn't but now you 're taking me up for nothing,

MzDarkSkin:
Ms. Potato: I am sorry to say this but I do agree with Buccaneer. I mean let's face it women are becoming worthless by the minute! Three years ago when I was a senior in highschool I couldn't believe how I being an 18 year old woman/ child was the ONLY one in my age group that I knew of who cleaned my house (STILL DO EVERY SATURDAY!), could cook, and knew how to properly do laundry (by hand and machine). I feel so sorry for the next generation! I say so because that same year I met this freshman girl (9th grader) who was in my cooking class and she had to wash the dishes and asked the instructor why wasn't there a dishwasher?, the instructor said "little lady you have two hands dont you?" and the girl said "that is what a dishwasher is for. I dont have time to wash the dishes, I dont even wash the dishes at home, my mom does it". I am thinking to myself this is a sorry backside woman in the making. How dare she and how dare her mother! (I was cooking by the time I was 8 YEARS OLD! Washing my underwear/ clothes at age 5! and cleaning my room since age 4! And MY MOTHER WOULD NOT allow me to have a break UNTIL IT WAS SPOTLESS!)

I'm thinking poor girl! Her mother is sorry! When she grows up what can she possibly teach her children ESPECIALLY her girl children?! I plan to have children by my thirties so we are talking the 2020's and dammit even if they came up with a magic wand to wave and everything will be clean MY GIRLS WILL know how to do for themselves! A worthless woman is NOT a woman in my eyes! Even THAT SAME YEAR when I told my friends I believe a real lady knows her status in the home ALL OF MY GIRL FRIENDS accused me of being brainwashed by chauvanism! EVEN THE WEST INDIAN GIRLS! They came to America and CHANGED! So like Buccaneer said women are losing it! Dropping the ball COMPLETELY! No wonder American men are dating foreign women preferably by mail! (sorry but LOL)

I still think you are generalizing. Infact i think you both are really generalizing. if you want to see which country where the females does not know how to do housework and cooking, you should at least look into the 1st world and 2nd world countries. And  they are alot of 3rd world countries and Im sure the 3rd world countries would have alot of females whom are capable in doing house chores. Common now. . . Not everyone is the same and brought up the same way abeg! But even that itself, you need to look into the areas where people live in the develope areas. Take example America, Im sure majority of the females in new York City and California are like what you mention but the village areas still have plenty of females whom are capable with house chores. Like my country malaysia, those whom are living in the develop areas are scarce when it cpmes to females doing house choires because of their daily lives which requres the females to work work work and also they dont have time for the house so they hire maids but they are alot of areas where the females does the house chores. And hat is what Im rying to say here. You cannot simply generalize that 80% of the entire world of females are like what you claim it to be.