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Wow! U guys sure ou would do as what you claim?

I heard some guy would beat their woman eup? have u ever thought of doing that before? Just asking though.

Ladies, how about u? Have u ever felt like beating your man up?

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=704045.msg8633541#msg8633541 date=1309580207]^^^
I always try to give everyone a fair hearing before even getting angry[/quote]How do u even control your temper that time?

african1:
For me I take sometime to think! then he probably calls me at night we talk about it apoligize and move on. It also depends on how angry I get. And if I know I am wrong, I call and apoligize, then we move on. Lol

But what if you are at your most extreme anger than what u do?

M M M:
ms.potato
when u re angry with your BF u fu-ck anoda boy.

190fan:
when i am angry wif my gf i just go out and mess a call gal, serves her right

Ewww! Thats soooo disgusting. . . . .

M M M, do u even do that?

upendo 98:
my rule is .never react when am angry. I sing/dance/listen to music/watch a movie or do anything to calm me down.When am cool then I call.
perfect remedy 4 me

U are a little bit like me only that I dont sing/dance/listen to music/watch a movie, I would clean the entire house, There was one time I repainted the whole house. haha!


[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=704045.msg8635873#msg8635873 date=1309615900]when angry with a loved one - i do the opposite that i do on NL

I actually "stop talking" and get quiet

i need to figure out how to handle the situation - when i do talk, i start asking a bunch of questions regarding the issues to make sure i am not jumping to wrong conclusion too quickly as THE LAST THING I WANT TO DO is jeopardize my relationship with them

my asking questions gets me to the root of what is going on, it is important to me to make sure i know whether or not i actually have a "reason" to be angry or not.

my first inclination is to get quiet and assess the situation as much as possible before i respond and kill someone[/quote]It ill be very hard to be doing what you are doing.




[quote author=chi-baby link=topic=704045.msg8636095#msg8636095 date=1309618602]Be quiet or i myt start crying [/quote]Awwww. . . Im sometimes like u too

190:
Once im angry with my WIFE - I pull her pant

Pull her pants and what?

2ooi:
I il activate ma mute mood 4 d moment

And than what?

IloveFred:
Thank you, Ms. Potato

You are most welcome my dear. Goodluck and all the best

pleep:
you guys Cant have nothing in common? What do you talk about ?

Everything and anything. We talk about our differences too. Before I dated him, he was my nest friend. We didnt have anythng in common but we accommodate ach others needs all the time

pleep:
Yea having things in common is very important.
If you get with someone unlike yourself the relationship is exciting but short, but if you get with someone you have alot in common with the relationship is slower but more fuffiling IMO. Haha for me we must have similar taste in music, which is not too hard because I like the best of everything.
And she must love to cook cuz I would enjoy cooking with my wife

Than how do u explain my relationship? Unless maybe you think 4 years is too short?

IloveFred:
My first topic is closed, why? Unfortunately we didn't get a card for staying in Poland for my husband, because they want to check us again. We have another interview in August. Maybe the distance between our ages is too long. They don't trust couples like we are? But I hope everything will be ok.

I have one problem with him,he doesn't want to eat polish food.

Yeah, Nigerian people are known for that. It will take them time to actually enjoy other countries food. You must take alot of initiative and patience to get him there.

My bf hated cheese before but he loves eggs, What I did was I made like an ommelette for him and once I fried the egg wash, I insert in a combination of Cheddar and Mozarella chesse and fold the egg to the cheese is in the middle. I did not put any salt cause I know the cheese is salty. He tried it and loved it. Since than he has been eating cheese.

he doest like cake but he loved Malaysian Yam so what I did was I made a Malaysian Yam Cake and made it less sweet. He loves it now he is eating cakes.

So it takes time my dear.

I even got one of his friend (whom is a typical Nigerian food eater and hates other food) to eat Shark Fin soup, Spicy sweet and sour crabs and deep fried wontons. LOL!!!

Your marriage life. I receive one resume the other day. The guy stated there that he wuld prefer to work till 5pm and not more cause his wife nags alot at home.

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=704045.msg8633164#msg8633164 date=1309570003]The logical thing to do is to hear her out, not just her but anyone who gets you angry but there are a lot of illogical people around these days[/quote]Do u have patience during that moment of time when you are just sooo angry?

677ano:
I will go for a walk to calm myself then come back home and have a nice quiet talk about the problems

henchmark:
what will i do? normally i pretend not to be angry, and then at a much more time when am mentally balanced i would talk with her on the subject matter as such we resolve differences like we are telling a story, i guess this happens because i like and really do love her, so dont be in a relationship with someone you dont like.

Awwww. . . You guys reminded me of my bf

satani22:
After 5 pages of the thread u neva still know her? U should have known a bit of her by now i guess. I saw u on on facebook. U look innocent, gentle and resemble an Asian. Are u an Asian?

If you read the thread up, she is being secretive most of the time

My FB? How would u know thats me sef?

There is no situation here, I just asking a general question like if your bf makes u angry that day, what is your first reaction

satani22:
U have to be appreciative of the fact that its coz we feel u are important thats y we bring u into the scene. Dnt do shakara for me. I no sabi toast woman at all.

But I myself dont really know Upendo and Im trying to know her. So wetin u dey think sef?

For me I would say this


Hmm!


How about you?

satani22:
Fried Potato how are u? Can u hook me up with upendo? I love her and want to marry her

Why do u guys always ask me for permission before hooking up? The lady is right infront of you. Do your thing abeg! Im not their motha ooo!

dayokanu:
Yes I agree

Ronkebp is married, I am single and yet it would work between us.

Kandikaane is albino, I am dark yet it is working

MsPotato is a Yeye fowl, I am Dayokanu yet it is working

Upendo likes to talk, I am all round action yet its working.

Babe is studying "MELESIN" and I sell spare part yet it is working

honeric01:
Aww well i didn't know if you were Mrs Chima or Ms potato because both of you type alike.

All the same, now that i know it's you, it's all good, so what's good?

We both type alike? How is that so? I thought Chima is more meaner and harsher and strauight to the point?

Have been really busy my dear. I wanna apologize for sumthin. I feel so bad fortreating you that way in the past

Ruq:
Be thankful for your home training and your selfcontrol ,all this happened because you knew what you where doing, you think if you had dated some of those guys then it still wont work. And moreover that's in the salad days not in this era

My dear, during my days, all my classmates are dating. Imaginbe, at a young tender age, they are dating. I was one of those whom are practically just single. But hard to even blame me cause when I was young, I was a very active student in Hockey, CHess, karate, music band and I even run for school president when I was young. I didnt really have time for boys and infactr I was very very copetitive with it comes to boys. Everything they do I wanna do and beat them to it.

And than when I went to college, I was not interested too. I was busy hosting charity events and doing research as I was crazy and focus in getting a scholarship instead and to me, that time having a relationship would only ruin my chances to get a scholarhsip. Although I met my first black guy in college,m but I never had the guts to even talk or approach him. (He is a Jamaican American) but on the other hand, I was thinking just forget about him. He is just another guy with a d1ck!

Why now?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=701615.msg8631854#msg8631854 date=1309547223]Oh no! Do not get me wrong you can post pictures on your profile and if people just so happens to view your profile that's fine but to post pictures AND create a billboard? That's a big much don't you think?

Posting pictures and creating billboard isn't the only problem there are other ways people are advertising which I think it excessively slow. That's just me.[/quote]I agree Chima. And some people would even go to the point of posting their picture and their friend's picture to ask people here who is more handsome / preety? LOL!n