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Satani, when you are destine to meet the one, she will come to you. For the time being, just enjoy your life, be humble, do good things wisely and she will come if its your time. I learn that when one is desperate, all the wrong things will come to that person so just dont think much about it.

FYI, not all females are like what you described us to be. Please bare in mind that there are also evil cunning men on this planet

satani22:
Of course im not the nagging type. i gave my all but guess what i got in return, HEARTBREAK Is that fair?

Meaning the lady was a gold digger and heartless,  

Well, just thank your stars that you did not end up marrying her and she poison you to your death bed and forge a fake signature to inherit your insurance or money or properties.

And also every problem on earth is not to be shared by one person alone but many other people has gone through it. It will take sometime to heal untill u really find the right person for you.

Upendo, oops! Sorry I thought you were from America Ok, well, its like what James-dman said, if you want to live in Nigeria, u need to have alot of money. The country is just ridiculously expensive. Thats about it.


Awww. . . . Im so sorry my dear Heartbreaks is really really hard to get over it especially when you feel that time that he was the one I pray I dont have to go through it. I might just break down I pray you would a find a good man that loves you and you love him equally.

Satani, its funny how you remembered what you sacrificed for her cause what I learn about relationships are you sacrifice but you dont calculate or u dont expect for anything back in return. Thats real love. Like I said, u are not ready for a commitment since u are happy being single. Nothign wrong in that mh dear. U are doing just fine.


Andy, if you read my post earlier, I clearly said sacrificing for each other

Satani, that means you are not ready to be committed.

Only those whom are ready would understand the real meaning of sacrificing for another person and thinking that it is all worthwhile in the end of the day.

Besides, relationships and love are all about sacrificing for one another.

upendo 98:
1. Would u recommend that I go live in nigeria? why and why not.

I heard that u are from America. To be honest with you, if I were u, better stick to your current lifestyle. Cause being American, its not easy to find genuine love especially from a 3rd world country where people would do anything to leave the country for a brighter future. I dont mean to say everyone is like that but statistic has proven that at least 90% of people from 3rd world countries do that. If I were u, better be safe than sorry. U have a bright future ahead of you, a good country to live, why turn back time and go back to a place where the water and electric is not even constant ? And the corruption if high too.!

upendo 98:
2. Do u really have a bf? I dont maybe u can give me tips.

Yes I do but when it comes to relationship, I am as good as not knowledgeable enough to advice anybody because this is my very very first relationship and I have no experiences with other men before this one. Am still learning on a day to day basis. But this my bf was first my very very best friend. We met in College and we hung out everyday. I knew all his ex gf's back than. And than after befriending him for like 4 years, on the 5th year, we started dating and this will be our 8th year knowing each other. So basically, he is the only guy Ive ever love in my life

Im not Nigerian so I dont know how to advice but if I go see all those Asian and whites, the guys would do it for the girl for free and if the girl begs to pay him, he would say why not I take u out to dinner and we consider it even?