₦airaland Forum

NwaAmaikpe:



Igbo governors are saboteurs.
There is nothing wrong in commemorating the causalities of the Biafran war.
I honestly see nothing wrong in having a public holiday in the South East.

Afterall, Yoruba governors have June 12 as their own public holiday to honour MKO Abiola who was a convicted treasonist.
The South Western governors didn't outlaw it.
They didn't say it was an Odua People's Congress yearning or a brainchild of the Afenifere.
They celebrated the mandate M.K.O Abiola was cheated of.

Shame on Igbo governors.
Shame on these asslickers.
These same politicians that address their people in English language then speak Hausa in Aso Rock.
People like Mao Ohuabunwa and Rochas Okorocha.

The Igbos are the Igbo's biggest problem.
Igbo Amaka kama anyi afughi onwe anyi na-anya.
Anyi na-akpagbu onwe anyi.

But you have forgotten that it was the government that declared such public holiday which is not even with a threat of anyone who dares come out will be dealt with, unlike ipob who are not in government but trying to run a parallel government while the elected governor is on seat. It's a slap to the government for some group of people to come out and issue out orders while he is still in power.

[quote author=lexy2014 post=67984358]buhari isn't known 4 lying? Are u sure. D dude told d nation that on coming to power in 2015, he didn't meet a dime in d treasury. According to him, he asked d CBN governor what happened 2 all d money and d governor told him, "everything is gone". That's a sweet sweet story[/quote ] can you please help us with the links of where he said so? Thanks in anticipation.

ImaIma1:
A woman will not always keep quiet when her husband speaks. A wise person knows that there is a time to speak and a time to be silent. Some silence could be insulting.

You should realize that though the man is the head, they are a team.

then you believe that two wrongs can make a right to build a home by not keeping quiet

victorian:
Those category of men shouldn't marry nah. You think women are so eager to marry as well?

I repeat No man is doing me any favour in marrying me, that's the truth! Take it or leave it.

sounds so easier than done

lefulefu:
Respect is earned. A husband who drinks himself to stupor vomiting all over the place or the one who at the end of the month gives half of his salary earnings to his sidechic while neglecting his kids and the remaining half he spends it in beer parlour... U think such a husband deserves his wife's respect? If the man is a responsible husband is wife will respect him....except if the wife na Karashika of the highest echelon bracket.

when you see such a man try to enquire if that's how he has been before they got married, sometimes it's the women that makes their husbands to engage in such habit because I don't believe that was the man's character and habit yet she chooses to get married to him.

victorian:
There is nothing to learn here.

You men screaming women no longer respect their husbands are just wasting your time.

Take a look at a comfortable home and marriage, where the man is the head of the house... Not just head bceacuse he has prick o! He's head because he takes care of his home and financial responsibilities. Where I live, the married couples there, live peacefully, everyone is happy. Bills are not split in their homes. The wife assist when she wants to add extra value to what the husband has dropped for weekly meals and running of the home.

Both husbands bought their working wives car. They don't share children school fees. Their husbands pay the fees solely by himself.

So tell me, why would such wives disrespect their husbands
Their homes are always peaceful and quiet with laughter and joy coming from the kids, wife and the husband. Their friends visits and they entertain them well.

Such women will always respect their husband and guard him jealously.

But you! You marry wife, u will tell her rent? She will pay half and u pay half
Food, is splitted into two
School fees into two

Sometimes the husband sef doesn't drop anything.

All you know how to do is fucvk and lash out orders, which she will look at u disdainfully and walk away.

You virtually split your title of your position as the head into two. What we now have in such homes are two leaders handling a ship. She starts rubbing shoulders with you. You talk! She talks back! What do u expect? Your wife to worship you?

Until u men starts behaving Like responsible men, your wives will start taking u serious.
No wonder women are no longer desperate to marry especially to men who are not ready to be men. They rather stay single, be single mums, be free and take care of their kids and biz.

Don't worry una eyes go soon clear. Alot of stingy men are dying of loneliness and coming online to pour out their frustrations. Have u seen rich and comfortable men complain their wives don't respect them? Only struggling married and single men complain everytime online
.na una sabi..

Keep been frustrated.

it is women like you that makes guys to go into kidnapping, robbery, money rituals and yahoo yahoo because you can't respect your husband simply because God has not open his way. Is it everybody that will be rich? You are using rich people to generalize. To think that men's eyes will soon clear I guess you must be in China to have said that. On the contrary it's men that doesn't want to get married because of people like you, if every man decides to marry ten women, women will still be surplus to requirement.

engrelvis:
dnt mind dem.most people writing here r nt married.if there is affection n luv in marriage submission comes naturally from yr wife.i shud know.i v been in it for d past 13yrs! Master slave relationship went with our parents.d more love u show a good wife d more submissive she becomes.find yr wife mumu button n d rest is history

leave that grammar, the only love women of now a days understand is your pocket. If you don't have money don't even expect any love from, I see a lot of people here saying money is not everything, not this days.

Thesia:
Once I have the money, and i am financially off, who man help, Rubbish....

Marriage is just f*cking sh*t, cus I don't see how that help...

Am still saying it, some men are disgusting misogynist bastards sons of bitches...

PS: am a misandry, go and check it up, that is why I hate men the most...

Cus they are just fantastically worthless piece of shits....

you can choose to remain single so we can patronize you at will.

ImaIma1:
What do you mean by talk back? So if he is talking, she has to be silent? They cannot debate on an issue or argue?

The problem in marriage is most lack of or bad communication. And a woman does not have ego where a man is. Because a man's ego is so big that it could be his ruin.

A wise woman will remain silent when the husband is talking and that's not a sign of weakness but respect, instead of arguing you allow him when he is in a good mood. Sometimes when you see men shouting is not as if they really want to but sometimes society puts pressure on them being it in a working place or in the traffic, so sometimes is a kind of transfer of aggression.

Thesia:
So all this f*cked up niggas complaining that their woman don't do anything they ask them to do...

Is she ur fucki*g maid, u want a maid bitch u get one ur self, if that aren't enough for u, u can go bang ur head on a wall....

Rubbish, I am so tired of some stupid men thinking that their world is law, bunch succotash. .

we need more of you on the streets to save our hard earned money for the one night stand at a cheap.

victorian:
Tears indeed.

I don't need to pretend. I rather be single than be desperate to even date or marry a clueless irresponsible man.

And inbetween

continue to brag behind internet while you die in silence.

Pataricatering:
as if marriage is a prize ! I’m so happy women don’t carry marriage on their head like they used to !

that's why we have a lot of baby mama's roaming the streets because of people like you.

ImaIma1:
Why should he tell his wife to shut up when he is talking?

All these points you raised did not start in this generation. It has nothing to do with women of today. Absolutely nothing.

And you cannot even compare then with now. Then, the husband worked and brought in the money while the wife stayed home and took care of the house and kids.

You cannot expect it to be exactly the same when the woman also works as hard as the man or even harder and still bears children, takes care of the children and the home. Of course she will feel cheated when she is still treated without consideration.

Marriage is an agreement between two people. Couples should try to make life easy for each other without one feeling neglected or disrespected.

I respected you for your first comment but on this you are not totally right, so because you are working mean when your husband is talking you should also talk back at him? Sometimes I see the problems in the marriage today as ego the women are having in the name of I can do without you at the detriment of the children.

Ivorianaija:
Exactly what I'm saying, equal responsibilities. If I invited you out I will pay, and we live in a house together therefore we will both clean and pay for all things 50/50.

and how many women do you think are willing to do that? I seen cases of women who are working, earning more than their husbands yet they expect the husband to pay children 's school fees, house rent and medical bills etc. When you are you are talking this gender equality, it is not in Nigeria or Africa. It is only when it comes to house chores that Nigerian women brings in the issue of gender equality but when you talk about footing a bill that's when they will remind you of you being the head of the family.

Amarabae:
So your wife is like a slave that you order around?
If any young man goes into marriage with this your mentality, such a person will never enjoy the marriage.
Whenever you see a married man nagging about "submission" then know that there is no affection in his marriage,
When there is an affection in the marriage, it will take nothing for a wife who is doing a laundry chores to take her husband's wears and wash off especially if the man is the busy type.
She is not washing it because it is a law but because of Love.
Building and maintaining affection in marriage should be the aim of anybody married and not all this submission thing.

you still have a long way to go

victorian:
Are u for real?


Who is requesting? Maybe the women u roll with.

I guess we soon see your tears here for that same purpose, stop pretending.

eyinjuege:
A woman is a human being first with her own emotions, feelings, ideas. She is a person.
Same as a child, but unlike a child she is very capable of making her own decisions.
She also knows what she wants and what will be beneficial to her. It's time to dialogue and negotiate with your wife, a fellow human with a brain. Not give instructions like a Lord. She will rebel, especially when you're not her parent.

I quite agree with you on this but one thing I want you to know is a lady can stay with her her guy in courtship for years and remained submissive but as soon as she has become a wife, that's when she will start coming up with all this gender equality bulshit. But before the marriage when you tell her this is what you don't want and this is what she will agree with you and try to avoid anything that will make you to change your mind. Most of the ladies are just wicked because they won't show you their real colour so as to know if you can cope with them for the rest of your life or not, after allowing you to spend huge amount of money to marry them they will now start giving you the cause to start looking for another woman to marry.

victorian:
Don't you people get tired?
Women this, women that!
Women are leeches, women are whores, women are evil, women are lazy.

Now, Women are now doing their own thing, you men are still complaining.

Smhhh.

When una taya, you people will go and rest. Life continues.

we will only get tired when you people stop requesting for a man to settle down with.

mediclife1987:
Is she d girl in your dp?

just a random lady I met at a function.

khalhokage:
That thing where guys call a number immediately is so stupid and cringy, I mean, if she gave you a wrong number doesn't that tell you that she's not interested, she does not want you to call her, why will you want to force yourself into someone elses life?

sometimes a lady may give you a wrong number but end up looking for you and apologising to you for giving you wrong number. I had a lady who gave me a wrong number and a wrong name at the same time but end up looking for me. She first claimed that her phone was off so I gave her my number after which I tried calling but it was not going through, so I fashy it, just for her to call and I was was like who is on the line and she now called her real name forgetting that she gave me a wrong name when I said sorry I don't remember anyone with such name and started explaining who she is and how we met. But today she can't stay for a day without hearing from me and time to time she comes around to have some fun with me.

thatigboman:
ndume is a chief boko haram sponsor. Because he's in APC his sins have been washed clean

Your saraki and Dino melaye they are now in pdp that's why their sins are not yet forgiven I guess

Azontopada:
Paid protesters

are you saying that the ig paid the protesters?

vsound:
So powerful

any pictures for effect of the former and the present? And how much does it cost?

Glay:
Wait this is news? Doctors doing what they are being paid to do?

so before the johesu members embark on strike were they not being paid by the patient or what are you saying? Do you think money is everything? Even if they are going to pay the doctors, what if the doctors said they won't treat and they don't need their money? Do you know what millions of people went through as a result of their greed? Or you think people who were looking for the medical attention were going to receive the treatment for free?

Deltayankeeboi:
so because the accident victims are doctors career rivals, you are trying to stress the fact that they were still treated by the doctors they have issues with.

really? were they treated for free? won't the doctors get paid for doing their job.

so the doctors deserve accolades for doing their normal job by treating johesu accident victims even when they are not at peace with themselves.



the doctors will get paid for their work. I see no reason for your sarcastic post.


you must be a very foolish blogger.

would it kill you to say "accident victims treated by doctors" why stress the point that they are johesu members as you claim.

inciting hatred and contempt with your nonsense twisted story.

Take your eye-service post and shove it in your asshole.

You are just another Hungry blogger

I can see another johesu member dying of anger. What about the strike they went on, were they not been paid for the services they rendered? I don't even understand your point here.

oshe11:
Answer his question and stop spewing trash like a cretin....

Is tinubu corrupt?
Is amaechi corrupt?
is buhari corrupt?
Why aint they being convicted as well?

Because you are just making noise instead of bringing us your evidence rather mentioning names without any proof.

Xisnin:
When police torture suspects, they begin confessing to what they did not do.

very rare

shamecurls:
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5%

Guy which point did you deduced from this comment that you are giving him up to 5%?

This is not Nigerian soldiers. Next post please

laluski:
I recently got an army sticker and banner for my car.few weeks later police pulled me over and took me to their station asking why I must have it in my car.that don't I know that's impersonation?.they now said I should call my brother Inlaw who gave it to me(and happened to have gone back to Maiduguri) to come and answer why he must give me such and they in turn will call military police for him.

Do they have such right to seize it from me. I see other cars and jeeps having it.don't know if anyone has had a similar experience

I am sorry to say this because I see a lot of people saying because he is not an affiliate but it is not true, even an army personnel has no right to to that sticker on his vehicle because it is a crime.

AdamuAudu:
I doubt if you have the constitution close to you. You can refer to Sec. 76. It states that the Senate make Laws for the of the society. It means if lawlessness such as killings, non compliance with the law of the land, when there is total desregard to court orders, the IG can be invited for questioning. Am sure you are very happy because Falana, one of the well known tribalists, a man who is from time known to be the supporter of the hausas even when people of the north killed Awolowo, they killed Abiola, his wife, imprisoned Obasanjo, imprisoned Gen Paul Duya and so many atrocities against the ever known lazy Yorubas, will continue to support the north.

You refused to tell us that the IG can equally appoint someone to represent him.

Pierohandsome:
no whr the constitution says u cannot be represented by an aid,but the senate saying they want the IGP in person then he must appear, there are certain clarifications an aid cannot give .so why is the IGP disrespecting the senate by refusing to appear.

disrespecting the senate is disrespecting the entire country including u and me because the senate is the representative of the people,it is not abt Saraki ad Ekweremadu bt it is abt the entire nation including u ad me.

people are been murdered in Benue, taraba, zamfara etc in mass, and the person in charge of the internal security is refusing to appear for questioning, isnt that corruption and flagrant disregard for human life and constituted authority?

It means the IGP is directly telling us he is too big to be interrogated for ineptitude

Oga SAN for nairaland please do you now think that the NASS want to summon the IG for your interest? Don't you think that those bunch of idiots want to summon the IG in person in order to disgrace him with their show of power? If they are sincere to themselves they should have given the representative the listening ear and if they are not satisfied then they can now say they want to see the IG in person. Killing has been the order of the day since the last two years and non of them had any concern about it and thought of summoning the IG, only for them to wake up from their sleep when one of their own is being arrested. I WEEP FOR THE YOUTHS OF THIS COUNTRY WHEN IT COMES TO SUPPORTING WRONG THING.