Bigdeeee:


Good point but it still doesn’t negate the fact than men (in whatever time or dimension) are superior to women. In fact, this further corroborates it. FYI, male Neanderthals and male Denisovans were naturally bigger and stronger than the females, and they males dominated the clans even though as a species they were partners in conquering their environment together. So relative comparison, it’s still the same - males ruled the world then, males are ruling the world now; males were superior then, [fast forward evolution], males are still superior now. This is the natural order of Life with humans.

Bigdeeee:


Good point but it still doesn’t negate the fact than men (in whatever time or dimension) are superior to women. In fact, this further corroborates it. FYI, male Neanderthals and male Denisovans were naturally bigger and stronger than the females, and they males dominated the clans even though as a species they were partners in conquering their environment together. So in relative comparison, it’s still the same - males ruled the world then, males are ruling the world now; males were superior then, [fast forward evolution], males are still superior now. This is the natural order of Life with humans.

ImaIma1:


Culture, God and morality don't support the woman footing the whole bill. Let's start from there.

In all i have said, i have not said a woman should not submit. In fact i said it is not negotiable.

It is just that some men bully and maltreat their wives and pin it on submission. That is not how it works.

I didn't say anything to polish my point. It is the attitude of a lot of men to lord over their wives and show their authority as the husband and man of the house and i have seen it happen.

Men that are always enforcing their authority have most likely done something to lose the respect of their wives.

FreeConCiencE:




Whether you take it or leave it, the truth is that men are the authorities in their homes and the wife and children should submit to the authorities. That is the teaching of the Bible, the Quran and even the culture of the land. I don't believe in maltreating the women or relegating women to the background, but let us call a spade a spade. Like I said, your husband is the authority, he is the head and you should submit to him if you want to have a successful marriage. For your information, I don't smoke, I don't womanize, I don't take alcohol. I just bought a new venza for my wife and I am still using my "" drop light camry ". This is so, because my wife see me as the head and the authority. She respect me. I don't fail in my responsibilities and she doesn't fail in hers too. Our children are doing fine. If you want to have a home please see your husband as the authority and the head. Where there is need for you to be carried along in decision making, he will do. And don't inculcate the mentality that women are equal partners with their husbands in your daughters. If you do, it will affect them later in life.

Ivorianaija:


I would like you to elaborate on your point that submission is non-negotiable. It depends what one person wants and what the other is willing to give.

ImaIma1:


Elaborate that a woman should submit to her husband?

It means that a wife should submit to her husband.

Ivorianaija:


You still don't have proof for mentally stronger. You keep bringing up points for physical strength, which I completely agree with because there is evidence of that.

Bigdeeee:



Connectcome mapping of the brain shows that male and female brains are wired differently. Males are wired to think more, females are wired to communicate more, to mention a few. Which do you think will be smarter, generally speaking: a brain that’s mainly wired to think or a brain that’s wired to communicate?

FreeConCiencE:


Nobody is saying God, culture or morality support woman footing the whole bills, but if she is capable of doing of doing it and the husband is not, God, culture and morality demand she foot the bills on behalf of the husband. Even if she does that, she should still submit to her husband and see him as the authority. It's such a woman you call woman of virtues. Nobody is supporting maltreatment of women and living an irresponsible life as a womanizer, drunkard or smoker. But I repeat, the husband is the authority, is the dictator and he is the head that all the other family members should respect. Where there is need to carry his wife along, he will do. That makes him a man.

Ivorianaija:


Please state your sources, this could be a study from the University of Fake Study and I wouldn't know.

Ivorianaija:


Why do you think so?

ImaIma1:


The Bible says a woman should submit to her husband while a man should love his wife.

Pataricatering:
his two inch dck ? I doubt it’s big enough to be sucked ! Maybe just licked ?

victorian:
Don't you people get tired?
Women this, women that!
Women are leeches, women are whores, women are evil, women are lazy.

Now, Women are now doing their own thing, you men are still complaining.

Smhhh.

When una taya, you people will go and rest. Life continues.

Pataricatering:
ots obvious you haven’t been anywhere , from your level of exposure !you sound so dumb !

Ivorianaija:
To be honest, feminism is about women being able to have a choice in how they want their life to be, a woman shouldn't have to be submissive but if she wants to she can. She has the choice to.

MMotimo:


Posts like this are the reason why Naija women need to do more to resist autocrats in dating before they end up in marriage. I wish the Naija men whose "loud, disrespectful" wives have aided their development would talk more so ignorant posts like this do not propagate such embarrassing nonsense.

Marriage is a partnership not a servant-master relationship. Having an opinion does not = disrespect

msylva2147:
we will only get tired when you people stop requesting for a man to settle down with.

Ivorianaija:


The Bible is an illegitimate source to form your opinion from.

ImaIma1:


Yep.

Even atheists quote the Bible when it comes to wives submitting.

eyinjuege:
A woman is a human being first with her own emotions, feelings, ideas. She is a person.
Same as a child, but unlike a child she is very capable of making her own decisions.
She also knows what she wants and what will be beneficial to her. It's time to dialogue and negotiate with your wife, a fellow human with a brain. Not give instructions like a Lord. She will rebel, especially when you're not her parent.

victorian:









Are u for real?


Who is requesting? Maybe the women u roll with.

Amarabae:
So your wife is like a slave that you order around?
If any young man goes into marriage with this your mentality, such a person will never enjoy the marriage.
Whenever you see a married man nagging about "submission" then know that there is no affection in his marriage,
When there is an affection in the marriage, it will take nothing for a wife who is doing a laundry chores to take her husband's wears and wash off especially if the man is the busy type.
She is not washing it because it is a law but because of Love.
Building and maintaining affection in marriage should be the aim of anybody married and not all this submission thing.

FreeConCiencE:


Whether you take it or leave it, the truth is that men are the authorities in their homes and the wife and children should submit to the authorities. That is the teaching of the Bible, the Quran and even the culture of the land. I don't believe in maltreating the women or relegating women to the background, but let us call a spade a spade. Like I said, your husband is the authority, he is the head and you should submit to him if you want to have a successful marriage. For your information, I don't smoke, I don't womanize, I don't take alcohol. I just bought a new venza for my wife and I am still using my "" drop light camry ". This is so, because my wife see me as the head and the authority. She respect me. I don't fail in my responsibilities and she doesn't fail in hers too. Our children are doing fine. If you want to have a home please see your husband as the authority and the head. Where there is need for you to be carried along in decision making, he will do. And don't inculcate the mentality that women are equal partners with their husbands in your daughters. If you do, it will affect them later in life.

msylva2147:
I guess we soon see your tears here for that same purpose, stop pretending.

Ivorianaija:


Those aren't atheists those are agnostics. An atheist wouldn't quote the bible.

Ivorianaija:


Exactly what I'm saying, equal responsibilities. If I invited you out I will pay, and we live in a house together therefore we will both clean and pay for all things 50/50.