₦airaland Forum

Amarabae:
THIS IS A BIG LIE
They just removed him because he is a non indigene.
How can the doctor remove three beds and nobody saw him? Not even the gate man?
this story is fishy.
.
So a man who owns his own private hospital can't afford three beds?
Lols, they should come up with another lies.
There is politics everywhere especially in civil service.

can you now see how you are defending a thief simply because you guys are from the same region? Besides did the doctor denied the allegations?

Seahawk:
and women don’t depend on yous either. Specifically not you in particular.

How many Brazilian hairs and iPhones have you ever bought for a girlfriend?
I know the men who can actually afford Brazilian hair and iPhones aren’t on nairaland making noise up and down.

Because you spend 200 naira on maltina for your girlfriend last week, we won’t hear word.

maybe that's what your worth is that's why any guy that you come across will only buy you #200 malt and have his way and you think every guy is like that to every lady.

Seahawk:
and women don’t depend on yous either. Specifically not you in particular.

How many Brazilian hairs and iPhones have you ever bought for a girlfriend?
I know the men who can actually afford Brazilian hair and iPhones aren’t on nairaland making noise up and down.

Because you spend 200 naira on maltina for your girlfriend last week, we won’t hear word.

people like you are totally dependant on men that's why you are so pained about the development so you can easily go and hug a transformer. maybe you should check my signature and see if I resemble those you are thinking.

Seahawk:
you men always think the world revolves around your p3nises. And then use the bible to try and justify your ego. Sorry male sex bots exist too so shut up and go get your female not let people hear word.

but men don't depend on women for financial assistance, so you can see the differences now. no more Brazilian hair, no more iPhone 6 plus and the rest of that.

SweetPuffPuff:
[color=deepskyblue]which 1 is the driver ?[/color]

I believe is one of them.

safarigirl:
he was cheating before he asked her to move. Now, I know many women who will not move anywhere with you if you are cheating on them, yes, it is immature, but that is how they deal with betrayal

I don't understand why none of you is seeing the obvious fact that this man hasn't loved his wife for at least a year and the wife has given up on the marriage because of that

how can you just conclude that he was cheating on her? were you the one he was cheating on her with? I have that believe that her stayed behind made him to be lonely there by making him to look for someone who will warm his bed since she has refused to do that.

Oyindidi:
Running tap can't shut up

I think you guys are the running taps here, the op did not seek for any advice but shares his predicament for people to learn a lesson.

Seahawk:
Would you relocate with a wife who’s cheating on you?

I’m just disappointed that she didn’t finish his money before this happened.

the op did not say the wife is a cheat

safarigirl:
loyalty begets loyalty. This man has been cheating on his wife, would you be loyal to a man you know is cheating on you?

why is that you guys are shying away from the truth when it is obvious that that woman has a hidden agenda? when your hubby asked you to relocate and join him where he is presently working and u refused, what signal are you sending to him? even if the op happen to cheat on her I think she deserves that.

SnowJay92:
Don't let inferiority or ego cloud your judgement bro, obviously there have been other issues you didn't talk about here, what made her go build a house of her own, she must have been afraid her future isn't secure with you, have you considered that?

so after reading the whole post, this is all you can come up with.

sugah:
You sounded learned in your other posts until now. Ever heard of IVF? In fact a simple myomectomy would have solved all the issues cos the tubal blockage might be as a result of the fiborids.
You can proudly post those cos its her challenges, if it were your swimmers that were weak or nonexistent she would have stuck by you.

Anyways, goodluck to all 3 of you.

the op is not talking about child here but keeping things away from him and not being supportive.

frozen70:
You dont know the poster from Adams, you were attacking him instead of the advice he needed.
He wasn't bracing that he maintains two homes he is just telling us the sacrifice he made for their comfort, though he wouldn't have said he has never beaten the wife that's not what a man should be proud of.
Yes its wrong for a wife to set up a building with out the knowledge of the husbands, but like the husband said that probably she is sensing danger because she is yet to give birth. I think the man should notify the wife family his intention to get separated or divorce their daughter ,it might not be easy but it's one of the way out.

you are the only lady that made sense amongst all the ladies on this thread

FloraEC:
To be honest, I don't blame your wife. I wonder how many times you've called her barren maybe telling her, her tubes are blocked and she can't release an egg that's why she's not ovulating e.t.c

The magic you supposed to do is for her to undergo an operation to remove the uterine fibroid, tubal flushing or taking drugs for it and also taking drugs that aids ovulation. Did you do that?

And now you're trying to be all emotional, all of a sudden you remembered your parents warned you cos she borrowed herself sense to build a house since you and your family members obviously don't love her or accept her. Now you trying to blame her, calling her sorts of names so you'll garner sympathy.
I wish you the best with the girl you've already slept with and wants to marry, may she karashika your life very well.


Shalom

can you see your life? where in the write up did the op mention barren or name calling, you just jump into conclusions because you are equally the type.

Adamrealman78:
ladies like you are the problem, you assume that things are worst than they seem. My parents kicked against our wedding, I stood my ground and kept my vow.after feeling used ,I decided to move on.I didn't fight her. So what's the big issue?

don't mind that olosho, they both birds of the same feathers that flocks together.

Vyolet:
Imagine o, all these men know is to see that a woman suffers and loses in everything.
She has been married to you for 6years,no child, you went ahead to marry another woman which your wife is aware of,as well as all your other escapades all in a bid to father a child, now you expect her to carry you along in all her plans as who exactly? She moved on faster than you and doesn't want to be left behind. It will be her fault when she loses her marriage with no child nor any asset to compensate for the years she wasted with you. African women are getting wiser, the world does not revolve around men alone.

A piece of advice, check again to be sure you are not the one with infertility problem, once you new wife says she is pregnant, be sure to do a DNA test after the delivery.

then she shouldn't have asked him for the money in completing her project.

is that hijab that am seeing this woman putting on?

espn:
Any sudden mechanical fault while on motion...especially on this our bad roads... or or men of the underworld dey operate...

they must have put all those things into consideration because bringing it on.

MikeBetty:
It Shows That Nigeria Is Sitting On A Keg Of Gun powder. He Went Further To Advice Him To Borrow A Leaf From Governor Fayose Of Ekiti State. This Is Incredible. Does It Mean That Sagay Has Fallen Out With His Master Or Lai Mohamed Has Run Out Of Lies?

he is only trying to tell him that the federal government can not go round the whole country to tackle security issues rather he as a governor has the full power to tackle that. please when ever you are reading a try to digest it first before commenting.

Judolisco:
Arbi now demn jst dey warm bench, we no dey even see Musa at all

you want try cross river woman wey him marry? Bedmatis don take over his legs to the waist.

VocalWalls:
False
He has not carried an accident victim who died on the way to the hospital before.
Nigerians are a product of the Nigerian system.
Till now, even with the new policy, it's still hard for robbery victims to get gunshot wound treatments.
Sadly, even the family members of an accident victim will say you killed him/her.
You can't just have everyone playing red Cross when it may have them end in jail.
Fix the damned system first.

that's a big lie, such things doesn't happen in the North. You hardly see a northerner pass an accident scene without rendering an assistance, it happened to me when I traveled for my introduction with my fiancee, in fact the person who carried us to our destination refused taking a dime from me after struggling with me to the point of looking for a panel beater that works on my car. the simple truth is that people use such things as an excuse not to offer assistance.

Damian077:
That car is golf 3 wagon not SUV.
RIP to the deceased and quick recovery to the wounded, while praying that God give the bereaved the fortitude to bear the loss.

the car is honda pilot not golf 3 wagon as you think.

osazsky:
and so what its like comparing Madrid or baca with ,huesca a second division team because dem get 5 straight win and dem dey top segunda division,man u done Rilly decline spits,only pogba agent compensation fee go buy d full team of derby and their coach, nor b them even dey top division 2 league,but huesca dey top Spanish segunda league fear Go let them face messi or Ronaldo,up city,up baca.Madrid and man u must fall, die die die red Satan ,red devil die by fire, blue Jesus rise and shine

how market for your prayers? football is a game of luck, manu created a lot of chances but it doesn't go through so that doesn't mean they were playing badly. please leave sentiments.

Fulmigati:
It is not her father's fault she married a broke man. If he can't afford the bride price he should f off. No one put a gun to his head.
As for charging non-Igbos to pay more bride price, keep up the good work

that's the more reason why they always marry ritualist in search of a rich man, and they will end up being used for the money rituals.

FlyoruB:
You are nothing but a big hypocrite. If this was Osun you would have cooked up a reason to criticize the move. How do you folks live with yourselves with all that bad-belle.

why are you calling him hypocrite because he welcomed the development and expect others to take dressing? Go and get a life please

sinceraconcept:
just to justify your frequent abortion as a single lady. its a lie,married women don't really abort. do t be so happy yet. if it happens a lot back it up with a statistics conducted on at least 500k people from different zones in the country

for you to say that married women don't abort then you must be joking because I have seen so many married women who comes to me seeking for a solution to their unwanted pregnancy with one lame excuse or the other, but I always refer them to a gynaecologist to take care of them.

favourmic:
I don't know what is wrong with me... Anytime a girl calls me baby I send her money.

there's nothing wrong with you is just part of your calling

This so called professor, is he a professor in terrorism? or professor in Qur'an engineering.

Laolu97:
He is trying to save his only son since he has all the money to.If you were all in his position and condition,you would all do something similar or same.Stop the irrational thinking!!!
Wishing him quick recovery!

don't mind those hypocrites ,they expect him to allow his son to die so they could accuse him of using him for rituals.

IamaNigerianGuy:
If you had sense, you would not post this rubbish online. Your 419 president cannot account for funds appropriated for state house clinic and you are defending him. Did we elect him to provide piecemeal healthcare for Nigerians ?
Giving his son special treatment other Nigerians cannot access is the definition of corruption, but you are too dense to see that.
You are the greatest threat to society: a downtrodden man who sides with his oppressor.
Dullard.

if it were to your own son would you have done anything different? stop this hypocritical life and bounce back to reality with this your myopic reasoning.

IamaNigerianGuy:
There are hundreds of thousands of Nigerians ill and admitted in hospitals around Nigeria today. What has Jubrin done to help them ?

so you expect him to go and hire doctors to treat everyone that is sick in this country because he is the president right? please use your head to think before you comment.

sometimes I wish I am not from the same country with this lunatic call ffk