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Family › Re: Mother In Law Wants My 2.5 Year Old To Sleepover by Mudley313(op): 7:16pm On Oct 27, 2017

nnamdiokere45:
since ur have already made ur conclusion,y den ask for our opinion

I put out this thread yesterday when I was not too sure bout my decision yet but started to reply today when I became certain of what I wanted.

Well, we decided the child can spend the night but with my wife there with her as well. So compromise.

Thank you all for your responses and apologies to those I started to get a lil harsh/rude with. Its all good n life goes on

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Family › Re: Mother In Law Wants My 2.5 Year Old To Sleepover by Mudley313(op): 1:36pm On Oct 27, 2017

prestigiouslady:
You're not saying this cos your MIL is manipulative, you're doing this cos of what you've seen around you or maybe what your mother had told you....so you want to judge your own wife cos of your mum's mistake..
Realistically, if you marry an only child, there are some compromises you have to make, that's your MIL only grandchild.
If you were my husband/bro, I'll still insist your mum will have no access to the child too,as you've denied my mother, either during the day/night.

You're just trying to create avoidable issues for yourself..when you marry, you marry not your wife alone but to an EXTENT members of her immediate family...

You got some screws loose or what? Did you not read where the mother in law have full access to the child and its only the sleeping over thingy I'm bothered about?? You say my MIL is not manipulative. Do you know her or do you know me before?? If this woman had her way this my child wouldn't even have been born and you're here knacking teeth on matter you know nothing about. I know i am married to an only child and I have spent all the time in the relationship compromising but sorry, that compromise is not gonna be extending to my daughter. My daughter comes first, not the feelings of some single old lady who can't keep a man to save her life

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Family › Re: Mother In Law Wants My 2.5 Year Old To Sleepover by Mudley313(op): 12:18pm On Oct 27, 2017

prestigiouslady:
If you'll apply the same rule to your own mom..no problem... if not..hmmm

My mom actually came to help when the child was first born and there was a lot of clash over house and kitchen rules and we tried our best to respect that so everyone can be happy. My dad was actually an only child also and my mom said the mistake she made was not put her foot down with her own mother in law when she needed to at the beginning until it was too late.

For those saying I'm selfish, me I know what I went through from this manipulative woman before I was able to marry here child and now that a grandchild has solidified our union more she seem to be insecure looking for a way in. This is why I asked, why night? If not for a way of looking for a way to exert back control.

I know what I've been through and my child will not be used as a pun for all that childish manipulative moves. Better to be safe than sorry. She can have her all she want during the day; weekdays or weekends. If that one nor reach, me I nor no wetin to talk put for the matter again

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Family › Re: Mother In Law Wants My 2.5 Year Old To Sleepover by Mudley313(op): 7:32am On Oct 27, 2017

Well, from what I can tell it seems to be a preference thing (everyone with their own individual preference, I guess). For me, I'm sticking to my guns and will hopefully try and do it in a way in which everyone is okay at the end.

Thank you all for your advice!

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Family › Re: Mother In Law Wants My 2.5 Year Old To Sleepover by Mudley313(op): 12:03am On Oct 27, 2017

Gentlevin:
Bro some times a man will have to agree with his wife.....but some times a man has to remain firm to his decision on matters that will affect his family negatively........(If only Adam thought of d negative result eating d fruit would bring, he won't allow d love for his wife, eve to blind him with agreeing wit her....now we are all in dis mess)......

Well, the thing is, what I perceive to be negative/unhealthy only escalates the situation if I open mouth, so it's a case of damned if I do and damned if I don't...for now, I will be going with my conscience sha unless there's anything more enlightening that I'm not seeing that anyone can add put 4 the matter

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Family › Mother In Law Wants My 2.5 Year Old To Sleepover by Mudley313(op): 11:19pm On Oct 26, 2017

Abeg, I need some advice concerning this matter

Me and my wife just quarreled because her mother asked for our only daughter who is two and half to sleep at her place and I said NO because I was not too comfortable with the idea. My wife is an only daughter and the mother is single with no husband or boyfriend. We give her all the time she wants alone with our child but she just seems obsessed with having her alone for a sleepover and my body no catch dat one. Her reason is she wants to bond more and she was very close with her own garandma blah, blah, blah. But this woman has been very manipulative in me and her daughters relationship in the past because they're abnormally close. Although she has pipped down a bit, I just don't want to create an opening for her to start that with my own daughter cos why would she insist for an all-night? what is wrong with spending time during the day time? what's so special about night time? Is it just to be able to have total control?

Anyway, I go appreciate una feedback and advice well well if anyone here have experienced such before and I don't want to come out looking like I'm overreacting

P.S. By the way, my wife na oyinbo, so I just wanna gather a proper naija perspective on the matter. Thank you in advance!

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Education › Re: Lecturer Caught In A Hotel With His Student In Cross River State (photos/video) by Mudley313: 8:44am On Oct 19, 2017

bro4u:
is that suppose to be a short, a nicker or boxer

Dat one na Knicker,lol

Education › Re: Lecturer Caught In A Hotel With His Student In Cross River State (photos/video) by Mudley313: 8:44am On Oct 19, 2017

happney65:
As long as it is mutual consent it isn't wrong..If he asks her out and she says yes..
But in cases of sexual harassment is totally wrong..

It is wrong and unethical; not a crime tho but definitely should lose his job due to abusing his position of authority

Family › Re: A Woman Has My Dad Under Control by Mudley313: 11:14am On Oct 14, 2017

Nigerians. Your dad is falling mumu to pvssy you're here talking charm. This is how you guys never take responsibilities for your own actions only to blame some non-existent spiritual force and that's why this country never progresses and still stuck in the dark ages. Even the ~~businessmen~~ pastors you guys worship like gods are not all able to keep their house in order such as okotie n oyakhilome n here in the states benny hinn

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Crime › Re: South Africa Police Kills Another Nigerian Man During Raid In His House. Photos by Mudley313: 10:49pm On Oct 10, 2017

why no retaliatory attacks for these nonsense? when our mumu go do??

Sports › Re: Troost-ekong Blasts Sunday Oliseh After Super Eagles Qualify For 2018 World Cup by Mudley313: 6:22pm On Oct 10, 2017

SmartyPants:
It has been a while since i've seen genuinely competent, technical defenders play for the SE....

The partnership between Troost Ekong and Leon Balogun is one of my favorite things about the Super Eagles these days.

This oyinbo duo will mostly probably be exposed during the actual world cup although I hope not. I remember one Reuben Agboola half cast defender in the 90s who was cool calm and collected until Cote d'Voire exposed him during our first game in the last round of qualifier to USA 94. The guy almost totally lost consciousness from exhaustion after that game and never smelled the eagles team thereafter

Christianity Etc › Re: Could This Be A Spiritual Attack Or A Medical Condition? by Mudley313: 12:56am On Oct 10, 2017

aku626:
Why worry when you can pray trust in Jesus and he’s lead the way... pray and pray and they’d leave him alone

If prayer actually works Nigeria will not be in the mess it is today with churches and prayer centers littering almost every block but all we hear is economic depression, corruption, kidnapping, cultism, 419 n so on. Only the pastors are getting richer while their congregation members continue to fast and pray believing in all this nonsense superstitious fables like we have on this thread

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Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Fails To Celebrate Teebillz Birthday; Fans Worried by Mudley313: 10:04am On Sep 27, 2017

The love is dead

Remember, this guy was insulting her mom while throwing a tantrum during that his fake suicide attempt

It's gonna be really hard to fully repair

Car Talk › Re: Beware: Flooded Cars From Hurricane Harvey Are Getting Lined Up Already (photos) by Mudley313: 3:28pm On Sep 26, 2017

joeace2020:

And that is how more Nigerians will loose their lives to auto accidents for nothing. Africans never learn. If it's not good enough for them white folks, its not good enough for you. Y'all should stop buying junks and using "things hard" as excuse.

Sorry Nigerians don't typically look at things that way. As long as oyinbo man (Americana for that matter) don siddon y.ansh put for that thing once upon a time, it's good to go, whether previously flooded or not

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Politics › Re: Traditional Wedding Of Lucky Igbinedion's Daughter (Photos) by Mudley313: 7:48pm On Sep 23, 2017

I remember seeing her early 2000 when she was a child with her father when he was governor at an insurance game at ogbe stadium n she was also obess then as well; how time flies

Family › Re: Nigerian Man Videos His Baby Mama Harassing His Mother In U.S, & She Sets Him Up by Mudley313: 7:09pm On Sep 22, 2017

This video just mad my blood boil like crazy; the man was smart showing restraint in the midst of such disrespect to your own mother

Sports › Re: John Fashanu Celebrates His 55th Birthday by Mudley313: 7:09pm On Sep 18, 2017

this one na sponsored post

Health › Re: How Do I Get Fat? by Mudley313: 1:27pm On Sep 11, 2017

bukas15:
pls i need help.mine is that i'm very slim nd looks way younger than my age.i'm almost 30 bt i look like a 19 year old boy. Pls any help for?? I want to look matured even if am slim

smh. 3rd world problems

Health › Re: How Do I Get Fat? by Mudley313: 1:25pm On Sep 11, 2017

iamnlia:
I've been eating like an elephant for a long time in order to get fat but I am still looking slim as Buhari and I usually get 5-6 hours of sleep though I always disturb my sleeping pattern. I can eat up to 6 times a day for a long time and gain little fat but if I go a week or two of insufficient eating, I get very much slimmer.

Please I need help and very much willing to resort to drugs, please help me.

nigga hit the gym n go lift some weights

ur body probably metabolizes fat faster than normal so your best bet is to build those muscles; you'll be healthier for it and look much better than a fatty-bomboy

Sports › Re: Kelechi Iheanacho Leads Celebration Party After Eagles' Match In Yaoundé by Mudley313: 9:17am On Sep 06, 2017

all this premature partying and celebration sha, we never mathematically qualify yet o, Zambia just defeated Algeria yesterday; they should not rest on their laurels just yet and get carried away o cos even if they're almost certainly there there still is work to be done and no stoned should be left unturned o

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Sports › Re: Cameroon Vs Nigeria: 2018 FIFA World Cup Qualifier 1 - 1 (Full Time) by Mudley313: 8:06pm On Sep 04, 2017

DeRay98:
You're right. It's only Zambia we have to contend with now but if Zambia loses to Algeria tomorrow we 'll only need a draw with them in Nig.

I think if they draw tomorrow we'll only need a draw against them as well

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Sports › Re: Cameroon Vs Nigeria: 2018 FIFA World Cup Qualifier 1 - 1 (Full Time) by Mudley313: 8:04pm On Sep 04, 2017

baum1:
That guy na good goalkeeper. This is my first time seeing him. Which club he dey

Ifeanyi Ubah FC

I still think we need Enyeama back tho

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Sports › Re: Cameroon Vs Nigeria: 2018 FIFA World Cup Qualifier 1 - 1 (Full Time) by Mudley313: 7:59pm On Sep 04, 2017

Icon79:
Folks, that wasn't a penalty. It was two players going for the ball and coming together. There was no deliberate attempt to foul the player by the goalkeeper. And Ezenwa has the rights to go for that ball.

FIFA needs to find out why Cameroun is always gifted a dodgy penalty each time they play at home. Against Zambia, they were given a dodgy penalty as well to help them equalize.

O pari

yea, he went for the ball but got the player instead...stop trying to look for unnecessary conspiracy everywhere...but happy with the scoreline; nigeria tried and we're one foot away from Russia

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Sports › Re: Cameroon Vs Nigeria: 2018 FIFA World Cup Qualifier 1 - 1 (Full Time) by Mudley313: 7:56pm On Sep 04, 2017

Dem try

Sports › Re: Cameroon Vs Nigeria: 2018 FIFA World Cup Qualifier 1 - 1 (Full Time) by Mudley313: 7:20pm On Sep 04, 2017

sign that Issa Hayatou is no longer CAF President

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Sports › Re: Cameroon Vs Nigeria: 2018 FIFA World Cup Qualifier 1 - 1 (Full Time) by Mudley313: 6:56pm On Sep 04, 2017

iamnicer:
AWWW THANK YOU SO MUCH BRO, 30 BILLION FOR YOU , THANKS

is working perfectly

Use this one:

http://firstrowge.eu/watch/569690/1/watch-cameroonvs-nigeria---2018-fifa-wcq.html

Na English commentary

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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Cameroon: 2018 FIFA World Cup Qualifier 4 - 0 (Full Time) by Mudley313: 5:16pm On Sep 01, 2017

wetin nigeria dey play sef

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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Cameroon: 2018 FIFA World Cup Qualifier 4 - 0 (Full Time) by Mudley313: 5:04pm On Sep 01, 2017

lifezone247:
Pls is there anyone wit the live screening site on laptop? Help pls.

http://firstrowge.eu/watch/568539/2/watch-nigeria-vs-cameroon---2018-fifa-wcq.html

Politics › Re: Mystery Of The Missing President - The UK Guardian by Mudley313(op): 12:35pm On Jul 11, 2017

dunkem21:
These Jackals should shut up .. Is Buhari not in their country? .. Or is it because their animal kingdom is threatened? ..If I talk wetin dey my mind eh, ~~Police~~ Queen Eliza*Bee go arrest me.

..We, the smaller animals are patiently waiting for our Lion King to return gracefully so that the hyenas will leave

Well, it's not their responsibility; issues of health are treated as very confidential in the West so the onus is on our own federal govt. who actually have the obligation to tell us the people where the hell this supposedly democratically elected mallam siddon put

Politics › Mystery Of The Missing President - The UK Guardian by Mudley313(op): 10:22am On Jul 11, 2017

Mystery of the missing president fuels political intrigue in Nigeria

High hopes for Muhammadu Buhari’s four-year term have diminished at the midpoint after months spent on medical leave

Nigeria’s ailing president has not been seen in two months and has spent over a third of the year so far abroad, with no known plans to return.

More than a month since the two-year midpoint of his presidency, Muhammadu Buhari is still in London receiving treatment for a mystery illness that many believe to be cancer.

His aides refuse to say what is wrong with him, and on his last trip back to Nigeria, Buhari said only that he had never been so sick, and hinted that he had received a blood transfusion.

The president’s spokesman, Garba Shehu, refused a request from the Guardian this week to comment on Buhari’s whereabouts.

The first lady, Aisha Buhari, reassured Nigerians that her husband was “recuperating fast” in June, on her return from a week-long visit to London, but did not share any pictures of her husband like the ones published after an earlier visit. She left again for London last week.

The 74-year-old president came to power in 2015 promising to fight endemic corruption and Boko Haram, the Islamist group that has rampaged through Nigeria’s north-east.

Buhari has ruled the country once before, having taken power in a military coup in the 1980s. He was deposed in another coup, but when he came to power for the second time in 2015 he was hailed as a scrupulously honest man and a strong hand who would deal efficiently with Nigeria’s problems.

However, his long absences have left Nigerian politics beset with rumour and political power play, on edge and uncertain.

His first trip to the UK was presented by his spokesman as nothing to provoke concern: Buhari was “holidaying” and taking “routine medical tests”, the spokesman said.

But on his return to Nigeria in March Buhari admitted he had been seriously ill and only partly reassumed his presidential duties.

When 82 of the Chibok schoolgirls kidnapped by Boko Haram were released in a prisoner exchange in May, Buhari stayed in Abuja only long enough for a photoshoot with them, flying back to London the same night for more care.

This time there was no timeframe as to when he would return. His wife has insisted he is “not as ill as is perceived”. Since then there has been a reel of written statements by the presidency, quoting Buhari’s condolences for deceased figures, his recommendations and sentiments. But without the customary public appearances, these have only emphasised his absence.

An audio clip of Buhari’s message to Muslims, spoken in Hausa, was released for Eid celebrations, but in it his voice was notably weak.

The effect of the reluctance to tell Nigerians the truth about their president’s condition has fuelled rumour and uncertainty. Even senior figures in the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC) party are increasingly speculating over the severity of Buhari’s illness and whether he can remain a viable leader. Suspicions that there is an attempt to control who takes power after Buhari are constant.

You can read the full story here:
https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2017/jul/11/mystery-missing-president-muhammadu-buhari-fuels-political-intrigue-nigeria

Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Celebrates The Dissolution Of Her Marriage To Churchill by Mudley313: 8:48pm On Jun 27, 2017

GistFullGround:
Why do we ALWAYS blame the ladies, if things dont work out in a marriage?
Marriage is a two-way thing, it is what you put in you get!
That Churchill guy is a FRAUDSTER!!!!

Did you watch the posted video at all? is that the behavior of a normal human being?? na wah

Crime › Distrbing CCTV Footage Of Bank Robbery That Left 5 Dead by Mudley313(op): 1:29pm On Jun 18, 2017

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhZd2sgoz4s

Video of the robbery attack on Wednesday, February 23, 2017, at Zenith Bank, .

The robbers had trailed a customer who came in to deposit a huge sum of money to the Zenith bank branch.
Out of the five people who lost their lives was one of the robbers, 3 bank security agents and the customer who was trailed to the bank, seven other people were injured in the crossfire. The kingpin Justice Ogbonna, aka, JJ, was later arrested during his father's burial, alongside the driver, Okechukwu Onwuamaegbu.

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