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Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage: "I Don’t Want My Son To Do Music, But He Keeps Moving Towards It” by mumeen4allah(m): 8:23am On Oct 02, 2017 |
Today is my birthday. Give me likes nairalanders to celebrate it with me 4 Likes |
Crime / Re: Police Kill Lukman Issah Who Mastermind The Killings Of 19 Christians In Kogi by mumeen4allah(m): 4:24pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
billyG: this is stereotype. I'm not in support of him though but stop generalising. 1 Like |
Health / Re: I Slept With 180 Prostitutes In 4 Years: Are These Signs & Symptoms Of HIV? by mumeen4allah(m): 3:34pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
mrwonlasewonie:yes, you got it. I have experienced it before. Si, the anxiety no easy 1 Like 1 Share |
Health / Re: I Slept With 180 Prostitutes In 4 Years: Are These Signs & Symptoms Of HIV? by mumeen4allah(m): 3:31pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
Hmmmm I wish you goodluck. Just go for the test to clear ur uncertainties. Please sin no more brother |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Sasha Obama Kissing A Guy At A Concert (Photos) by mumeen4allah(m): 2:38pm On Aug 07, 2017 |
VanBommel: |
Art, Graphics & Video / Re: 5 Easy Ways To Tell If A Photo Has Been Photoshopped by mumeen4allah(m): 7:41am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Noce one OP. Thumbs up! |
Computers / Re: Microsoft Paint Is Dead, But It Won't Be Forgotten by mumeen4allah(m): 7:37am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Alri Ok |
Education / Re: How Difficult Is GCE? by mumeen4allah(m): 7:35am On Jul 25, 2017 |
GCE is not really difficult but little tougher than normal waec and neco. Just read hard and fully prepare. Success is yours...... thank me later |
Webmasters / Re: 5 Steps To Get Your Website Indexed Faster On Google by mumeen4allah(m): 7:14am On Jul 25, 2017 |
Someone should please summarize it jor. No time to read it all |
Celebrities / Re: Nadia Buari's Outfit To The Golden Movie Awards Got Fans Talking by mumeen4allah(m): 10:16am On Jul 23, 2017 |
Not really bad dress but her posture and look make no sense. U can't cheat nature sha 4 Likes |
Phones / Re: Check Out The Worlds 5 Cheapest Smartphones by mumeen4allah(m): 7:41am On Jul 20, 2017 |
Just give me one is all what I need. U try Brb |
Car Talk / Re: Volvo To Go All Electric With New Models From 2019 by mumeen4allah(m): 7:15am On Jul 06, 2017 |
Yeah |
Webmasters / Re: 5 Simple Steps To Choose A Domain Name For Your Blog by mumeen4allah(m): 7:13am On Jul 06, 2017 |
Kudos for this write up 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Photos From Saidi Balogun’s 50th Birthday Celebration by mumeen4allah(m): 6:52am On Jul 06, 2017 |
Kakamorufu: 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Photos From Saidi Balogun’s 50th Birthday Celebration by mumeen4allah(m): 6:50am On Jul 06, 2017 |
Happy birthday Olori oko |
Romance / Re: Lady With Big Backside Causes Commotion On The Streets, Trends Online (Photos) by mumeen4allah(m): 5:28am On Jul 06, 2017 |
Rubbish! |
Family / 5 Dangers Of Dating A Married Man by mumeen4allah(m): 1:38pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Most women date married men in our ATM love society. But lets not typecast; or debate over what to call them. There are far more serious issues involved in a toxic triangle of man, wife and the lady love. There are heart-breaking consequences. Be aware of at least five dangers of dating a married man. 1. You’ll never be able to have a healthy relationship No matter how much you are in love, he’ll never be able to give that emotional and practical sense of well being that comes with a healthy relationship. There’ll always be issues. He had a fight with his wife, his wife is demanding too much money, and many many more. And sooner than you realize you will end up being the bean bag where he collapses to forget his issues – a recreation, an escape from his unhappy marriage. This may give you a sense of power/affection initially, but soon you’ll tire having to act like a constant caregiver of sorts. Also, what about your own emotional needs? Can you turn to a man for support who cannot resolve his own problems? 2. He will never leave his wife It’s been six months in the relationship and he still hasn’t left his wife. Months roll back into years and he still doesn’t seem to get rid of the “horrible woman” he is so tired of. Think. Think with your mind. He will give you compelling excuses and your heart will melt. But you’ll forever be the “other woman” in the relationship. No matter how much he likes to be in your company he’ll always choose his wife and family over you. 3. The lies and half truths will leave you drained Most women in such a relationship are shocked when they actually meet the wife. She doesn’t look as annoying or selfish as described by your lover. Fact is you are only getting a partial perspective of what actually transpires between the couple. Consider the countless lies he has to tell his wife to cover up his relationship with you. Now, every relationship has its ups and downs. It’s better to deal with it by being up front than cheating. Imagine how he might behave when your relationship with him hits a wall. 4. Your self esteem goes for a toss An illicit affair such as this, is an exhausting thing. You cannot tell the world about it. You’ll have to keep the dates secret and often abrupt, depending on his availability. You can’t really live your life in a guilt-free, carefree manner. Chances are you will grow distant with your pals and relations because you can trust none with your secret. Yes, there are guilt pangs as well. Despite being in love, most women know in their hearts what they are doing isn’t quite right. Guilt, loneliness, confusion – so much burden affect your persona in the worst possible manner. Your self esteem plummets! 5. You are probably missing out on a real relationship The amount of time and energy you are investing in this dead-end relationship is just not worth it. Neither you will get a good life, nor will someone who you can’t marry and have children with. Most women who have been with a married man are filled with regrets at a later stage of their lives. They feel they have lost a lot of valuable time. And now it’s too late for them to find the right guy. All said and done, it’s your life, so take a careful decision. Before you take the leap, take stock. Time flies fast, and no one wants to be on the wrong side of it.[b]5 Dangers of Dating a Married Man Most women date married men in our ATM love society. But lets not typecast; or debate over what to call them. There are far more serious issues involved in a toxic triangle of man, wife and the lady love. There are heart-breaking consequences. Be aware of at least five dangers of dating a married man. 1. You’ll never be able to have a healthy relationship No matter how much you are in love, he’ll never be able to give that emotional and practical sense of well being that comes with a healthy relationship. There’ll always be issues. He had a fight with his wife, his wife is demanding too much money, and many many more. And sooner than you realize you will end up being the bean bag where he collapses to forget his issues – a recreation, an escape from his unhappy marriage. This may give you a sense of power/affection initially, but soon you’ll tire having to act like a constant caregiver of sorts. Also, what about your own emotional needs? Can you turn to a man for support who cannot resolve his own problems? 2. He will never leave his wife It’s been six months in the relationship and he still hasn’t left his wife. Months roll back into years and he still doesn’t seem to get rid of the “horrible woman” he is so tired of. Think. Think with your mind. He will give you compelling excuses and your heart will melt. But you’ll forever be the “other woman” in the relationship. No matter how much he likes to be in your company he’ll always choose his wife and family over you. 3. The lies and half truths will leave you drained Most women in such a relationship are shocked when they actually meet the wife. She doesn’t look as annoying or selfish as described by your lover. Fact is you are only getting a partial perspective of what actually transpires between the couple. Consider the countless lies he has to tell his wife to cover up his relationship with you. Now, every relationship has its ups and downs. It’s better to deal with it by being up front than cheating. Imagine how he might behave when your relationship with him hits a wall. 4. Your self esteem goes for a toss An illicit affair such as this, is an exhausting thing. You cannot tell the world about it. You’ll have to keep the dates secret and often abrupt, depending on his availability. You can’t really live your life in a guilt-free, carefree manner. Chances are you will grow distant with your pals and relations because you can trust none with your secret. Yes, there are guilt pangs as well. Despite being in love, most women know in their hearts what they are doing isn’t quite right. Guilt, loneliness, confusion – so much burden affect your persona in the worst possible manner. Your self esteem plummets! 5. You are probably missing out on a real relationship The amount of time and energy you are investing in this dead-end relationship is just not worth it. Neither you will get a good life, nor will someone who you can’t marry and have children with. Most women who have been with a married man are filled with regrets at a later stage of their lives. They feel they have lost a lot of valuable time. And now it’s too late for them to find the right guy. All said and done, it’s your life, so take a careful decision. Before you take the leap, take stock. Time flies fast, and no one wants to be on the wrong side of it.[/b]5 Dangers of Dating a Married Man Most women date married men in our ATM love society. But lets not typecast; or debate over what to call them. There are far more serious issues involved in a toxic triangle of man, wife and the lady love. There are heart-breaking consequences. Be aware of at least five dangers of dating a married man. 1. You’ll never be able to have a healthy relationship No matter how much you are in love, he’ll never be able to give that emotional and practical sense of well being that comes with a healthy relationship. There’ll always be issues. He had a fight with his wife, his wife is demanding too much money, and many many more. And sooner than you realize you will end up being the bean bag where he collapses to forget his issues – a recreation, an escape from his unhappy marriage. This may give you a sense of power/affection initially, but soon you’ll tire having to act like a constant caregiver of sorts. Also, what about your own emotional needs? Can you turn to a man for support who cannot resolve his own problems? 2. He will never leave his wife It’s been six months in the relationship and he still hasn’t left his wife. Months roll back into years and he still doesn’t seem to get rid of the “horrible woman” he is so tired of. Think. Think with your mind. He will give you compelling excuses and your heart will melt. But you’ll forever be the “other woman” in the relationship. No matter how much he likes to be in your company he’ll always choose his wife and family over you. 3. The lies and half truths will leave you drained Most women in such a relationship are shocked when they actually meet the wife. She doesn’t look as annoying or selfish as described by your lover. Fact is you are only getting a partial perspective of what actually transpires between the couple. Consider the countless lies he has to tell his wife to cover up his relationship with you. Now, every relationship has its ups and downs. It’s better to deal with it by being up front than cheating. Imagine how he might behave when your relationship with him hits a wall. 4. Your self esteem goes for a toss An illicit affair such as this, is an exhausting thing. You cannot tell the world about it. You’ll have to keep the dates secret and often abrupt, depending on his availability. You can’t really live your life in a guilt-free, carefree manner. Chances are you will grow distant with your pals and relations because you can trust none with your secret. Yes, there are guilt pangs as well. Despite being in love, most women know in their hearts what they are doing isn’t quite right. Guilt, loneliness, confusion – so much burden affect your persona in the worst possible manner. Your self esteem plummets! 5. You are probably missing out on a real relationship The amount of time and energy you are investing in this dead-end relationship is just not worth it. Neither you will get a good life, nor will someone who you can’t marry and have children with. Most women who have been with a married man are filled with regrets at a later stage of their lives. They feel they have lost a lot of valuable time. And now it’s too late for them to find the right guy. All said and done, it’s your life, so take a careful decision. Before you take the leap, take stock. Time flies fast, and no one wants to be on the wrong side of it. |
Culture / Re: First Public Photo Of Adeyeye Ogunwusi, As He Prepares For His Coronation by mumeen4allah(m): 1:27pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Tradition sha. Wish him all the best in this world Ãήϑ hereafter |
Politics / Re: Amaechi Shines At A Cowboy Dinner In Lagos (photos) by mumeen4allah(m): 2:56pm On Jul 01, 2015 |
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