Remii:

According to Guaidian Newspapers, these pictures were taken from Abeokuta, Ogun State and Jos Plateau  State respectively, You can spot the difference.

They could be 18 & above, you know aboki dont eat good food so it really affect their growth. That's why they're always aggresive & brutal

maga1:

I think these boys are queueing up for food & not election. @OP why are u such a liar. Anywhere u see small small boys line up u just take a shot & come ova to the net & formulate a lie just to create hatred.

I belive u're an aboki/mallam. What food. You are talking about hatred, what about the hatred aboki/mallam people had already created.

carl-concepts:

Hope her fiancee go like her with her bald head. wish dem a successful future 2geda.

Didnt de fiancee see her with the bald her, b4 he proposed to her? i believe u are out of words, u're just looking for what to say. You need annaul leave to rest then take piriton during ur leave period, it will enable u rest/sleep well so that when you wake up and talk, your talk will make sense

When MERCY was not married--- people were saying she doesn't want to marry, she's a hook. now
MERCY want to marry - people are saying her husband is not fine
Na wa for this world-o.
You cant please everyone
Mercy you've made the choice that suit you. if they feel your husband is not handsome, let them take the matter to court or go and hug a wet transformer as someone rightly said earlier.
Good luck my sweet actress

dani1luv:

Waz just joking jare

Accepted, but members wouldn't take it as a joke

Dont mind her, Assuming the guy is fairskin he would have been fine in her eyes. is it because he's not a movie star?

gamesb:

mama-gee (f)
abeg go find your own.
abba  do u see that young man as old guy?
pls put on your glassess to see properly ok.

Dont mind mama gee
i believe she's jealous or she wish to marry de guy

mama-gee:

You spoke my mind completely. . .

The man looks like her older brother or even her uncle.

I mean how can someone as young as mercy Johnson marry someone like that?

I believe you just want to mock the poor girl cos i cant see anything wrong with the guy. They both look alike and good match to get married. You wanted the guy to look like ( ramsey, tuvi or mike ezuronye abi). Pls let mercy be, if he's going to give her joy all the rest of her life.

Boyz II Men. . . .A Song for Mama.

Your mother is your mother, She's there to fight for you anytime any day. School mother, Church mother, office Mother, Mother inlaw can not be like your mother.

I cheerish you mumsy

deal_ordea:

A Facebook friend (and casual real-life acquaintance) of mine recently had a baby. Of course, her FB page is now littered with endless photos of her new little flesh-loaf and I am sorry to say, the child is NOT attractive.

Mind you, the kid isn't UGLY per se, but it looks like it just "isn't right" if you get my meaning.

Whenever the photos are posted there are tons of "oogie boogie" comments about how precious and beautiful the kid is. I feel compelled to say SOMETHING, but what? I can't very well put what I am thinking into words. Yet, I am the ONLY FB friend who has not made any comment about the kid since she brought it home more than three weeks ago.

Any ideas?

You better watch your mouth so that you will not go and deliver (half pass 4 eyes)

omo9ja1:

I think we all miss a point the lady in question want to pass across, few years ago I was at a wedding when the bride and groom have to rush off to catch a plane waiting to take husband back to base in warri rig, so the point is that the lady would have taught this would be a nice future if she can get married and do her nnpc test on same day i don't see anything wrong there, but we Nigerians our mentality keep making us poor and poor, God help us.

even it could be her husband that push her to attend the test

Thank you. Some Nigerians will never grow up from their very low thinking faculty

Stromae:

you talk like you know the woman personally. As if you know for a fact that her husband did not encourage her to go for the test.

You talk as if the husband already has a high paying job and she doesnt need to struggle for a good job.

You talk like you already know the needs of the family (no seriously sick parents etc).

You talk like everyone in Nigeria has an ''ovation'' wedding.

You talk as if the candidates knew the exam would not start by 12 but that they would be delayed to start much later.

Because you are cushioned from the hard realities of 9ja life does not mean others don't adjust to survive it. Open your mind and don't be quick to put people down, you see pictures but you don't know what she was going through in her head. Grow up please.

Thanks for attacking her
Her thinking faculty is very very low
I believe she has not done wedding traditional wedding, not to talk of White wedding
She's just envying the poor lady that's trying to make her future better

devayid:

A Diva is the female version of a hustler,  correct girl! marriage is not about the day or the ceremonies, its about the life after together which in this case is most likely going to be well funded thats my kind of girl!

Thank you bros, i like your comment. i can do it too, because it's not all about that day, it's all about after the wedding fulks.

Seum:

I am short of words,
Personally, am shocked.
For gods sake, its a test and not even an interview that the chances are like 50-50.
The husband has some serious issues to consider and contend with.
We talk of reasons and the rate of unemployment in the country and I laugh because we forget to address the underlying issues here.
This woman must be really adamant and stubborn that nobody could comvice her otherwise.

The exam in benin started around 5:30pm and ended 7pm, so was she able to go back for the wedding reception.

I can only imagine the confused husband and guests shaking their heads and hissing.
I am a woman too and I used to think the wedding day is the woman's most important day, this lady has proved me wrong!!!

Listen to your self
What did you expect her to do @ the reception ground again as at 5.00pm
You said the exam started 5:30pm and ended 7pm
What time do they normally start and ends wedding reception? at least between 2-4pm
You said it's a test not interview, if she doesn't go for the test will she beable to go for the interview?
I believe some of you condemning her act, have not worked in a very big organization or earn huge salary
I beg make una enter inside like snail on this issue

abes:

for those you saying she should have changed to a plain dress, do you know the average time taken for a lady to dress up, rub pancake and do face painting? except you expect her to get to church at 7pm.

Dont mind them. i believe people talking have not experienced wedding preparation yet. That day is always confusing.

Ahaiweh:

This lady just proved to us that the mind can achieve what ever it conceives. Two major achievements in a day? Babe i remove cap for u. and for those haters, she is already 10steps ahead of u by just dis singular act. Who cares wat she wears to the test venue, pant, bra, swim suit, as long as she got to write the test and married her husband same day. Halleluyah if she gets the job. Player haters, stop existing and start living so someone will also talk abt u.
Peace out

I concur with you jare, dont mind them. Bad belle people. That's why better thing dey pass them. This type of bad belle people are the once that, if the lady eventually gets the job, they'll go begging to work for her as a cleaner.

I believe she want the management to pity and favour her. for e.g(when they see her, they'll say eyaa see this lady she came out to write the test on her wedding day, infact we must pass her)

And i also believe it will be part of her testimonies e.g(on my wedding day i went for a test @ NNPC and God has blessed me with the Job-praise the Lord).

lionness:

Seems like the job is more critical than the wedding. Its glaring what this one will do when a richer guy comes along.
She will walk out of her marriage, leave the kids, and follow baba olowo. god help the f00l inlove taking her home.

You reason like illitrate, it seem you are a full house wife, or you may be working but in a tiny office not yet exposed to huge package. Do you know what it takes to get a good job (oil company). She cant go for the test without her husband's approval cos the man knows what he's going to achieve when she gets the job.

Wake up madam, this is modern time.

lovely123:

He died the same way Dagrin died, This is what am saying,,If you think you can do Juju to become famous,,At the end of the day you will die, Yes Death will be your Portion, I do not,and i mean it never be remorseful for those who think the, y can use juju to make them an household Name,
You don't hear of occasional deaths like This in Hollywood or Bolly wood, Even if it happens,it's once in a while,like the case of Aliyah in the early 2000 and that of Elizabeth Taylor that happened yesterday, Eliz died at the ripe age of 79.
For those of you thinking of making yourselves an Household Name,and you do "jazz" as we call it, DEATH WILL ALL BE YOUR PORTION,  NONE SENSE,

Infact your name has to be changed from lovely123 to Horrible123
May God forgive you.
It seem you were the one that led him to juju shrine, that's why you came to know that he died because of the juju punishment
that means the same juju will come looking for you.
You better go for deliverance so that the juju will not take you.
LUNATIC

Nna rest in Peace. So we'll stop hearing (Happy Birthday by sister nkiru)

Nonsense Post. The world is coming to an end, Repent for the kingdom of God is near. Heaven help those who help themselves.

Monkey no fine him papa like-am. It's not easy to produce a baby. He's proud of his Blood jare. millions of people are looking for baby. I believe that's his first child, cos na the first de always shark person too much.

The baby resemble JBO? or who

Mopo moya
God will help us

Make up is worst on those old ladies with wrinkled bleached skin. And they always make it so thunderous on their faces. I believe a mild make up is preferable, it brings someone beauty out.

nikkykay:

You attitude made him not to show remorse.Y r u sulking and for what? You shld be very happy d guy opened up to you and try to get over it.
Fine you hv every right to be angry but dont overdo it to d extent that he wuld n ot show remorse. You shldnt have slept in d parlour like you said, if i were you i wuld use silence to to tear him apart. Altho its not easy but you can still do dat and he wil be wondering what your next line of action wuld be.
Instead u acted like a really woman by leaving d bed to sleep in the sitting room. Were u thinking he wuld spend the whole nite begging you?
My sister just congratulate your star that d guy told u the truth dats even if  its d whole truth.
Do  u think wit ds your attitude he wuld ever want to tell u any of such again or if a woman is trying to woe him outside or in d office?
Ladies, lets always handle issues wit maturity. Whn he comes  in surprise him, with your romance, try to be unpredictable, give him his food and even feed and have hot and passionate s3x wit him. The guy go fear u eeeee and at the same time respect your maturity
Sorry i didnt mean to be harsh.

I believe you are not a lady for saying these. Do you think it's easy to receive such a message into your heart? Pls if we see the truth or fault let's handle it sincerely. so what did you want her to do after confessing before he'll show remorse. Was he not suppose to confess and plead with the wife to forgive him. now you're expecting the woman to fall down and leak his anus. Let me tell you sucking is worst, he'll now use the same mouth to go and kiss the wife. I believe he did it intentionally since he didnt show any remorse about it.


My sister just take heart, there's nothing you can do. must men are like that. That's why i dont trust any human, except God. Dont divorce him, I believe you may not really have the love / trust for him again, but try stay back and take care of your kids. Such is marital life, must marriages are like that.

Okija_juju:

Go naa!!

Just because ehn suck bobby u wan blow gasket, what of if to say ehn liberate her congo? You for kill am?!

Seriously, first of all, cut the guy some slack, its not like you caught him, he confessed to you without being under duress. That's gotta count for somethinng. Now ask yourself why would a man reach the pearly gates and not go in? That means he still has some concience left in him. I say sulk all day but you had better straighten poo out with him before you send him to another womans arm.

Remember that he had alreaady sold u a line of them being christian partners and would have exploited that line to fool around with her behinnd your back if he was most men but he didn't,

All men get tempted, many fall, some stagger, but very few would be bold enough to confess to their spouses about it except they are caught pants down,

Go back to your guy, no be ehn own bad pass,

Your respond is very bad. Dont you know it's better  for that man to keep it to himself than to open his mouth and confess to his wife raw.
It's all bad that happened that you'll tell your partner, because it can destroy your marriage.
If he really wanted the wife to know about that, there are other better way to present it to the wife. e.g (honey do you know that lady seduced me) not to the extend of telling her, he was even sucking her breast "Abba".
You too reason now, that was too raw. According to the wife, she said he didnt even feel anything after confession.

allanohize:

They both look broke at old age!

Abeg, Genny and MI make una start investing o! Dis thing looks like a prediction o!

You talked out of this topic. Please mix your thinking well before you publish. so this is how old broke men/women look in your village, even with this designer's suit and sun glass?

ifyalways:

Has he always been like this or he changed overnight?

The hard part and the truth is this:your husband is a huge part of the problem by running to mom instead of staying home and working out a problem when you argue. Your problem is not with your mother in law, but with your husband. The fact that he runs to her house when you get into an argument is very mama's boyish.
Once he begins to put the marriage in its proper place, he'll be able to put his mother in her proper place.

You need to talk with your hubby and get on the same page. He has to quit running home to mommy anytime there's a problem.You guys obviously has communication problem.
Communication and mutual respect is lacking,have u tried "teaching" him?Talking with him on a good day?
Some boys just won't become men,sadly. 

Whatever you do,don't involve your MIL any more than this,don't cry to her or try to engage her in a discussion abt this problem.

Thanks im grateful

Like you said, i agreed with you 100%, my husband is the problem, he's been advised by his sisters not to be doing so, because they know the kind of mum they have.

We dont hide anything from each other, we communicate very well, . e.g our daily or monthly income, what we experienced while we were at work on daily basis, infact we play the way husband and wife should relate, but he's just fun of telling his mum everything, expecially when we have misunderstanding. I have a mother as well, i dont always table my family matter to my mother. My mum is understandable type, whether im right-o or wrong-o, she'll still support my hubby or be in the middle. but his mum, she takes anything my hubby tells her.

afrobaby:

Though not married, am engaged. Meeting my inlaw for the first time, unfortunately, my father in-law is late, so I only met the mum, wasn't really bad. I felt relaxed because my fiance has already told me that he has d final decision on whom to marry, especially since he is the first child and the breadwinner of the family. Though meeting her at first, she was a bit cold, I even had to ask my fiance if she likes me, but later she opened up, and told me she just wanted to be sure am for real and good for her son. The first time I noticed she actually opened up was the day she saw me washing my fiance's clothes, that was before I bought a washing machine becos e no easy to dey wash men cloth especially jeans.
The main thing is, understand your fiance or fiancee, know what he/she thinks about u, if he/she has decided it's you he/she wants, just be calm and be your natural self, u will be accepted with both arms.
And did I remember to tell you am the apple of my mother-in-law eye, lol, she could not even hide the joy on the day of our introduction , that even my siblings were telling me that my mother-in-law likes me so much, lol
God help us, I pray that the love we have now will not become bitter when we finally get married o, AMIN JESU

Pray very well-o, Because atime e dey sweet for beginning then e go bitter later. According to you, you said he's the bread winner. If you get married now and start having children, the cash inflow to his mum will drop, she wouldnt want to understand if the guy is married or not. She'll say you are the one stopping her son from  giving her the way he used to. So be careful. Limit your visit, be good but minimize it. Dont allow her to get used to your too good. Im talking out of experiened.  You know mother inlaws feel their daughter inlaws are their arrival that will come and block all the good things their sons has been giving to them or that will come and divert their son's heart/caring from them.

Blazay:

Blame your husband for not being a man.
I am sure you saw that before marrying him.
You have to be a real woman and re-direct his inability to communicate with you before it gets worse.
You are on NL yourself to ask for help and so I think this is a perfect matchn of the blind leading the blind in the journey of marriage.

You are both seem helpless in your marriage with your inability to share mutual concerns.
A recipe for disaster. Start acting like a married woman and take control of your home before things get out of hand.

Why should your mother-in-law's ability to bear grudges with you pre-occupy your mind anyway? Most in-laws are like that, especially if they lived miserable lives in their own polygamous marriages of constant figjhting and case-settlements. Is she your second spouse in the marriage?
Do you want to make her your "bestest" friend in your life? :-
You need to ignore the woman and concentrate on your husband. When your husband gets the message, she will get the message too.

The way your spouse treats you, is the exact way other members of his family will treat you.
You need to start teaching him how to 'close' his mouth.
And learn to close yours too and face your problems privately.

Thanks for your response
This is not blind leading blind issue sir. I had told him gently not to be reporting some of our family issues to his mother. He's been advised by some elders not to be doing that, if he really want his mother to like me. His family members likes me due to the way i attend to them. I used to be closed to her, i decided to withdraw myself because of the way she handles I and my husband's matter.

ifyalways:

Na today?
I bet she was the one that chose your wedding dress,food,venue and even wrote your vows,LOL.
Look,its between u and your mama's-boy husband.You have to "show" him that u are the new mama,infact the mama that has come to stay.
Try as much as possible to avoid whatever that leads to the squabbles.
Misunderstandings are bound to occur but how do u handle it?Flare up and sulk,deny him of congo or try to corner him with your feminine powers then gently make him bend?
I tell ya,that husband of urs is verrry easy to manipulate,u should be the one manipulating him,what has mama got on u?He is a grown agbaya,treat him as one;corner him with biscuit o jare!

Immediately after our misunderstanding, he'll put on his cloths and head to his mum's place for complain without me knowing. Any time we have misunderstanding, whether im wrong or right, im always the first person to apologies to him through text message or phone call, we dont keep Grudge till the next day because i dont want my kids to know that we are quarreling, and personally i dont know how to keep malice generally. . For sex i have never denied him sex, except if im having my monthly flow.

As for my sisters and brothers inlaws they like/support me, They like coming to my place, they like eating my food, they like my kids. They are always against the way their mum handles me & my husband's issue. Actually we dont have misunderstanding all the time, few time we have, he will go and table it to his mother. And he will act on any advise the mother gives him. And he likes telling me, if he act on everything his mother advice him, that our marriage wouldn't have lasted to date.

sunch:

As i said, i grew up in the midst of the yorubas in Lagos. But when it comes to dance. Go check the Urhobo people out(men and women). Yoruba/efik/ibibio are just bums shakers.

I believe you dont know how Efik dance. you only know about ibibio and yoruba. Have you seen Ekpe and its group danced before? if yes that's how Efik dance. pls im not talking about Ekpo i meant Ekpe Efik Masquerade

Good job, weldone. can you design me? i dont mind to forward my photograph to you. It's fun and i like it.
Please create more actors/actresses