Busy_body:


I read through the post back to front, so I don't have to think about it, you already mentioned the frostbitten weekload of frozen food preserved by the epileptic blink-and-you-miss-it power supply or have you forgotten

For the fact that am working, i dont realy on govt power supply, a generator set is supplying mepower.

Siena:



Nope, I wouldn't condemn. Condemn means you've written that person off. Use your spongy matter properly, or donate it to someone else, if it's wasted in your cranium. A condemned person is deemed to be beyond redemption.

I don't need to check the dictonary for the meaning of the word "condemn." Clearly, you do.

And you decree tattooing as evil? Thank the good Lord you're not on a Legal Bench! 

What's the correlation between theft, pr[i]o[/i]stit[i]u[/i]tion and tattooing? I think your foot steps well and truly need redirection.

Prove your above post. Your lack of common knowledge is alarming.

If my daughter was over 21, and wished to get a tattoo, there would be little I could do to stop her. What would you expect me to do? Tie her arms behind her back? You don't appear to make use of your brain before you type. I'm sure everything you've done till date was sanctioned by your parents, time to cut the b[i]u[/i]llsh[i]i[/i]t, and live in the real world.

I believe you've been given a post in the pit of hell, too bad to din with the devil
Allow your wife to tatoo herself since you love it real good, You dont have to wait for your daughter to grow.

• Rent in High rated & commercial areas of Lagos state its between 400k-1.2million in a 2-3bedrooms flat per annum, you’ll pay for 2yrs + agency & commission of 50 or 100% of the one year rent.
Demote area like Agege, Ikotun,Ajegunle,Mushin,Iyana-ipaja,Okoko, Iyanoba etc its between 150k-400k in a 2-3bedrooms flat per annum, you’ll pay for 2yrs + agency & commission of 50 or 100% of the one year rent.
• Food stuff: i believe its no much diff from where you are living now:
A bag of rice is between 7,000-8,000
A bag of Garri is between 4,000-4,500
Red oil is 450-500 per big ever plastic
Groundnut Oil 500 – 550 per big eva plastic
• Transportation its depend where you are going to stay
I guess between 500 – 1000 should cover your to & fro trip between home & office daily

odiaero:

^^ Me too wonder, if u have anything to say, say here

The guy na job man
Him want 419 the JJC 
Na wa, lagos here i come

Siena:

And the same God frowns at man being judgemental, you hypocrite. Go shake your tambourine somewhere else.  I guess you're going to tell us you don't wear make-up (paintings on your body). Selective religion is a terrible thing. 

It seem you belong to a cult

Siena:

And who gives you the right to condemn? Is that what the Bible teaches us? Please let me knw what version of Bible preaches condemnation, so I can avoid it like the plague (excuse the pun). 

And who is "we"?

So if any of ur relative or friend misbehave, wont you condemn his or her bad act? please go check the word codemn in the dictionary, you condemning/correcting someone's evil lifestyle doesn't mean you hate the person. for e.g you see that ur son steal or ur daughter doing harloting job, wont u condemn such act and direct her foot steps? you better wake up cos hell is real or you join tonto to design mark of the beast on your skin in the name of fashion. Will you allow that your daughter to tatoo her skin?

It’s a marine spirit sign.

Guardian:


No mind them ooh Them dey jelousy no be small. That's why I asked Poster to post her front side maybe some of them would have a change of heart and mouth, when them look upon her face 

What has her face got to do with her bad habit? We are condemning her bad pattern not her natural appearance.

torhuke:

dat back own no be show again. Its an obsolete style. Imagine dat kind of tatoo on her chest, i mean her uper bt not too uper chest,  Or in between her legs abv her hips near d hole to d Bottom hole,  Den she can display it for tatoo and ToNtO lovers to admire so dat their Joystick ehs can be gingerd wtout swahger,  RUBBISH

You too beat around the bush, you should have mentioned the thing at once now, haba

Ok, u can use generator for power supply

shumno:

My mum died when I was just 6, has not been easy but God's grace has been super sufficient.

From the very time i started recognizing her as my mum, she's been the best mum in the world anytime, anyday.
I love you mumsy. though i was raised by my grandma and she's been so nice too, even my late greatgrandma was so caring as well.

Sammiejo:

@ mummy3, I would like to know how you coped when your babies were much younger say about 3 months- 1.5 years. I am not a banker, but likely to find myself out of the home for long hours because of traffic.

My mum used to come and stay Mon-fri and go home sat morning then return on monday early morning. My mum is precious
If my mum wasn't there, may be i would have had another alternative
There's solution for every situation

Ivbade:

Well there are somethings you need to know as a mother when nursing especially your first baby. First of all your baby is OK!But How often does he move his bowel? is he on exclusive bosom feeding? does he pass gas often? Do you massage his navel with hot water 3times daily? do you take him through the baby exercise after bathing for him? These are things you can use to help him sleep well for now. Definitely after 3months he will overgrow it. Nothing to worry about, its only a phase that will be over very soon. Just try to enjoy it,  God bless you and your baby!

You're perfectly right
i experienced same when i had my boy, tho he's my 3rd child. but the experienced i had with my first 2 girls wasn't as worst as my boy's own
The colic is always between a week old baby to 3/4months. I normally use gripewater to calm it down, but the drug does not stop the cramp entirely
Its pathetic and stressful

funmismum:

I have been away from my husband for over one and a half years now, and I have never even thought of another man at all, when i call my husband anytime day or night he picks my call sometimes i call him 5 times a day, im always talking to his friends and family and his mum loves me, i know my husband is the faithful type, i believe its because of his ubringing by hismother and father as to why he is so faithful, they taught him a love of GOD ,family, and self. We need to love ourself before we can love another!!!My husband and i hope to bring up our daughter in his parents footsteps.

How do i come in?

Zandra1:

@ almondjoy, u got that right .

@ poster, I find u and your posts amusing . I saw your thread about wives submitting to their husbands and now this. U sure know how to advocate your beliefs but its all good . What ure forgetting is that a man that wants to sleep with his house keeper is likely to do so even if the wife does all the stuff u listed in your post. Lets not forget that some men without house keepers do cheat and the reason why a lot of them do so is not because they aren't satisfied with their wives. On the other hand, a man that isn't interested in sleeping with the house keeper wouldn't no matter how well she does her chores. Besides, from what ure insinuating a wife is supposed to do all the chores u listed in your post and here I am thinking that in a marriage that people are supposed to share the chores and/or do them together. If only the wife is to do all this what then would the husband do?

Ask him or her o

choicehome:

MAY MAID HAS TAKEN OVER MY MATRIMONIAL HOME[center][/center][color=#000099][/color]

This can only happen when the wife is not doing her duty as a wife.

1)    If your maid is the one cooking for your husband always

2)    If your maid is the one taking care of your children always

3)    If your  maid is the one cleaning the house alone

5)     If your maid is the one attending to your hasband whenever he needs attention or
        he is looking for something.

6)     When you are always traveling from one place to another  for more than three
         months without remembering that there will be cold in one of these nights.

7)      If your maid is the one that is always dressing your bed.

      And if she is beautiful and neat.

A day will also come that she will help you worm your bed. 

Be wise.


laura@choicehome-ng.org
www.choicehome-ng.org

What about the girlfriends the husband has been sleeping with outside the home, are they the one doing these functions in the house for him?  Make una leave this case, asawo man na asawo man. wife if you like stay in the house and be monitoring his footsteps so that he will not have access to your house maid, i bet you he'll still find his way.

My mother till triumphed sound
But my MIL (highest one week) because she’s a case file as long as her 5 son’s wives are concern she’s a case file I repeat again.


MIL =

SWEET MOTHER =

Why is it that majority of men complain about fat fat fat fat fat
So what do you people want the fat ladies to do? Go commit suicide?
What about if the fat lady is your own sister, would you tell a man not to marry her cos she’s fat?
Please you guys should spare me this fat stuff
Though am not fat o (moderate) , but I pity the fat ladies because of how people classify them.

@poster
The picture you see on a girlfriend or fiancée would be different when the so call girlfriend turns to be your house wife.
Girlfriend will always make sure her face is painted and always appearing good just to please you as a guy, then she’ll always be caring for you call you all sorts of sweet names in this world, may be to get some cash from you. But once the girlfriend now becomes your wife, the story will change because when you both wake up in the morning, you’ll see her face not painted again or not well dressed but with wrapper on her chest. So from there you’ll now begin to see how ugly she is. It’s the problem men are having. They believe girlfriends are finer than their wives @ home because of the every minute makeup they see on them.
So your ex that has been spicing you up would not be the same 100% when she comes into your house. I believe you can teach your wife the way you want both of you to flow, thank God you mentioned that she’s respectful.  May be your wife is a shy type since you people didn’t date before marriage, and you are not making her to get used to you, because you feel you don’t love her, you now decide to see the relationship as boring. It’s wrong. I know it was also wrong for your parent to had chosen a wife for you in this modern time and as a grown up man. So my advise is for you to teach her the way you like it. Good luck

ronkebp:

Mr Man!!!! am sorry for you that you live with someone that you do not have feelings for, when you knew that you don't love her from the beginning, why did you impregnate her immediately you married her? you should have let things be for the next  one and half years, so that you know what you are getting yourself into, especially since it was your parents that pushed you into marrying her (did not know that things like that still happen even with our level of civility). Now you are thinking of running away from her and leaving her with your child to cater and fend for him/her just because you are selfish (sorry to slam that on you), but that is selfishness, If you cannot continue with her, ''leave her as you met her'', you have ridden her to tiredness, eaten from her pot of honey, now you are tired and afraid of going back home, because you have just recently concluded, finalized, that you do not Love your wife. (is that not some bull-crap).

Gbam! you’ve just told him the truth

BABE!:

LMAO--- heheheeh.

@OP:

lol @ she's getting fatter and fatter.

You shouldn't have married her! Obedient son gini? Are your parents around to feel your pain now? No. You have a kid with her? You complicated matters bro.

Anyways--you don enter am, but E never spoil. Hope still dey.

Happiness and Love can't be forced. That being said, you need to dig deep and find something you like about her; even if it's just one thing. Capitalize on that; build on that, and the love will grow eventually. There're happy days ahead. As for your Ex, get her out of the picture asap. You don't want to be a cheating husband. 

In a mature and clever way, tell her to lose weight and start looking more attractive. You two should work on things. Spice it up! Go for counselling, if you have to.


@ women: Pls take care of yourselves for your respective husbands. The OP's wife doesn't know what "trouble" she's in now. She's busy eating all the "edibles". Oga!

i feel your comments jare

chiogo:

So on point, girl.

I don't really know who's prettier or what not. Uche is pretty but she needs to lose some weight  Oge is also pretty but her legs are weird - k-leg??
As for acting, I'll go with Oge, haven't seen many movies with Uche.

supported

demystify:

They are all pretty.
I can't choose cos each of 'em is endowed in different ways.

Personally i like Oge.

seconded by me

She had already given herself the mark of the beast (Endtime mark), too bad.

Busy_body:


Na chicken you dey raise or wetin, wey you dey feed them [i]shuku agbado [/i]every blessed night

Repressed memories of my Mum feeding us bread & egg or bread & tea or cornflakes every freaking morning is just coming up to the surface I need to book an appointent to see a Clinical Psychologist asap to tackle this issues, after which I need to get a Lawyer to sue my Momma for child abuse No wonder I turned out the way i did - unbalanced because all i got fed was unbalanced an diet No wonder I vex for this thread earlier due to the deeply entrenched emotional trauma

Thank God you said every blessed night (not Morning, Afternoon & Night)
So think of what the kids would have been eating in the morning and in the afternoon also for a balance diet.
What did you expect your mumsy to feed you with in the morning? Amala, Eba, Fufu or agoyi Ewa
I believe we should read through, think before we post, for it to sound reasonable

Kunbee:

I wonder what the fuss is about. Like what mummy3 said a child who wants to spoil will spoil

@mummy3 my mum did the same thing when i was growing up and i didn't turn out bad, though it wasn't a bank job. Keep praying and training your kids in the way you think is best and the Lord will direct you. Up qc girls    

yo girl, a thumb up for the qc

Gaggi:

^^^^^
Mummy3

They all say u r doing great with your multi-tasking. Anyway pray u don't drop dead one day with all this stress. God forbid sha, not wishing u evil but stress kills.

You say u travel round d world abi? Pls save your money, stop traveling round d world and invest in a business so u can leave that stressful life and have more time for the family. At the end of the day, in this life the only thing that matters is family.

Thanks for your advise
my trip is always @ my office expense
I have good savings already
Did you say stress? i  , Who does not go through stress in this country,  traders, pastors, farmers etc name them, even sch children go through stress
Is it the business that would make me not to go through stress?
After all am not working in a steel & metal factory or digging road for Julius berger
Since stress has not been killing our mothers, grand mas & GGrandmas in the village farm, i dont think it will kill me, Amen

I believe this guy has just been jilted and when his girl friend jilted him she was wearing trouser that’s why he’s upset with trouser babes
Or He’s just been imported from the village to town and when he wanted to come to Lag, he was now warned to beware of trouser babes and those babes that apply blood on their lips.
You know now, village mentality
Guy, you deserve to be poured hot water by opj cos you’re a CONFIRMED MUNTULA

What type of roofing, is it Thatch or Zink roofing?

whizcode:

madam koi koi was just a funny story told in  boarding house to scare junior students.

You may be right.
Can you imagine because of this said koi koi, i had to run away from my boarding sch.

Gylae:

I'm an Igbo man and the truth is my children cannot and will not marry from the north. Neither will they marry from the west. Take it or leave it. Call me tribalist if you must.

That’s what you’ve said
When your children are up to that stage they will say their own
As long as life is concern you can’t make choice for them in this modern time
I bet you

I can only support /advise you like you said not to allow your child to get married to any northern fellows