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@Pweetymii, you know na na July o. Thanks dearest, i appreciate ur kind gestures n encouragement to us here. God bless you and grant you ur heart desires soon.

Thanks my sisters for all ur encouraging words. I dont want to mention monikers b4 i forget some. God bless you all. I was actually crying reading your responses. For those who feel I am murmuring and complaining, though u did not quote me directly, I understand you, and I believe your response is from a good place, i am equally encouraged, thank you. I was actually thinking of why someone would tell a ttc woman that she is unhappy, not knowing or choosing o ignore the many reasons that could make her look or sound unhappy, hence my post. I av so many things I am thankful to God for and things that do make me happy. Happiness is a feeling that comes n take leave whn it wishes. Let's be sincere and call a spade a spade, except you just started ttc, we av all been there once in a while, where ttc hit you so much n u may tend to forget the very purpose of your existence. For those that quoted scriptures, Job complained n argued with God, Jerimiah was a great prophet but was depressed, Elijah was suicidal, Naomi was bitter, i can go on and on, but God restored them all. God understands that we are human, he created us and He knows our weaknesses. I av not lost my faith in God, I know he cares for me and he has a good plan for me whether it ends with a baby or not, his plan will still be the best. In all, God has been faithful all this years. I av not left him for once and have no plan of leaving Him, my favourite scripture is Job 13:15 "though He slays me, yet will i trust Him..
@All, Thanks and God bless you all, do av a wonderful week end. For those who will attend MFM power must change hands, pls remember us ur prayers.

Godchild2015:
@mumredeemer i can only imagine what you must be going through.
My prayer is God to grant all your heart desire ,so you can be that happy woman you have wish for . It is well my


It is well

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Tanx my sister. It is well. God bless you n grant you your heart desires too.

curvilicious:
Mamas, i greet una o
I hail
I butu
MS dey waya me here. Once i strong i go come dey scara here

@curvillicious so e get something wey fit humble u? pweetymii never warned u? sorry my sis, u will b fine. na d only sickness wey we no go mind get be that. God will make it easy for u. Take care.

Long post alert!

TO THE PERSON WHO TAGGED ME "UNHAPPY"

I was once in a happy place untill ttc gallop into my life unannounced, accompanied by fraustration, depression personal insecurities and others. I could not help but become an unhappy person.
I got my choicest job immediately after school, got my first car and a nice apartment within few months, met my dream husband and got married within a year. Having children is something I always craved growing up, having that dream bursted is in itself an unhappy situation.
I am unhappy because i could not fill that biological urge because my body by default couldn't do something i had always just assumed it would. It cuts deep!
I am unhappy because there is so much negativity, too much stigma n assumptions abt wht lead people to this road. i am unhappy because my struggle has cast a shadow upon every aspect of my life n identity. I AM UNHAPPY!
I am unhappy whn my neighbour sheild her children from me because she feels ttc is a plague or for other reasons best known to her. I am unhappy whn a close freind hides news of her bfp till she delivers n I get to hear from another freind, yet we are chatting almost everday. I am unhappy whn ttc make my loving DH to become a total stranger sometimes. I am unhappy whn i see my DH gazing lovingly at children n i can't seem to give him his own. I am unhappy whn I look at my handsome DH and fear gripped my heart that i may never b able to reproduce his image. I AM UNHAPPY!
I am unhappy whn i av to open my legs to a young male sonographer and ultrasound technitian to check the potency of my tubes and track my follicle sizes. I am unhappy because every AF is a funeral of d babies I never coceived. I am unhappy whn other women discussed their baby's first poo and i av nothing to contribute because my baby is yet to poo. I AM UNHAPPY! I am unhappy because kpekus is meant to be an intimate n tender occurence but in my case, i am forced to kpekus even whn i am sore n not in d mood because i am in my fertile window. I am unhappy because making babies is supposed to be a private affair btw couples, but mine has become a scientific experience, shared with lab technicians, doctors, nurses etc.
I am unhappy because my whole life has become a cycle of waiting, waiting for doctor's appointment, waiting for results n procedures, waiting for drugs from amazon, waiting for my period, waiting n waiting. I am unhappy knowing that there is a possible treatment out there that could help me conceive but i can't afford. I AM UNHAPPY! I am unhappy because my babies keep hunting my dreams. I am unhappy because as painful, frustrating, stressful and emotional as this journey is, i can't seem to give up the hope of holding my babies in my arms. I AM UNHAPPY because right now I am on my cd 40 on a regular 28 day cycle, no Af, both hpt and bpt turn out negative. I am unhappy because I don't knw wht stupid game my body is playing. I AM UNHAPPY
I am unhappy whn u dig up my posts on nairaland n clap back at me n tag me unhappy. I am unhappy because u know my name, not my story, u knw what i av done but not what i av been through. Only I can judge me. I am unhappy because, u might b wearing d same shoes as mine on this journey, untill u walk few months in mine, u av no right to judge me.
Elkanah was worth more that ten sons to Hannah, she was in a happy place but unhappy. Jacob loved Racheal so much, he served 14 years to get her, she was in a happy place but unhappy. She told Jacob to give her a child or she will die, so I am not the first to be unhappy ttc. I am tired of pretending to be happy whn i am not. I AM UNHAPPY because I AM TTC!
But one thing I knw, Jesus came for d unhappy people like me, so that he can make them happy. I know that I will be happy that moment i hold my baby in my arms n suckle her or I will be happy whn I get to see my Saviour in His Glory.

Please, to the Happy People, DON'T QUOTE ME!

HAPPY NEW MONTHS MY LOVELY FAMILY.

Blessedmumi, so sorry for your loss. May you be comforted by the Lord, n may He visit you soon n cause u to smile. Hugs, hugs. Be strong.

Loisemm:
Yak abasi akop akam yin ke ayin Jesus!
Asiere o kun Sak o

*tight hugs...

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Amen! eyen eka, abi anwan eyen eka mi? but mme usak o. I just bursted out laughing. It is well, it will all end in praise.

[quote author=mbula post=56913412][/quote]Amen o, eyen eka. Afo umeme o.

lynda1:
Good day mamas,
Am a Silent follower of this group....
first, congrats to all mamas God has blessed...healthy and stress free pregnancy to you all.

I write this with a heavy heart....
TTC has not been easy(2° infertility)....buh am writing this because the devil did its WORST.
My joy and pride is no more!!!

It has been a rough 2017 but with God am a conqueror.
My boy came forth 2015...started TTC again last yr till date...all to no avail. But i lost him this year...
why me is all i ask...
Where is my God i asked myself..
Most times, i would feel like taking my life....i'v been so depressed ever since he passed away(he was almost 2yrs)...
I don't even have anybody to talk to except going to God in prayers.
I jst need your prayers....for God to comfort me n hubby.
DOUBLE for my trouble.

This made me teary. I av never lost a child, so i wont say i know how u feel, but i know d feeling of being without something u cherished so much. In this ttc journey, every AF feels like i av lost a child i never conceived. I pray that God will comfort you and give you another child not as a replacement for d one u lost because i dont think it is possible to forget or replace d love for a lost child. May God strengthen you and ur dh and show u his compassion. Come, e-hugs sis, take napkin n wipe ur tears, we love u,.
Wishing u loads of sticky baby dust.

MGeey:
Hey this God good o. Anam se kod enye uko ke ekong, anam akpaniko Abasi, Ndudu Abasi, Otommo oboko Abasi, Andikeme ndinam kpukpru mkpo, sosongo ke mme nti eno emi. Ubong enyene fi ke nsi nsi, amen.

Congratulations Goldenheart002. May you carry to term and birth safely like the Hebrew women.

MGeey, Abasi adot ekom o, ke utibe mkpo se enye anam ke ufot nyin. Amesiere!

[quote
With gratitude to Jehovah Jireh, I announce to u all, my BFP
Hahaha. Emi nikan tan
I hereby prophesy that MAY bfps is just a 1quater of what JUNE will bring[/quote].

Another bfp and many more loading. Heavenly Father we thank You o. Congrat Goldenheart02, wish u h&h 9 months

Our God has done it again. Singing - Baba we praise your name, you are worthy of praise! Baba we praise your name, you are worthy of praise.
@folash, Congratulation! Happy and stress free bumping. You will carry to term n birth safely.

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Johnuuuu! e no konsain us. In God we trust!

congratulations! miraclefromGod. wish u h & h nine month n safe delivery.

I tap into this season of bfp, i declare that i will catch d bug of miracle bfp n will testify soon.
I pray that none of us will b left out of this miracle IJN. Amen.

prettmum:
Oh God, your words are always true and what you say you will do you will do. when a prophecy comes from God, it must surely come to pass. YES God is ever faithful and merciful. please beautiful mamas let hold HIM tight BECAUSE ONLY HIM CAN DO WHAT NO MAN CAN. I PRAY FOR
LEGENDMOTHER
BLESSEDDIVA
PWEETMII
FIVNE
LOISMM
CRAVINGCHIC
REDEMMED
ORNEY
MIRACLEBABY
4REALWOMAN YOU MAMAS ARE NEXT INLINE. CONGRATULATIONS TO MUMMY JOHN AKA CURVILLIOUS AND Zino9 and Blessedmumi, I know one with God is majority. HnH 9months.

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@prettmum, I fix my name in d middle by faith, i will join them to testify.

Ekatwins:
Pls all, I truly need help. Pls I need help

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Ekatwins, kpe!. Wipe ur tears n calm down. Talk to dh whn he is relaxed. What is d different between him going out there to impregnate another woman n d use of a donor egg?. In d end, it will still b another woman's egg n his sperm. I dont see d sentiment in this, mayb because it is only a ttc mama that can see things differently. U both need counselling as he suggested earlier, but d councillor too matters. It shd not b a freind or family member. If in d end he still does not agree to donor egg, there is nothing u can do than to resind to fate n trust God for a miracle because even with ivf, it is still God that make it happen, with or without donor egg or sperm.
I knw it cld b very disappointing after saving with hope for two years only to watch the hope shattered. But who knows wht God is planning for u? Mayb God want u to use d money to go on vacation wd ur lo n dh whn He finally do it for u. We av heard cases of people here who were booked for ivf but it turned out they did not need it because God did it naturally for them. I pray this will be ur case.
e-hugs dearest. Try n get some sleep, it will end well.

orney:
I get qwesion ooo
Mama's who ate fufu and okra for multiples, which day of d cycle am I meant to start and stop... Bcoz I learnt okra is acidic

orney, no finish fufu for market o, because i knw as that multiple dey hungry u. thank God u no live for my area b4 u make them increase fufu price.

ttc mamas whn they say b careful u may get multiple eating that.

Pweetiebabe:
5Bfp already 45 more to go for dis month abeg mamas claim urs and book ur space.

So make I use d opportunity book for d following mamas @4realwoman, Cravingchic, Legendmother, Loisemm, FruitfulRay, Mamatwiny, Mumredeemer.

see me smiling, thanks mama pweetiebabe. I claim my space sharp sharp, i secure am wd my baby crib, I am coming soon.

curvy curvy mama, congratulations! i wish u a h&h 9 months and safe delivery. U will carry to term n birth like d Hebrew women.

congratulations @blessedmumi, i wish u a h&h 9 months.

@cravingchic, e-hugs and sticky baby dust. God will do it again and it will be permanent

@kiru2, u r welcome, may ur stay b short n fruitful

4realwoman, u rock. I beg no add weight again except dh is complaining. Ur shape is lovely. TGIF

Happy weekend mamas.

mamakendra:
Hello beautiful mothers, how go dey go?
What more do you Mama's think I should add to help the ministry.
Wehdone mas (in falz voice)

I learnt vit c and black cohosh enhances d effectiveness of clomid. U can research. I wish u d best sis. Just let d dr. do his work. Baby dust.

CravingChic:
@curvilicious aka mama John, after you go dey run that your mouth dey find trouble upandan. Comon to wee wee and put stick insyde water, u come dey fear. My friend go and wee wee joor. Then bring one bottle as you dey return with the good news. Cheers!!

More bfps enroute for us all mamas.

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kai @curvillicious, i dey wait ur response to this. @cravingchic, na our able mama curvy u dey taunt like this? Meanwhile mama John go wee joor n come wd d gud news. Congratulations on ur bfp as we await ur WIDD.
4realwoman, i no understand that pic, but since there is no pains associated wd it, i will say ignore n kpekus as mamas av sd, u can also do hpt to rule out preggy. In all, trust God for d best.
@pweetymii, dey find trouble upandan, dey ginger n garlic people, whn they pepper u, u will see. omojudy, no mind her, the one wey go tame her dey come for road, him name na MS.
To all our newbies, una welcome o, may God make ur stay short and fruitful.
Baby dust to all.

@zino89 wao! wao!! wao!!! Congratulations once again. I cant stop smiling. Truely in Orney's voice, it is only ttc mamas that can spot a faint second line. kposas for ttc mamas, our God has done it again. You will carry to term n birth safely, mother alive, LO alive, father alive with plenty cash.

@pampharez, sorry for ur loss, God will give u double for d 2. 'thought IVF is recommended to bypass blocked tubes, mf and d likes? why will it now fail as a result of blocked tube assuming that was d case? So but not 4 ur Bil, u wont even knw why it failed?. I wonder how many couples av bn scammed by fertility clinics in this country in d process of IVF and other fertility treatments. To those couples, they had 3, 4, 5, failed IVF while only God and d doctors knw wht actually happen.
God please set us free from ttc, make us mothers, don't let us be used as guinea pigs by unqualified doctors to carry out their experiments. Don't let them turn us to their ATM machines, for even ATM gives out wht the card owner deposited, don't allow us spend our money again on wht is not bread, for u promised us that we wont spend our money on that which is not bread. Father, please answer us for d sake of ur name, please, please, answer us so that ur name will be glorified.

Pampharez:
. just to feel sane ( no body around me here understands)

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@pampharez, we understand. In orney's voice, only ttc mamas can understand. It will end in praise, now that u av consulted d best Dr. (Dr. Jesus). Like u rightly sd, only him can say yes! n no man can say no!. Keep d faith sis. He will surely come through for u and all of us.

orney:
Only a ttc mama can see the faintest second line

@orney, this got me cracking. So hilarious.
See the way ttc mama look at pt strip below.

Dont worry sis, u will b a mother soon.

@zino89, congratulations, we desire d best for u.

@Towerofgrace, tanx for d mention. I am very much in d house with my lovely e family, after God n dh, u guys r next. Still in sharing mood wd DH, i no wan here say na because i carry ttc for head na im make d man waka go outside. Boo try jo, no be him fault, na ttc wahala cause am.

blessingthanks:
gives perfect result call 09065688473

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This must be heaven's phone number because i know perfect results comes from there. I will call when i am convince, right now i am confuse.

pweetymii:
This one even had the guts to upload his brother in law's pix!


Brother Seun and Auntie Dominique see some of your customers that are supposed to pay for advert passing through the back door...

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@Pweetymii, dont worry. one day this is what will happen to all this marketers coming to exploit us.

Mummyjj, HWA, may u celebrate next anniversary with John and Joan and in gud health. The joy n peace in ur home will not cease in Jesus name. Amen!

mama John, prayer mood activated. #evilhandmustcatchfire# #Johnmustbereleasedtohismother#

Loisemm:
Good mama
I pour oil on your head and commission you for this good work. It shall be a blessing to you and lead to greater blessings in your life including sharp sharp bfp. Thanks for volunteering. Pls carry go.

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Kikikikikiki, see Elijah handing over mantle to Elisha sharp sharp. U cld not even wait for us to decide, u already poured oil. Are u afraid we may object? @ffvsquared, thanks for volunteering, mama Loisemn has bn looking for someone to take over d mantle since. May God reward both of u abundantly.

curvilicious:
@ mumredeemer, dont mind that person roving this thread. Thanks for the prayers darling, God bless you, we love u nd d prayers

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God bless you too mama John. I know him very well, he is a marketer. He has called me out b4 whn he tried to force a mama to buy proxeed plus n i told him d mama already sd she went for fertilsan m. He want to derail this thread but he will not succeed.