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lailo:
You are right but money answereth all things bro. If u are rich and u take care of your wife's need well. She will have mood everyday . It will even be romantic to her to be a one-minute man
Lack of money is what is causing all these excuses
It is rich men's wives who complain of inadequate sex from their husbands and poor men who complain of sex starve by their wives. Fact

Rib cracking comment..

wunmi590:


Nah man wey dey force him wife split bill or no dey take care of him house responsibility him wife go dey deny se everytime

You never see woman wey dey foot house bills, still dey love and bleep her hubby scara..

Them plenty o.

Some men aren't aware a lady you married, might still not be into you like that..Just settled with you based on available man..

Only do sex for procreation and ones in a blue moon.

Frustrating.

If a married wife weaponize intimacy, The man is pushed to the walls.

odinson1:
This is another excuse,if a woman likes you, she'll always want to have sex with you. If you aren't good in the game, she'll teach you.
Women break rules for men they like,and Make rules for men they don't like.
Don't let the lies women say get in your head bro

And it can change at any time o

Carcholce:
This is why it’s good to marry two wives. Both wives cannot be acting like witch at the same time. They will always be at competition to kill you with sex.

Our ancestors enjoyed every left...

Tell a genZ lady about polygamy, just know say you have activated the tiger in her.

Nigerianization:
Nwanne I will not argue with you. If I tell you who I am in Imo, you will look for my number, but it's not necessary. Even a dude that I helped to get employment during this strike in imsu is receiving his pay. I will not say too much.

I asked for some specific information to counter but you seem to be emotional. After leaving my appointment because of the supreme court judgement that ended IHEDIOHA's tenure, I should be more bitter but I see things differently. The road leading to IHEDIOHA's House in his village was tarred by Hope.

Every contract initiated by IHEDIOHA was audited and continued by Hope. THAT YOU CAN VERIFY.

The staff biometric verification exercise started by IHEDIOHA was completed by Hope.

Everybody has classified information, it depends on where you are coming from and what you have.

Our government would have performed better if not for the supreme court judgement. But hope is here and he is doing a good job. We can hate him all we want but truth is like oil. It always stay on top of the water.

2024 will be the judge to current realities.

mariahAngel:
True, but should a couple risk their children losing both parents?

May we not find ourselves in situations that are beyond us, then again, it is the reality of many people.

What if they share organs and live longer to watch their children grow?

I always believe, whatever that happens to our lives is 85% destiny..since I became more matured, I take things naturally as they come without forcing it.

The moment one is faced with such situation, you will want to do more..Unless the partner o mee wa la onye nke ozo obi by Igba na eshi.

I look at my parents, ones one is down, onye nke ozo ga adi restless. We can stay outside late, and momsy no go too bother..Mana Di ya noro na eshi ya kuo 7pm, nwaanyi ga kpogide till he returns.. This is what we call love and sacrifice as it should be..Hapu kids..Even if parents die, their destined path will never be denied.

Couples must see eachother first before kids..O kwa ha muru ha.

Militant1:
I will try to be brief and straight to the point.

My wife stays up late (11pm -12 am) every blessed day.... That's the problem.

We live in Lagos and have 2kids, 3yo and 8 months. My wife was working before but left the job when she gave birth. There is a job waiting for her when the baby is 1y6mnths, therefore she is a stay at home mom.

We live on the mainland but I work on the island so I live home as early as five. In our house we have all the amenities you can think of; 24 hrs light (NEPA plus inverter), running water, gas, 2 washing machines etc to make a home 95percent comfortable but my wife can't seem to cope and it started when we had one child.

She doesn't wash my clothes, my office shirts and suits are given to dry cleaner to arrange while my other laundry I do myself every weekend with the washing machine.

When I get home by 7pm or 8, that's when she now starts rushing to bath the kids and prepare dinner, so we eat by 9 or 10. Before the kids play play and play, by 11pm we are still awake. Sometimes I go to bed by midnight and have to wake up by 4am to go to work again. It's impacting on my health and my work. She will sleep by 12 am and wake up by 8 or 9am the following day.

I have tried to beg and appeal to her. If I eat out and come home to just sleep, she go dey vex. If I just come home shower and sleep the kids who have passed their bedtime will be playing and when madam is ready to sleep they won't agree to sleep. She will beat them, guess who they will come crying to- daddy that just started sleeping and has to wake by 4am, I will now pet and pet till 2am before kids sleep.. I have advised her that kids have a bedtime(8pm). When I man up and off the tv by 9pm and tell everyone to go to bed, she says I am disrespecting her. She reports me to her mum.

Worse still our sex life is horrible... We have sex like once in 2 month.. At 35 I am in my sex prime and can Bleep everyday but she doesn't seem to care about me because she is always tired am I pity her so I don't demand sex so much.

I fully understand stay at home is not easy and I help her when.

I tried to create a schedule for her.

Wake up by 6am
By 7 she suppose don clean finish
By 8 breakfast should be ready for her, kids
9-10am bath herself and the kids
10-12 do any other stuff in the house
12-3pm rest, watch movies, chill
3-5pm... Do whatever she likes
5pm boil water and bath the kids
6pm she don bathe and bath kids
7pm... Food don done... Everything dey freezer
8pm we eat
By 9 everyone goes to bed and we knack 1hr

I throw the trash every day
Na me dey go market buy foodstuff
On weekends I clean the house
I wash my all my clothes
I provide all the finance in the house
I satisfy her on the bed when we naka. She begs me that she's tired
I buy her gifts, drop 3k for her everyday
Why should we have a house help when she is a stat at home mum (for now)

So what's the problem..


Mothers, are my demands too much?
Mothers, please when do you close your kitchen and go to bed?
Are you still awake by 11pm every blessed day.
Am I crazy?

Please advice me.

I have begged her, pleaded, shouted, done everything. Sometimes I intentionally come home late (10-11pm) thinking that the kids have gone to bed but my first child will be watching cartoon.

Please advice me. I am going crazy, Lagos is stressful

Forget all you wrote bro..

The boring sex life is the jinx.

Any man will understand perfectly..Women don't know that sex is therapeutic to us...Few women who does, are enjoying marital bliss.

For a provider like you, your wife should explore that spiced sex life to keep you moving and relaxed.

Find ways to talk to her about this and do it in her happy mood..She will think about it.

Be honest and direct about it.

Rozross:
If all you type are true then take a drastic decision and call your wife to order and you should be the one to decide how the home is run since you provide everything. I dislike women who stress good men. Husbands should be tired of sex and not begging for it. Please take charge of your home and clip her wings so she’ll know what been a wife entails.

Let me remove glasses to read again..

Enny2013:
U spent 20k on two dates n u said u ain't a Simp?
And u ar posing as if u haven't spent a dime. Y are u guys lyk dis? Simps in reality,but redpillers online.
Everyone forming what they are not on Nairaland!!!
Bro, u shud hv added dat 20k to ur BUSINESS nau.

Rib cracker

Perfectman91:
Ordinary 1k but if your fellow man ask for am you go ghost am. Motherfucker

Let's call this s Redpill VS SIMP fight..

Now we are healthy, we will feel we can't.

Not until you are faced with that situation where you watch your better half die slowly and looking helpless..On your own, you will want to bring out the organ and submit to him/her.

This life is not our own, you can lose it any time any day..Even with your full health..

If I am faced with that situation, I will do it if money can't..And it is strictly for my kids, wife or any of my siblings.

Not for a girlfriend of 5years or so..No be one man dey get girl friend.. Before you will go and change battery for car wey another man dey drive..

Beremx:
I can never donate for my husband. His siblings should donate for him. I will only donate for my siblings or child

Wahala..

Laslas some couples are just cohabiting or co-parenting.

Nigerianization:
As an OBIdient that I am, I should not be here defending Hope. I also do not like him because of the way he came to power.

First I mentioned imsu. If anybody who is a staff of imsu should dispute this, I might beg my cousin to permit me to publish his payslip for August 2022. Remember imsu is on strike.

Those who claimed that civil servants are being owed are lieing. Those who scaled through the staff biometric verification exercise receive their pay in full. Many people were hurriedly employed with backdated appointment letters signed at the twilight of the Rochas administration. The forensic Audit conducted by IHEDIOHA fished them out. Hope only completed the process and all those cleared are paid up to date.

I have at least 10 blood relations on the payroll of the Imo State government. I have an august 2022 payslip of a striking lecturer in imsu.

How will a governor who is owing workers pay those on strike?

On road infrastructure, nobody in his right senses that love Imo State will give Rochas any credit. I traveled from Orlu to Owerri and there was no single pothole on a 33km expressway. ROCHAS never achieved that feat.

Am just doing all of this for enlightenment purposes. I am not speaking for home.

Maybe you should ask those who claimed that civil servants are owed the following questions

1: their MDA
2: if they have been duly verified
3: how many months owed

We can take it up from there.

You can deceive others but not me..

I have professors who are lecturing in Imsu, some close allies and confidants.

Where you the Accountant general that paid them or are you the contractor hope kept in government house who is rumoured to be the one paying salary rather than the AG...

Most of what you put up here is pure fallacy.

Ihedioha's 7months out classed hope's 3years so far.

I am not here to argue with you, you can't be more Imo than I am currently.

I have acess to classified Info about here, you likely may not.

Hope has no programme..Only picked form because Rochas insulted Imolites.

Got into power by wuruwuru..If you think he is doing well, it is up to you.

2024 is A year and few months away.

njimezz:
Are u talking based as an imolite or speaking as a confused citizen. The road wasn't constructed by hopeless uzor adiroma rather d washed was patched which u can go and verify

You are very much aware...

Thats my route..Every 2weeks patching

Not even smooth..Your car will be dancing

pek:
Then your opinion can't be trusted.

Anybody trusting that will be heading to a deep pit....

That might be an APC urchin from Lagos branch.

mariahAngel:
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha
The last part got me laughing.

Well, I can understand how draining it can be when one is constantly expected to do what they're naturally not cut out for, especially by a selfish partner.
Bia, free me!

Very draining...

Refusal leads to more problems sef..O kwa baby ka anyi ga mee photo shoot na studio, baby ka anyi gagharia..A noro na public, baby hug me well, baby kiss me.. Ahu la m ihe na uwa o.

It's all fun and lovely but it comes when you may actually not be ready for it.

Gi wuru onye ihere nsogbu....

Well, I am attracted to nwaanyi na juhu oyi..O wu ebe ike noro gwu m.

mariahAngel:
Hahahahahaha

Although, during their season, I observed that quite a number of them created threads here, asking people to wish them happy birthday, and I was like na wah!
Including their males o.

As for sags, it comes on and off.
Generally, everyone does sha. To some certain level.

You really need to see how I am laughing reading your comment..

O si generally everyone does..o fu akwukwo si anyi court attention at all cost...( Robert green in 48laws)

But i huru those who hunt for it, avoid them..Even if yawuru onye life partner... you will be forced to do what you aren't ready to..And it can wreck you.

Hassanmaye:
Hard truth but allow simps to learn

It's a pity.

mariahAngel:
Hahahahahahaha

I'm yet to relate closely with a Leo to confirm the attention seeking thing.

I will tell you all you need to know..

Muna ha agbaala ndu

Some saggs does too.

Even Aries.

O di m ka o wu ihe fire elements connections

mariahAngel:
I dikwa sure na reading gi gbasara Roz di accurate?
Most of her comments are amusing.

She is being difficult with her heavy seeking of attention..Even o likiri attention kara umu nwaanyi ndi leo..Most of her comment wu attention.

Iliveforever:
Person wey “woman” no fit kill go live long

May God save us from attention seeking woman..

Mrkumareze:
Let see if it ll be like Rochas road, roads without drainage, poor asphalt and compact

I tire..

Same road they did patch patch some weeks ago..

rajiedreez:
She said wetin I do

No remorse at all...

Poverty and hardship has made many people a forced couple with one or both deceiving eachother

OKOATA:

Go and check very well things like this usually happen to guys that mostly kneel to propose. The first classification of a 1st class SIMP is a man that proposes to a lady while kneeling down like a fool especially in the public view.

Funniest thing maybe he's one of those SIMPing fools that always cry on their wedding day, your friends bunking your wife while the SIMP shedding mumu tears on wedding day. The same mumu tears he shed on wedding day is the same SIMPing tears he's doing right now. Thunder fire you dia.

The thing pain you reach like this..

Women only play foolish men.

When your wife knows you sabi wassup,she will thread with caution.

wman:
And Sheggz shouldn't have asked Groovy why he is dating someone like Phyna to the hearing of others.

That is very insulting. And it triggered her more.

And he started denying it later.

Right from week2, Bella have this condescending thing about Phyna..

And Phyna is aware..so it was a chance for them to go head to head..And it was all fine...

Na Shegz just the cast...woman matters, keep your distance as long as no physical attack.

Froshloaded:
Phyna said man dey insult you, you call am love

I love phyna

Problem for who go challenge her for mouth yarn...

Na 5-2 currently.

Ballistic missiles here and there...

So shegs na pussy ass niggar......phyna 2022..

Froshloaded:
Sheggz and his babe should stfu

Those two na fools..

You form posh, yet drag for food..

Shegs don buy case for Edo babe hand...People wey dem use bad mouth bless..she go finish both bella and Shegz..

To think I called shegs a sissy yesterday..

PlayMaker14:
She lost someone close?

Yea..Her Dad

Zonefree:
Really? I have no idea. So sorry


You got any idea how I can reach her?

She will come online when chanced..

You can give her mention..THANKS