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Can you just imagine!?!?

I am very sure if it was a guy that came out expressing how though things are for him you won't be this quick to render help. Because on several occasions a lot of married men run to this place lamenting how though it has been to
carry on with their responsibilities and some even thinking of committing suicide but rather all they got is mockery and bashings to go die on time...

Well, I am not discouraging you from helping the lady IF you can but please also extend same to your fellow men, thank you I come in peace...

buzu007:
tell me more about your situation. I could help. But be honest. It is hard to trust any one these days. My email is jonnyangel222@gmail.com

Wait ooo abeg for where una dey see this kind job in Nigeria paying a 25 yeas lady huge sum of N450,000 monthly...?

I am not doubting you just that I envied you so much..

With my Masters degree and years of experience plus other side knowledge acquired, I still don't get half of this as salary monthly...

I pray God will send someone like you with good heart and humanity to get me connected to jobs like this..

As for the matter arising, you really have to trade carefully and I think its even better you start tightening your guards around this dude while you extend your search light beyond. The guy might be great and meets all your expectations in a man but he's definitely not the best of all.

And who told you a better person won't still come your way sooner than you desired..?

Let's just commit everything to prayers while the search continues as I believe the best is yet to come your way and he will come very soon by His special grace..

If not that am married I would have opt for us to go into a relationship because without bragging I am everything and more you have said about the guy and around the same age too, if not for any other things but your innocence... ( tho I don't know how you look because I value beauty and morality a lot smiles...).

Best of luck!!

I tire ooo

Elizersalifu:
Just look at what the Police is reporting and calling it intelligence gathering. They even know the names of the Bandits and number of rustled animals that returned home, yet, cant smoke them out. They have to be waiting for disagreement to happen among the Bandits before rushing to make useless announcement.

Nigeria like never before

You speak so much in ignorance, nonsense!!!

Leave marital issues and advice for people who are married with experience...

How can a mother abandoned her children on the sick bed for the maids and claiming to be preparing for a model photo shoot within the hospital.

Yes, she was suppose to report every of her moves to the husband.

This is Nigeria, as we think of good also bear in mind that bad things also happen at the same time.

Kobojunkiee:
Dude, this your conversation with your wife sounded more like an interrogation session to me. If say na me be her, I for turn my phone off from the time you started querying my decision to go get water across the street. For real, interrogations of that kind, and from a so-called love one... I no dey do at all.

Something was not right about what exactly that you literally took to interrogating your wife's every move when it wasn't as if your kids were abandoned or something? The maid was with them so... Was she meant to report her every movement to you or something?

Leaving the kids at the mercy of the maid? Are you for real? If you can't leave your kids with your maid, what do you have a maid for?

It means very werey...

Teddy bear

I don't seems to understand people saying Ned is enjoying, between Ned and Regina who is enjoying who pls?

Ned made her look the way she does currently...

She for marry agbero and see how far, na that time she go no say na money be fine bobo true true.

She was beautiful no doubt, but Ned brought out the natural construct in her.

May the good lord bless him for making such a huge sacrifice on Regina and family, Oga could as well have settled with a foreigner with his Dow.

Abducting a priest for what exactly?

So that Jesus will pay Ransom or what??

This country is so bleeped up.

Hmmm see hypocrisy on the next level..

If this statement was made from the Quran that a non virgin woman should be executed you will see how these Christian demented mofos will start barking like a toothless bulldog that they are on how Islam is all about killing and whatnot...

Both religion had got their doctrines backed by the holy books.

Stop swerving from your lane to another man's lane..

If any body needed to be judged let it be done by their creator.

If you think what ever faith you practice is the best and the only way to the kingdom of God why not just continue your practice and remain in your lane for good...

Haba if na just grandpa im for better nah.

Great grandpa!!!

Nonsense!!!

NaijaFutbol:
Time to repackage another grandpa

Errrmmm

Hmmm...

Its really [b][/b]does

ahmthankgod:
Can you imagine someone saying does irritating words God forbid.

You are such an illiterate..

Go study the Qur'an first before making such unguarded remarks.

chiedu7:
This shows the bible is REAL, unlike the most peaceful religion on earth that lacks any archeological evidence


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JOWFPTzK7D4

Hahaha...

For your little mind now you are talking sense abi?

You better wake up and carry all your wife's generational family problems on your head why she still give you an unprecedented attitudes any times things get little though.

peacettw:
Do absolutely nothing whilst expecting everyone in my family to respect and treat me like a king.

Use the deep voice on people with the sole aim of intimidating them.

Go to meetings and say absolute gibberish every few minutes or so just to see if I can command everyone's attention just cos I am male.

Talk rudely to my female bosses to see if they will take it or fight back

I am curious to see if men truly think with their third leg so will check that out too.

Almost forgot, go out with my friends and come back late at night or even the next day cos I know I won't be questioned

In my personal opinion she seems like an Olosho that went for an all night hook and slept off till very day break.

Because if you look closely that's how most of these Ashawos dress at night to hustle for their clients.

No its not, reject it please...

Nonsense!!!

Don't mind them I don't know why Christians are so gullible.

paulolee:
av u seen Jesus before? or u mean d gee dt acted jesus?

Wait ooo is it because of that fool you dey yarn all these or is there something else am not understanding...??

killALIEN:
Wowwwww. I'm one of them Nigerian guys and i honestly wanted to ..... but then I've got to try see things from your perspective. On behalf of my fellow "NIGERIAN GUYS" i want to say sorry i really wish i could have a live session with you, it seems you been badly hurt.
We aint perfect, infact evil lives in both genders.

I pray you heal and grace brings a good man into your life who will make you tell a different tale.

Its a small world and we all need each other to survive. My Dad recently told me about his sister, i mean i knew that woman to be the originator of Naija Percieved Version Of Feminist.

She hated anything called men, even her own children. She divorced her husband. Now Aunty was talking to my dad that she wants to get married. I shock! Then i asked to a woman, my dad said no.
So what im saying is there are heart breakers in both genders.

You wanna talk about "abused"?
I was 14 yrs when i was sexually abused by a girl who's mom was a very close friend to my mom. Tho i hold no grudges against her cos in this part of the world no body send the male folks. I just dey wait when her husband balance for that position weh him dey vye for, i might then be compelled to speak up if i wish.

What about my first heart break? I was a simp and your gender show me pepper, chop my small money. Las las, see me blooming with no grudges.

So what im saying is let it go. You will find love again, dont let no one change the real you. God bless.

Don't mind them, this is how they begin there Extremisms and later doing things contrary to Quran and Hadith..

Nonsense!!!

Alhajiemeritus:
Abeg
Quran or Hadith backing for this?
Not a scholar says please.

Please stop watching too much Nollywood my dear.

Yves4real:
That may be one of the "don't" in his pre-marriage checklist. His choice and I respect it. But the separation should be on a mutual agreement.
Imagine dude looking for a job in the nearest future and one of the lady's siblings is the CEO of the company. Everyone that applauded the man for his decision now will come out to preach forgiveness.
Future events could come as a surprise no matter how much you prepare for it.
In general, be careful of the way you slam/walk out of the door opened for you by others because you may need to pass through that door tomorrow.

illicit:
Yes liquid
Ok as u said it's dry, it may not be pox

Go to an hospital tho

At the bolded, what kind of English is go to an hospital?

Oh my goodness!!!

I can't just stop shedding tears right now, where have our humanity gone to..??

This was what I envisaged when the 27 innocent Muslim travellers where waylaid and killed for atrocities committed by another when some fools here were jubilating for their massacre.

Now just look at this for God's sake, innocent people probably Christians murdered in a very horrible and inhumane way...

May those who perpetrated this heinous act against humanity as well as their supporters never rest well.

We need peace and God's intervention in this country.

Point of correction!!!

Not all women please,maybe some.

PARADIZEPRIEST:
IS WHAT ALL WOMAN DO. WOMEN ARE NOT EVIL,THEY ARE JUST BABIES IN GROWN BODIES.
WHEN YOU HAVE MONEY,THEY SAY YOU ARE SO GOOD LOVING MAN,BUT WHEN NO OR LITTLE MONEY,THEY SAY YOU ARE BAD MAN WHO DOES NOT CARE FOR WOMAN. BE CAREFUL B4 YOU ARE PUSHED TO STEAL TO SATISFY A WOMAN

So many contradictory statements from your story...

1. The business brings in millions every month and yet she spent the little money that was entering from your business. So, you mean [/b]millions [b] of Naira are little??

2. Your wife told you if you don't spend the money another mam will spend it on her and [/b]she won't be able to resist it[b] please tell me are you dating your wife or marrying your wife?

3. She was very demanding from the onset and yet you said how you wish you saw the signs from the beginning...

I beg swerve!!!

Stop spreading fake news my friend!!

Where is any evidence so far that shows they have been executing those that supported the U.S. Army...??

I have been following the news as the news unfold since the Taliban took over mantle of leadership. From their public press conference granted to most of the international Media.

Jeromejnr:
And who told you with Biden U.S will step in?

Have you not seen the press conference and his lackadaisical attitude?

What of the 11000 Americans still left in Afghanistan that the incompetent administration is saying they don't know how to get the Americans to the airport safely?

Very incompetent, even leaving behind state of the art weapons and destructive drones for the Taliban.

Smh.

Trump's strategy was to leave behind about 2000 troops and when needed, send back reinforcements in case of Taliban breaking the deal.

But no..Biden and his team just pulled everyone out..well except for 11000 of their own civilians.

Now they are going about and executing those who supported the U.S army among them, what has Biden done?.

May the soul of the departed rest in perfect peace...

Ameen...

For your information, the people they killed aren't Fulanis but Hausas most likely, other tribes could also be involved but definitely not Fulanis.

Please mind what you celebrate as this could have been you just passing through on a journey.

Don't be so stupid my friend!!!

If they want to revenge their deaths they should locate any Fulani heads men and kill them as they wish not by slaughtering innocent Muslims who are either Hausas or other tribes because from the names above there's no single evidence that depicts a Fulani man among the innocent victims...

This is how you folks celebrate Muslims massacre with your dead end brains and when they retaliate you open your mouth waaaa and be shouting religious cleansing...

What is bad is bad always condemn evil when ever you see one either of your faith or against...

Be humane, because humanity first before religion!!!

I am for humanity and for no body!

mushystuff:
I hope the security agencies have not gone raiding innocent homes and communities just to effect possibly baseless arrests as usual?
I wonder why they are always efficient in attacking/arresting Christians in their homes when their Islamic interests are threatened but with the uncountable deaths recorded in Southern Kaduna, Oyo and the East clearly perpetrated by fulani terrorist herdsmen, we will never hear of any mass arrests like this!

..and who told you those murdered are Fulanis? They are just Muslims coming from Bauchi State.

beejaay:
How will they know who the real. Killer is when you abhor them?? You guys will only find your hand to type when fulani is on the receiving end.. Laslas we go all dey alright

My relationship is UNBELIEVABLE

Shit men!!!

You nailed it all may God bless you for this I love real and fact talks..

chatinent:
I saw this on one status on my WhatsApp. I giggled. This is the height of phariseeship. The hunger to defraud unsuspecting persons using the name of God has become dominant.

Nowadays, you can see fifteen different churches in one storey building shouting differently.


Little wonders one church sacked her pastors for not generating taxes..sorry, I mean tithes.


We are so religious in this country yet very vile, and underdeveloped. Everyday, we yell “god forbids” even to things he never forbade..to prove our being overly righteous.. We command “back to sender” when we are also evil.


Or we come here on Nairaland to see “amens” to our promotional scripture quotes for mere likes and shares.... or seek congregants to “pray for” so that our bank account can smile...even when we know Jesus taught us to pray already.


We tell our congregants that givers never lack..when we are the receivers but when they need help, they can go to God.


We tell them to bring their first fruits of their harvest. Yes, we fry the chicken with the kitchen glories, and send part of the tithes to our children in school while the widower drinks his garri in tom-foolery waiting for the appointed time.

We have left the main course Jesus came on earth and digressed to the latest trends to extorting tithes and offerings from our members by throwing crusades every now and then. What's now the difference between the church and hip-pop artistes?



We are pastors.


We called ourselves.


We are humans too.

We have to eat!

Did anyone noticed that despite the heavy rain turns flooding dem never take light for London??

Nigeria I hail thee

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Hmmm

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