₦airaland Forum

I've had many unpalatable ordeals with ladies but that shouldn't take away fair judgement from our thinking faculty. In all you wrote you never suggested basketmouth would have been the cause of the divorce? What if she wanted to give a reason which has been happening in her marriage that's making her give a second thought to divorce? Cutting her husband means she has a contrary opinion and obviously from that convo she agreed to save her husband's face based on his popularity. Be objective when you're contributing to any topic you have no first hand information. You never lived a sec in their house but u already giving analysis. The same way you judge others you'd be judged. I'm not supporting her I don't know her from Adam but what if she was frustrated? Stop painting it as if there are no mad men out there. I don't stereotype based on gender or whatever. If you're good you're good irrespective of colour or gender. I've seen foolish women and I've seen foolish men

Blissguts:
Following the convo u could sense it was basket forcing the love from her. She seemed to only love him "for the moment".

By her response you'll know : when a woman doesn't say yes or no, and instead says stuff indirectly or uses " yea" and "nah", bro, look well cos yea from a woman ain't sane as yes.

And no divorce ain't same as " divorce isn't on the table"

She has to be direct otherwise, e no clear / she's not fully convinced.


Even self see basket they urgently state say "they got good marriage"....... No energy from the wife.


Marty woman wet love you pass how you love her. And marry woman wey " forbid" to accept say more than one man will have access to her cookie.

It helps.

And finally, seriously involve God when looking for life partner.

In other words, parents are infallible and can't be wrong? I won't involve your Revd pastor cos I wasn't there when he said it. You're only reporting him. But if truly your Revd said that he should be flogged with oraimo cord. I've seen parents who rejected an in law just because he is not rich. What about that. Let's stop making loose statements

Kenmatt:
There was this statement by my Rev. Pastor years back;

"If you're about to marry a particular girl, and your Parents are insisting that you shouldn't marry her, you will be confessing all sorts of love, (if not her, I will dive into the River Niger) you should leave that girl, in not a distance time, you will see another girl that is even better than the girl"

This is a Gospel truth.

I've seen unbelievers get married for over 6 decades. People like you make unbelievers call pastors charlatans. Speak in tongues 24/7 if both parties aren't ready to compromise Jesus can't even save the marriage. Can two walk together except they agree? Amos 3:3 just small Bible study you've seen yourself like pope/Bishop. It took Jesus 30 years to prepare for his ministry. Don't be on the pulpit while you're supposed to be under thorough Bible study. You're doing more harm than good to God's kingdom

Righteousness2:
It is not by Might neither by power, it is by my Spirit says the Lord.
Except the Lord builds a House, the builders are building but in Vain.

May GOD show them Mercy, Repair, Heal and Restore them.

You should leave sentiment aside. If the father was a good man to that girl she would have insisted her dad must be on sit. We want a better world but we still hold on to selfish and devilish values. What u put up there in short is, he has the right to stand as a father even while being absent all through the girl's life. Responsibility comes before honour don't change the order if not, the whole world will be in disorder

culf:
Haba madam!

I guess you didn't read the post?,even at that is it right? lets leave sentiment aside, same way i wouldn't support a father marrying off a child without the mother's presence whether they are together or not.
what is wrong is wrong.

I realized most people online are battling mental issues. Only you comparing Ronaldo and messi and the same you left your self Acclaimed State ogun only to compare Lagos State with states from other countries. So much toxicity for an individual

Osamabinladenik:
I am from Ogun state.

Let's compare Lagos to other African cities in it's league, whether you won't bow your head in shame

Heartlessman this isn't needed. Even if Dem kill your own for cult clash u go still cry. So why not just type rip or better still pass.

HeartlessMan:
Stop blaming innocent cold temperature. Many American asthmatic patients survive annually.

He died as a result of his weakened genes due to his grandfather's excessive marijuana intake which affected some critical genomes over the years.

Same thing will happen to Seun and Femi Kuti's seeds. I always laugh when people say weed has no effect on humans. People engage in all sorts of immorality and expect that it will just vanish. Dey play.

Whether Bobrisky and James Brown are acting doesn't matter. Their grandkids will develop homosexual traits because they are both modifying their genes presently to perfect that behaviour in their descendants.

Do a thorough check of your intending partner's background before settling down so you don't get thrown into what you have no idea about.


You cannot cheat nature.

Don't know why you guys deny where you come from always. It must

Osamabinladenik:
I am from Ogun state.

Let's compare Lagos to other African cities in it's league, whether you won't bow your head in shame

How old are you?

Almiron:
you'll cry till death ni....

comparing Accra to Lagos and by the way are you from Accra? Kindly tell me your state first. Let's start from there

Osamabinladenik:
Has Lagos progress visavis the kind of money and revenue it gets?

Come, let me take you to Accra so you can be ashamed

That's true o cos Lagos is the most backward state in Nigeria

Osamabinladenik:
Tinubu will take Nigeria light years backward.
He's the definition of corruption, nepotism, fraud, godfatherism, imperialism and tribalism

Mention your father's name let's run a quick check on his CV.

BiafraAburi:
Cow brains everywhere. Listening to an islamic terrorist. What exactly would you learn from him? Any wonder why their z00 is a complete shithole.

Just like in philosophy a mad man sees the dunghill he is sitting on as clean and sees sane human being as mad men. You're the one stupid just as the mad man but sees a normal statement as stupid. Please if you're a graduate desist from proclaiming yourself one. I'm of the opinion elementary economics should be taught right from primary school. Please don't quote me Cos I won't bother to reply so as to prevent myself from getting stupid with boldness.

Vote4Obi:
Stop asking questions that are not related to the discussion. Tinubu was questioned about Nigeria's huge debt only for him to ask Nigerians to sell their Benz and Lexus. The same senile man also said all Americans should be in jail if debt is bad.

Does such stupid statements make sense to you?

I hope you know the gravity of all you just typed. I'm so confused seeing you write in English but sound like someone who never passed through the four walls of a primary school. The real massacre would be next year and not the lekki tollgate. There are procedures in challenging electoral results and going all out to protest only means you want your parents to cry over you

franchasofficia:
If APC by any means rigs the election and Tinubu emerges winner of 2023 Presidential election, we will not accept it, we will form a parallel government in Nigeria until the election is canceled because Bola Ahmed Tinubu is a known criminal, a well known Lagos state treasury looter who has been looting Lagos state dry for more than 20years now, such a kleptomaniac can never become the President of Nigeria ever.




Tinubu you are wasting your time. Your looting and stealing prowees is a total turnoff to all reasonable humans dead or alive and we all will reject and fight you with every tools available to us.



It is even an insult that a criminal, a known treasury looter like Bola Tinubu is contesting Nigeria's Presidential seat, haba haba



Imagine one man installed his wife as senator, son as state advert board chair, his daughter head of state market unions, his cousins as Governor, HoA members, etc and you think such criminal can be allowed to become Nigeria's President ?



Tinubu urchins can dream on!



If you urchins want Tinubu to become President then get your Urchin Nation and make him the President there not in Nigeria. Imagine the audacity of a known criminal like Tinubu trying to become Nigeria's President, wonders

Ahh my chest�

Lewisjohnson:
All dis Man U fans
Dis tin no be Conference league oo

Why are you shifting goal post? You said Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world and i asked you to bring facts. Well, I asked for facts in the first place Because, you wouldn't have typed that if you had paused to think it through for just a sec. Get rid of bitternessfor your sake.

tctrills:
You are not a kid. Do your research yourself and it you discover that the past 8 years were the best years of Nigeria good for you. No one owes you anything. No one is going to take 2 mins to Google Nigerian poverty and suffering for you. I don't deserve the 2 mins. Please do you research yourself.

Give me facts and not just stats cooked up in your head like your messiah pitobull. You're claiming you want a better Nigeria but can't take 2 mins out of your time to Google before saying things publicly. How is Nigeria poverty capital of the world?

tctrills:
I never even mentioned the prices of goods what are you talking about? Yes I would love to here you tell me how APC has done well. Under APC, we have become the poverty capital of the world, we have become more insecure, our debt now surpass our income, Corruption is increased, the economy is not working for the common man
It has never been this bad for the everyday Nigerian.

It's not his fault your parents kept passing message of hate and how everyone hates you from generation to generation thereby causing your inferiority complex. He's sure of his game and cards and that's a sign of confidence.
Did you grumble when elon musk talked about his plans to produce electric cars? Then if your answer is No, you shouldn't be angry at a man for bragging about his political sagacity.

jerk:
you just copied rubbish from somewhere and posted here without reading the post. How does this rubbish makes sense to you? Imagine saying he knows the way to Aso rock and knowing that will give him victory. This man is thinking from his anus and his blind followers are following him like zombies. He has nothing to offer other than shouting 'Emi lo kan'.
No need arguing with you because this election is between LP and PDP but no way for PDP to win.
LP is cruising to victory come February.

Your father can't look into his face and spew this nonsense you just did. I love social media cos it gives people like you an opportunity to be heard. At least that's the only opportunity to make an impact in life

PeterObi4LP:
Watch how BATstard will attribute or credit the opening of ASUU to Tilumpu.

Stop this victim mentality. We have Nigerians who made it across every tribe and ethnic group. Life is a game go for what you want or wail till eternity

Pierocash:
To meet on how to further shortchange Kogi by using the presidency to prevail on Yahaya Bello to soften his stance.

If this is between a southern business man and Yahaya Bello ,they will hail the governor.

The injustice against Southerners is just too alarming,and yet they want to unify Nigeria

Nobody failed you. Let's compare and contrast their successes and failure then we can judge logically. But over emphasising on prices of goods shows you're not even ready for the change you clamour for

tctrills:
Even before we discuss a replacement for APC, let's first agree as a people that APC has failed us and let us together agree never to return to our vomit. After that, we would now discuss Obi and if he is the man for the job.

You chose to dwell on the bad effect of colonialism,they chose to dwell on the positive effect of colonialism. You both made your choices and you degrading them for their choice is the real definition for iberiberism

Akwamkpuruamu:
Iberiberism!

When Yar Adua died, what did the British do? Asslicking at its best

Generalizing is bad and I'm sorry. But don't you think those who decided to keep away history have genuine reasons for doing that?. I'm from Kwale and I grew much disdain for Biafra after hearing so much from elders. My point is, most clamour for history because they believed they are the sole victim. We've all erred and I'm only angry not against the people but the hypocrisy

Bontafa:
Stop having hate for a tribe that did nothing to you or ypur father .

Nairaland is not made for igbos and Yoruba alone .

Insult is an English word not igbos who produce or first used it .

Take your hate somewhere else , if you merit insult I insult you , if you merit matured talk I give you matured talk .

It's simple .

Stop listening to gossip about what Igbo did or not .

Leave them alone .

Maybe you need to come out straight on where exactly you stand. I'm sure you're Igbo the insult gave you out

Bontafa:
So I'm now Igbo ?

Lame excuse, did the US hate the UK after they read their history?

It's not my fault your emotional quotient is zero.

newbornmacho:
Try saying this crap without so many tears ...

I shouldn't be bothered about your insult cos it's coming from you. You grandfathers sowed hatred in your fathers and your fathers also sowed the same hatred in you. Hate makes you violent, more emotional and as a result keep you perpetually under your perceived enemies.

Maazieze:
using your daft logic the germans should stop teaching the holocaust

You should be denied access to internet if you ever believed UNN is in the same class as University of Ibadan.

newbornmacho:
Which Premier University? Oh....the one Eliza built for una in ibadan

Bringing back history would make Nigerians hate igbos and victimize them the more. Our political misfortunes started and was orchestrated by eastern political elites. You want them to bring back history that includes how your people killed northern leaders in the first coup in Nigeria? Becareful what you wish for

Bontafa:
I no defend them when I learn .

Wettin u suppose dey do Na to dey open thread to pepper Nigerian government to bring back history in schools, only Anambra and Lagos don do am.

Ask your self why federal government no see am as priority?

NiggerArea indeed !!

Like something is wrong with you upstairs. Those who own the premier university are jealous of UNN? Why do you guys always chest beat

newbornmacho:
No, I have a better idea. Rename lagos as queen Elizabeth city because it was the first colony of britain

You people's jealousy of UNN has been well known for ages. Sadly, we pass una

Nobody is mentally fit to have conversations with you guys. You're all alone in your league baba. Please do well to pass the knowledge to your kids as well

henryobinna:
You're mentally unfit to have conversations with me. Keep moving.

The current world power which is the USA was once colonized by Britain. Stop playing the victim card everytime. Why should I be surprised when you wage war against a man from another region for the mishap in your region. Enough abi na queen say make una dey push drug too?

justuschi50:
u are talking of what she did in her country, did good to her but raping other nation recource read what Britain did to Iran that lead to the revolution, you will be the African that will be mourning that Jezebel. I know most African nation will declare public holiday for her. She is the head of Britain and are nation did atrocities during are tenure. So giving title to a black is now good. Give African countries there freedom.

Shut the Bleep up. You were all happy when you benefited and you lots made Nigeria this way by ending regional government. What did Ojukwu do to Adaka Boro who wanted to secede? Guess you have memory loss. Everyone hates you as if you have anything meaningful to offer. Your fore fathers wailed and you're on it as well

henryobinna:
Your hate for Igbos would consume you. It would certainly consume you.

If an Igbo person decides to hate the UK monarchy and it's government it's for a legitimate reason. I'm sure you're not educated enough to know of anything about the Biafran war and the role the UK played before, during snd after the war.

Many og you are terribly ignorant of even yourselves. The only thing you possess is your hate for the Igbos, and one thing I can say to you is that, that hate for igbos would consume you all.