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[quote author=Missy ★ B link=topic=610825.msg7795710#msg7795710 date=1298591305]Christians have a common interpretation of the word ''un-believer''. If you do not believe in the sovereignty of [b]God [of the Bible], the teachings of Christ and every thing He represents, you're the un-believer the Bible talks about [ Full stop]. [/b]
And if I'm correct, the idea of christians and muslims on the issue of divinity clash in many aspects, so let's not kid ourselves.  Everyone is a 'believer' . . . . the question is - believer of what?
Hmmm . . . This 'God' you keep referring to, which exactly? God of the Bible  or the muslim god?

I often laugh when people preach unity when the issue of religion is raised. How is it possible for us to be the same [ at least, in this aspect] when we obviously aren't?!
You think 1+1=3 and and I think 1+1=4 . . .You wouldn't change your opinion, neither would I. Just how do I shove all that aside, wear a false smile and say bodly, 'We both understand addition and are good at it', when the next time we're asked to compute 1+1 we'd be fighting each other?!
Tolerance - Yes . . . . 'We're one' - For those that enjoy lying to themselves.[/quote]@ bolded 1: Who is an unbeliever according to the bible? Someone who does not believe in God I assume. So who told u muslims do not believe in the sovereignty of God?

@ bolded 2: Muslim God with a small g? . Let me reveal one shocking news to u. YOUR JESUS WAS A MUSLIM.

[quote author=George_D link=topic=610825.msg7792598#msg7792598 date=1298557664]teetee,
that imam is not your husband as light and darkness cannot meet. just be patient and
you will be glad you did.[/quote]Who told u the Imam is not her husband? Are u God?
Then which is light and which is darkness?

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=610923.msg7788869#msg7788869 date=1298503832]Pweety4me.  sweeery u loook like a man anyways! [/quote]This guy dey always make me laugh

Odunnu:
I heard the current wife of Pst Kumuyi is 65yrz old.
Stop acting desperate,even though I pray that everybody should marry,I still know its not possible. If at 42 you jump at marriage even to a non-xtian,I think your belief should be questioned.
Try relocating: i'm just wondering why you seem to be attracting mostly non-christians

@ bolded 1: Is she about to commit murder? How does getting married to a non muslim question her faith?

@ bolded 2: Maybe God wants her to be a muslim afterall. Who knows??

Odunnu:
I heard the current wife of Pst Kumuyi is 65yrz old.
Stop acting desperate,even though I pray that everybody should marry,I still know its not possible. If at 42 you jump at marriage even to a non-xtian,I think your belief should be questioned.
Try relocating: i'm just wondering why you seem to be attracting mostly non-christians

So because Pst Kumuyi's wife is 65 yrs old that means she shld wait until she grows older before she gets married? She turned down a muslim man's proposal because of faith believing a xtian brother will come along. Ofcourse they came along but she cldnt see her self getting married to one of them. I guess if one of them had enuf qualities, she wld be married to him by now.

Dont just listen to those asking u to hold on or smthn. U are 42 for God's sake! The truth is most of the pple asking u to hold on wld do otherwise if they were in ur shoes. My advise for u is go ahead and marry him. U have been praying havnt u? If God doesnt want you to marry him, u both wldnt have met in the first place. Even if u met, u wldnt have fallen in love. Even if u fell in love he wouldnt have proposed to u. Maybe thats the path God wants you to follow who knws?

Secondly, did he say he will allow you to keep ur religion? I will like to knw.

tkovie2002:
thats too long for a single text message, Please can u tell us the brand and model of fone she uses?? Coz am not sure any fone can type that much, lol (4,408 characters) rotflmao, thats as long as a company profile, well over a page on Microsoft word, buh still "I may be wrong", and please PROVE ME!!!

U imagination isnt so good. Who tie the maid for bed? Dat one no fit work. Let me help u,
, He rushed into her room and found her lying on the floor in the toilet in her room as she slipped just after taking her bath. As he was carrying her to place her on the bed, his towel fell from his waist and then u walked in, What will u do, Somethn like that huh

Before u give your comment think abt this: What if the table was turned around and u are now the victim. What decision wld u want her/him to take abt u?.

Im my room.
She cant remember her password to log in.

Nice story. I learnt from it.

Thank you poster. I have applied. May God bless,

Do u think if u tell him u might stop having the feelings for him? Thats when it would matter.
If u think telling him will make u stop loving him, its OK then go ahead and tell him. It doesnt matter whether u are married or not. I mean having a crush for sm1 for 20yrs and not letting him knw, are u kidding me?
Yeah! I mean all u need do is tell him dat ' I knw am crazy to tell u what am abt to tell u bt I hope I'll feel better after telling u cos its a secret I hav kept within me for 20 yrs. Im not saying u shld cheat on ur wife neither do I want to cheat on my husband, I just want to let u knw so that possibly wht I feel 4 u will die away, ( then u go ahead and tell him )
Just be cool abt it and believe me u'll feel better afterwards.

N.B: Dont die (neither shld he) until u tell him.

Dyt:
Dont leave er
press on
u almost dere

I agree

@ poster, I sympathise with u. My advise is for u to find out more abt the disease. I knw alot must have been going on in ur mind now but dont worry God is in control and will guide u on how to go abt everythn because u sound like sm1 with a good heart. Pls try to make her as happy as u can. Wish you the best of luck.

Mobinga:
Did you smoke? Are you well? What kinda silly question is that?

I wonder o! What kind of question is that?

Come to think of it. The body isnt a fresh one! May be its cadaver or smthn. Its cld even be thai body. Its been in the freezer for long, brought out and thawed.

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=585819.msg7535178#msg7535178 date=1295046831][color=#0055bb]Cold you can agree with Murphy all you want but this doesn't make a lick of sense. If a girl is with a guy and writes about her experiences with him and then he becomes her ex and she moves on, how is she to know about her new man before he comes into her life?

I am not talking about women who are with their partners and write about him while they are together. I am talking about women who when they were younger wrote their thoughts that they wouldnt share with someone else and decided to keep those journals. These women eventually meet someone worth while and I am asking if that man they love has a right to read about their past. I hope you understand that. [/color][/quote]@ MzD@rkSkin, U didnt read read my post well did u? I have made provision for this comment already. I said why wld she keep any diary at all if she doesnt want him to read it? It doesnt make any sense. A girl writes smthn abt she and her ex, keeps the diary when she has moved on , automatically she hasnt moved on.

Quote from: MzD@rkSkin on Today at 12:13:51 AM
Cold you can agree with Murphy all you want but this doesn't make a lick of sense. If a girl is with a guy and writes about her experiences with him and then he becomes her ex and she moves on, how is she to know about her new man before he comes into her life?

I am not talking about women who are with their partners and write about him while they are together. I am talking about women who when they were younger wrote their thoughts that they wouldnt share with someone else and decided to keep those journals. These women eventually meet someone worth while and I am asking if that man they love has a right to read about their past. I hope you understand that.

Err arent you contradicting yourself Undecided

Gbam!!

The question is : Why would u write smthn u wldnt want him to see in a diary Or why keep the diary when u dont want him to see em?  Common tell me: What are your brains for if they cant keep your secrets? .

Hurray! Dr GEJ has finally picked the PDP presidential Ticket.

@ poster, I was in ur shoes and i knw exactly hw it feels. My ex decided to satisfy her family too and we had to quit the rship. It was hard but there was nothing I could do. So I had to let go of her. Initially i thot I cldnt luv again , hw wrong I was. Today, I have sm1 whom I consider better than her in everythn. So what I'll tell u is that if she has made up her mind to leave there 's nothing u can do. Infact if u try to hold her back she'll begin to see u as a pest. Just let her go. Pray to God as my dear livedit said and u'll find sm1 who is better, will be ready to do anythn 4 u. All da best.

livedit:
I can understand you are confused and hurting and I can sympathize with you.  Ultimately, it IS her decision rather or not she chooses to stay in this relationship with you or let someone else make her decision for her.  All you can do is pray to God and tell God how you feel and ask Him for wisdom and guidance for what to do in this situation.  What should matter is what is in God's will for your life.  And if she IS a part of God's will in your life, so it will be. 

Frankly, I don't let ANYONE determine my future happiness for my life.  Only opinion matters in situations like these is God first, me, and my significant other.  Everyone is given one life to live and they live it how they feel fits.  You can try expressing to her how you feel and give her the option rather or not to stay, but if she decides to go. As much as it hurts, you must let her go.  At that point, you will have to pray and ask God for courage and strength to move on with your life and pray that he brings who He has ordained for you since he knows all and knows what's best for you. 

So if she does leaves and don't come back. Then you will know that she wasn't the one for you.  Most of the times, God won't give us what we want, but He will give you what you need.

Nice one!

Na 4 oyinbo land all those ones dey happen nau, Wey the husband go 4 give dat kain thing.

Me? I no go 4 give lai lai. Even if my i hear say my girlfrnd bang another man (abi na: another man bang my girlfrnd?). Thats the end o no matter how much I luff her.

(am feeling sleepy)

Meanwhile, its not all pple that u fall in love with that are right. He isnt the right person and the truth is he doesnt feel the same way abt u. So why dont u 4get him? Or will it be difficult 4 u to do that?

What kinds of things does he do to u?

livedit:
Mrs. Eve, you are SILLY!

This article is so unbelievable. First she said, she don't want him because of his "performance" and that he couldn't "satisfy" her. Then it was he was cheating and refused to sleep with her. Then it was he and his new woman was beating her.

I find this story hard to believe. She needs to stick to one lie and leave it at that.

silvertuke:
me self confuss for the story abeg if anybody dey when understand am make he put us through.

There are two different stories. one Mrs olabunmi and the other mrs sherifat.

May Allah grant him Aljannat Firdaus. He was a gr8 man. I will surely miss him.