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leofab:
so you can’t even materialise all your wonderful ideas for yourself but you are pushing someone’s son to the wall cos he refused to take your ideas? Can you see you are just nagging ?

No mind her. Na childishness dey worry her . She thinks it's about being the best in her class.

Acmepreneur:
Humans are only attracted to material things. Only few percentage are different.
I see why people like me, its because of my looks and achievement or my intelligence, I hate that so much. I have noticed that severally, for instance,there was a time I told someone my mum was in the US, and he saw me, I was not looking good, with a very bad cloths, looking lean etc at the bank. I went to do my post graduate test at university of Ilorin, I took just one cloth, so that day, I lost my ATM, I quickly ran to the bank looking like a tattered person sha. (I'm bad at dressing, I don't care at all how I look)
So I met this person at the Bank, and stupid me, I greeted him with smile and everything, after sometimes, I noticed he stopped chatting with me, then later said I'm a lier, I told him my mum was in US, bla bla bla. Which means hes a friend and trying to be nice because he thought my mother was in US,and that day he felt disappointed.
I also have a friend that was extremely close because my mum was in the US, and after NYSC, she distanced herself.
These are people that I told them because I was explaining something else, not because I wanted to tell them my mum was in the US. It was my NYSC year my mum travelled there and it made me to suffer well well. So maybe sometimes, I can just say mistakenly that my mum called now that shes just getting to Texas and continue the discussion, I never knew they stored that part where I said my mum was in Texas.

Then another thing is that whenever I dress well, people in banks etc, would start asking me stupid questions if I were a senators child etc and start giving me special treatment.
I have also had people walk up to me because they think I'm from a rich family.
There's this friend of mine always asking when I'm leaving the country, the guy is rich and extremely intelligent, hes a doc. Hes always trying to push himself on me because he thinks I'm from a well to do family.
Sometimes, where they sell food, they would give me more than I bought, treat me with smile etc.
When I have discussion with people, they get so hooked, liked me and force friendship. These are people I would love to be friends with, but because material things is their attraction is a turn off for me.
Even one of my professors while I was doing Masters became close to me when he heard that I was the best student of my set during undergraduate, he started calling me in his office and became more friendly.

But when I'm not looking good, not speaking in public, I often get the worse treatment on Earth. But once I start talking intelligently, you will see them flocking around me.

even my parents, when I dress well and look good, I notice the difference in the way they treat me.Or If I have just won an award or bring my result home. And my boyfriend too, he will start loving me more when I look my best and sometimes when I'm over stressed, and fat, I notice the difference.

People will always be people, and I'm a realist,

Lol! So you expect people to like you unconditionally or what are you saying? If I see you looking tattered I won't even give you a second look UNLESS you need my help or assistance which I will gladly offer. It's very natural to see things in people that you appreciate which maybe a reason to get close to them. You are guilty of what you accused people of too. YES! Otherwise you would not be contemplating leaving your boyfriend because he does not seem to measure up anymore. That means you don't love him unconditionally. Whether he has Masters or not, whether he receives 90k or not, whether he is ambitious or not why don't you wanna stick with him for life!??

Nice!

Vyolet:
Beautiful.
Am I the only person that never received any message from NCDC? I heard some people receive more than 10 messages.

They know you are complying with the safety measures that's why. They only send to those who are not

Now its bicycle is gone

Jasonjay101:
That might be part of it too. But I feel she has shown that she has moved on before now. But seriously bro if you know how some of these couples life in school is, you will understand how I feel.
But anyways thanks.

The question is.. Do they ever really move on??
Someone she spent that much time and who also disvirgined her? Bro she can NEVER forget him that's the plain truth. That doesn't mean she still wants to be with him. The memories and possibly regrets is what made her sad. Plus she was young then. Trust me, if she knew things would turn out this way between them, she would have gone that extent with him.

My advise for you is, forget it. LET IT GO. It was her past and she has been a good girl to you. One guy which isnt bad. Like someone asked, what if she was a 'distributor' and you later found out?

melviniyke2002:
abba kyari own wasnt like dis.....

Even this one wasn't good enough? See as them dey spray themselves for person window. What's that man in orange doing there? He was too close! Breeze no dey blow the virus? I think there is every likelihood it does.
Analysis has shown that the virus was found on bedroom window sills and other places of infected people rooms. How did they get there?

Best thing in my opinion, is to bury victims far away from people. Also, deceased families should watch from afar. Safety! Safety!! Safety!!!

Naija9090:
At gunpoint at the machine.

So they collected her ATM at gunpoint right? On her way out abi? (Because that's what u said in the original post) Did they lead her back to the ATM machine to withdraw the money for them?
Ayam not understanding

I dont get? They collected her ATM card and she didnt call her bank immediately to block the cards? They also collected her PIN?

Why are people abusing him? I don't get it! When have people lost the sense of knowing and realizing that we all are mortal?
He had a dream about ABBA Kyari, so what? Must you abuse him?
Na wa o! Too many kids here.

كُلُّ نَفْسٍ ذَآئِقَةُ الْمَوْتِ – Kullu nafsin thaiqatu al’mawt – Every soul shall taste Death…

May Allah forgive him.

Astride:
I have it under consideration.

That's nice.. I hope you are working on it already and not only thinking about it. Wish you the best.

Astride:
We've all made bad choices. I'll start with mine...

One of my biggest regrets till date was not seizing the opportunity to migrate to the U.S when it was presented to me on a platter.

I was in my penultimate year at the university. My dad had made some connections and he presented the idea to me.

I refused.

I told him I wanted to acquire my certificate first so I don't have to start from scratch when I migrate. I mean, it was the most logical thing to do since I had just one year remaining to get my degree.

Well, 6 months later, my dad passed on and so went the connections.

Inasmuch as things are great for me right now, I'm not fulfilled. I'm not living at my full capacity cause my work environment (and this country at large) breeds mediocrity.

I can't share my ideas with my bosses without fear of hurting someone's ego and calling unwarranted resentment targeted at me.

The mentality of the black man is his own curse and his resolve to stick to outdated traditions is his punishment.

If you're a progressive and aims for excellence, you should consider outsourcing your skills outside this country where hardwork and intelligence are duly rewarded.


Alright. That's mine. Share yours.

So have you tried to relocate by yourself? Not necessarily to the US but to another country where your potentials will be utilized more. That will take care of initial mistake made I think.

I know someone who became a grandfather at 40!
He is from the north. His dad got him a wife when he was in SS2 or SS3 I cant remember. He was around 18. Had his first child (girl) when he was 20. His daughter married early at 20 and had her own child too that same year.

I smell lies.

Which house for Abuja get basement? Fully furnished to taste with kitchen sef? Na lie jor !

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Johnnyessence:
nothing happens when it reached thousands, it is still 1
death so far. more than a month now.

2 deaths now bro. So be careful and stay safe. No one knows how strong his immune system is to be able to fight the virus. It's not about black man immunity.

Johnnyessence:
i don hear you, after 21 days or more, still no one dies except the only that was recorded so far, abeg Nigeria immunity is highly strong.

Na so! Keep deceiving yourself. There were 25 cases or so last weekend and today 111 cases. 1 death in 111 cases is about 1%. Other countries have less than 1% or about 1%. In the US with all the deaths, it's just about 2%.
No be so una say Corona no dey catch black man? No na immunity strong.

Johnnyessence:
Still one death so far. Nigeria immune system is very strong.

Most of the cases are asymptomatic that's why. You don't expect people to start dying when they are showing little or no symptoms.

Na wa o. Yet he will use his bare hands to take the money the machine dispensed. Does he know if a Corona infected person did not sneeze or cough on the money before taking them to the bank and then into the ATM machine

Awol1:
Isn't that what it is?

By the way, who still remembers the date that TB Joshua said the virus will disappear?

Because I'm counting down o.

Me too

Fake news! Canada has recorded only one corona virus death and certainly not Olumide Okunuga

ThierryJay:
But it's not really fake news. The source you posted largely corroborated the OP's report, other than the difference in location of his death which is not the primary focus of the report.

Lalasticlala, this is front page worthy if true.

It is indeed a very fake news! The man died of high fever in Italy. He never lived in Canada neither did he die of Corona Virus. The Caption says a Nigerian Man died of Corona Virus in Canada which is clearly untrue and that alone makes the news very very fake sir!

Na wa o. Fake news everywhere!

hardywaltz:
El-Rufia (FNIQS) one of, if not the best Quantity Surveyor in Nigeria

He graduated with a first class from Ahmadu Bello University Zaria.

Izanghi:
The man has been in Nigeria, since 25th of this month, and was tested 2 days later, only God knows how many people he has made contact with and those that made contact with those that made contact with him. The list would be endless with our overpopulated environment like the brt, church, mosque,etc.
I believe our government is to be blame for any death of his citizens because of the poor screening exercise in our international airport. Common sense should have told them that citizens from china, italy, south korean,(or better still any country with the case of it) should be quarantine for some while before releasing them to the public but foreigners are first class citizens and nigerians are second class citizens and so must not be subjected at first to this.
God help us, the best for now is to wear mask or better still stay indoors if you don't have anything serious doing and I hope our government don't politicize this by downplaying numbers to look good because that was the main cause of the outbreak in china.

The problem is, that mask has little or no protection. It does not seal the face completely. Air can go in and out from the sides.
This is a scary news!

Some ladies sha. So because he wants to break up with you then you have to tarnish his image.
Later you will say its devil. Na you be the real devil!

Ifyjos:
Confessing to him it is not important because he is not the one that I offended ,I did the right actions by confessing to my sister and family and I have beg them for forgiveness also ask God to forgive me , God is full of mercy he has forgiven me and whether my family forgive me or not that’s their problem because me I’m free and relieved

I followed your thread from beginning till date and I must commend your courage. I could tell that you love your boyfriend and your daughter so much that you can give up anything for them.

I'm not a judgemental person and will never judge you for what you did to your sister. At that time, you were younger and wanted to get back at her for all she did to you. Unfortunately you hit her too hard and the consequences of her maltreatment towards you is what she has seen today. I'm sure she herself has learnt a bigger lesson.

It's a good thing that you confessed and I hope it's not too late for her relationship to work again if they are truly meant for each other. Your action might even be a blessing in disguise who knows?
Did her fiance even try to confirm if the allegations were true? Or if it was a set up?

Anyways, back to you. Have you seen your mum's pastor to beg your people? How did you get your child back? How is your sister now and her fiance? Any luck? (Maybe your cousin will be able to hint you)

Last last, your people will reconcile with you. As you expected it won't be easy but they will. The did is done already and you all need to move forward.

Finally do take care of your daughter and yourself

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