It's an electrical problem, you need a very good electrician to fix it. I had similar issues before
Jamie1000: Hello guys. I'm about to make a big decision. I'm considering changing my Gear box. But, I want to be sure, that is the problem. Please, I need your advice. My Camry 2.4 gear is slogish in acceleration. The gears doesn't change as fast as possible from 1-3. Sometimes climbing even a small hill is an issue. Is thier anything I can check. Fuel pump, filters, nozzles are all ok. Even when on high speed, once thiers an incline hill, I notice the significant deceleration and and I feel the the rpm dropping even when pressing against the gas pedal. And attempt to force results in a loud noice from exhaust and a bad smell from the hood with no much acceleration but high rpm. In a level ground or down the the hill, it's faster but, still dragss in the first two gears. Please, advice me.
Where is the location? On an average a standard 3 bedroom can be built with 8m, but if you want a higgtened standard, then it will consume more. I pray you get an honest building Engineer to do it for you, I meet one that has helped me a great deal, I could have been swindled due to my ignorance but this man is God sent
Please safe a life and tell him. After the scammer must have sank him deep in debt, the dude may go into depression and once he gets to know, may lose his life. The fact that he told you means nature wants you to be aware so you can do something about it. Please tell him never to send money to that 'lover' again. Tell him that you smell a rat from the whole story and that he should exercise caution. Just find something to tell or convince him to stop. Thanks
Just report to the authorities, telling them why you are skeptical of telling him (the victim), directly
ALEX182: So I have this American patient who I recently came across. He's a fat dude who is like in his late 40s but has a very jolly and likeable character. I introduced myself and we got talking afterwards.
After a while of chitchat, he asked me where I was from. I told him to take a guess and he said said, you sound like you're Nigerian. I told him (regrettably) that I was Nigerian. He started smiling and told me that he had a Nigerian girlfriend and that we both had similar accents.
He then started telling me recent occurrences that had befallen his girlfriend in Nigeria. He said the lastest story was that she was in Abuja and as she was on her way to the airport in a taxi, the taxi had an accident and she was seriously injured and had to be rushed to the hospital. He said that the hospital demanded money before treatment started and he had to hustle about $4000 and send to her in order for treatment to start.
He said that after a week of her being in the hospital, they wanted to discharge her despite her still being in pain. Because she had exhausted all the $4000 on treatment, he said the hospital had threatened to discharge her on the streets and he was trying to borrow more money to see if he could send it to her so they could continue with her treatments.
He furthermore told me that the girlfriend said that she was a Nigerian American citizen who was currently stuck in Nigeria due to her passport having expired and also due to Covid lockdown at airports in Nigeria. He said she had asked him for $300 to renew her US passport from American embassy in Nigeria.
Another thing that he told me was that just before covid struck, there was a similar pandemic which happened in Nigeria early this year and that his girlfriend had contracted the disease and he had to send her $2000 for treatment. Right now he said he's broke but is waiting for like $2000 disability check from the US government next week which he will send to her as soon as the money clears.
As he was telling me this tale, I was so angry with Nigerians and how they take advantage of people in love to scam them. I wanted to swear for the scammers
I'm at a dilemma here. Do I tell him that he's being scammed by Nigerians or do I continue to be professional and just ignore it. Because I don't want him to think I'm involved with it because these oyinbo people can turn everything on your head and accuse you that is your people in conjunction with you that are scamming him. They are that crazy.
The good part of me wants to help him but I'm hesitant that it may turn out bad for me. Please matured responses.
he told you when he had feelings for you, you should do the same. you said he is forty, he is matured enough to handle it, keep the relationship but let him know you don't want anything more than that, as long as that isn't what you want
Chinkos99: Our company recently employed this guy, we worked in the same company before, then he was a manager and i was a junior staff.
I left the company years ago and joined another, so few months ago he got employed in my new office as a Director.
When he resumed, being that i knew him before, i started playing around with him, like when he was introduced to us, i was like oo, common, i hug him tightly and people were surprise at our closeness before i informed them that we have worked together before.
I am a jovial person, so each time i go around his office, i will call him boyfriend, my love, hope no girl is trespassing cos i will fight o and his subordinates will laugh and say you are not serious.
On the job, we get to work together at times cos i am a Manager now, we go for meetings etc, then some of his job includes doing some short production, even though i am not employed as a video producer, i told him i can do those for him personally, cos i recently learn those, he was surprise before but he decided to give me a try, i did it for him and he liked it, he became close and said i was helping him solve alot of problems.
Recently when he comes to my office, he will ask my PA where is my woman and that one will laugh knowing i started it but i just thought that was it though.
So last month when we went to the Palms Mall, to seek for permission to film their facilities in the short production work we had, we were together then he decided to do some shopping, i helped him carry the things he bought and just had fun, he took me to shoprite and ask me to shop, i just pick two things, drink and rice and he said is that all i said yes, he started showing me things, take this, take that i said i was okay, that it wasnt appropriate to come here and start shopping like its month end. So we left, in the car he said, you do have some very good attribute girl, i said like what, he said never mind and we drove off.
After that he started asking if we can have lunch but most time our lunch time dont sync, so i told him not to worry, then he asked for a dinner, i close late, im a workaholic, so most times i will agree but i will work till 9pm and he would have waited and get tired and left.
Finally i get to have a dinner date with him and he ask if we could do this more often, i said why not boyfriend jokingly, the next time we were having dinner, I said boyfriend let me greet that guy there, i really needed to meet him, he has a contact i need for work, he held me and said you call me boyfriend jokingly, i want you to mean it lol.
After i met with the guy, he started telling me how he loved me and how he will really love us to be in a relationship, he doesnt expect a yes and he knows its so wrong on all level because we work in the same place, but i can think about it and give him a response later that he will respect any decision i make.
I said thank you o, but since then, dude is so soft and nervous when he sees me, i can see the butterflies even when we are in a client meeting.
Even though he tries not to make it obvious at work, after work he is all over me
Last night we were together, i told him i am scared as he is almost 40 and not married, that i believe any guy who gets to that age, with enough money but has not married is a play boy lol. He couldn't say a word for like some minutes then he said, yes i am old enough to have been married and i had relationships, beautiful relationships with wonderful women, some didn't work because of my mistakes and because of things i neglected and some didn't work because it was not meant to work, but above all have learnt alot to be at least a better man and i am ready to make it work this time i promise, i have no doubt if you are the right girl because have known you for long and have never had a second thought about my woman, so forgive me for not making it work all these while, i want to make it right this time - MEHN THOSE WORDS RINGS IN MY HEAD LIKE KILODE, i loved the fact that he didnt put the blame on the ladies he's dated.
Now on my own side, I do not feel anything for him but i like him alot, i like that we should be hanging out, go out, do dinner and talk from morning tonight but i do not feel anything aside that. What do you guys advise.
keep being persistent he will give in, either him or someone in the family will tell you, it may take time but you will find out. but something tells me that there may be a sad story behind all this, your dad cant just be this adamant for no reason he may be keeping it a way from you so that you don't get hurt the more. well it should be sooner than later, and prepare yourself for whatever the revelation may turn out to be...
Godlovesyou28: I type this with so much pain and sense of loss. I found out about two years ago that my step mum is not my real mum (everyone keeps wondering why am just waking up to the obvious).
I grew up being hated by my mum's (now step mum) family, usually beaten, overworked and deprived; but I was told that I was being trained to be strong since I was the first daughter by my mum (now step mum). At age seven I cooked all the meals except my (dads soups) and did all the cleaning. By age ten I cook every single meal at home, wash all the cloths and Iron, clean the house and run all the errands while my siblings both older and younger play and watch TV. I always felt my mum (step mum) will love me just a little bit more if I worked harder; she always told me I was special (and different) and that she loves me so much but does not know how to show it. . It hurt me deeply then that I was different so much so that its expression translated to pain; but that's in my past now and I have no regrets.
Fast forward, am all grown up and fully independent, then a distant relative I helped told me two years ago that my mum is not my real mum with facts. For me it was a relief (I thought there was something wrong with me that made me unloveable and to be treated different and given less, but I know better now). I am more confident knowing she never loved me and that it was no fault of mine.
Now, I just can't move on knowing I have a mother and I want to meet her and ask her questions (why she would dump her child for another woman to raise? Why she never came back to take me? Etc). And also if we could catch-up and be friends maybe.
The problem is that no one wants to tell me anything since most of my family members fear my dad and keep referring me back to my dad; I visited my dad and begged him to tell me who she is (I cried so much that he had to beg me to stop), he asked me to go so he can discuss it with my mum (step mum) but now shouts me down each time I bring up the topic.
I want to find my real mother . l don't know why I can't sleep or think about anything else. I need closure. I have been advised to sue my dad and am considering it. Please help me, I can't bear knowing I have a mother out there and not know who she is. Please help!
but its not available in the market until august. currently i use xplane 11 and its the most amazing flight sim ever built, would love to try msfs 2020 but something inside me says that xplane 11 will still stand out
Jakumo: Microsoft has finally released the latest version of their enormously popular flight simulator, called simply Microsoft Flight Simulator, and the visuals are absolutely realistic down to the smallest detail. This is flight simulation evolving into a highly complex aviation training platform, and most certainly NOT a video game by any stretch of the imagination.
I am definitely going to need a computer upgrade to run this new simulator, and by God I will acquire one NOW, even it it entails selling off my mother-in-law for scientific research, to raise the money for my new rig. Check out this video teaser of the magic that is Microsoft Flight Simulator 2020.
Naturally, the more the taboo the more the adrenaline rush.
The excitement of creeping late at night. Of watching and waiting and bidding time. The excitement of nearly getting caught. All that adds to the thrill. We are actors in this movie called life. We play our roles and if roles become too boring and excitement comes with some action, we damn the consequences. Especially when the said maid it tempting enough. While it is not accepted by the society as an excuse, it is worsened when the man is in a boring relationship. There are also instances where it is the woman who is attracted to the male domestic servants.
Of course this is capable of hurting people. Especially when the parties aren't careful or the maid goes rogue.
In one of the last Friday of the month pub/bar/lounge gist, a guy had two maids and was sleeping with the two of them. His wife had a maid at home, and then his wife's relatives sent a young girl of about 20 who was a "distant niece" of sort to stay with them. It was the niece he first had an affair with just about a month after she arrived the house. The wife will usually leave and go for vigil on the last Friday of every month. Usually, the househelp will cater for the 2 kids and put them to sleep. They asleep in the help's room when the wife is out for the night. He woke up in the middle of the night and wanted to be sure who was with the kids and how they were all sleeping, especially as this was the first time the wife's niece was experiencing his wife not being around at night. Also, he had noticed light in the room where they sleep and was wondering who was still awake around 1am in the morning. When he got to the room, the wife's niece was sprawled on one of the beds alone. The kids aged 3 and 4 were with the maid on her own bed sleeping. The small TV in the room was on providing slight illumination. From what he said he saw that night, he knew he was in trouble. The wife's niece, there she was laying on her tummy. Her arse was up in the air with her thighs spread apart. Her sleeping wrapper barely covering anything. The pubic hair scantily covering her labia, and the pink slit of the labia showing. He did not know how long he starred and contemplated or whether it was only for a few seconds. All he noticed was that he had a rock solid erection. One of the strongest he has ever had. He instinctively started stroking himself and she moved a little spreading her thighs wider and bending one of her legs at the knee putting her in a position like she was climbing a high stairs. He went to his room, changed into a towel, came back and noticed the wrapper was all gone and not on her body anymore. Like she woke up while he was briefly gone and took it completely off her body. Long story short he quietly climbed the bed and when he tried to gently push his way and enter her, he realized that though she was tight as he was huge, she was already very wet and welcoming. She also did resist at all. He took a huge gamble and came inside her twice that night amidst her stiffled cries and moan as she used her own hands to cover her mouth from screaming and crying out too loud that night. And that was how it began with her.
He thought he was being careful until one thing led to another and he realized that the maid saw all that happened the very first night. That was when he pieced his recent observations together. He had noticed that the maid started dressing skimpily at home and she was much younger. Perhaps 17 at most. He did not relate it to the fact that her dressing sort of changed a day or two after the night with the wife's niece. Long story short he slept with her too but in a more crazy sort of way. While she was trying to entice him, when he made his move. In the course of trying to take his shorts off she saw his manhood full and erect, she got a little scared and very afraid. She started trying to resist. He had to practically use force/subdue her to have his way. She struggled and resisted trying to break free, but the moment he was able to get inbetween her thighs, position himself and push her jerseylike very skimpy night trunk shorts aside he penetrated and lodge fully deep inside her raw. She started actively moaning, crying and kissing back.
About a while latter both girls got seriously ill. He thought he was a dead man. Which brought about the gist in the first place.He was very worried. We tried our best then to tell him to keep calm. Eventually, going to the hospital, it was revealed that they both came down with Malaria at the same time. One had typhoid as well.
Nbote: Hehehehehe.. Oh SpaceX flying over Nigeria means future aviation coming closer? Coming from an aviation Minister Whixh kind of shameless statement b dis for heaven's sake... How can a spaceX flying into the international space station go thru Nigeria before getting into orbit?? Who we offend abeg.. The future he is talking about is clearly the past for d Americans..
apparently you didn't read the text but only the heading
IME1: Please tell me who directed the pilot from the control tower? Who authorised it's landing at all? Who were the immigration officers who attended to the new arrivals? Who were the FAAN staff who were on "duty" at the airport
I logged in my account just to tell you 1 thing. I AM PROUD OF YOU, you are a real man. My advice to you is to follow your heart. Nobody has to know her HIV status, it can remain between the 2 of you. God be with you
The OP mislead most people here with the link, I'm sure only few may notice. The link only reports about the test run of the digital currency and at no point did it say China dropping the use of USD for trade
Please ignore any typographical or grammatical error. I just want to pour it out the way it is in my heart.
I am seriously confused and worried about what is happening in my family and I will appreciate your candid advice.
There is this guy my sister has been in a relationship with for over seven years now. so he actually asked her hand in marriage and decided to come see my parents for introduction, about some months ago. My family decided to take their time to find out more about the guys family background as is required in Igbo tradition.
After several questions asked, my family came to find out that the guy is an Osu (an outcast). On knowing this, everybody in my family told my sister to cut ties with him and discontinue the relationship because it is a big taboo to get married to an Osu in my place . If you do, no family member or friend will attend your wedding or even have anything to do with you again.
But my sister refused to listen to anybody claiming she really loves the guy, that they have been together for a very long time and that she is not getting younger anymore (mind you, she is in her early thirties). Everybody (my parents and extended family members) tried to talk her out of it but she still didn't listen.
After much pressure and her continues insistence, my dad decided to give them his blessings, although against his wish (my dad is actually not really deep into tradition). Now the guy has done all the traditional rights and paid for her dowry. Their wedding is coming up soon.
But the problem now is, according to tradition and from what I heard, if she was allowed to go with the guy without my dad giving them his blessings, the stigma would have just been on her and she alone would have been considered Osu, since she insisted to continue with the marriage. But now that my dad has given them his blessings, it is considered that all of us (her siblings) will also have that link of Osu too. Except if she decide to put an end to the relationship and discontinue with the wedding, which I don't think my sister is ready to do.
I am really worried and depressed about it, cause I don't want anything that will affect me tomorrow when I want to get married just because of my sister's mistakes.
I will really like to get opinions and sincere advice especially from those that are familiar with tradition, cause I'm seriously bothered. Thanks!
nnadychuks: First of all u said u didn’t know it was not your wife... Maybe it’s true but I no believe u sha... But if you can make everyone here believe, you can also make your wife believe you... U even tried to send her the 20k with the consent of your wife... Most importantly; I have a very clean Toyota Sienna for sale at 1.7 million
I had to register this account because I need advice from matured minds. I got married to my wife three years ago and she has a younger Sister who was two years younger. They both look alike, same body build, voice and face. I actually thought they were twins when I first saw them together. She do come to our house for weekends or the holiday as she and my wife were so close. She knows where we keep our house keys. We are yet to have kids and sometimes I appreciate her presence as she keeps my wife company.
Last month, I went to watch a late premiership match at a bar not far from the house and I took some few drinks like I always do with the guys. I wasn't drunk, just a bit light headed. I drove home immediately after the match around 8pm and opened the door with my key. PHCN took the light as soon as I entered and Everywhere was dark. I heard the shower running and thought my wife was in the bathroom. Normally, I and my wife love spontaneous sex as it spice up our relationship. So I decide to get naughty and have sex. So, I stripped and opened the bathroom and said, Honey, let's have a quickie". Without waiting for reply, I pushed her to the wall and penetrated from behind.
One thing, I first noticed was that my thing went inside so smoothly without any resistance. My wife was a virgin when we met and even till now, she still complain of me being big for her. I thought it was the shower water that made it so frictionless so I kept thrusting. The next thing ,I heard was "Uncle Dele(not my real name), please harder, yes, hit me well, I love your dick inside me". That was when I realized it wasn't my wife. Immediately, my eyes cleared and I pulled out. I started apologizing to her that I thought it was her Sister, my wife. I quickly dashed out of the bathroom, ran to the room, put my clothes, grabbed my phone and put on the phone torch. She had also left for the other room so I went to knock and started apologizing again. She had put on her clothes also. She said I ought not to apologize as I clearly thought she was my wife and it was a case of mistaken identity. We were still talking when we heard the door being opened and I dashed to my room.
We acted like normal when her sister came in and didn't say a word to each other. Though, I felt so guilty as I had never cheated on my wife since we got married. Even my wife was surprised her sister was around as she didn't tell her she was coming. What happened was my wife went to the superstore to get some things, that was why she wasn't at home as I left her at home when I was going to watch match. My in-law left the following day.
I met with my sister-in-law three days later and I apologize again and we both agreed to keep it as a secret between us as it would hurt my wife so much. She has had two miscarriages since we got married. Her sister also agreed to keep quite, but she made a statement that made me nervous. She said "Uncle Dele, you are so big o. Is that what my sister has been enjoying". I was a bit angry, but I didn't want to make an issue out of it so I smiled and let it pass.
Fast forward to last week, She called me that she needed 50k to get something and if I can help her. In the past, I do give her money but always through my wife. 5k, 10k or thereabout but nothing like the 50k she's asking for now. So I informed my wife of the request and she was angry on why she should be demanding for such amount and called her to tell her what she feels. Only for her to call me and sounding angry on why I had to tell my wife she's asking money from me. I calmly told her that my wife knows about all my finances and it is not new that I am informing my wife of such request. However in order for peace to reign, I convinced my wife and we sent 20k to her, which she never called back to say thank you.
Yesterday, she called me again asking for 30k to do something, which she didn't say what it was. I was at work so I told her, I will call her back later. I never had the chance to call her until she called me later in the evening sounding so angry that I didn't call her back and she needed the money unfailingly before Saturday. I politely told her, I don't have any money and will have to inform my wife about it, which she told me not to tell her. Actually, I am in a fix as one thing I hate is someone blackmailing me, though she hasn't said she will tell my wife about what transpired between us. Her tone and attitude towards me is suggesting she's trying to take advantage of me.
I don't know if I should confess to my wife as I don't want to be someone maga. However, I don't want my wife to go through any stress as we just discovered she's pregnant again and don't want any issue again. Please , I need advice as I don't want to give her any money by weekend. Thanks
No matter what happens never admit that you had sex with her sister. It was a mistàke, move on! Ignore the blaçkmailing bitch she will do more harm to herself if she reports
alonzoiv: Means life is relatively cheap in that area, with very serene environment and almost free knacks. Probably the cheapest oil-rich state to live in Nigeria.
Car Talk / Re: Maintenance Tips On Cars. by musachara: 8:35am On Jan 03, 2022 
. It hurt me deeply then that I was different so much so that its expression translated to pain; but that's in my past now and I have no regrets.
