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pwettyeddy:
Sir,thanks you are seriously.on point


You didn't tell us that the reason she stopped. Never demonise your wife in public, it always bounces back to you. Courtship is always easier than marriage. In marriage it's always difficult to remain the same person. It's either your are happier cos you decided to spice up the marriage, I mean always arousing your wife curiosity and attraction towards you, Or it becomes boring due to lame routine. Having sex in the same position , same place everytime. Lame!
Obviously, I will be blunt. You are not paying attention. She has been complaining. Women complain via altitude change. We are like kids. We are emotional beings, you must possess some measure of emotional intellegence to keep us worshiping the floor you walk on.

Now back to the issue. Since you got married to her, how is the sex? Better to her. Or lame? How long do you last? Do you know her fantasies? Do you satisfy them or just satisfy your self leaving her in limbo?
Do you suffer from quick ejaculation, and now burns our faster than a flaring gas, instead of the oil that burns slowly? Answer truthfully, if you need help.

Is it now routine? Do you take her out. I lean showcase her. It most not be about money. Just simple wears and you stroll out holding hands on cool evenings. Even if it's just few street walk round the neighborhood or the the park, movies, beach, nice dinner or a music lounge, just any thing.

Does she like meat when did you buy her small gifts like suya? Do you engage her in discussions? Do you discuss what she wants or you are the lord and master over all? What she thinks and feels doesn't matter at all. Bros! She will start hating at you and she needs tonne happy to Bleep. She who is angry or harbours resentment towards you cannot Bleep you. Go out with her some Friday nights, after work, have some beer and talk about the exciting past, her present and future dreams. Ask her questions about her five year, ten year, twenty year plans. We live to talk when we are comfortable with you and with just that you will have our heart.
Go have your wife's heart. Give her MouthAction, watch soft porn or some romantic movies with you, buy her Christian books on sex and marriage. " straight sex talk is one of them "
Never yell at her and expect the best. Treat her like a little kid and as a grown up friend. Do not make the mistake of cheating, it never goes away. Flirting could rekindle her interest if she was been silly. The fear of losing you to another could work also, but you have to work on yourself first. Stop those bad habits you took. Find her what she wants and show care. You may not necessarily do them. Give her orgasm and she will always pray for you. Just imagine you having sex and before you reach ejaculation, she stops you that she is tired or that's it's painful or for no reason at all. How will you feel. With time, you will hate sex with her cos its of no use. Just ponder on that. That's how she is feeling right now.

Finally, how have the finances being? Everything can't be bad. Na! Work better on finances. Seat her down and plan the future with her. You need not tell her details of everything, just let her have the feeling or sense of belonging. Been supportive. You just should not lie to her. Rather keep your mouth shut or change topic smartly.

Wo! The list is endless. With time, I could refer you to some groups on other social media on how to make your wife worship the ground you walk on without being necessarily rich physically, but in emotional intelligence. Shalom