DSB:

I dey here with you o. Conji dey wire me but I dey maintain. E no easy sha

see all of them shouting I must nyash..... many destinies have been destroyed because of sex, some of you guys have slept with witches, mammy water and spirit women and they have stolen ur destiny, some of you are already empty instead of you"all to hold onto God and ask him for restoration you are looking for means to destroy and steal other people's destiny......foolish children

pro01:

Smh. Una go just dey deceive unasef. While you're depriving your mumu fiance of sex, shebi you would still be straffing your randy boss (for fear of losing your job), straffing your lecturer (for obvious reasons), straffing a top HR guy or company executive to get a job (if you're in the labour market), straffing your customers/potential customers to get commissions or deposits and whatnot, straffing your sugar daddy or one 'big boy' for the money you need to maintain your chikito status, etc.

In case some of you don't understand, most guys would ordinarily not mind waiting until marriage. The problem is: sensible guys realise that, with women, there are no guarantees. There will always be a richer, more powerful, or more ruthless guy that has what it takes (or can do what it takes) to compel your so-called 'chaste' girlfriend to kneel down and suck his dick until her lips bleed. . . while her mumu boyfriend or fiance is about 200 miles yonder, deludedly extolling the virtues of the woman he is waiting to sleep with on their wedding night. Examples abound. Why should any sensible guy put himself in such a shameful position?

you have simply been mingling with deceitful, hypocritical and pretentious people that is why many of you can never spot a good thing when its right in front of you, i pray i never get to meet a guy with your kind of mindset because if I hear such rubbish i wish use my mouth to beat up the guy. Nonsense!!!

Idi Amin: Don't mind them bro, I just dis-engaged my fiancee because of that sentence. I am not a father christmas

what a lame excuse you are not yet ready to get married

jes7: a lady can say no sex before marriage even if she is not a virgin. many ladies have lost their virginity out of their will. the only thing is for them to be truthful, and if they tell you about their past wil you bliv them, and will it not be gud if they decide to stop and wait for the right man?

don't mind some of the morons sending reply as for me i'm not a virgin and I've decided to wait till marriage lemme hear the foolish guy that will tell me he wants to test drive, infact........actions speak louder than words, i will tell him his history

GH PATRIOT:
I assure you, speaking from experience you will get over it.

*SellyTinz*

lol........ this guy dey crase

thinka2: Well, I suppose you may first would want to know he is the right guy, so that your efforts are not in vain.. But certainly, there are certain things you do that will facilitate the process of Mr. Right's conviction...enzymes I call them!

1. Look your best: You don't have to be a beauty queen to win over a man. Whatever style you think looks great on you naturally, use it. Guys tend to look at the natural beauty more as the one to fall in love with than the one that's made-up for an hour to look a certain way. But no one ever said styling your hair a different way or doing your nails hurt. Guys like a put-together girl. But you don't need to go over the top!

2. Confidence is key: A serious guy wants a woman who can handle responsibility. You don't necessarily have to gloat about this...if you are responsible, you will definately know and live it. You'd be mildly confident and not overboard.

3. Be romantic: Reply missed calls, compose a message, give a compliment...a word of encouragement, oblige to an outing, buy a gift, compose a poem...remember important dates. It doesn't matter who the guy is, every guy will appreciate this a great deal. It just has a way of focusing a man's attention on you.

4. Don't ever ask the guy out: Whatever you do, no matter your convictions, make sure you don't hurt the male ego by asking a guy out. The average guy will like you less for it. All you have to do is create the right circumstance. Also make him feel like there is a good chance you will say "yes". Remember that too much certainty is a bad thing, as is too much obscurity.


5. Make it about you and him: Even in a public setting, or amongst a group of friends, make sure that your focus of attention is on him, and that you make him feel comfortable talking to you. Never make him feel like you are judging him, especially by the success of others.


6. Build his ego. This step is key, and this is the one that makes the guy "suddenly realize" how great you are. Don't outwardly compliment him, that's too obvious. Instead, try to make him believe that in your eyes he's perfect (i.e. the smartest, the strongest, etc.). This isn't an actual thing you say, it's more of an attitude that you give off when you're around him as opposed to other men. This will make him see how special you are for thinking he is special.


7. DO NOT FLIRT WITH OTHER GUYS: Period. Guys scare off easy, and for those who don't, they won't appreciate you handing out your charm to whatever guy passes the corner. He wants to feel like you've reserved that part of yourself just for him and that he is the only one who gets to see it.


8. Be interested in his world: If there are things that he is interested in that you are not, try to partake in them or discuss them with him at least once before mentioning to him that you're not really interested in them. The very fact that you were willing to partake in something that he liked that you didn't will make him see you as committed, considerate, and caring. The fact that you are willing to open yourself up to even the parts of him that you don't necessarily like will allow him to see how special YOU are to him. And at this point, you're almost there.

9. Be neither cheap nor cold: Avoid extremes...Don't pick up the phone on the first ring, be busy on certain "date-nights" and etc....but don't be cold either, don't make it seem as though you have lost interest. Simply, make yourself a bit less "acquirable" than usual, only for a short while.


10. Be open: Be open to and about a lot of things. Be open to correction (he'd soon realize you are not that perfect afterall) and be open about your challenges...don't be afraid to open up about your problems at work, with your family, friends etc. The superwoman thing just won't work...neither will playing the victim and being overtly so dependent on advice. Be available for a good conversation...be calm enough to talk things through and not argue out everything.

Finally, don't lose yourself in the process of trying to make anyone fall in love with you. The truth is that the right person will love you without your constant attempts to win them over.

http://www.tutubranch.com/2013/06/tips-right-woman.html

Geez being in a relationship is now like. Preparing for exams I say be urself what will be will be. No wonder many marriages are crashing when people keep hiding their true colours all in the name of getting Mr Right

shdemidemi:
John got the revelation from Christ. The revelation has nothing to do with gift of grace, like I said it is not this church age gospel. The revelation given to Paul is what you and I are gonna be judged by according to scriptures.

Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound. God forbid!!! That's a from romance so if u give ur life to christ believe and u continue to sin without asking for repentance u are on ur own o grace has expiry date in case you don't know. God can never ever be mocked

topefisayo: Went well, yours? Was it ten questions too?

Just 10 questions I was expecting like 100 questions o

helsinkiman: So what next after first test?

how did urs go

received mine too

no link still......... its past 10 already

topefisayo: Got another reminder from them via email just now. Didnt get any text from them.

me too

I also got a text from them somebody pls help me I'm desperate

[quote author=kunletoks]I am a student that have passion for business, i just started importing of android tablet but there is little profit on it.
I know buying and selling gold necklace is a good business with a good market.
Please where can i buy gold necklace and sell to the Mallam.
I have searched online and could not find a suitable website.
Also i know the mallam will not buy either plated or filled gold necklace.
Please contact me on okstar45@gmail.com
Thanks you.[/quote

who told you that you cannot get gold necklace in Nigeria, I am a goldsmith my goods are handmade which makes it more expensive if you are interested we can chat

[quote author=A.N Agency]According to my research we have 3 types of gold jewelry.
1. Solid gold jewelry.
2. Gold filled jewelry.
3. Gold plated jewelry.

I want to start a jewelry ecommerce store and thinking of gold filled jewelry.

Advice me house.

Hi I'm a gold smith. gold filled is good but costing becomes a problem most especially if you want to create a master piece the price of gold solder alone is over 15 thousand naira and we are talking about a very very tiny small piece, unless you want to sell only wire works in ur store you have to find out if there is a market for wire works jewelry cos the designs are limited

DailyNews: So mygirl, in case you have issues with reading the true meaning of my comment, I was supporting your point, and went further to explain some ways out.

You know, we can't just fold our hands and smile with the hope that things would fix itself while it gets worse. This was what happened to terrorism and most later turned terrorist.

2 in every 10 Nigerian guys have a negative mindset against Nigerian girls, and u can see this reflecting on social network platforms, forums and all social, academic, labour gathering in Nigeria, which means there is an inherent problem somewhere which needs to be addressed soonest.

You know, almost every Nigerian girl complains that Nigerian guys are just after sex, and it must be true and I have seen fellow guys nurture this belief that; girls are just good for sex only, and that's why I condemn it and scold the guys I know on this bad conception, and I also encourage fellow guys to stop thinking that way and stop seeing girls as just sex objects.

Now, as a guy who has sisters and female relatives whom I wouldn't want to be victims of molestation of male abuse, I can't just fold my hands when I see topics like this, reason you see me bring up this topic even on my own personal blog as a way of creating awareness, but the likes of mygirl see it as hatred, how pls

You prefer guys who praise you in your flaws while laugh at you at your back right?

In summary, I was solidly behind you, but from a different perspective. I was trying to encourage single ladies to initiate a campaign for change to create more awareness that Nigerian girls aren't as evil as most Nigerian guys see them, and to also give the ladies a room to disprove the guys by living a life different from what guys believe and expect from them, but unfortunately, you intentionally interpreted it the way you desire and even went ahead to label DailyNews a “woman hater” how?

and again, I don't think that my like can come across the class of girls Nigerian guys complain about cos of so many reasons that are beyond your understanding, but that doesn't mean I should stay quiet cos I can't when I am a blogger, a relationship book writer and a human right....

I only stated what i've noticed please go through all your posts on this forum and tell me if you don't write like someone that has got issues with women no need for long story.........

DailyNews: very true and scary! Both rich, poor and average Nigerian guys now have one negative mindset abt Nigerian girls. Even as he is dating or married to one, he still stares at her with suspicion and sometimes hatred...

Honestly, sth needs to be done; the girls need to start addressing themselves and try to regain that undoubted love guys used to have for them. If not, things may get out of hand and you may soon start witnessing high rate of- female molestation, murder, abuse and what have you. I think government, religious bodies and NGOs needs to come in because we may think this is nothing, this is just their usual bashing and talk talk, but most violence and terror situations in the world starts like this.

Just visit any social network or forum and read what Nigerian guys think about their Nigerian women. Listen to musical artistes sing and hear them complain same.

Visit corporate offices and schools and hear guys discussing this same negative mindset about Nigerian females.

Its gradually spreading and the hate message is getting into the brains of every Nigerian guy; both poor and rich and its very bad and scary. Ladies do something, if it involves initiating a campaign for change and seek for sponsors, I wouldn't mind being a part of it in any way I am needed and I would also suggest anyone embarking on it involve government, religious bodies and NGOs.

Scary indeed! Happy Sunday fellows.

Dailynews I'm sorry to say but you write like a woman hater. I've noticed that you like to stylishly/indirectly bash women in your posts. I will say it again many women I know including me are not money lovers afterall God gave us hands, legs and brain to do something besides when I go out everyday I see many women going to work you all make it seem like all the women in Nigeria are jobless and poverty stricken many of you guys typing rubbish have never given anything to your so called girl friends you just post rubbish to feel among. I think at the end of the day parents need to play an active role in their children's lives to curb this hatred that exists between men and women in Nigeria, many mothers are to preoccupied in training up their daughters to be good wives that they forget their sons. The end result is people like daily news and co who hate women

R0FL

kevotek1000: It is disheartening, that majority of 9ja gurlz thinks alike... Majority of them substitute Love for money, they have this psyche that I dislike so much and that is a guy must be ready to spend and spend for them while those that you think is cooperative or less depending are those that do play away match. 9ja Girls abeg Love na 50/50 make una no dey cheat us. Guyz the truth must be said our girls dey fuckup. Yes Not all but I think there are still good ones perhaps not yet wise.lol

I dunno where you guys meet all these girls you are harping on about, as for me I have never dated any guy for money and I have many friends who think like me. I have been very nice and caring in my past relationships but I've noticed that the average Nigerian guy will take you for granted if you are nice another thing that bothers me is this hate many Nigerian guys have for girls/women its scary that's why many marriages are breaking up

funnyx:

Of course I don't know you, you're just being confused by my choice of words and I can understand As you stated that you've lived in the UK before I believe you should know better and understand that big qualifications is not what matters. Unfortunately many of the Nigerians you wrote about failed to drop their Nigerian mentality at MMIA, PhD does not translate to big job in the UK, sad but true.

You don't get my point this isn't about whether I have lived in the UK or not. how many white british citizens with PHD will you find doing a call centre Job? When you apply and there is a section where they tell you equal opportunities and ask you to tick options stating if you are black, british black or white what do you think they are going use tthe information to do

funnyx:

Even graduate Brits do call centre job, its called competition mate. Also why would you expect employers to help renew your visa when there are many Brits who can do your job? Don't tell me employers in the US get visa for every tom d1ck and Harry with no special skills. It looks like you were expecting a red carpet in the UK just because you've got some qualifications which is not rare.

I never said anything about America in my post. you don't know me or the kind of qualifications I have got, besides I can't remember using myself as an example. The truth is that many Nigerians and when I say many I mean very many Nigerians do call centre jobs even with their PHD

jackbauersballs:

I work as a contractor as well to good rates. What I've noticed is that a lot of Nigerains don't have the skills and/or experience to match their certificates.

Trust me, you don't see the qualified guys working call centres.

I don't want to give too many examples but there was a guy in my church who had first class, masters degree distinction all the certifications you can think of and he worked in a call center for close to three years infact it was by devine intervention after much prayer and fasting that he was able to get a good job I know. A lot of people who have a lot to offer but they are still looking, I will tell you that many people had to tell lies before they got the high paying job you are talking about they probably will not come out and tell you, the excuse they give is that "don't you know that's the only way you can get a job in this country"

jackbauersballs:

I disagree with the UK being hostile to immigrants as my immediate circle of friends work white collar, high paying jobs.

In fact I've found the UK to be more favourable to me as a young professional than Naija ever was

There is a dearth of British qualified young professionals, so educated immigrants are BALLING.

My current office is ridiculously multicultural - we call it the UN.

white collar jobs, ok how much are your friends earning, is your company going to renew your visa when it expires. You will find that its only big organisations that will do that for you, don't get me wrong I have friends who do contract jobs where they are paid 200- 500 pounds per day but a large number of Nigerians work in call centres or take up customer service roles in my own opinion that's crap because many of them should be able to get better jobs

Shollypopz:
LMAO! I love this girl, undiluted comedy!

Even though I'm never been the United states I believe sweetlemon has a point about the hostility of the United kingdom to migrant especial africans, I lived in the UK for close to four years and let me tell you they are very very hostile to immigrants most especially if you are black, don't get me wrong you can get a job but getting the kind of Job you deserve is another headache on its own I know very many Nigerians who had to tweek their CV's with lies here and there in order to get invited for an interview some of them have Good jobs now but they won't tell you how they got the job you hear them saying I worked hard, if you go to all the churches the prayer point is usually O lord give me my papers or O lord I need a good job. Most of the british people feel threatened by foreigners because they feel that they can take their jobs hence the slogan #british jobs for british people# all of you that stay in the Uk know what I am talking about

rully2: Not all entirely true! situations are different..I have seen several couples that hoards and protects their relationship so reservedly that you wont even see it coming when you begin to hear marriage rumors or even see a wedding IV..then you'll be like "i never saw him with her" duh! while he is parading a chic everywhere from watching Chelsea versus Arsenal to going to that Isiewu spot DOES NOT make her the one o!

Some people do not welcome so much show off, except with really close pals...all this relationship tips sef, "how to know if He is the one"..How to tell if He/She is into you".. "How to make him commit"...abegi..what will be will be!

Seriously, you begin to wonder if you will ever find love

What does it entail pls? Anyone?

with the Job situation in this country if your girl/woman finds her self jobless by no fault of her own so you will dump her because she is now a liability. many of you men commenting are very shallow minded, being jobless is a temporary situation, everyone passes through the jobless route at one point or the other.

do we still have writers in this country?

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lol!!! hilARIOUS!!!

masonkz: We only dream of things we've been thinking about, praying about/against or just plain obsessed with...or again, just a dream/nightmare. Only those who pray 24/7 about fighting demons actually end up having nightmares about them. The things you are afraid of/obsessed with, you end up dreaming about. Search yourself. This is just one of the many dreams you'll have in your life time, and if you keep putting emphasis on them, you lose touch with reality..thus having more of such dreams/nightmares.

Nigerian Christians need to chill a little.

Please I don't think about or obsess about prostitutes. its a different thing to dream its another to dream and wake up with a sharp pain in my stomach this is not the first time. This thread is for strong christians, I thank God i have gotten the answers I need.

Pastor Olu T:

Obviously

The world now believes that if you are beautiful as a woman the only way ur beauty can be appreciated is if you show off your body and maximise ur "looks" to the fullest. For men you have to carry all the women in the world if not you have not started