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Devil is using u

We didnot ask him before

importexpert:
When a man loves a girl, he would want to go over mountains and seas for her. Some girls have discovered this and have positioned themselves to take full advantage of it. Sadly, most guys are not aware of this. It often takes another person to realize that the guy is being used. If you are in a relationship, here are seven ways of discovering this for yourself.

1. She does not take no for an answer:

If your girlfriend likes to have her way at all times, it is a sign that she is emotionally blackmailing you. She has studied you and come to realize that you love her. This is now her bargaining weapon. If you have an argument, she would do all she can for you to concede. If that fails, she will resort to tears because she knows it will break you.

2. She wants you to invest heavily in the relationship:

You may ask "What is wrong with it?" Nothing, if only she invests in the same measure. If you are the one always investing in a relationship and she rarely invests in the same manner, bro, she is just enjoying "dividends of a maga". The simple fact is, if someone loves you, there will be the natural instinct to give all she can. While there is need for reciprocation, true love does not try to get first, instead, it gives. no matter how little she gives within her capacity. it is better for her to take her little time to prepare nice eba and egusi soup for you than to go and buy it elsewhere.

3. She cancels plans with you repeatedly:

If she is fond of cancelling any plans that you both have made and does so with reckless abandon, watch it. No one who loves you will keep you hanging like that. "But she gives reasons why she couldn't make it", you say. Those reasons are excuses, and she gives you because you need something to comfort yourself with. The time and attention she is starving you of is what someone gets with ease.

4. She does not really care about you:

When a girl loves a guy, she wants to tell him everything that is happening with her and also wants to know what is happening with him. If your girlfriend does not show interest in knowing about what is going on with you that is a red flag. Rather than know about your progress with life, she occupies herself with telling you about her needs or family problems and needs, you really need to think twice.

5. You have a desire to gain her approval:

A woman's desire is what her man should have and not try to earn. If you feel the need to get her to like anything you do or approve of who you are, then you should be careful. If your girlfriend discovers this desire in you, she is supposed to help you address it by telling you she approves of you unconditionally. If she does not but instead feeds that desire, you are not her lover but her worker who is trying hard to earn her approval.

6. She uses sex as a bargaining chip:

It is up to the two of you to decide whether to abstain or have sex. The problem here is if she uses sex as a tool for negotiation. She knows most men will make a decision based on what lies between their legs rather than what is in their heart. If she deprives you of intimacy just to have her way, it is clear that she is trying to take advantage of you.

7. She makes you feel guilty:

Guilt is a powerful emotion that most people do not know how to cope with. Your girlfriend too may recognize this and try to use it for her own good. When she needs your presence, she will probably say something like, "I know you don't miss me anymore, that's why you don't hang out with me" or when she needs something, "I know you don't care about me and how I survive. Later you will say you love me". If your girl makes statements along these lines, she is trying to get you defensive and then do her bidding. It's simple reverse psychology!

If you discover you are in this category, it is best you break up with such a girl. Manipulation is a decision and not an accident. That girl is not your girlfriend but a manipulator .

This is a sign you have no girlfriend

Pls get a life

Talk2Bella:
Hey Bella please help me publish this and also advise me on the next step to take thanks.

When I met him he told me he had many things which I later found out to be lies, he was squatting but he told me his friend was the one squatting, so whenever I went to his house I would be expecting his friend to excuse us but he won’t until one day I got angry and told him he should excuse us after all that wasn’t his house, he got angry and chased me and my fiancé out that was when I knew my man was the squatter.

We raised money and got an apartment together, my job pays better than his and I was recently blessed with a car, but he’s gone around to tell everyone the car is his, he told everyone he pays for our house, feeds and clothes me while I just sit back and enjoy his wealth, this attitude makes people asks him for favors and then I end up giving him money to satisfy them.

There are so many things he brags about that he doesn’t own, lands, shares, money, and a sister abroad, I am tired, whenever I catch him lying he would say people loves lies; I don’t love him anymore I want to secretly get an apartment and dump him, I don’t see myself having kids with him, my children will learn nothing good from him, am I making the right decision?

Anonymous please


Would you have fallen in love with him if it weren’t for the lies he told you? He’s a braggart and you encouraged him by not debunking claims he makes while in public, you’re a participant of his bad habits and should not feel bad now things are worse.

Love comes with its price and you’ve paid yours, leaving him secretly is not the answer, no man is born evil, circumstances might have made him who he is, have a one on one intense talk with him and let him know how you really feel, no one is prone to change, tell him the lies and brags have to stop; you already know him in Toto there’s no need for him to present himself to be someone or something he’s not, this will only work if you still loved him which you said in your email you don’t.

Even if you’re going to leave still have that talk with him, it will make things better between both of you.

Talk2Bella

http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/02/my-fiance-brags-alot-he-lies-about.html?m=1

So what do u want us to do with all these lies?

Happened early hours on my way to work

Useless human being it is a shame that Obed B.C Ndikom acknowledge this man in his dedication in one of his books on shipping transportation

E for kukuma eat the corpse

Nonsene

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