₦airaland Forum

Queenslander:
There is no excuse for rape, we can't live in a society where a trip, let's say to the market in the middle of the day or at night becomes a nightmare or where a ride on a bike to a lonely path could be your last.. Having a conscience is what separates man from beast.. Men who rape women are animals that should not be allowed to roam the streets.. There is simply no excuse for rape. Never has been.. Never will be.. Teach that to your sons.. And also remind yourself everyday..

Women nko?

TMclovin:
This one goes out to the females all over.

Recently, we have seen a rise in rape cases. If you could learn something/ do something to actually defend yourself, your loved ones, your children even, from ever getting raped, what would you learn?

I recently learned how to make homemade pepper spray to use to fight any attack

Share yours here so other women can take advantage and turn the tide against rapists.

Hmmm

I believe if Rapists can have pre-intimacy before rape, ladies would enjoy it. This picture speaks volumes.

DeckXavier:
please how did you carry out this survey??. You seem to know a lot.

She just wan argue. That's what we call Chauvinism.

DeckXavier:
but on your earlier post, you said most women are breadwinners codedly, you live in most homes too?. Abi you don't understand the quantifier "most" ?

No mind am. I wonder what her reply will be.

Fountainofyouth:
I guess you live in most homes right? If no, where is the link, source to your undisputed 2%? Or you like spew rubbish becos everything is gender war to kids like you?

women will always want to play the victim to blackmail people into having undue sympathy.

Ariza:
Lol.
Your intention has always been visible in your projection. You denied it but every response from you so far states otherwise.

Have fun Brother.

Lol. have seen nothing wrong in equal treatment as you all preach. No be so?

Fountainofyouth:
It's like you don't understand English, do you know the difference between help meet and sole provider aka bread winner?

You see una problem, I said if they play their roles... ok sit-down for house na. Even at that sef them go take insult spoil their good side. How many women are absolute bread winners? less than 2% undisputedly.

Ariza:
Lol see as your blood dey boil for your mind you don make sense oooo . Funny guy.


Well for your information, I don't do this Feminists versus Alpha shiit you all do here, perhaps you may want to choose another Target to market ain't buying this shiit.

Lol. Go joor

Ariza:
Lol see as your blood dey boil for your mind you don make sense oooo . Funny guy.


Well for your information, I don't do this Feminists versus Alpha shiit you all do here, perhaps you may want to choose another Target to market ain't buying this shiit.

Lol. Go joor

Ariza:
Your intention then isn't your projection.

as expected, a core feminist won't like it. The aim is to put things right, remove preferential treatment.

saucecode:
Look at dem menstruating immediately they saw the part where it not his role to spend money.

saucecode:
Look at dem menstruating immediately they saw the part where it not his role to spend money.

Leave them

Mariangeles:
To me, he went offtrack at point 4

We sef we say make we go off track small. No Monopoly in going off track.

Mariangeles:
To me, he went offtrack at point 4

Lol. Bitter pill abi? that's how una sef dey go off track for decades.

Fountainofyouth:
You guys are funny sha, we didn't set the rules, y'all did, we keep shouting equality, traditional men don't want equality becos sole financial provision feeds their ego in abundance, equality to them also men's domesticated equality too and God forbid they do that, go and do research on most homes, the wives are the coded breadwinner to lazy men, if y'all really want total equality, talk to yourselves first.

If a woman plays her role as help meet they call it bread winning. O di egwu

Ariza:
You were making sense until you got to point 5 and made it a gender thing.


Please rephrase and keep it gender neutral. Everything no be war.

The article is not gender sensitive, it is gender corrective.

Oluromantic:
Since the time of separated languages when building the tower of Babel, culture all over the world has lost its fair balance. Only that the cultures of the most advanced Nations seem to have more believers in them by virtue of their advancement... I'm talking about the western culture. And for the fact that Nigeria gained independence from one of those countries, they're enslaved to their culture too. China, India for example would not yield their cultures to western. I see no reason why one gender shd be favored beyond the other in culture's name. The best precepts to follow for a balance in gender is that given by God in the bible/Quaran.

what is wrong there? that we have withdrawn preferential treatment?

saucecode:
Cococandy and pocohantas will not like this, especially the part about proposing and spending money

Make them hit head for wall na.

Saintmary:
I just dey look you NaeChris
Btw, people spend millions on weddings in SouthWest Nigeria only if they want to show off. Haven't you heard of fathers-in law who bankroll weddings?
Did anyone force you to spend sef?

Lol. I go chuk hand for your eyes o

darediamond:
What?
As old as you are, you do not know that O.P is a lady hiding behind the curtain of male gender?
Which right thinking MAN would spew those senseless lines she spewed up there?

I wonder o

Never hit a woman. ✖️
Never hit anyone. ✔️

Teach your sons to respect women. ✖️
Teach your kids to respect everyone. ✔️

A gentleman doesn't raise his voice on a woman. ✖️
A reasonable human being doesn't raise his/her voice on people and expect them to keep quiet on the basis of gender. ✔️

A gentleman will apologize Even when he's not wrong. ✖️
Only a manipulative fellow will expect a man to apologize to her even when she's wrong because she has a vagina. ✔️

Stop behaving like a woman. ✖️
If you think the behavior is wrong maybe women should stop doing that too. ✔️

It's not her role to cook. ✔️
It's not his role to propose, to buy all the goods for your parents for introduction, to spend millions before he can marry you, spend millions for your relatives before he can call you wife,. spend millions to gift you the desired wedding.
It's not his role to provide, or pay the school fees of the kids or give you the baby girl lifestyle. ✔️
(Eliminate gender roles altogether not those that doesn't favours you).

So we are clear, equality not preferential treatments.

The reason why crimes like rape will hardly end mostly here in Nigeria, is because when the word 'rape' is mentioned, attention is drawn towards the guys, whereas females are also culprits. The people secretly perpetuate evil on little boys go free, those scavengers are one of those shouting castration, death Penalty as punishment for rape, remember 'castration' seems to be more or a masculine word than feminine drawing attention to guys again. There are female Rapists and they should suffer thesame fate, mutilation and removal of sex organs. What about false rape alarms? If death sentence is meted on a Rapist, what if the accused is innocent? He dies for nothing, this is heinous. Therefore false accusers equally faces death sentence.

Good for them, They deserve it. wicked people.

For real? �

Say no to violence against women. How you see am.

Can you imagine!

Say no to violence against women. That`s laughable

Say no to violence against women.

Very stupid of those guys. So annoying.

Las las women go dey sing "say no to violence against women" isnt that stupid to see that they are those perpetuating violence?

How can that be?

Tomorrow they will tell you they do these things to please themselves and not guys.

Women and violence. Yet they are the ones shouting say no to violence against women.