philcz:
She won't need to ask if she is worth it.

when a lady asks for respect, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t know that she is worth it. It is just for a fact that some people are oblivious to it.

DeadRat:
OKAY! I Get You. You Are Sayin Askin For Equality Will Not gurantee Respect

exactly

walepackage:
now i think we are on the same page now."Disrespect" is not a word associated to a particular gender,"its a coin of two side".At a point in man's life you experience it, irrespective of ur gender,color,race or strata in society,its just a social phenomenal which is part of social life.I hope u catch my drift.

yes, I am not saying it is just one gender that is affected by it.feminist say They fight for both sex. All I am saying is they should fight for respect. Be it for male or for females

Jupxter:


Not just for men, these ideas shape the thought, attitude, behaviors of this female making them "unfit" for the stability that marriage demands. Hence, a threat to the institution in the long run. I am yet to see high society ladies make such agitations, daughters of Oyedepo, Adeboye and co should be leading this struggle if it's as legit as they claim

just because I have a point of view doesn’t mean they need to have it too.

walepackage:
brother,i dont really know what they want.You cant sit in your room add no any "value" to ur self,family and society at large and expect to see things fall in ur way.Go out and see how some ladies who understand the "concept of life"rubbing feathers with "men" and stil understanding the "concept of role and specialization" not those whinning on social media that we have been deprived this or that,when in reality reverse is the case.

every lady at one point in life has been disrespected. Even those you feel are in “higher” category than I am, just because I decided to put out my opinion.

Next2Bezee:


We all want respect. Even if you use the word as a replacement for equality, you're still not selling your point.

It is not a replacement for equality. They both mean different things

DeadRat:
what Respect Do You Want Again? Men And Women Disrespect Each Other but Normally We respect Women... What Do U Want Again

I am not saying that some women don’t disrespect men. All I am saying is that women that ask for equality should ask for respect instead. They should not ask to be at the same level as their counterpart but they should ask for respect what ever level they are.

Jupxter:


Any man that does this doesn't respect his mother.For the goodness sakes of be-jesus, stop mistrusting and categorizing us.

I've waked past the road seen girls do abortion,saw them weak, bent down to help them, i've seen countless this way. I don't call them names before i stretch my hand.

Any man that body-shames a woman should not marry a woman. What we men are saying bearing the burden of you ladies is too much for us.

Not a significant amount of men fall into this category, but we innocent ones suffer the mistrust brought about by bad relationships and the media. Do you know how good guys get bad mistrust from ladies because ladies feel insecure.


I watched this same mistrust and fears destroy what i had with more than three ladies. Rather than gives ladies the chance to experience things first hand, it subjects them to a false creation that all men are bad. It's too much to deal with, so we reject it out-rightly, we men aren't evil abeg. Likewise not all ladies are sluts. The culprits are human beings and neither of both gender should be stereotyped and punished for crimes of a few.

i am not saying all men don’t respect women, I am saying most women are in situations where men don’t respect them and at the end of the day, what they ask for is equality. Some men truely dont respect women and if you feel That you respect them enough, good for you? All I am saying is that feminists keep asking for the wrong thing and that is equality, they should ask for respect and everything they need falls in place. Never in my post did I say all men.

walepackage:
Madam,respect as u suggest is "earn" not giving as u thought.Have seen men who "idolize" and "respect" their spouse because she worth it,i have work with a lady which i respect and dignify well.I always believe that ur personality and self achievement earn you what you desire from others, be it respect or dignity.What did guys really want.Nobody will accord u with respect becos u believe u are a "lady" when u dont worth it,you have to earn it and watch how people accord you with so much respect you desire.

Yes, respect is earned but we still live in a society where most male still feel a woman’s talk is trash.

Jupxter:


Feministsdon't see the need to giverespect. They believe their bank account gives them the unreserved right. It's the reason they're cocky, arrogant, disrespectful, bitter, insecure and all what's not.

If you want respect, fine you have it. Anything else?




Men of our generation don’t respect us. Ladies, how do we men disrespect you ladies? It's more of insatiety. Once the ladies conjure theories up, they begin to fantasize and create schisms that are in-existent, it's why many have a " divorce mindset ", quick to jump out the window, cause they don't rather are not designed to fit into a relationship that accommodates the needs of another individual respectfully.


We still wish to know, how are ladies disrespected?

Most men don’t respect the positions we hold, they don’t respect our decision making, our contributions a views to issues. As a lady, we move down the street and we are body shamed or sexually assulted. So, yes we are not respected. I am not asking for the equality but what ever view or position I hold on a matter should be respected just as you want yours to be respected. A minister from an Arab country I presume, saying a lady needs to be raped or deserves to be raped because she wears a ripped jeans? For what reason and what type of respect does he have for ladies to say that?

Airforce1:
You're on your own on these one.

So, you are saying that me asking for respect is above me, or as women in general?

Sugar97:


Don't be a bully, come on...

Don’t mind him, it shows his level of reasoning.

Donaldduke2019:

lemme hear peem from you again, I would turn this useless thread into a football fan page

Go ahead.

Donaldduke2019:
This useless crusade again

If u saw it as garbage, why open the post?

I read a post on feminism now and I decided to write my own view in it. I am all for feminism but we keep asking for the wrong thing at the right time. What we need to ask for is respect and not equality. You might get the equality you ask for but at the same time, you will not get the respect. Equality falls under respect. And when someone respects you on everything you do and say, he/she definitely sees you as an equal. We are getting the equality and it is actually taking a long time but we are getting it; but what we are not getting is the respect. A man that gives you equality because of what the society will say will definitely not respect you. He will still treat you below your current status. Men of our generation don’t respect us for what we say and want and that’s what we are supposed to be fighting for . RESPECT. When we ask for respect, every other thing follows.

Why can’t females pay the same amount as the guys? Most of the ladies here wants equality.
(Including me)

Safiaa:
And this girl should increase her knowledge. A pussy doesn't expand by the amount of intercourse she has had. I can have sex with one man 100 times and another woman can have sex with 5 men, 5 times. So do we measure the size of a vagina by the amount of men, or the amount of times? It's absolute bullshiit. The vagina is a muscle, it retracts back to its original size even after childbirth. Not trying to promote 'oloshoism', but this mentality is ridiculous.

But I do agree with everything else she said.

Your comment has gone viral on NL. I think what she meant by that comment was not based on how large the virgina gets but how many men you allow in. All she is trying to say with that sentence is that for a village community, most of the time a car pass through the street one at a time and some time, none pass through while for an express way, cars pass through within seconds. All that to say is that, have sex but with one person at a time or none and not have sex with different people at every minute. All she was saying right from the biginning till the end was about body count and not how wide or expanded the virgina gets.

And you can make it yourself.

Poster, you still don’t get the correction. Jim picked Davido over wizkid. He did not pick wizkid over davido. Do we need to teach u like a kid before you get it?

Poster, ur headline doesn’t correlate with the news at all. Please change it.

She is totally right. As a girl and the way the society view us, we should limit our body count. You should not allow every Tom, dick and Harry that says he wants to date u sleep with u. Some are just looking for who to sleep with for a limited time. Your Body count should not even get close to a double digit. Don’t attack her cause she says the truth.

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NiggaBoi:
Well, I have no other choice than to submit to your well constructed response. The whole thing that I'm preaching here is the understanding of the concept of choice. Seems like many female children in our society nowadays are not aware of the choice because the society says so.

some know they have the choice, they are educated to know what they want for themselves but the society and their parents have a louder voice even if it is unspoken. That stops them from making that choice, it stops them from saying what is truly in their hearts. that's where you see those that are tired just few months after their wedding and with the smallest of misbehaviour from their husbands, they call for divorce. They still don't know it takes a lot to be married and get into it with much depression in them. they end up hating their husbands, they end up cheating and probably divorce at the end of the day. But, the truth is that over 80 percent aspire to marriage.

Kk4:
Windows 535.. Dry phone

it is possible to change ur wallpaper on windows.

rhames:


I am a man but laugh at some fellow men resorting to cheap blackmail and backstabbing just to get a girl in bed for fun. In simple plain English Language, this man just got one of his numerous girlfriends or one queen of the night to pose as his wife in order to get what he wants. Some men are just goats and cant live with rejection. He would have replied with a more soothing compliments than this arrant nonsense.

If that's the case, it shows she hasn't a given him anything and can deny it right on the spot. But she decided to keep mute on it shows she is guilty.

Bisola.banjo@yahoo.com

Didn't see any outrage in any of the comments.

enonche85:


The answer is "d". 10 is equal to none on the list

10=1

It is true. At that age they don't need to glue themselves to the interment. They need to explore outside more. No matter how technology advanced the planet might be going, something's just needs to be left untouched. At that age, they need to spend more time with their families and friends and not their iPads and iPhones.

Nice and congrats to them but something exactly like this have been done before.

Neminc:
All I can glean from the story is that two promiscuous slay queens went for all night olosho runs and after several rounds of marathon knacking by uncircumcised rods they were too exhausted to escape when a fire started in their hotel room. And now I am supposed to say R.I.P right? Even when I know that in hell right now, the devil is boiling them in a big pot of hot water and singing Ajekun Iya. No, I can't deceive myself. I can only advise those slay queens who are still alive "beware of runs, it kills"

If that's all u can get frm the story, then u need to learn how to read and understand. Rubbish

SmartchoicesNG:
Who are they? I suspect they just went to a mechanic's workshop to snap a picture there.... Jerryfemi88 Kayharry and bolajibj can organise such photoshoots. If na Gazzuzz workshop dem go quick catch them

That was the exact same thing I thought of.