I read a post on feminism now and I decided to write my own view in it. I am all for feminism but we keep asking for the wrong thing at the right time. What we need to ask for is respect and not equality. You might get the equality you ask for but at the same time, you will not get the respect. Equality falls under respect. And when someone respects you on everything you do and say, he/she definitely sees you as an equal. We are getting the equality and it is actually taking a long time but we are getting it; but what we are not getting is the respect. A man that gives you equality because of what the society will say will definitely not respect you. He will still treat you below your current status. Men of our generation don’t respect us for what we say and want and that’s what we are supposed to be fighting for . RESPECT. When we ask for respect, every other thing follows.

This useless crusade again

Donaldduke2019:
This useless crusade again

If u saw it as garbage, why open the post?

smh!!

naija2:

If u saw it as garbage, why open the post?

lemme hear peem from you again, I would turn this useless thread into a football fan page

Okay.

We often focus on things that divide us without looking out for things that unite us. My respect is earned irrespective of whether you're a male or female

RaggedyAnn:
Okay.

i knew that u will comment

in other news, U win come online

You're on your own on these one.

Donaldduke2019:

lemme hear peem from you again, I would turn this useless thread into a football fan page

Go ahead.

naija2:

Go ahead.

so hope ur gearing up concerning the super Sunday clashes

Respect not equality.

Donaldduke2019:

lemme hear peem from you again, I would turn this useless thread into a football fan page

Don't be a bully, come on...

philcz:
We often focus on things that divide us without looking out for things that unite us. My respect is earned irrespective of whether you're a male or female

You're sure you won't spare some respect if she asks nicely?

Sugar97:


Don't be a bully, come on...

Don’t mind him, it shows his level of reasoning.

Airforce1:
You're on your own on these one.

So, you are saying that me asking for respect is above me, or as women in general?

Sugar97:

Don't be a bully, come on...

Don't understand you, This is an over flogged issue.

naija2:
I read a post on feminism now and I decided to write my own view in it. I am all for feminism but we keep asking for the wrong thing at the right time. What we need to ask for is respect and not equality. You might get the equality you ask for but at the same time, you will not get the respect. Equality falls under respect. And when someone respects you on everything you do and say, he/she definitely sees you as an equal. We are getting the equality and it is actually taking a long time but we are getting it; but what we are not getting is the respect. A man that gives you equality because of what the society will say will definitely not respect you. He will still treat you below your current status. Men of our generation don’t respect us for what we say and want and that’s what we are supposed to be fighting for . RESPECT. When we ask for respect, every other thing follows.

Feministsdon't see the need to giverespect. They believe their bank account gives them the unreserved right. It's the reason they're cocky, arrogant, disrespectful, bitter, insecure and all what's not.

If you want respect, fine you have it. Anything else?




Men of our generation don’t respect us. Ladies, how do we men disrespect you ladies? It's more of insatiety. Once the ladies conjure theories up, they begin to fantasize and create schisms that are in-existent, it's why many have a " divorce mindset ", quick to jump out the window, cause they don't rather are not designed to fit into a relationship that accommodates the needs of another individual respectfully.


We still wish to know, how are ladies disrespected?

iamJ:
i knew that u will comment

in other news, U win come online

Yeah, you know I can't help myself.

Na Wa For Una... You No De Taya? What Respect Do You Want Again? Are Women Being Treated Wrongly Or What? What Is Your Problem? Why Not Go To Buhari and Complain?

Nairaland has been boring lately... I brought back the bubbles.

Madam,respect as u suggest is "earn" not giving as u thought.Have seen men who "idolize" and "respect" their spouse because she worth it,i have work with a lady which i respect and dignify well.I always believe that ur personality and self achievement earn you what you desire from others, be it respect or dignity.What did guys really want.Nobody will accord u with respect becos u believe u are a "lady" when u dont worth it,you have to earn it and watch how people accord you with so much respect you desire.

Donaldduke2019:

Don't understand you, This is an over flogged issue.

Over flogged yet easily misunderstood.

By the way, I was just saying u shouldn't try to bully the OP

DeadRat:
Na Wa For Una... You No De Taya? What Respect Do You Want Again? Are Women Being Treated Wrongly Or What? What Is Your Problem? Why Not Go To Buhari and Complain?

KiKiKi @ Why Not Go To Buhari and Complain? You're hilarious

walepackage:
Madam,respect as u suggest is "earn" not giving as u thought.Have seen men who "idolize" and "respect" their spouse because she worth it,i have work with a lady which i respect and dignify well.I always believe that ur personality and self achievement earn you what you desire from others, be it respect or dignity.What did guys really want.Nobody will accord u with respect becos u believe u are a "lady" when u dont worth it,you have to earn it and watch how people accord you with so much respect you desire.

If care isn't taken these ladies will demand more than this.

no, this thread won't get as far as the other one because those mentally disturbed girls ain't gonna contribute anything here. the op didn't pull the right strings that tickle their fancy.

so...DOA.

Jupxter:



KiKiKi @ Why Not Go To Buhari and Complain? You're hilarious

hahahaha. The Thing Just Weak Me... Make She Come Tie Rope For My Neck drag Me For Ground To Show Say I Got Respect for Women

Sugar97:

Over flogged yet easily misunderstood.
By the way, I was just saying u shouldn't try to bully the OP

Smiles....No p dear...Just for fun tho

DeadRat:
hahahaha. The Thing Just Weak Me... Make She Come Tie Rope For My Neck drag Me For Ground To Show Say I Got Respect for Women

Did anyone stop females from buying presidential forms? Governorship forms? Local Govt chairmanship forms?

Donaldduke2019:

lemme hear peem from you again, I would turn this useless thread into a football fan page

you Don Recover From That Madrid lose

Jupxter:


Feministsdon't see the need to giverespect. They believe their bank account gives them the unreserved right. It's the reason they're cocky, arrogant, disrespectful, bitter, insecure and all what's not.

If you want respect, fine you have it. Anything else?




Men of our generation don’t respect us. Ladies, how do we men disrespect you ladies? It's more of insatiety. Once the ladies conjure theories up, they begin to fantasize and create schisms that are in-existent, it's why many have a " divorce mindset ", quick to jump out the window, cause they don't rather are not designed to fit into a relationship that accommodates the needs of another individual respectfully.


We still wish to know, how are ladies disrespected?

Most men don’t respect the positions we hold, they don’t respect our decision making, our contributions a views to issues. As a lady, we move down the street and we are body shamed or sexually assulted. So, yes we are not respected. I am not asking for the equality but what ever view or position I hold on a matter should be respected just as you want yours to be respected. A minister from an Arab country I presume, saying a lady needs to be raped or deserves to be raped because she wears a ripped jeans? For what reason and what type of respect does he have for ladies to say that?