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of course I will READ it!!!

if it was a test then by all standards I have certainly passed with flying colours.

If for what ever reason he decides the best form of communication is via letter then he would have discussed it with me because that is what a relationship is all about. TRUST. He TRUSTS me to tell me first off and he [b]TRUSTS [/b]me to read the letter to make sure the spellings are correct. _{cheeky grin}

@ poster

you must be very stupid!

what man will go around talking egotistically about his inability to satisfy a woman.

She might not be "wood" as jtkoko9 said, but you might just simply be incompetent. Period.

If you need real help on how to satisfy a woman i suggest you reword your question and not antagonise "most girls"

ajadrage:
Ummm, the last time I checked, I think I was a guy Thanks anyways

'babe' is an asexual term.

Scopium:
[size=13pt]Some should be rewarded for reading crap.[/size]

@poster

your question is neither here nor there.

Virgins have zillions of reasons why they are still one. Do your research and you wont be disappointed.

@ Poster

My heart melts for ya.

as olanajim said you are indeed a man.

@ajadrage

Thanks babe

If this has troubled you so much you decided to post as a topic,,,,,,,, am guessing you already know the answer eh?

You want reassurance that what you did was right but babes,,,,,, you've come to the wrong place. LOL!!!!

I am very proud of my male Nairalanders.

@poster

To add to what has been expressed I think you should give them a reason to trust you. Be open with them and be transparent with them.

Having said that you will need to know the difference between transparency and utter stupidity.

Transparency comes with strong commitment.

Good luck babe.

@ Jasmine

First of all, a LADY knows the difference between BEGGING and TALKING THINGS THROUGH.

If you have fated your relationship based on who's turn it is to beg and how many times you have to beg then you are quite limited in your understanding of relationships. The very crux of it completely eludes you. _{This is constructive criticism and am not aiming daggers at you.}

You must, as a LADY and a self assured one at that, know when a relationship is futile and pointless and/or when you will need to put in more of your effort to achieve a potential goal.

It's quite clear you need more growing up to do ,,,,,,,, I hope there are more emotionally stable people around you to help you achieve this. I would love to help you but I have a sneaky feeling that once you have read this you will not be very patronising.

Good luck tho. I wish you all the best!

@seun

I presume this AD is focused at naija based nairalanders

@ Sienna

what does PMSLMAO mean or rather the PMS?

@ poster

not to sound bad sha but you come off like a replica of St Francis of Assisi.

If you want to find love, try sounding a bit more manly and not like begging will do the trick. Maybe then I will consider

how old are you by the way?

I wanted to comment then i realized that goergey boy and bob james are probably the same person.

thats just too wierd. It may reflect your personal life as well. Dont you think so,,,,,,,, BOB GEORGEY?

presido1:
You can as well marry your sista and your mama after all he goats(mkpi) do am.
Ode

LMFAO just tooooooooo funny

angel101:
morally it is not right.
biblically it is not right.
medically it is nor right ( because if u have children, there is a posibility that the will have genetic disorders) this is medically proven and strongly discouraged in the western world.

person wey get eti make im gbadun o!

OyinboNo1:
what level of cousin? 1st, 2nd, etc?

what difference does it make?

@ poster

you have the power to release yourself from pending spiritual bondage.

hhhmmmmm

how old are you napoleon? because you don't sound very mature

A FOOL CAN MAKE A BABY ONLY A MAN CAN FATHER A CHILD

@poster

I sympathise with your situation. But from the way you have relayed your opinion it's quite clear that this child means everything to you and a lot more if i might add. Personally I wont let go of the child. This has nothing to do with the mum. He started out his life with you. He calls you daddy! Blood is thicker than water but soul ties are thicker than blood.

There's no need to hate mum rather convert that negative energy into building him into into what you want him to be.

Am not too sure about the adoption thing because regardless his biological father is still his biological father. They usually have more priority in court. that's a route i wont go down, not unless you and his mum are sure that his father is willing to sign off his child to you. (am assuming he has not been appraised of the situation) 

BY THE WAY   whose name is on the birth certificate?  Is his mum ok with you still being in his life?

if you decide to carry on, be prepared for when the biological father steps in (thats if he's that kind of character)

All in all i wish you all the best and my heart goes out to you.

am about to venture on one ,,,,,,,, am not hoping for anything spectacular. I am just going to take it one day at a time.

@asada

sounds like you got burnt. care to share?

Delta Gyal!!!!

@darellone

you gat dat rite!

for want of a beta word,,,,,, BLAH BLAH BLAH!!!!!

ariblaze:
@poster

do you really fancy him?

if you do sit him down

talk to him

and you need to realise that

you would have to find a balance between your sister

and your man


because frankly from what you just said

your sis has the traits of a busybody

or as someone said earlier probably has designs

for you and another man

I concur rather greatly to your opinion.

@ poster

I think you would need to assess the situation a lil further ,,,,, that is if you're willing to get back with the guy. If you're not willing then am thinking you should bother cos you may hear something you're not ready to handle.

I am lil worried that your boyfriend will decide to end a whole relationship cos of some trivial comment made by your lil sis. I think there's more to it.

In answer to your question ,,,,,,,,,, judging the reasons behind what he did is neither here nor there. There is so much water underneath the bridge. Are you ready to swim?

@chaloo

relax babe. i have no problem with your nationality. i was just wondering if i had missed the trend of convo on nationality.

@angola


You make my skin crawl!



_{**** leaves thread******}

@Bondxie

to have to listed then that means it must have worked dont you think?

zignorr:
Really?

Cant you?

lol

well I can. I have neva heard of anyone going downhill as a result of prostitution. not unless they contract AIDS and they use all their life earnings for cure or life extension

@angola_g

U are very wicked and heartless.

So you mean since January you still have not ended things with your girl. Your recompense is coming to you. I wish I can get my hands on you. You mother will not recognise once i finish with you. ANUOFIA. ISI EWU. when i find other curse words I will come back for you.

You beta finish with d girl if you know what is good for you. sugomu.!!!!. . .


_{long hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssss}

zignorr:
hmmmm . . .can prostitution lead to poverty?

I can hear numerous skulls cracking ''''''''''''''

did any body notice that the poster asked 'Is There any way out?'

abi na typo?

_{shaking head in wonderment}

this does not make sense at all. It really doesn't!