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spikedcylinder:
So when are we gonna get the invites eh NjHj?

lol . . . when i print them. are you gonna buy me a gift?

You must have a lot of problems with your love life eh?

First you not sure about washing Undies  https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=241000.msg3536112#msg3536112

now its about tall/short women.

The washing of undies  . . . . is that a ''culture'' thing too?

chukwudi06:
someone here is sounding as if, she is a short girl
  If you don't know what to say, please hold your peace

Professor. . . what does a short girl sound like?

OgaMadam:
you are looking for an excuse to dump her.

after 1 year all of a sudden you realised she is short?

goat

I couldn't have said it better.

@topic

It's an issue if either one of you makes it an issue.


@poster

I am glad I found someone who is willing to wait till our union is blessed. It's a choice. You have to understand why you are making this choice in your life. A lot of things are going to happen that will/may bring to you breaking point and you may start to question the foundation of your decision.

What worked for me was that I felt i did not owe anyone any explanations. It is my body and I will do what ever i will to it. If the guy can't settle for it then their exit is very imminent.

The worst position I eva found myself was to break up with my first love because he could not see a progression without sex. Hard Sacrifice for me. Now am happy and Grateful to God he gave me the strength to hold up and be disciplined.

You have to come to the point where the choice you make becomes ingrained in you so much so that when you are asked to do it it would seem like someone is asking you to be someone else.

Good Luck. It's hard but it's worth it.

@conda00410

Many many thanks

@Poster

You were probably Infatuated with her. This will dim very quickly.

If you were in love for the first time then I doubt very much you'll be forgetting anytime soon. Your first love is always a journey for anyone. A new, frustrating, painful and beautifully sentimental journey. Forgetting will not be easy.

You can get ova it but you'll always remember.

@ Poster

The fact that you generalized your assumptions to all naija peeps both abroad and at home tells me the following . . . . .

1, The people you roll around with on either side of the pond are impoverished and have dangerous levels of inferiority complex

2, YOU are living a very hard life and you are reaching breaking point

3, YOU are very frustrated, lonely and angry

4, You and your friends have not had much luck with women.

There is a very interesting theory called INTERACTIVE COMMUNITIES: This means our perspectives, understandings and objectives are drawn from within our community. You can only draw from the well of your interactive.

You seem to compensate yourself with your ''findings'' but you can't seem to express yourself in a concise and coherent manner.

You have a choice to look outside your box; appreciate it and explore it to your advantage. Let it build you into a better man.  IT IS YOUR CHOICE.

If you guys enjoy walloping her creamy juices then wats the problem touching or helping her clean . . . . . .

I think it's hypocritical of you guys and the many more that will frown at this topic. I don't see anything with a husband or a guy in a committed relationship helping his lady keep clean

OH BY THE WAY . . . . if you (chukwudi06) have a thing about washing female undies(like a fetish for it) then i think you have a problem.

Siena:
A Counsellor, be it Marriage / Family, is a professional.
They don't have to be married.

Simple! 

And by the way . . . because someone is married doesn't mean that they have a PHD in it. When it comes to matters of the heart, academic competence can become fickle even in the most educated

Thanks you guys . . . thank you very much

minto:
meaning what?

It means Goat and the extended bit is the sound goats make.

@Viperman

Thanks

shillla:
i think ibu ewu meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

lmfao

sistawoman:
Stop calling, stop texting.

Just send one final text:

When you are done acting like a child please contact me. If I dont hear from you in 5 business days I will assume we are no longer a couple and move on with my life.

And then do it.

Do you really want another dependent that you cant claim on your taxes? If he is acting like a child now it will only get worse in marriage.

Lmfao . . .  hehehehehe 5 buisness days . . . lol

That was harsh tho.


Men are babies. There is nothing we can do about it. lol! Maybe he was looking forward to a very emotional, sentimental, canoodle-ish valentine and he didnt get it so he felt jilted. Some guys are more sensitive than others.

Jamace got it right with temporary madness. And he's a man!

@poster

I would go with Sisterwoman on this one, though I would tone it done a knotch. Something like this . . .

''Baby/His name, i still love/like you or I still care about you very much. What happened on the 14th was an honest mistake or mishap. I still want to be with you. Seeing as you have decided not to communicate with me am going to leave you to cool down.
Call me if you miss me/i'll be ready when you're ready, but remember time builds walls

Somethin like that might help Good luck

@Gamine

Do you have contact numbers for this people? Thank you.

@Gamine

Mehnnn You are great. Many plenty thanks babe

For starters; the minute you stop using the word woeing or wooing . . . i think you be on course to get a gyal.

We are long past the Chaucerian and Skakesperean ages.

stereo2:
I have told myself that if she cant call, then I ve gotta let her be. I dont know how to disturb girls cuz i have been prolly lucky to have them in large number but i would really love to know this one.

Then Just go call her and satisfy yourself!!!!! Your name wont change if you call her to find out if she is still interested.

tpia:
some Naija guys never fail to amaze me, for real.

Now, if someone doesnt have a lot of money but wants to take a girl out, do so but dont jump on the girl for ordering what she wants when you didnt tell her you're on a budget.

I do feel sorry for some Guys tho. They do have it hard from women who expect a hell of a lot.

@Nikky

Fabulous!!!!!! I like the breakdown. I love it. Thanks so much.

Thanks you guys . . .

I was told that for Unilag halls . . . the student would dress up and crash your reception. lol!! So i guess that's out. (i thought that was really clever of them tho, . . .hehehehehe)

@Nikky
where is Eko club Arcade? Is it in Surulere?

@Spike
Thanks a lot

@Mr Crackles

Y Met go screen me down when no be me get house?

@Treetop

Help me tell am ooo

I still dey Find hall ooooo so abeg make una put ear for ground abeg na

if it's cos she got raped or the pregnancy is not healthy for her

MrCrackles:

U can have it for free as long as i collect gate fees!

I dont know, me i nor dey live for naija!!

Well if you live in London then your compound will not be big enough to contain more than 20 peeps. Oh, and i could just jump your gate. lol!

crazykid:
Have you tried it?

not yet. Your still practising in fron of the mirror

MrCrackles:
Use my house!

Lol . . . how much u gonna charge me?

but seriously, do you know anywhere?

eh?

Hi Guys,

Please does anyone know any halls venues in or around Surulere for weddings?

Contact numbers and Info are most welcome.

(There is only one other thread for Halls but it's in Ikeja and I am told that it's tooo far from surulere considering traffic in Lagos.)