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sinequanon:
Are you saying that you only gave him money because he had promised to propose to you?

Or what are you now complaining about?

I wrote in english.

Dyt:
Pls who is this Person you fighting for?
I need to know
Or you attacking me with your other moniker?

Nothing wey I no go see for NL

mtchsewww u think i am jobless,creating moniker.How can u not see things when u behave like a child.

Dyt:

I am not you with so much time to even notice
I only rem when I read your previous post, was wondering if I offended you before
And I saw you always have something on my moniker


I like the obsession sha
Its fun


I love you too

oh yes u do have plenty of time,i will remind u whenever u start palpating like an epileptic patient when your obsession start.That is when i noticed u,u are always on her case.Are u jealous,old woman?
I also like ur obsession with her.

I don't love e-ediots. good night.I can't waste my time with,too much 2 do tomorrow.

bellong:
You gave someone money to start a small business but he rather spent it repairing car... Repairing car? And you never questioned him nor end the relationship right there.

That action alone speaks volume about his person. He has been finding a way of dumping you long ago, his "brokeness" made him to stick with you till he found a way.
You were only the ATM machine.

However, your experience, though unfortunate, doesn't mean that every broke guy would do the same. This guy must have been showing you subtle signs but you never paid attention.

Your concluding advice is an error. One experience shouldn't paint the whole group bad.

Sorry about the ordeal.

thank u bellong, 2 tell u the truth there were no signs.He was always in my shop, his family knew about me and they were very fond of me.
I believed in him so much and sometimes,love can blind you.But i am glad i have grown and move on,he called me this december telling that he regret marrying his wife and moving to the USA. He wants 2 comeback but he need 2 know if i still love him.lol
He said he want 2 work more and save 2 comeback so dat "we" can run businesses.I just hangup the call.

Dyt:
When they get to my age and experience, they will know the best things to do in life is always wear a smile

That particular nasha1 is so obsessed with me

You think i am u who is obsess with some particular female family members and stop at nothing dan 2 quote dem and vomit ur bitterness.
old woman,grow up!

Lizypumping:
What a shame!!! Truly low life. I wonder what the person go do. I forgive you cause you don't know what you doing.
It is better you hang in there and learn. Don't always be the one to bring people down such life or attitude is not good. Learn to tolerate and encourage people. Even if what the op is saying Is rubbish have a big heart to embrace people. Never ever bring down anybody with your actions, comments and decisions.
I hope you have heard

sweetheart i know u are angry but you need to read my post slowly.I was trying 2 let u know that u should not mind people dat will come in ur thread and mock u.I am learning from your thread and i like the fact dat u open such thread talking about the changes in ur life after marriage.
cheers and have a blissful home.

ardel:
I didnt want to comment but i think i should.It amazes me when people see a thread with the topic clearly stated and just decide to make unnecessary comments that wont benefit any one.It clearlt shows too much unproductive time they ve got.If u dnt ve anything to contribute you can read and proceed to the next thread but they choose to leave nasty comments and feel good afterwards. Low lives.Very pathetic indeed.Such people cant speak out in public always hiding behind their computers and phones to make nasty comments.The year is too new to continue with such derogatory way of behaving.I pray to GOD to visit such heart with love.There is so much bitterness in the heart.Pls always remember no matter what JESUS still loves you.

u dont know them? the brain of a child is more efficient i tell u.don't mind such people.
@ardel thank u sweetheart,ur story was beautiful,had me smile all through.May God continue blessing your home.

Kro1:
A friend of mine travelled abroad leaving behind his wife and two kids. One day, his wife started a chat with me on WhatsApp that she was missing her husband and she felt like having sex. We ended up chatting explicitly and I stupidly sent her a picture of a dick ( not mine ). Unfortunately, the husband got to know about the incident and all hell went loose. He has never asked me about the issue but he has not been talking to me for some time now. I'm confused and at the same time ashamed of myself....I betrayed my friend's trust. What do I do? Please note that there was no sexual affair between me and his wife.

I'd appreciate if this makes it to the front page. I need sincere advice and suggestions

maybe it was a plan 4 her to get u out of your friend life. Who told him? the wife and who started the conversation,her.
did she stop or still continue for days? i think it was a set up,if she really wanted 2 cheat, she would have sleep with u.

Vyolet:
I never enter one chance o, my man happens to be one of those that still maintains marital sacredness, he has proven my thought about men wrong in most occasion but then maybe because we are still young, only time will tell.

then where did u get this story from?

ladyF:
Why do I feel this story is made up? I wouldn't know the reason behind why you would do that though.



You have not paid your fees, yet you are pricing a phone of 30k in a previous thread? Even doing sports betting. Happy for you sha. Congrats on your graduation...

what if he is doing that 2 raise money?some people make money betting and stop while some get addicted.pricing a phone of 30k doesnt mean anything,he didnt ask for money from anyone,he simply wrote about his experience and encourage anyone going through the same thing.

Lizypumping:
Illiteracy is a disease I must say. Some people just don't understand what a platform means. Anyone can learn from anywhere. Experience they say is the best teacher. If married people can have thier platform and share experience and learn from one another it isn't a crime. Atleats we can see how the first commenter has sense and understanding to respond and know why the op initiated this conversation.
In additon, that is why alot of Nigerians don't leave the same spot they are for years. They don't know how to diversify. .. Nairaland platform is for topics that one can learn from eachother.

my dear when aunty gwengwe never marry na 2 beef the younger ones.
i am learning, your thread is very on point.

quivah:
Ok, I get.. Single women need to help married men gain their sanity..

And these ones will come here to claim stronger vessel.
Be good, and start making placards to tell single ladies to stay away from married men who are trying to break THEIR OWN homes.
Weytin concern single ladies,,I'm lost
Prostitutes who care about the money should leave married men who come to them for business, as if na them drag the men from their wives come meet them ..ok na.
If men stop going about it, single ladies won't even have the chance. If the home breaks, na the man children go suffer am not the mistress's. Maybe they should think about the consequences first cause in this case even the op will go scot free... After having her fun,holidays,paid trip to dubai,exoensive wears, money and s.ex .. Its left with the man and his problem.. I see this mistresses as business women,but most of them just want to become entrepreneurs. As a business woman,you open your market jeje and didnt force any buyer..they come by themselves.. And its no wahala of yours to chase them away if you are up for the deal. Na dem wan buy market. I wouldn't chase a renowned yahoo yahoo guy who comes to buy clothes from my shop, I dey craze.. I will even show him more than he wants.
He came, I DIDNT call him.
But Im not up for any argument..dude

Who is arguing with you? u are not up 4 an argument yet u are the only person here writing epistles upon epistles.Wetin concern some married men? do u think everyone that goes 2 church is a christian? being a married man means nothing 2 some men,they can be polygamous if they want or marry as many women they want.they dont have 2 respect the vows,some do it 4 formality.So because a married man came for me,i should not chase him away because i didn't call him.u will accept the yahoo yahoo guy money because u are greedy but someone with a conscience no matter the amount of money will decline.Any man who takes his marital vows seriously will not go out sleeping with anyone in skirt just like any woman who respect themselves and the marriage institution will not agree to date a married man.
dude ni dude nko.who is a dude?

DashMeYansh:
To be honest, if you dont know, then you must have been living under a rock...so whats so special about living in the STates #InferiorTHINKING

inferiorthinking yet u pasted close to 5 pics 2 show us that it's snowing.
ur dick,the snow,ur girlfriend what's the correlation?

its sure looks like a drum or something.

We know u live in the USA thank you very much.

quivah:
The problem is about him going around. . it just happens to be the op, could have been any woman who won't even have the heart to open this kinda thread.. She might not even be here.. It will just be another random divorce story you hear but guess what ; Husband cheated..and caused the break.

If he hasn't gone around and instead work on his marriage, someone like op wouldn't be in the pic.
If women say no to married men, they will still go to whorehouse ..those ones can't say no.
Some might even lie about their marital status. But it all boils down to one fact; he's the one leaving the crack

so the people in a whorehouse are not women?
If women stop being enabler of certain things,men won't find who 2 cheat with.They cheat with someone and that someone is a woman(prostitutes,oloshis name it).

quivah:
The married man would have gone for another woman,even if op isn't the alternative.
He's the one and only reason for his divorce, the op just happens to be around...because he's a good spender.


@op , one word ; karma

The problem is not about him going around,she is an enabler.Let him go 2 another girl we dont know but for this girl we will tell her 2 stop.
If women say no 2 married men,they won't have anyone 2 sleep with.

that's a proud man right there.

i hope this applies to men and women.

Ask her how much does her father give her mama 2 cook soup? some girls like forming unnecessary.

mtschewwwwwwww
Some people try so hard to be hard or sounds bad ass just to feel important.If you spent this much time offline maybe you will feel more valuable than u are.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Enemy of Progress. [/color]

Are you bipolar?

nasha1:
hehehe they want 2 throw snides,see dem
it should be a woman o

Cant stop themselves can they?hehehehe i said woman o and shim answered.
e pain am?when someone is used to have so many alternate 2 like their own posts.

Joavid:
You are right to an extent. I understand were you're coming from.
But you never really know what's real with these so-called-am-a-perfect-wife online talk.

Its a known fact that most of the am-a-perfect-wife women in this section are liars.

better person,ladylike.

hehehe they want 2 throw snides,see dem
it should be a woman o

.

lilmax:
of course

You dey mind am? lion online, domesticated animal offline

Only on Nairaland,nowhere else i promise you.
We know but people are free 2 make themselves happy,no?

How this place works is amazing.Useless people calling other useless.Those who come 4 validation call out others,2016 is coming yet they dont want 2 change their bitterness.First 2 attack people but first 2 also claim innocent.very trouble humanbeings.How sad.
Here to read ,laugh and like as anyone here do especially the bitter ones.

JideJamez:
thanks my sister.... That's the cause of mass unemployment

nothing 2 do with mass unemployment,i will even say dat people who always seek validation online 2 stranger are the unemployed and sad ones.If it's not such a big deal,why post it and ask for people approval? No hating just trying 2 work on some people low-self esteem and superiority complex.People who r fulfilled dont need people opinions.

Ewuro4:
Cool cucumber compliments dearie hope you had a wonderful Christmas. Happy new year I advance too.

Happy new year too.