₦airaland Forum

PresVA:
So you think no one else sees your fb pictures et al except you? Lol...Once you expose a picture, it flies around. ..

If someone needs a picture that badly, there are several ways to get it! Except you don't go outside your house with your baby and have NEVER posted any pictures on any platform AND have never allowed anyone come visit your baby!

My dear, whoever wants to attempt to hurt you will always find a way with or without pictures.. hiding pictures doesn't eliminate that!

u dont know how facebook works den.on fb u can lock ur pictures meaning only ur friends can see ur pictures and they cannot copy it.so u mean u go out with ur baby and a stranger will just snap ur baby picture? .so anyone dat visit my baby will snap a pic of my baby without my consent? ;Dchei.it is not about hurt,i am not even the superstitious type,i am all for privacy.i see it disturbing dat a grown up individual will come on a public forum 2 try get validation from stranger in a virtual world.no thanks,my family and friends are enough.

hello house,compliments of the season.
edwife thank God for you,welcome back. ewuro,kimoni,damiso and everyone happy new year.
Despite people crying there is no money come and see women in the shop,today seems less busy .Hair and make up don suffer i am not complaining making my money.Women eh

The moment Nigerians learn how to be contented the better for dis generation.
Everyone has his/her own mask,do what is convenient for u.

PresVA:
Nawa oo.. People and their theories. .. whereas people expose thousands of their baby pictures on fb, whatsapp, instagram, twitter, ettcc..

If you like hide your baby pictures, it wouldn't stop bad belle! Whoever needs ur baby pictures so badly will get it without ur knowledge even!

What you believe works for you. . If you believe someone can do something bad to your baby cos of his pics on here, then so be it for you!

How is the person going 2 get it if u never exposed or put ur baby pic on social media or otherwise?
facebook,instagram is their personal pages and invite or accept friend requests in their own accord. Nairaland is free for all,a simple google search can expose u.

Dont mind all these busybodies.
Marriage marriage marriage,the country is in a callous state yet nigerians are worrying about who a musician who is doing well in his career with 2 women who chose 2 be babymamas and well taken care of are living their lives.

when u are with friends and family u speak the language u are comfortable with,english,pigin,yoruba,ibo anything dat makes u happy.

None,lol

Why will a 20 years old aspire 2 be a third wife? All these useless girls everywhere wont think of becoming somebody in the future dan clinging to a man.what a wasteful generation we have now.he suppose use u for suya sef,u are lucky.mtcshewwwww

LMAO

bomasek:
If Stella dimoko tells u it's raining snow in Aba,u had better believe her.

continue lying to urself,flavour twitted this morning dat he is not married.He is not.Why is stella quiet?

[size=20pt]LIES LIES LIES![/size]

Flavour twitted dis morning,stella spreading false rumours since 1900.

Ewuro4:
Lol , he needs to grab a sandwich fast. compliments dear.

my mummy is here compliments of the season.Hope u r cool.

RedCapChief:
I only see people sharing and receiving hospital-acquired infection. Why would a healthy person touch the hospital bed of a sick person? Are there no chairs? Later, one of them will start purging and then blame GEJ for it.

But, what do I know sef? I didn't have a good breakfast today.

Go and eat rather dan typing nonsense.When did someone suffering of a broken leg becomes infectious?

i have always said it that women are more wicked,at least men beat women who according to feminist are equal to them only that they are stronger physically but a grown up woman who could birth this girl will beat,bite this girl like she is fighting a grown up.What can a 9 years old possibly do that this evil woman will want 2 treat her dis way?
parents keep your children with u,u had them nobody force u then why abandon them in the hands of a stranger just because they promised u that they will send them 2 school?if na garry u dey drink,make u drink am with ur pikin.
all these wicked women dat go 2 take under-age maids God will punish u and ur children will never be useful to you.
the husbands of these witches know what their wives put these kids through but will never do anything to protect them.

wicked people.

YourMain:
Ehm I was kidding. I'm not even a Beyoncé fan. I own like two albums and I've been to one concert. I know I'm not Beyoncé... It's okay.

okay,u look good tho and thanks 4 clearing things up.own u girl,u special in ur own way.

kajoula:
My bro ,pray that God help you find better woman to marry.
Mbaise's don't marry themselves ...That is all i would say.

that's a big lie from the pit of hell.I know many mbaise people marrying each other,my very good friend is 4rom there and married there,even her parents.Have u ask all the mbaise people 2 know this? even simple google search will dismiss ur claim.hian.
u people should fear god,divorce is everywhere,bad character is everywhere regardless of ur skin color,tribe,nationality,religion and sex.

and we said that we have educated people,smh.i pity this generation and the generation unborn.imagine an educated person judging a person character based on people gossips or a stupid song sang by a man who had a misunderstanding with his friend.when are we going to start using what we spend years in school learning and acquiring?why are we bent on staying backward?who did this 2 us?

YourMain:
I know right. Traits that make me Beyoncé

are u thid obsess by beyonce?she is her own woman,why cant u just be ur own woman too?u can actually be beautiful being u and nobody else.a woman is attractive when she is confident being herself and not someone else.be proud of who u are,beyonce is beyonce and you are u,maybe u think it's cool but u sound very insecure.no pun intended.

ilobasama:
That's why i fear women

fear human being(man or woman).

it is romantic but not compulsory can do whatever u want.i love improvising,anything unique is good by me.

i hate dis kind of man,very childish.keeping malice is for kids not even a woman should.adults trash things out there and move on.u can be angry aand ask 4 space but 2 delete me from social media,u go tired.delete me 4 good because i wont accept any invite from u back,na so sms u go begin 2 use.rubbish!

5minsmadness:
This is the experience I've gotten through interactions with couples on this matter.

Mummy has a daughter and then when she's 5+ starts dressing her in the vulgar fashion as op above. The first person to protest will always be the father. And the mother's response will be:

"you want to tell me how to dress my own child again? "

" what's wrong with the dress? Abeg your mind too dirty jo! "

" this is the way children dress now. Abeg let her live her(my) life.

" If u don't like the way I dress her then better come and start dressing her. Also bath her and feed her. You want to put mouth in this matter, pls it doesn't concern you."

And the one I personally encountered here:

"children cannot be sexy. You must be a pervert to think so. "

So the man gets tired and keeps quiet. Later when the girl gets teenage pregnancy they will start looking to the heavens for the reason why.

They will soon say u are a pervert,i am surprised people agreed dat the girl is being sexualized.So if it's a 20 years old there wont be a problem?people should learn 2 take responsibilities of their actions and deal with whatever consequences dat follows.immorality has eaten deep dat the bad has become the new normal.

It's either they pay their mother bride price or you also do what their father did,pay for their mother and postponed that of ur fiancee.
Whenever u are ready 2 pay,go and pay meanwhile go for court wedding just 2 make it legal.Lazy brothers,they dont want their sister 2 marry.hian.

Beautiful,successful,rich yet she still acknowledges that her husband is the head of the house.
Kudos to women who have it going and still secure to the fact that their husband is the head of the house. Tiwa savage you are the deal.
kuddos,ur life,ur decision,ur baby.

you know they are bitter when they continuously comeback with the pretence of not being bitter.
this game is so sweet,so easy 2 read through them.they just cant help it. waiting for more display of real bitterness.oh the irony.
i know i am doing a great job when they keep coming back and pretending.

we have many obsess people on nairaland.when someone always quote u to abuse u or throw snide comments,that person is obsess with u.
when they cant control themselves anytime u are in an argument with someone they are always there 2 like and share comments as long as it insult u then that person is obsess with u.plenty sick people from this place.

narailanders the land of dreamers ,the internet has given many people validation they wouldnt dream about.
when everyone logout,they know their places no need 2 prove anything.the truth is right there offline.

Headlamp1:
Nasha1 this is for you o.

nobody steal in my shop ,i control everywhere and leave no room 4 such.

snubish:
what the young lady clearly is suffering from is a Histrionic personality disorder. why she ticks almost all the boxes.
absent father figure.
overly suggestive and erotic behaviour.
creative and over dramatic and over emotional
repeating patterns of abuse in dysfunctional relationships
no stable long term relationships
self centeredness.
depression and suicidal tendencies.
there are more if you read between the lines.

while she may not be completely lying about the Audu man, it would be simple and ignorant to believe all her tales. these people are prone to exaggeration worse still is that she has a talent for writing. i personally do not envy the young man at this moment, while not particularly academically bright many sufferers are extremely clever beyond most people's daily encounters.
i'm not exonerating the man, but in their relationships, everyone is scarred they victims as well as abusers, they suggest abuse and encourage abuse. then they use the abuse to manipulate.

i know this because i dated and truly loved a person with a similar disposition for 2 years. so i speak from experience, it was knowledge gained the hard way.

the young man would have learnt his lesson I'm sure. he should face the consequences of any excesses his youthful exuberance may have caused him to truly engage in. the young lady would not benefit from chastisement or random comments of sympathy on a blog post or public forum. the disorders start in early life and her deeply ingrained in the personality. she would benefit more from psychotherapy by trained personell. she should be encouraged to stick to her medication well to prevent he depressive bouts from becoming eventually suicidal. quite frankly it would do no good to comment more on the matter. this is a hard life and the damage on both sides is immense, naturally it would be tougher on the man who has been a more stable and rather accomplished young man with a family in bloom. good day.

beautiful post,you have said it all.anybody interested in taking her claims to court is free to do so.your opinion was very objective.

enieme:
All afternoon I've been goingbthroigh pages and pages on her blog.
I've reachedvthe conclusion that she wasn't raped. No it was an obsession she had for the guy but he used her.
He took advanradvantage of the fact that she couldn't do without him and ththis made her do things sexually amusing to him even if it involved third parties.
Gradually it became violent, but she sill stuck cos she was scared of looking him.
She was a 17 year old iidiot but he was a 25 year old hasshole that knew better but just decided to use her anyway as he pleased.
I feel for her cos I can very much relate to her stor. My own person all experience. I was 15 going on 16 and he was 26 or 27 there about.
there's a lessonin her story for every teenager.
But I still think she screaming rape now is wrong, after all on her blog she wrote that she called him after he announced to her he was getting married. And she stated that she loved him and still don't hate him and that she had foeforgiven him

In everyone in Nigeria giving their own version,your version sounds the best and reasonnable.I guess because you have been there be4.

enieme:
All afternoon I've been goingbthroigh pages and pages on her blog.
I've reachedvthe conclusion that she wasn't raped. No it was an obsession she had for the guy but he used her.
He took advanradvantage of the fact that she couldn't do without him and ththis made her do things sexually amusing to him even if it involved third parties.
Gradually it became violent, but she sill stuck cos she was scared of looking him.
She was a 17 year old iidiot but he was a 25 year old hasshole that knew better but just decided to use her anyway as he pleased.
I feel for her cos I can very much relate to her stor. My own person all experience. I was 15 going on 16 and he was 26 or 27 there about.
there's a lessonin her story for every teenager.
But I still think she screaming rape now is wrong, after all on her blog she wrote that she called him after he announced to her he was getting married. And she stated that she loved him and still don't hate him and that she had foeforgiven him

Out of everyone in Nigeria giving their own version,your version sounds the best and reasonnable.I guess because you have been there be4.