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Religion / Re: Pornography & Masturbation: A Struggling Christian Needs Help by nastrand: 1:05pm On Jul 28, 2020
As a counselor in this field, I have these to say:
My brother, you are a true child of God since you can come out boldly to display your displeasure for these vices. With determination, you will win.
-The urge for masturbation and porn start from the mind, the Holy Bible in Proverbs 4:23 says, "keep your mind with all your power, for out of it comes the issues of life." For each day, do not allow such thoughts to have a stay in your mind. This is is the ULTIMATE RULE! Work on it on a daily basis, not weekly or monthly. Tell yourself that I will not give masturbation and porn a second thought in my own mind today, and watch yourself to do it with diligence (guy, if you no fight am now e go bring you down very soon)
- Delete all porn elements out of your devices- this is a must.
- Recognize your status, that you are a child of God, and a child of God should not do such filthy things. God does not give occasion for sin.
- Pray and fast for it.
As for your forgetfulness, if you smoke weed, STOP. You can stop smoking by not buying the smoke and control your association with smokers. Similarly, always try to be in the present, read the Holy Bible and meditate on it constantly - this is a sure solution that has been confirmed by psychologists
- be determined, one day you will be the one advising people on these vices. sometimes such things happen to great men and women so that they will know how others in such situation feel
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: N-Power Beneficiaries In Peaceful Protest In Abuja: "Please Don't Send Us Back" by nastrand: 8:03pm On Jul 23, 2020
Even if the government wants to employ from batch A to Z, there is money to pay all of them in this country. Moreover, a single politician would embezzle billions, talk less of these Nigerian youths who are requesting for peanut. The npower is d best programme of this administration, the government should not allow it to end in shambles. Civil defense will never forget Obasanjo. Road safety will never forget Soyinka and IBB. It is time for Buhari to keep everlasting good record or mar his name. No matter what happens, if Buhari does not make these beneficiaries smile at last, with the current protests, this administration has done beautiful nonsense. And in 2023, it must come down. Don't miss this opportunity - my advise to Buhari, because it is his name that will bear it, whether good or evil. The Nigerian money is meant for all Nigerians, not for only those in position.

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Education / Re: Countries with the highest number of International Students in the United States by nastrand: 5:13pm On Jul 11, 2020
most Nigerians studying abroad sponsor themselves or family sponsorship. the governments of those top countries give much scholarships for their students to study specific courses for certain goals. then they will return to impact the country positively
Religion / Re: Victor Umeh Transforms A Catholic Church Building In Cameroon (Photos) by nastrand: 9:30pm On Jun 22, 2020
nice one
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Why I Was Invited For Eight (8) Interviews In Eight (8) Weeks by nastrand: 9:15pm On May 31, 2020
please i need it
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Get A Paypal Account With NG IP That Can Send, Receive & Withdraw Money @N1500 by nastrand: 9:24am On May 31, 2020
after giving the N1500, do i need to spend another money before i can start using d account to send and receive money
Crime / Re: Sunny Mike Beaten To Death In India, Nigeria Reacts by nastrand: 6:33pm On May 29, 2020
even India! Nigerians need to unite and wake up
Politics / Re: States’ Legislature, Judiciary Financial Autonomy: FG Releases Details by nastrand: 3:08am On May 27, 2020
nice one
Romance / Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by nastrand: 1:30am On May 13, 2020
the anxiety you are feeling is normal, especially with pressures from family, society and even from yourself. just work towards it and make it happen if you want to. remember, Isaac in the Holy Bible married at 40 even though his father Abraham was very rich, his wife only gave birth once, and today he is remembered forever. Bill Clinton has only one daughter and she has the best quality life. When u marry, all these anxiety will fade away and u will begin to say, 'is it not this marriage that i have been craving for, if i had known i wouldn't have worried myself that much'. you might even end up having more children and better life than your mates that married earlier. just work towards it and get it right, it is never too late, it is just society that puts pressure. always remember that the society will not help u cater for your family. the world has changed but many people in this part of the world don't understand. nowadays, it is not all about raising many children at a younger age as it is done in the north leading to many almajiris suffering in the streets, if care is not taken, the almajiris will raise another generation of almajiris, and so the trend continues leading to a generation of sufferers. it is better not to marry than to raise this type of generation that will become a problem to the society. life nowadays is about making a good name that will be remembered forever, and possibly raising a generation with quality life, that is, elimination of poverty from your generation even if it is a single child at any age, just as Isaac and Clinton did. marrying late also has an advantage because you will have people to keep you company in your old age, especially when you have money, unlike many couples that married early and their children have all gone and they remain terribly lonely in their old age because parents nowadays hardly send their children to live with their grandparent. just be focused and consciously work towards it, you will surely achieve it in Jesus name.

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Family / Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by nastrand: 5:32pm On May 10, 2020
ummm... it is either he actually committed the suicide or not. these days, every suicide situation needs thorough investigation before final conclusion. the mafia film, THE LAST DON, in the case between Cross and his wife's ex husband, Boss, has taught some people the lesson that not all suicides are actually suicide.
Health / Re: COVID-19: 381 New Cases Reported, 4 Deaths And 67 Discharged On May 7 by nastrand: 3:57am On May 08, 2020
May God save Nigeria and the world from this pandemic. Nigeria needs to put more efforts in sourcing local solution to this pandemic. Let's gather our professionals from the universities and other institutions, including traditional herbal doctors. We don't have to wait for outsiders to bring the solution as usual, moreover it is still the same Nigerians abroad that are working hard to get the solution - the same Nigerian professionals. Each state can even come up with the medicine to this virus, and then the federal will select the one that works

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Romance / Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by nastrand: 1:37am On May 08, 2020
General dating tips apply to most ladies, irrespective of location

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